r/MadeMeSmile • u/HarshitaS • 6d ago
Wholesome Moments Sometimes love can be found right under your comment section!
most wholesome thing I saw all week
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u/GoddessKillion 6d ago
Unfortunately, he was dating a woman before he saw that comment, and his current wife was more attractive than her, so he dumped the ex for his new wife very quickly. Source
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u/AC86MC 6d ago
His ex was also far better looking than him. Ugly people aren't necessarily good people, he's no exception.
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u/biscuitbehavior 6d ago
I hate the idea that people push that unattractive men (and women,I guess) are more likely to want a relationship and treat their partners better.
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u/bkgn 6d ago
Someone thinking that no one wants to interact with them only because of some perceived flaw in their looks is usually a sign of a deeply flawed personality.
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u/RAMDOMDUDDS 6d ago
Yes and no. We have to remember that attraction is a spectrum. I've met loads of unconventionally attractive men and women who just don't carry themselves well due to past experiences. Some of the people who believe they are so unattractive aren't truly "ugly", they've just been treated as ugly their entire lives that they just slap that label on themselves.
I mean i'm a dude and I personally find loads of the "conventionally attractive" celebrities god awfully ugly(but I place personality over looks). Simply because of the things they say or do, meanwhile someone with the polar opposite mindset will believe they are an angel simply because they have a pretty face or nice body.
And of course there are the people who fit perfectly in your comments category. Like the guy we are talking about.
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u/Inevitable-Level-687 6d ago edited 5d ago
I'm asexual, which means I don't experience sexual attraction. Sometimes I feel like I'm studying aliens when I watch non-asexual people talk about what's attractive. Attractiveness as an ideal is pushed so much that what non-asexuals experience as attractive looks incredibly dull and generic if you don't experience attraction. Like I see someone say someone else is hot and it's always some guy who looks exactly the same as all the other attractive guys.
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u/Gloomy660660 5d ago
I’m aroace and am super curious what other asexuals experience… Personally, there are a handful of people I think are super handsome, I call it aesthetic attraction haha So while there’s no sexual attraction, something about their appearance coupled with their mannerism makes me gravitate towards them
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u/RAMDOMDUDDS 6d ago
I feel you, I'm bisexual but place personality above looks. So to some of my more understanding friends I'll say I'm a pan-forward bisexual who prefers women. I still feel that attraction to physical characteristics, but once I experience someone's personality I will either like that person more or the physical side immediately drops because they suck as a human being.
Needless to say, I'm used to being let down lmfao.
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u/Inevitable-Level-687 5d ago
I've felt an attraction like. Once in my life. It wasn't sexual attraction but there was a "hot damn" moment.
I heard him say the words "hey, what's that garbage you like to watch?" to his girlfriend and it died instantly.
That's the closest I ever came to sexual attraction and it disappeared the moment he was a dick to someone he loved lmao
I COMPLETELY forgot about that until I saw your comment!
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u/RAMDOMDUDDS 5d ago
And its completely valid. I fell head over heels for a new girl in my school all the way back in middle school, then I actually talked to her and she was such a bitch(I don't call anyone that), but I mean straight up disregard for others personal opinions while expecting everyone to respect her own, joked about tearing another kids paper up.
The very next day she got suspending for both fighting in the locker room as well as knocking two kids lunch trays out of their hands.
Some people can be otherworldly attractive physically, while being the most vile in personality. But on the other side of the coin I've met someone whose both incredibly kind as well as beautiful. Unfortunately nothing came from that but hey, glad for the experience.
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u/Zoerae87 6d ago
Yep, 1 of my biggest (teenage) heartbreaks was from a conventionally unattractive guy, but I really liked him cause I thought he was nice. Apparently after awhile I found out he was only with me cause all of his friends said he was ugly n he wouldn't ever b able to land a hot girl. I was just a game n proof to his friends that he could... Ssssooo fucking nice... 😂
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u/rumbl-bumbl 5d ago edited 5d ago
I had a similar experience unfortunately, he treated me more like an objectified trophy than anything and he openly admitted to it multiple times. He ended up being a huge piece of shit and was even much uglier from the inside. I only wished for myself to have truly realized it much earlier and cut him out of my life much earlier
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u/Ordinary_Cattle 6d ago
Imo guys who date up tend to be more likely to cheat. Dating someone hotter than them gives them a lot more confidence
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u/suprahelix 6d ago
It took me a minute to find her. I actually think they’re in par attractiveness wise, which is about average. The difference is that she puts some effort into her appearance and he put 0 effort in.
The moral is that even if you’re at or below average looking, if you take care of yourself, you’ll be fine. Speaking from experience btw.
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u/jakethepeg1989 6d ago
Yeah, I was thinking that in the wedding pic on this post.
Like, you might not be prime Brad Pitt. But tucking your shirt in and combing your hair will go a hell of a long way to make you look presentable.
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u/hofmann419 6d ago
He didn't even tuck in his shirt and the tie was way too short. Plus, the suit definitely wasn't tailored. I can understand not having the money to get a fancy suit, but tucking in your shirt is the absolute bare minimum, especially for a wedding.
And judging from the other pictures, he definitely hasn't put in any work in his appearance at all. He could look significantly better with a nice outfit, better glasses and a good haircut.
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u/MsMarvelsProstate 6d ago
Didn't even tuck in his shirt for his wedding.
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u/sightfinder 6d ago
Or comb his hair, or tie his tie properly.
Just seems like a low-effort person not even trying to fix easily improveable things
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u/yaxir 6d ago
This actually makes me feel super guilty. I haven't taken care of myself because of my job. I really should. It's life-threatening at the moment. If I don't take care of myself I won't live long. Holy hell you're right man
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u/suprahelix 6d ago
Well, I’m right there with you. I stopped taking care of myself because of work stress. Now I’m trying to turn it around. We can do it.
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u/LemonCollee 6d ago
You both deserve it. Putting yourself first at times isn't selfish, it's being self-full. Can't pour from an empty cup.
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u/andreaSA89 6d ago
So true. I dated a conventional unattractive guy once, thinking he’d be nicer than all the guys I usually went for. He was the worst human being I’ve ever had the displeasure of knowing. So horrible and abusive.
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u/HuckleberryPee 5d ago
I think it's more often the case than not. They suffer more bullying, self confidence and personality issues and it doesn't always turn them in to kind people.
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u/One_Average_41 6d ago
so he is truly ugly
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u/Theseactuallydo 6d ago
Jesus that sub is cancer
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u/Theseactuallydo 6d ago
Yup, mutual self-hate communities like that are some of the grossest places online.
It’s just a bunch of sad and often mentally-ill people being jerked around by psychopath trolls.
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u/siccoblue 6d ago
It's just incel garbage but for people who haven't totally given up.
If you're thinking this might be your place. PLEASE seek more help. These communities are a crab in the bucket situation and they WILL drag you down with them.
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u/Theseactuallydo 6d ago
It’s a crab bucket situation for sure… but also with a few of the crabs being secretly insane sadists who jumped into the bucket on purpose with the intent of deliberately increasing how depressing the bucket is, in the hopes that some of the other crabs kill themselves or do a mass shooting.
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u/CrustyLettuceLeaf 6d ago
Yeah, I’m surprised more people didn’t already know about this. And he treated his ex like dog shit
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u/Final-Road-1621 6d ago
Also her new meh gf just married him to get out of her country, so... This dumb story is so annoying
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u/frozenivy2B 6d ago
Men always think they can do better especially the ugly ones you give them a chance and they cheat on you
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u/RobertGHH 6d ago
He dumped his current gf and called her ugly then married the commenter.
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u/tvmvra 6d ago
Also, the girl he married is Argentinian. There are tons of Latina girls out there who marry just about any European guy just for the passport (and I’m saying this as a Latina myself btw). So it checks out.
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u/fareedadahlmaaldasi 5d ago
This marrying just after a year thing is such a marrying-for-an-EU-passport storyline.
And I am saying this as an Asian who KNOWS people that did this too but instead of an ugly guy, they married guys 35-45years their seniors.
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u/Yellowmellowbelly 5d ago
Well, at least she needs to stay married to him for at least 7 years before getting the passport, and we don’t really have alimony in Sweden. Child support is only 150-200 EUR a month depending on the child’s age. I do hope she loves him!
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u/fareedadahlmaaldasi 5d ago
If she married him pre-2022 and it was already 3 years by then, she probably already have the citizenship.
I know someone who literally couldn’t even speak Swedish and has no interest in learning it (said everyone speaks English anyways) but managed to get her passport before the rule changed. I speak better Swedish than her even if I only lived there for a year.
Hopefully for his and their kid’s sake.
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u/KrakenUA 6d ago
you need a passport?
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u/tvmvra 6d ago
LMAO with the current economy i think i might need one too
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u/School_North 6d ago
A real one right here lmfao. No insult that was hilarious. Kepper for sure lol
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u/Ok_Mention_9865 6d ago
How long ago did they get married it would be interesting to see if it last or was just for citizenship.
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u/deathcabforakitty 6d ago
Really?!
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u/UpperApe 6d ago
General rule of thumb: people who post their lives as content are usually shitheads.
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u/RobertGHH 6d ago
Sadly so, he is not a good person.
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u/Acceptable-Drive3781 6d ago
Well she knew him for a year or less before marrying him, so I guess we can continue watching to see him live stream the divorce.
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u/TheEyeOfHeavens 6d ago
I know other part of story so I will copy and paste the reply of other comment from this post for exposure
Unfortunately, he was dating a woman before he saw that comment, and his current wife was more attractive than her, so he dumped the ex for his new wife very quickly. Source
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u/crochetnewbieJen 6d ago
I often read, that he even insultet her in a stream, how ugly she was to him.
This is why i hate this story. This guy is ugly inside and outside ...
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u/Streuselsturm 6d ago edited 6d ago
And yet, he didn't break up with her but waited until another opportunity came around. Like the monkey who wouldn't let go of the old branch until he got a firm grip on a new one. The trash talk about his ex is the icing on this shitty cake, dude's a gigantic pos
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u/xotvy 5d ago
I also saw a video of the wife saying the ex girlfriend could not have been sexually assaulted because she’s too ugly
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u/Itscatpicstime 4d ago
Ugh, that poor woman. I hope she has all the support she needs to deal with all this trauma
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u/MyCatsHairyButholle 6d ago
Man, his first girlfriend is so pretty. If I found someone like that and our personalities vibed, I would be over the moon and feel like the luckiest man on earth.
Dude just wanted to date a “10” and used being “ugly” as his excuse and when someone he thought was a “10” came around, he dumped his then good looking already girlfriend in an instant.
POS that does not deserve any praise
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u/worriedrenterTW 6d ago
What was that billie eilish clip where she was like give an ugly guy a chance and he acts like he's owed the world (aka he doesn't treat you any better than an attractive guy would).
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u/omfglookawhale 6d ago
Ugh come on dude. You couldn’t even tuck your shirt in, comb your hair, NOTHING for your own wedding?
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u/Maleficent-Being-238 6d ago
Ok, but why the hell does he look like that on his weeding pictures, cmon... push that shirt down your pants, comb your hair, please!
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u/GoldTheLegend 6d ago
I liked this story, but... the wedding photos. Proof the guy cares 0% about his appearance. That's not being ugly, that's being unkempt.
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u/Fuzzy_the_sheep 6d ago
Those can sometimes go together. Chronic insecurity and lack of self confidence means thinking about how you dress is incredibly painfully uncomfortable. If you make an effort and look in the mirror and still hate what you see then why bother. It's hard to break that cycle
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u/tracy_ogbert_jordan 6d ago
If you make an effort and look in the mirror and still hate what you see then why bother.
beyond that, if you don't make an effort, then people can't make fun of your failed attempt at looking decent.
self-esteem issues are a real motherfucker
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u/Skellyinsideofme 6d ago
Yes, this is what happened to me when I injured myself and suddenly gained a lot of weight, after previously having a conventionally 'fit' body.
It didn't take long for me to stop doing a lot of my self care, and stop trying to wear nice clothes.
If I hadn't tried to look nice, then I couldn't have failed in looking nice.
It's a horrible place to be and it can be difficult to climb out of that hole.
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u/Suzuiscool 6d ago
I never really gave it much thought but that's basically why I don't bother.
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u/nuuren 6d ago
I was the same, until I bothered a tiny bit, I kinda liked it, and bothered some more, and now I'm quite okay with myself.
Idk, give it a smol try sometime. Finding something you like and rolling with it is kinda nice tbh.
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u/Candle1ight 6d ago
Health and cleanliness makes you feel better regardless of your looks. Taking a shower and wearing clean clothes feels good, working out feels good, losing weight feels good, etc.
When it comes to fashion though? Trying on different clothes and realizing that I hate myself in all of them just makes me want to blow my brains out. My fashion will always be shit.
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u/Adventurous_Click178 5d ago
Find a brand/style of jeans you like. Buy them in 2-3 shades (I like light, medium, and black.) Then get half a dozen crisp, clean cotton t-shirts that fit in colors you prefer. Get 1 pair of sharp sneakers. You’ll be good.
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u/Snerpahsnerr 6d ago
That was me in high school. I pretended I hated makeup because I was too scared if I tried it and I wound up still being ugly that I wouldn’t be able to tell myself I’d be pretty if I tried. Luckily I’m way better about taking care of myself mentally and physically now
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u/Worried_Platypus93 6d ago
I was worried it would look worse and pathetic if I tried because I would still look bad
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u/Isabellake1 6d ago
i was stuck in a cycle like that, hating how i looked but also if i made effort to look nice and still hated how i looked it would completely crush me for days
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u/Matchaparrot 6d ago
Yep. I had no friends in middle school at all. I gave up after a year of no friends and wore the same hoodies every day, and took no care of my hair because what's the point.
As an adult I now have more friends I could ever hope for, and the confidence to not give up until I found the people who genuinely care about me. I now take care of my appearance and really enjoy fashion now as a side effect. And people want to copy my style
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u/Key_Curve_1171 6d ago
I can back that. I got severely depressed and tried to cut everyone off and self imprison myself to my room. I stopped doing anything really. I'm back to it all but actively don't want a group of friends. Only trusted people that I call as such but everyone at a distance. I love my me time and need a ton of it. Family is plenty for me and I'm not married or have children. My parents need plenty babying and I can barely manage that. I don't give a fuck about fashion anymore. I used to be so stylish in my own unique sense that girls would play with my hair and hangout with me and rub my shoulders and stuff. Being part of my friends circle meant you had access to a lifestyle, my dress sense was a major part of that.
Now I couldn't give a flying fuck
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u/VicisZan 6d ago
I had a similar but opposite problem. I was OBSESSED with being clean because I had such bad acne that it utterly destroyed my entire personality for almost 2 decades because I was taught that having oily skins means I should never ever touch moisturizer because it would be so much worse.
Turns out I have dry skin and it’s oily because it builds up on my skin. If I moisturize I get almost none.
Now I’m suddenly losing weight, enjoying being outside and I’ve almost completely stopped using tech because I was always outdoorsy as a kid and it turns out I still prefer it. I was just too ashamed to actually do it.
Edit: a typo
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u/FerusGrim 6d ago
Speaking as someone who understands perfectly what you're talking about, I don't think this explanation covers not tucking in your shirt at your own wedding. Otherwise he looks genuinely fine to me. Hair a bit messy, but it'd probably been a long day, and they're outside with the wind blowing.
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u/BruhWaitWut 6d ago
I'm not gonna lie, I'm still caught in this cycle some days. And it's silly, I'm in my 30's but an Adventure Time quote from Jake actually really helped me.
Finn: "Don't you always call sweat pants 'give up on life pants', Jake?"
Jake: "I do, because peeps need to respect themselves when they leave the house. Even if it's just for ice cream or TP or whatevs."
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u/MoaraFig 6d ago
Yeah, except that this was a day where his wife wanted to look nice, and spent a lot of time on hair and makeup and he knew that his wife likes the way he looks, and he still couldn't tuck in his shirt or comb his hair.
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u/madd74 6d ago
Plus he is an a-hole
https://www.reddit.com/r/ugly/s/q9fi5G1ZzM
Snagged from another comment, the dude dropped his first gf because she was not pretty enough.
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u/shiorimia 6d ago
Wow, I’m glad you shared this because wtf. Seeing the comments he made about his ex (who is also not ‘conventionally’ attractive) is disgusting.
Clearly this guy is ugly on the inside, not just the outside.
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u/skadi_shev 6d ago
He def could have tucked in the shirt and done something with his hair (a comb and a little pomade) for the occasion
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u/DrAlkibiades 6d ago
My guess is he was nicely put together but they wanted a 'sloppy' pic for the 'gram. Given the whole 'ugly duckling finds love' thing.
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u/Constant-Plant-9378 6d ago
Likely his priorities are just ... elsewhere.
My mom would say, "There is a slipper for every foot."
I hope they have a long and happy life together.
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u/Kamikazepoptart 6d ago
I know! I was so shocked at his clothing. Like dude....you could make a BIT of effort.
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u/Marine_Corp 6d ago
It was such a sweet heartwarming story until I got to the wedding picture and then I immediately thought "OKAY kinda fuck this guy. Can't even tuck your shirt in for your wedding?? Why are you wearing a tie for a small boy?"
I don't want to prescribe motivations without knowing them, but this dude clearly doesn't want to try to be attractive either.
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u/Kamikazepoptart 6d ago
It was so disrespectful to his wife IMO. Like look at how much effort she went through to look nice for him and he doesn't even gaf enough to do the same for her.
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u/flerchin 6d ago
Right. Tuck in your shirt and brush your hair for your own wedding ffs
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u/BuffaloSp0rts 6d ago
With a good haircut, dressing normally, and a bit of cosmetic dentistry he’d probably look quite good
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u/TheDrunkWickerbeast 6d ago
Genuinely I tell people who think they want plastic surgery and stuff because of their face shape to start with braces. Self care matters sure, but braces can completely change your jawline and some facial features. For some people (like myself) it’s like night and day after getting braces.
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u/AizenSankara 6d ago
I think that's the consequence of feeling like your ugly and unworthy of love. You don't see the need to look any better (you'll still look ugly), and you lack the practice/experience with basic things like how to care for yourself (hair styles, products, proper clothing sizes, etc..)
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u/QuokkaOfDeath 6d ago
Totally get that. But also, a good (wedding) photographer does way more than just take the pictures. They should've at least told him to fix up the outfit right there and give them advice about posture and poses
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u/celestialcranberry 6d ago
Oof I didn’t even see the shirt untucked. I was gunna give him a pass for the hair because of the wind but idk. Maybe he posted the worst photo to be funny?
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u/PlanesandAquariums 6d ago
Underneath the unkempt he looks perfectly fine to me
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u/GoldTheLegend 6d ago
Exactly. There are levels to attractiveness but this guy with average effort is average at MINIMUM But if you put in bottom 1% effort you'll get bottom 1% results.
Just be self aware. You aren't unlucky. You just don't try. Call it what is it.
If they happy though that's there business and not caring about your appearance shouldn't disqualify someone from being happy so I'm glad things are working out for him.
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u/PlanesandAquariums 6d ago
Too true on the third paragraph. The problem is this guy was true to who he was with a seemingly good heart (I’ve seen his videos before) and didn’t turn into a weirdo incel. As many of us have even experienced IRL, they often do.
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u/HelpMe9974 6d ago
Ahm, I am too ugly for love.
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u/Jeth_No_Blast02 6d ago
Wasn't this the same guy who left his previous gf because she was "too ugly" and settled for another "prettier" one?
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u/thelumiquantostory 5d ago
The fact that this kind of people gets to have two relationships make me feel like a worse person, both physically and socially. I know for a fact I'm not entitled to one and that it does not define my worth but it does feel bad.
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u/remedy2life 5d ago
I once met a guy that was real ugly,but after he started talking on his personality start to take over,his looks literally change before my eyes.I have never seen anything like it since.He didn't look ugly anymore.I was shopping in Macy's never saw him sgain,must have come from another planet Some folks just got that thing,Sometimes it is the way they make you feel, intoxicating personality and I have seen extraordinary beautiful boring people.You have to have the puppy effect ,you start barking as they are turning the corner and wagging the tail All perpective my dear.
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u/insanelysane1234 5d ago
I had a coworker tell me something like that as well. He said something to the extent of "you are really not my type at all, but everyday that I see you, you're getting more beautiful and now I think that you are stunning. How can that be?"
We were young and he apparently was learning the lesson of personality over looks right then and there 😂
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u/Aelle29 5d ago
Same. Had a (female) friend who was just ugly as fuck. Crooked ugly nose, protruding mouth, unclear skin, fat in the wrong places, and not in a harmonious way at all.
But with time I started finding she had charm. By the way she talked, her personality, and familiarity. I didn't find her ugly anymore and I even found her beautiful sometimes.
Personality, facial expressions, posture, social ease, confidence and likeableness really all play a major role in how beautiful you'll be in the eyes of others.
(dont tell incels that though, they'll make death threats)
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u/DangerousLoner 5d ago
I have a friend who is not good looking at all from some congenital abnormalities that have carried over into our adult lives. She’s painfully thin with features too large for her small frame but her laugh can light up a room and children/babies love her. She glows when she holds a baby and she’s just so full of beautiful cheerfulness. It’s magnetic
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u/Yoshi9105 5d ago
I've experienced this. I've honestly started feeling romantic attraction to people who weren't my "type" at all (say I would have never swiped yes if it was just online dating), but once I knew their personality their looks not only didn't bother me, but they actually looked beautiful to me. it's wild how that works!
unfortunately in the online dating times, the first impression is always visual and that's how people decide someone is "ugly" in their eyes without getting the chance of seeing the beauty in them after getting to know them.
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u/Swimming-Ad-7897 6d ago
Remember, he was dating another girl from that video and then left her for a more attractive woman. He’s very shallow !
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u/cant-be-original-now 6d ago
So does this mean his current wife will leave him for an even uglier dude?
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u/StudiousLebronJames 6d ago
all dude had to do was just put in some effort. even on his fucking wedding day where the wife is decked out this guy can’t even do his hair or get a proper fitted suit. almost no one is truly that ugly, with some effort in ur hair, proper diet and fitness, low body fat% etc u can look at least presentable even if u unfortunately get undesirable features
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u/getmyhousecoat 6d ago
Didnt he have a girlfriend before this?
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u/Jeth_No_Blast02 6d ago
Yeah it was the girl that commented, if I'm not mistaken. The girl in the later photos was different, as he dumped the first one for being "too ugly", and even called her a horse.
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u/Phobia562 6d ago
Incels do not want to know that ugly guys be smashin
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u/PloppyPants9000 6d ago
lol, yeah... that undermines their only excuse for being incels: "I'm an incel because I'm fugly, and that's unfixable! It has nothing to do with my toxic personality, which IS fixable!"
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u/IJourden 6d ago
Ugly guy here: do smash. Turns out if you're mildly funny, emotionally intelligent, and enjoyable to be around, people like that, and some people be fucking people they like.
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u/madd74 6d ago
You shouldn't be.
https://www.reddit.com/r/ugly/s/q9fi5G1ZzM
Snagged from another comment, the dude dropped his first gf because she was not pretty enough.
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u/Llyn- 6d ago
This just irks me and it’s so shallow. Why can’t people settle for some one who treats you with respect? Do they need to be a 10/10 model?
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u/Vegetable-Coconut846 5d ago
Pocket square, way too short of a tie and untucked dress shirt on your wedding day is an insane combination.
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u/mothvvitch 5d ago
I swear I went to school with a guy who was this guys twin, and he had a girlfriend. It really isnt about looks, thats something incels choose to believe because its too hard to fix a bad personality. This guy found his love because of his openness and honesty
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u/Ones_T 4d ago
This seems to be one of those wholesome moments which are quite ugly once you know all the information, definitely didnt make me smile
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u/jhammond00 6d ago
All I see is a normal looking dude who, for his fucking wedding, didn't tuck in his shirt or get a properly fitted suit, get a haircut, or practice his smile in a mirror for 5 minutes.
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u/Full-Tomorrow9889 6d ago
Proof that the real reason incels can't find a partner is because of their personality.
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u/loupr738 6d ago
Not talkies shit about this guy or anybody in particular but a lot of times guys just need a haircut, better fitting clothes and a normal attitude and they’ll find someone
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u/Marsi_Zsombor 6d ago
Isn't that the guy who dumped his previous girlfriend and deleted all of his old videos with her, after this new girl? If so, pretty asshole move by him, not that wholesome
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u/FuzzyManufacturer838 6d ago
Og comment: u/GoddessKillion Unfortunately, he was dating a woman before he saw that comment, and his current wife was more attractive than her, so he dumped the ex for his new wife very quickly.
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u/Potential-Orchid5326 5d ago
I don't know how this is gonna sound to most but he wasn't all that ugly, he wasn't a great beauty either but most things that people call ugly are average. Looks can get you to a certain point but your personality and actions have to carry the relationship forwards, I'm glad for the girl and hope he worked through the insecurities. I have seen far too many guys and gals who aren't the most beautiful people out there, again for the sake of argument I'd have to admit that I rarely find people to be ugly, and there will always be someone to find you attractive. The trick is to find someone who will also find you interesting and want to be with you, people have to work on themselves and not give up, props to the happy couple on the cute baby they have.
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u/Knighthawk9 6d ago
Oh good! I heard a rumor that she had used him to get something like a visa or something similar, and left after she got it. It’s good to see that was a lie!
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u/Separate_Key_6304 6d ago
yeah but sadly he left his old partner and called her an ugly horse
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u/earthtobobby 6d ago edited 6d ago
JFC dude, it’s your wedding day. Couldn’t you have tried a little harder? Have some consideration for your partner.
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u/-Vatt_Ghern- 6d ago
It's a pretty common thing. A lot of "ugly" guys, usually also just dress terribly. I don't understand why, since it would help them a lot.
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u/Swimming-Muffin-8163 4d ago
Remember he dumped another girl to get a prettier one. This guy is a fraud
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u/skyesrowan 6d ago
She saw the beauty within. I’m such a jaded bitch. All I can think is that if this were gender swapped, this would never happen.
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u/GiveUsRobinHood 6d ago
My best mate is a conventionally stunning man, all I’ve heard from in the women in my life is their hearts fluttering for him.
I was stunned when he first introduced me to the girl he was seeing but i understand why she became his wife.
It does happen.
Sincerely a jaded dick.
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u/marrymeodell 6d ago
I saw the best looking man I’ve ever seen in my life on a bus in London. Not to be mean, but his gf/ wife was not attractive at all. You could tell by their interactions how much love they had for each other though and it was really cute.
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u/Adventurous-Flow5390 6d ago edited 6d ago
To be completely honest, I think truly attractive people who have people swooning over them left and right are probably more likely to end up with somebody who isn’t as conventionally attractive but is genuinely a decent person. As they would stand out, rather than the opposite.
Whereas, normal looking people generally see super attractive people as worth sacrificing some personality for. Or all in some cases…As I’m sure we’ve all seen at one time or another with some of our friends lol..
Sometimes though, it’s just straight confusing. I have a friend who is an extremely attractive woman, has a great career, tons of friends, a large community, all of that. Yet she decided to date a guy for a long time who was not only not at all conventionally attractive, but was a hugeeeee douchebag as well. Like two minutes within meeting him I was like ummm what’s up with this dude??? And almost nobody we knew wanted to be any where near him.. Yet, she moved out of state with him to live on his property and everything. It baffled me.
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u/Ok-Couple2656 6d ago
My best friend from high school dated some really hot girls. Then one day after college we were roommates and he brought home a girl with progeria that looked a little like sloth from the Goonies. They got along great and dated for a while. What I learned from that is, a cool chick will always be a cool chick, but often a hot chick is just hot.
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u/No_Part2793 6d ago
I generally agree with you, but whenever I see this story i always also think of the almost identical story of the (Russian?) girl who posted on social media about how she was ugly and had 0 self esteem and would date anyone with only requirement that he's male, and ended up with a husband and a glow up so i feel like this specific story has a female counterpart
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u/RoyalBusiness5886 6d ago
Hey, my 6'5" Chad uncle married a complete ogre and they have 8 kids together. Been married for like 35 years
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u/SideInitial3961 6d ago
She makes him happy. He's living his best life. Smart dude. Choose happiness.
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u/hygsi 6d ago
I once heard of a super hot man who dared to settle for a 7 chick but next to him she looks like a 4 but they've been married happily for 60 years. No you can't google them and no I didn't make them up for this specific comment
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u/PwanaZana 6d ago
My uncle is a 2000 year old turbosex vampire, and he married a puddle of slime 1000 years ago, and they gave birth to the entire human race.
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u/StinkyyPiss 6d ago
if this were gender swapped, everyone in the comments would be absolutely tearing her apart instead of thinking its a sweet story.
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u/S4Waccount 6d ago
I'm such a jaded bitch I think she did it for the Swedish citizenship, especially if she was escaping America, haha.
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u/SAINTnumberFIVE 6d ago edited 6d ago
You don’t see many particularly handsome guys with women who are not very good looking unless they used to be but I do see less than average looking women with average looking guys.
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u/Victory2026 6d ago
We made the right guy famous.
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u/hoptownky 6d ago edited 6d ago
He is actually an asshole. He got famous for the first girl. Then the girl in this picture who was way hotter found him and he dumped the first girl.
I mean, that’s how real life works, but no need to praise him for dumping the ugly girl once he got famous.
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u/SunshineAlways 6d ago
Scrolling down in that post, someone said after he dumped the first girl, he said she looks like a horse. If you think you’re ugly, how do you treat someone else like that? :(
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u/Asmodeus_Satanas 6d ago edited 6d ago
Because reality is often disappointing. Nobody is exactly who we think they are. Sometimes it’s bad, not always bad, but it’s still healthy to keep that mindset to a certain extent imo.
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u/mtaw 6d ago
Is it really surprising though? If you're ugly, spend time whining about it online, and never have been in a relationship - odds are you're pretty lacking in maturity and interpersonal skills.
The very premise here of being "too ugly to love" should be a dead giveaway. Nobody is too ugly to love. But you can be too ugly to get a girlfriend in spite of an awful personality. Just because someone is ugly doesn't mean they're a nice person, just as little as being pretty means you're a asshole.
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u/Key-Demand-2569 6d ago edited 6d ago
Uh. Is there any more to this?
His first girlfriend isn’t necessarily someone I’d call ugly by any means, she looks cute enough in that picture.
And after few months after they broke up he wound up dating then eventually marrying and having a child with this other person?
Is there proof he was cheating or he solely broke up with her because this other person who said he was cute was more conventionally attractive or something?
Also why am I seeing the phrase “looks match” on there so much? Gonna hazard a guess the subreddit named “Ugly” might not have a great community
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u/Acceptable-Ninja-151 6d ago
"looks match" is fuckin incel stuff, where they self flagellate about 'having a place'. It basically means if you are 'ugly' then you can only have 'ugly'.
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u/killer22250 6d ago
His first gf looks exactly like my crush from high school. Definitely not ugly.
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u/Replikant83 6d ago
And he called her ugly and "a horse." Pretty shitty thing to say about another person
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u/Roguemjb 6d ago
Yeah, what a lousy community. Just the phrase 'looks match' tells me it's a depressing place. Looks are subjective, people!
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u/Theleiba 6d ago
I think first girl was way prettier actually. It's almost like beauty is incredibly subjective.
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u/Key-Demand-2569 6d ago
I don’t disagree personally, just trying to lean on “conventionally” as much as possible to try and be less biased.
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u/Summer-Sub-Intern 6d ago
I don’t know what you’re talking about. That first woman does not look ugly to me at all.
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u/Lost-Transitions 6d ago
This should be higher up, even though it's kinda a bummer.
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u/Replikant83 6d ago
I wouldn't call him an asshole for that. But, the fact that he referred to the first girl as "a horse," is pretty awful and telling.
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u/yeetyourselfout 6d ago
Damn, I’ve seen the op post before but not the one you linked. Definitely an asshole and I hope more people see this too
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u/ocean_800 6d ago
He literally dumped his current girlfriend of 5 years for his wife, who was prettier sooo
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u/Diligent_Unit9897 4d ago
>complain about being ugly
>make it your whole thing
>make absolutely zero effort to improve appearance
>dump gf of FIVE YEARS for a qt3.14 from south america with huge medical bills to pay
>marry her ASAP
>continue to invest not even a single iota of effort into appearance, not even for your own wedding
>filter out bits of the story that make you look bad, market as success story
>???
>profit
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u/Swimming_Put1506 6d ago
Anyone want to start dating? I’m not ugly, but I can have a sad view of the world if that helps.
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u/Shad_Owski 6d ago
He looks kinda normal and not ugly. Sure, he doesn't have much fashion sense which would go long way for average dude. But he isn't actually ugly.
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u/International-Bad-84 6d ago
Very few people are actually ugly, but chronic under grooming can do a decent impression.
Sounds cold, I know, but spread the word because it's one of the most insidious forms of classism, but also one that is relatively easy to combat if you know about it.
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u/The_Dancing_Cow 6d ago
And grooming doesn't even need to be laborious or expensive!
Wash and moisturize face before bed, and put on sunscreen if leaving the house (at least your face).
Learn to trim your hair twice a year (or get somebody to do it for you), brush your teeth daily (best before bed so your mouth doesn't fester overnight).
Then just shower regularly (which includes shampoo, conditioner, and body wash/bar) and wear clean clothes (can be thrifted).
I think the thing that does the most heavy lifting outside of those things is your lifestyle. If you eat decently healthy foods, increase your activity, get enough sleep, and avoid abusing drugs you'll look more healthy which people generally equate with attractiveness.
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u/Zuradrop 6d ago
“Yeah I’m pretty ugly.”
“No, you look unique/“normal”/it’s just your grooming/just be confident.”
Yes he’s an ugly guy, no that’s not a bad thing.
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