r/MadeMeSmile • • 6d ago

Wholesome Moments Sometimes love can be found right under your comment section!

most wholesome thing I saw all week

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u/IJourden 6d ago

Ugly guy here: do smash. Turns out if you're mildly funny, emotionally intelligent, and enjoyable to be around, people like that, and some people be fucking people they like.

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u/Life_Parsley504 6d ago

Objectively you only need to be emotionally intelligent (aka mature) to make a relationship work. I've had some of my girl friends date unfunny (NOT A BAD THING) quiet guys that just kind of listen and nod their head during conversations.

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u/Budsygus 6d ago

Takes all sorts to make a world. Some women really like quiet guys. I think more women like a man who can make them laugh, but "be funny" isn't some universal truth to get a relationship.

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u/TrixieBastard 6d ago

That's really all it takes for many of us. Making us laugh isn't everything or even 100% necessary, but it does earn you a lot of points, so to speak. Throw in a personality that's actually pleasant and regular bathing and you're golden

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u/Lonely_Banana_Wana 6d ago

you probably only go for women way out of your league and ignore women on your level of attractiveness

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u/Sure_Departure3273 6d ago

women on my level of attractiveness hardly care for me tbh. they want, and generally can have, better looking men than me.