Sometimes love can be found right under your comment section!

[u/HarshitaS]

most wholesome thing I saw all week

[u/MoaraFig]

Yeah, except that this was a day where his wife wanted to look nice, and spent a lot of time on hair and makeup and he knew that his wife likes the way he looks, and he still couldn't tuck in his shirt or comb his hair.

[u/MurderedRogerAckroyd → u/MoaraFig]

His hair is combed, it's just been blown around by the wind because they're outside and it's relatively thin hair. Mine does the same thing.

His shirt was tucked in, you can see that. It's wrinkled by his waistband, the way shirts get when tucked in. He untucked it for outdoor photos, for comfort/ease of movement. There are pictures of me with no shoes at my wedding; I wore heels and took them off.

She's very beautiful and he has a goofy face, but we don't have to pretend Mr T-Shirts and beanies didn't dress up for her when he's in a literal suit and tie.

Don't make me defend a man, come on.

[u/Fuzzy_the_sheep → u/MoaraFig]

His wife who he met because she likes him how he is? That wife?

Just cos she wanted to look pretty doesn't mean she needed him to be different. I know fuck all about this couple except this post but it seems like she likes him how he is and you're deciding he needs to be different.

[u/Medium-Complaint-677 → u/Fuzzy_the_sheep]

I like my wife for who she is the way she is and I still expect her to put on nice clothes when we go somewhere nice to do something nice, and she has the same expectations of me.

[u/Random-guy-199 → u/Fuzzy_the_sheep]

Sometimes in a relationship you do things for the other person. She sure as hell wanted him to look nice at her wedding, dont kid yourself

[u/XionicativeCheran → u/Fuzzy_the_sheep]

This is a pretty toxic viewpoint. "You liked me at my lowest so don't ever expect me to try."

[u/FishyFishermen → u/Fuzzy_the_sheep]

Lmao at all the comments completely missing your point

[u/NewNoise929 → u/Fuzzy_the_sheep]

It's not about him being different. It's about him putting effort into his relationship, not for him but for the person he cares most about. If he's unwilling to meet even that extremely low bar, I doubt it will last.