Trans rights are human rights. 🏳️‍⚧️

This is in London btw from a British guy.

I didn’t answer because this guy keeps blocking me, then comes back. So I ignored his message, and this is his reaction. And he’s not white he is Latino. Yes I’m black lol..

Hey everyone. I’m an 18-year-old gay guy from a really homophobic country. I’ve suffered a lot lately and it’s just pressing me, it makes me feel so anxious, so stressed and depressed. My life has always been a pure suffering for me, I never got to enjoy my childhood and my teenage years. I’ve experienced a parent loss when I was 11 (turning 12). Seeing my dad in a coffin 6 years ago is still the worst memory of mine and after that my life just changed drastically and never ever got better, only worse.

Approximately 7-8 months ago I discovered that I can leave my country and get a military deferment if I got accepted to one of the world’s top 50 universities. After taking all necessary exams I immediately called a certain company dealing with admission stuff and after a long consideration I decided to choose TUM (Technical University of Munich). Unfortunately I was late for the 1st and 2nd deadlines so we decided to apply for the 3rd one. We waited, waited and on May 16 we applied to TUM and also bought a VPD ticket from Uni-Assist. We did it exactly on time, not being late for even a second and then waited. Uni-Assist, which was responsible for creating my VPD kept delaying it and because of it I missed some significant deadlines, being unable to send my VPD to TUM. Anyways, the point is that I got rejected because I hadn’t sent all my documents to TUM despite not being responsible for that since Uni-Assist should’ve sent those documents to me as I didn’t have them. So they basically denied me for something I wasn’t guilty of and my further mails were simply ignored.

Once I got denied it destroyed my well being. I had a tiny hope for a better future, for a miracle, for a way out and freedom, happiness, peace I craved so much. Sadly, I didn’t get what I wanted, I never did. I anyways tried not to give up and sent mails to my country’s Ministry of Education, explaining them the whole case and asking them to give me some more time to reapply again instead of being dragged to the military in January. I honestly hoped they’d look at my case and have some empathy for me and grant me a special deferment but they obviously didn’t. They sent me a mail where they spoke simply by rules saying that they can grant deferment only if I’m accepted until a certain date. And even here I didn’t get what I wanted, and my plans got ruined.

Now, I’m suffering because of another event in my life that made me and my whole family’s state worse than ever. It’s too personal so I’d prefer not to share some details but the thing is that with everything and this thing occurring, my mental state got significantly worse. I have intense headaches, almost migraines, I feel like I’m about to have a seizure or faint but thankfully none of that happened yet (it did happen before tho). I’m suffering a lot being trapped in a homophobic country as a gay man, being forced to serve in military with a bunch of homophobic soldiers. I’m suffering because life ruined me, betrayed me again, the system was so unfair to me I got denied from my university because of a document I couldn’t possibly create or send myself.

And now because of my state I feel like my friend I deeply care about started to slowly pull away from me which hurts me too much because I can’t lose him, not him. He told me constantly that nothing will ever make him get tired of me, get overwhelmed with me and reassured me that he’ll always be in my life but his behavior started slowly changing, he changed. My friend I deeply cared about and still do just changed and I feel like it’s because of me and my miserable personality. I feel like I vented too much to him, complained too much to him and he simply got tired of me. My anxiety and overthinking do me no good as they make me assume even worse scenarios. I understand that it can be absolutely annoying having someone like me in one’s life, someone who constantly suffers and complains. But it’s not my fault my life has been really challenging for me, it’s not my fault I have nothing to feel joyful about. The only thing that made me cheer up sometimes was my friend. He’s genuinely the most interesting person I ever talked to online and what hurts more is that he’s thousands of miles away and I don’t actually have him here with me. I deeply care about him and I’m just scared that me being excessively upset constantly could’ve just made him pull away, change. This is what bothers me the most now, because he’s the last person I’d ever want to lose. He’s someone I look up to and respect deeply. Losing him would do such an irreversible damage to me so I genuinely hope I’m just overthinking.

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I'm gay. Totally, utterly, always have been.

I knew before I was a teenager.

I'm constantly noticing guys, get turned on thinking about guys and fantasising about guys. I just want to be free of the lies that I created to try and convince the outside world that I am straight.

I had my gay awakening aged 13 (having suspected that I was gay for a while before that) and it was the best relationship/sex I've had. I then tried to bury that relationship and those feelings over the next 25 years.

I could have had the time of my life in those years, but I have hidden it , I have "played it straight" to please everyone else, but I craved love and sex from guys because that's what I know now I want and have always wanted, I feel like I am naturally a bottom and I am quite submissive (given the relationship I had in my teens) my biggest turn on is being wanted and I remember the best I had with him was not being able to " hold it back" when he was topping me.

Instead, I'm in a relationship with a woman who I love, but the sex drive isn't there and giving has never done it for me, I have never ejaculated (since my 1st at 13, and being 41 now) without physically being with a guy or having a guy on my mind. I can't..

I've had a nervous breakdown and suffered from depression and being suicidal trying to hide this all, I've had enough. I just want to be honest, happy and proud of who I am.

Sorry for the late night rant, but I have noone to say this to, and despite coming out to her, and some of my friends, nothing has changed or has gotten a single bit better. If you have made it this far, thanks for reading.

Callum x William from REVAMPED

Hello everyone. After 4 years of fighting my thoughts, 4 years of secretly loving other men and feeling oh so trapped, 4 years of confusion, I can now proudly say that today I have accepted who I am for good, and even told my friends. Thankfully they support me, and most importantly I support myself.

I am happy about coming out officially after these years. It feels like such a big weight off my shoulders and so much happiness I can feel coming.

A lot of my talks with people within the LGBT and gay community helped me IMMENSELY. But I can proudly say that I am gay and proud❤️🏳️‍🌈

Hi so a few years ago I remember reading a story online i think on literotica or nifty or possibly a different website but it was a story about a guy back from collage and goes to his friends house to pick somthing up and when he gets there the friends dad is there drunk and depressed about missing his wife (possibly dead or divorced). The guy helps him upstairs to bed and the dad thinks its his wife and fucks him dry and there is blood (got ripped?) And the both fall asleep after and when they wake up the dad is sorry and carry him to the bathroom to have a bath and the end up as a couple but the friend finds out and the break up but the last part they get back together anyway. Thank you to anyone can find this for me

yeah basically what the title said, i was on a hookup about 3 weeks ago and the guy took the condom off when i only consented to using condoms. got tested and now i have a positive result, not sure what std it is yet but will know within 48 hours. can anyone give me advice or words of support? mostly scared that it could be hiv and i don’t even know how to function rn or who i can ask for support without being judged.

- “ not a white refrigerator girl let’s go get you a home”
- “ this isn’t RuPaul’s best friend race”
- “ can you say…magnetic?”
- “we did it Joe”
- and they were ROOMMATES “
- “ really? Right in front of my salad?”
- “ basically I would tell Gemma that she is a fat _____”

Any others?

Hi,

I'm 44, bi, and out for 3 years now, so not that experienced. I'm also, clearly, into younger than me. Sometimes in gay clubs I would like to approach someone, but more that be rejected I'm afraid of resulting creapy or invasive. In a situation like the clubs in which I want maybe express the willing of kissing the guy or more... How do I show interest without make it wierd? Would be a touch on shoulder or arm to get their attention to talk with them okay? When we are talking is compliments okay?

Thanks for the advice

Am I a bad person? I’m 26, and there’s a guy on my campus who’s down have sex with me. I feel comfortable and safe, and I feel like I can trust that he’s clean. We’re having a discussion surrounding being able to advocate for yourself and consent. And we he difference between dating vs having with at this age gap. We both agreed that dating unethical, but sex is okay. As long as we can respect each others boundaries and consent. He’s 18

Hey, so I need the honest opinion of people who don’t know me. (English isn’t my native language so sorry if there’s any typos)

Mid july, I started talking to a guy on tinder, he (33) was really handsome and seemed really nice. We talked for a few days and then he asked me if he could come to meet me. (He lives 1h15 car drive from where I am)

I (26yo) panicked and told him that it was my first real date and explained him that I was shy and anxious with people I don’t know. He asked if he could call me and reassured me, we talked for one hour.

He came. It was great, he stayed for 2 hours, he told me he was hoping I’d go see him at his place, that we’d watch a movie, play videos games,…

Like I said, I’m someone with a lot of anxiety and I don’t drive so train and bus were the only options

We kept talking everyday and eventually sex discussion came up. He told me sex was really important for him (he’s a top) I didn’t have much experience so I was anxious about it

Early august, he asked if I could go, I told him yes but told him that I wanted to use a condom if sex were to happen (he told me a few times before that he wanted me to trust him and do it without it) He was not happy and didn’t reply for 30mins , then texted me it was okay so I went there. Sex happened, came back home.

We met again, 3 weeks later cause he was busy most of august. Again, sex only

In september, we met almost everyday. I was really tired because I was always the one going. He never came back here. So I was taking the train almost everyday, bus and then 40mins walk from the station to his place and then 40 mins again at the end of the day + 1h40 of train and then bus to come back home. he had a car but only picked me up from the station to his place a few times at the beginning, then he never did it again.

Now about sex, it was not that great. He wanted me to blow him for 2/3 hours with really short breaks and then anal… He was coming inside pretty quickly and wasn’t waiting for my rectum to loosen up a bit so it was hurting but he told me he couldn’t wait otherwise he’d go soft.

Mid september, he asked me to sleep there. I was happy cause I thought we’d watch a movie or something and have more time to talk… well guess what, it was sex non stop. Oral or anal. Even when he was watching tv, he wanted me to blow him, the first night there, I even fell asleep with his penis in my mouth, he woke me up cause he wanted to cum before bed

He also wanted me to say things during sex to make him horny, If he was going soft, he was getting annoyed and told me it was my fault cause I wasn’t saying anything,… whatever happened, it was always my fault

If I was moving ( cause I was not enjoying it ) or trying to communicate with him, he was saying it wasn’t the right time and I was « ruining the mood »

Like I said, in september, I was there almost everyday, slept there a few times.

I thought about not going anymore a few times in september because I was really tired and didn’t enjoy sex but kept going because he was my type and was hoping the relationship would evolve to something more serious

But two weeks ago, on october first, he asked me to go again. I tried to douche but there was blood. (I don’t know why but I think maybe it was because of the daily enemas the past month) so I tried to tell him but he got mad and told me it was just an excuse not to do it. He stopped talking and watched tv so I told him we’d do it.

Again, no play or anything. Lube and right inside. I was probably really irritated cause it was burning so I asked him to stop

He goes soft

He ask me to blow him, I try for 5 mins, nothing

Once again, not happy, im ruining the mood, I don’t say the right stuff, it’s my fault

And at this point, I’m just sad and kinda angry, I grab my clothes and get ready to leave. He tells me im immature and a baby. He tells me that a lot of people would be happy to be with him,…
I try to talk to him but he doesn’t want to listen and tell me to leave

The next day, I just sent him a good morning text, have a great day. He replied « stop being immature or I’ll ghost you »

I don’t understand so I ask him why he says that but no answer and no text for the rest of the day

It’s my first « relationship » or whatever you want to call it so at that point, I wonder if it’s really my fault so I decide to explain everything to my twin brother and his girlfriend

They were shocked and told me it was not okay

The next day, I sent him a vocal and told him that I talked to my brother and his gf to ask their opinions

He was so mad and told me I was the one in the wrong, we kept talking for two days but then I explained him that we’re just not looking for the same kind of relationship and that it’d be better to stop

We haven’t talked for a week

My brother and sister in law both tell me he was toxic and that it’s the right decision but I’m not sure if they’re right or just defend me cause they’re my family