38 M. Never known how to be upfront to a partner, or even myself really about what I like. So, I've only been with women. Love everything about women. But, behind the scenes and only with myself...I found i like dick. Started seeing trans porn and really liking it. Then trying toys on myself and loving it and watching pegging vids. Looking at dicks turns me on too.

However, I dont find men overly attractive at all, not only physically, but especially in a romantic way. I dont think I could ever date a man because i only care whats below the waist, but I might would sleep with one or be in an MMF 3sum. But is this weird? Im too embarrassed to bring it up or do anything. How do I tell a partner I like dick and assplay as a masculine man who loves women? I dont want to run off every potential gf or partner. Probably a stupid thing to even ask, but 🤷🏻‍♂️ ..replies and DMs appreciated.

Hey everyone,

I saw a post here yesterday from someone talking about their parents being swingers and just wanting someone to relate to. It was really nice to see people being understanding instead of judgmental, so I wanted to share our situation too.

I'm 20M. I'm a fourth-generation nudist, my mom being third generation and my dad started practicing after meeting her, for us nudity at home has always been about comfort and body positivity. We live clothing-optional at home.

My parents are in a stag/vixen / hotwife dynamic, basically swingers / open relationship. I'm totally fine with it, they're adults with their own lives and it's their relationship. They waited until my brother and I were older (17/18+) to really tell us openly about it, though we had kind of pieced it together before.

We're also a very sex-positive household in general. We talk openly about relationships and boundaries, and for us sex is treated as something natural and not shameful.

It would be nice to connect with others who grew up with similar family dynamics, nudist, or parents who are swingers/open.

I've done a couple AMAs before if you want more background:

1. I kept it mostly non-sexual here and didn't go into sexual questions much: https://www.reddit.com/r/AMA/s/pZU2RQHInp

2. I answered both non-sexual and sexual questions more freely here: https://www.reddit.com/r/casualiama/s/uzlquDZP1c

Happy to answer questions about how it was growing up like this and how it affected body image / trust / family closeness.

TL;DR: 20M, fourth-gen nudist family. My parents are swingers - stag/vixen dynamic. We have a clothing-optional, sex-positive household. Just looking to connect with others who grew up with similar dynamics.

Mod note: If this post isn't allowed here please let me know and I'll delete it right away. Not trying to break any rules, just wanted to share and relate to similar experiences.

Thanks for reading.