r/malaysians • • Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians • • May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

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Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Discussion Macam ye macam tak

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r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Ask Malaysians Parents, what baby or toddler products are actually worth spending money on?

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I have a 4-year-old boy, and looking back, I've definitely bought things that seemed absolutely necessary at the time, only to realize later that we barely used them. Some of the expensive stuff seemed urgent because everyone recommended it, while other things I thought were unnecessary ended up being genuinely useful.

For parents with little ones, what products do you think are actually worth spending money on? And what are some things you wish you'd skipped or bought a cheaper version of?

I'm talking about anything from everyday essentials to sleep, feeding, toys, travel gear, or things that make parenting a little easier. Doesn't necessarily have to be expensive, just something that genuinely makes a difference.

Curious to hear what you've found worth the money after actually using it, rather than just what gets recommended on every baby essentials list!


r/malaysians • • 23h ago

Quick Question (any technician please help) What is the typical cost of repairing a ceiling fan with this kind of problem?

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I'm on a very tight budget, I'd like to fix the fan myself if possible. However, I'm not sure what the actual problem is or how to fix it.

The ceiling fan is from Deka, but I don't know which model it is. The problem first started a few months ago, and here's what happens:

When I turn on the wall switch, the fan beeps but doesn't spin. When I press a button on the remote control, it beeps again and the blades move just a little bit before stopping. The fan continues to beep as long as the wall switch is on.

I then keep pressing the remote control button repeatedly. Eventually, the blades start moving a little more with each press, but the fan still won't spin on its own. I have to use a stick to push the blades to help them move. After repeatedly pressing the remote button and helping the blades move, the fan eventually starts spinning normally, as if nothing had happened.

However, sometimes, after running for a few hours, the fan suddenly stops by itself and starts beeping again. When that happens, I only need to press the remote button once to get it spinning normally again, but it may stop and start beeping again a few hours later.

but today, after turning it off, and on again. I tried to do the same trick but it barely move at all. not even a bit.

What could be causing this problem? Is it something relatively cheap to repair, or would it be expensive? Since I'm on a tight budget, I'd really appreciate any advice on this


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Anyone from the local game dev scene? (I'm a music composer looking for passion projects)

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Hallo

As the title says, I'm a composer and I'm keen on finding game scoring/composing projects! Been working full time in media/audio engineering for almost 6 years but always wanted to dip my toes into videogame work. Being a bit clueless about the local scene though, I thought I'd just post around first.

Some thoughts/expectations I have:
I'm working full-time and that'll still be my main priority, so if possible, understanding the need for some flexibility would be appreciated. However, I'm hungry for passion projects and people with a creative vision for storytelling or purpose in their game, and I'm the type of person who'd match that with my effort and passion too.

I'm open to low budget or casual projects too, or, hey, if you're an established dev, come take a gamble on me lols

I can't post links to my work publically as all relevant examples are p&c, but more than happy to start a chat!

Lemme know if I need to elaborate on anything else


r/malaysians • • 4h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Confused myna thinks my thumb is a snack

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r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Discussion Update on PDD shipment still undergoing final inspection 05/10/2026.

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Still waiting PDD. Let's hope it'll reach us before GTA 6 is released.

Let's celebrate when we receive our items. Which package are you most anticipating?


r/malaysians • • 16h ago

Quick Question URGENT:Newborn cat

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Got back and heard a baby kitten meowing. It lools new new wht do i do. Should i leave it? How wojld i know if the mother will come back?

Thanks :'|

UPDATE: rupanya my jirans cat punya, got her contact from my mom and they took it from me by midnight. The mama cat brought 2 out of 3 back, and left this guy in my home. My jiran, naturally only thought their cat had only 2 kittens so had I not messaged them, they wouldnt have realized.


r/malaysians • • 4h ago

Rant Woke up in the middle of the night because I smelled burning smoke, my throat’s hurting badly

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I panicked, thought the house is on fire. Turned on all the lights, can’t see the fire. No fire on neighbours house either.

Only later I remembered we are on fire, just across the sea. Damn. I’m over this haze.


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Ask Malaysians [ Removed by Reddit ]

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r/malaysians • • 20h ago

Ask Malaysians Geng motor, I like to kick my stand at long traffic lights. How come nobody else does this?

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It's easier so I don't have to balance using my feet. I notice nobody else does this. Is there a reason?


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Ask Malaysians How do you actually evaluate your unit trust investments?

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Having spent over a decade working in Malaysian fund research and analytics, I've often wondered why it's so difficult for ordinary investors to get a clear picture of the unit trust funds they're putting their money into. There's no shortage of data, reports and performance figures in the industry, but much of it isn't particularly accessible to the average person. Many investors rely on their agents to explain their funds, yet may not know how their investments compare with similar funds, how much they're paying in fees, or whether their returns have been reasonable. It seems odd that people can commit years of savings to unit trust funds without having a straightforward way to assess them for themselves.

I've been thinking about this for a long time. You shouldn't need to be an investment expert to understand what you own and ask whether it's doing well. Ordinary Malaysians should be able to understand their unit trust and investment-linked funds, assess their performance and compare them with similar funds without having to work through complicated research or depend entirely on someone else to explain things. Of course, having better information doesn't guarantee better investment decisions, but it gives people a better starting point. I'm curious how other Malaysians here approach their unit trust and investment-linked fund investments.

Do you research your funds independently, or do you mostly rely on your agents or advisers?


r/malaysians • • 21h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Even the sun is experiencing the haze

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I am VERY CLOSE to the tower, yet it is not clear due to the haze level


r/malaysians • • 4h ago

Ask Malaysians People working in HR in KL, do you guys always check whether an applicant is OKU?

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People who work in HR in KL, do you guys ever check on the OKU status of each applicant?

I'm thinking of getting an OKU card for my ADHD, but I'm just worried if this will affect my chances of getting a job in the future


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Quick Question looking for affordable tws earbuds

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hello! i am looking for budget friendly tws at tiktok shop for around rm30 with a good mic for calling and good sound quality... anyone got any recommendation? i heard goojodoq earbuds are good but the mic arent .

i use baseus but i dont like in ear earbuds. the ones with foam tip.


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Ask Malaysians IT HARDWARE

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Company:IT Hub Technologies
Position: IT Hardware Support
Location:Bangsar South, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
Working Days: Monday–Saturday
Working Hours: 8:00 AM–6:00 PM
Salary:** RM 2,500–RM 3,000/month

Responsibilities:

* Install, configure, and maintain computer hardware and peripherals.
* Diagnose and troubleshoot hardware and basic software issues.
* Perform hardware repairs, upgrades, and component replacements.
* Provide technical support to staff and customers.
* Maintain hardware inventory and equipment records.
* Ensure systems are functioning efficiently and securely.

Requirements:

* Basic knowledge of computer hardware and troubleshooting.
* Familiarity with computer components, operating systems, and peripherals.
* Good problem-solving and communication skills.
* Able to read and write English.
* Responsible, punctual, and hardworking.
* Previous IT support experience is an advantage.
* Must be legally eligible to work in Malaysia.

How to Apply:
Send your CV to [Sarah@ithubtechnologies.com]


r/malaysians • • 17h ago

Help ⚠️ What is it like going to Toastmasters as a first-time guest?

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I’m in my early 20s and thinking of going to a Toastmasters club near me as a guest for the first time.

I have pretty severe social anxiety, which is actually one of the reasons I’m trying to push myself to go

:( I’m hoping that repeatedly putting myself in these situations will eventually make them less scary.

I just want to know what the experience is actually like as a first-time guest in a Toastmasters club. What happens when you first walk in? Will people come up and talk to you? Do they make guests introduce themselves in front of everyone? Would I be expected to participate in Table Topics or can I just observe for the first meeting?

Also, I’m a woman in my early 20s but from the photos, the club near me seems to be mostly people in their mid-30s and above (I'm not based in KV) Unfortunately it’s pretty much the only one near me 😭 Would it be awkward being significantly younger than most of the members?

Would especially love to hear from anyone who went alone for the first time or joined because of social anxiety. I know I want to actually go eventually, I just want to know exactly what I’m walking into so I can mentally prepare myself lol


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Discussion Electrical bill after air purifier

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Hello people, for those who have been running air purifier for 24/7, how's your electric bill look like, before and after? Noticeable or not.

If possible do share your purifier brand and how long you have it on.

Terima kasih


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Mildly Menarik Sundadanio, caught from a blackwater kerangas swamp in Malaysia

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Sundadanio margarition, the neon blue rasbora.
It is a tiny (2 cm) dwarf fish only found in southern Sarawak and nowhere else. Endemic.

It lives in blackwater streams, forest peat swamps, and shallow pools with highly acidic water full of tannins. pH 4.0-6.0.

They feed on minute invertebrates, micro-crustaceans and zooplankton in the leaf litter. They school in large groups of at least 15.

Despite its names, it is not related to rasboras nor danios and is in its own family. This family is able to produce croaking or clicking sounds when interacting or stressed.

Kerangas forests, also known as Sundaland heath forests, is a type of acidic nutrient-poor forest found on Borneo and the Bangka-Belitung islands.

“Kerangas” itself came from Iban language, meaning “land which cannot grow rice.” An apt name.


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Help ⚠️ Help w charger!

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Realme TechLife Handheld Vacuum Cleaner (Model: RMT2014)

Charger died. Don’t want to throw because need to avoid big expenses. Also would like to be sustainable a bit, the haze is reminding me.

Anyone know how I can get one? I was thinking of old-timey electrical shop with electrician who take different parts and make a new one, but I cannot find in PJ/Subang area or I didn’t look properly. Online also cannot find the charger or electrician type.

Plzzzz HALPPPPPP

TIA!


r/malaysians • • 5h ago

Recommend Me • Seeking 🔍 Football Shirts (Replicas)?

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Where can I find decent replicas at a good price of football like Barcelona etc. I saw few good ones in the China market of Kuala Lumpur but they asked a lot of money considering I'm a tourist. I'm in Langkawi now.


r/malaysians • • 6h ago

Help ⚠️ Help: Ant, making large colonies & making trail paths where we walk and parked cars at home. How do I get rid of them for GOOD?

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These guys are so annoying

Somebody please teach me how to rid of them

I've tried ant bait but it doesn't work.

Any bright ideas? Thank you.

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If you say it's cruel, then you're wrong.

It's OUR property and we have the rights.

Is it morally wrong? If you think about it, dangerous things that are harming us can be killed (i.e: Snakes, Scorpions, etc) so long as they're a threat to us

If you find me trying to rid of these ants are wrong, you can simply not engage with this post.


r/malaysians • • 6h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 32M looking for friend

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r/malaysians • • 21h ago

Quick Question Which one is worse? Being unemployed in this economy or being single in the society?

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