Since uso ngayon yung “Show your scariest Halloween costume,” here’s mine. 👻

Bigla na lang, out of nowhere, ayaw na niya. HAHAHAHAHA

Lord, salamat po sa magandang buhay at career, pero bakit naman po sa lovelife ako binawi? HAHAHAHAHAHA

Edited: Guys, that conversation happened months ago na po. Okay na po ako ngayon, siya na po yung naghahabol sa akin. HAHAHAHA

Dont let 1am-5am catch you.

Where the world is perfectly silent, and but your thoughts are the loudest.

Dear Self,

Alam mo yung right people, wrong timing? Pero let’s be real, ina-assume ko lang talaga lahat ng attention na binibigay niya. Ayun, limerence nang malala si gago. Wag mo nang isipin na magre-reply ’yan kahit online siya. Hindi ka niya jowa.

Get a life! Hindi porket feel mong iba siyang tao, na kaya mong makita kung sino talaga siya kapag kayong dalawa lang, at gets na gets niyo ang humor ng isa’t isa, ibig sabihin may something na. Wag ka nang mag-what if, wag ka nang mag-isip kung may hidden agenda siya o kung may chance ba. Wake up!

Mandiri ka naman sa sarili mo. Todo-post ka pa araw-araw para lang mapansin ka, tapos oras-oras mong chine-check kung nag-view ba siya o kung nag-reply na. Kadiri! Have some self-respect, please.

You are worth it, and hindi ka pinanganak sa mundong ’to para maging kabit.

ikaaaaw ba? ano karugtong ng hanggang kailan mo?

hi! i’m 17F and my bf is 18M. we’ve been in a relationship for a year and 4 months and i recently just saw my bf’s mom’s message to him. she sent him a video from facebook that said, “what is a girlfriend?—additional of problems, subtraction of money, multiplication of enemies, division of friends” and at the top, it also said “wag na mag jowa” or “don’t have a girlfriend” in english

honestly, i was so shocked because she has always been so nice to me. whenever we meet in person, i don’t see any signs of her not liking me. i was even so happy because she included me in most of their family stuff, in those moments i felt that i belonged to their family. i just really don’t know what to feel about this. could it just be a funny video she wanted to send to her son, or does she really think that, as her son’s girlfriend, that’s the impact i have on his life?

i mean, i’m not a perfect girlfriend, no one is. we’re both young and still studying and i don’t know what to make of what his mother’s trying to imply. what do i make of this?

Any successful stories here? :((

Pati wallet ko sukong-suko na hahahha I just want to take this lightly kasi tawang-tawa talaga mga friends ko nung binuksan nila bag ko tapos nakita nila tong wallet ko. Nahiya ako slight pero aminin na natin, nakakatawa rin naman talaga kaya nakitawa nalang si self kaya if you know any job that I can possibly do online pleaseplease hire me 🙏, I can help you with your academics/research/canva or some basic office work. (Wow nasingit pa talaga hahaha look for opportunities diba?! Hahahah)

So hard to make peace with the fact na I may have been collateral damage from the healing my ex refused to do after his long term relationship.

I know what you guys will say. It's stupid to get into a relationship with someone who had just gotten out of a long term relationship. But I genuinely believed he was over it and I failed to recognize the minor tells of what I’m stepping into.

He was still carrying years of trauma and unhealthy coping mechanisms he had never really addressed, and I was on the receiving end of those. I'm not saying he's a bad person, because I genuinely believe he isn't. And I'm not saying I'm perfect either. I know my anxiety and tendency to overthink contributed to our fights rin, but I also know I was constantly on edge because he avoided fights and the things I bring to light.

I believe he had good intentions. He showed me in those first few months that he was capable of being the partner I needed, and I genuinely believed in him. But I think he was still carrying the exhaustion of his past, and you know what they say na the feelings/thoughts you suppress will eventually caught up to you.

It was my first relationship, and I admit I was idealistic which caused some recurring fights. But I also believe that relationships require effort, especially when you're still building a foundation. You can't expect things to work if you're unwilling to face discomfort together.

I don't want to draw conclusions, but I can't help but wonder if I was just a placeholder. Maybe he did love me, but he wasn't ready to do the work that loving someone requires. Maybe he was used to having someone there that he mistook that familiarity for being ready to love again.

I loved him deeply, and I don't regret it. I just wish I knew if he really did love me the way I believed he did, or if I was simply someone who temporarily filled a void he hadn't learned to sit with on his own.