Like, I know damn well their girlfriends/wives ain’t giving them the pounding that those asses deserve. Wish guys like that were more “hetero-flexible” to put bodies like theirs to good use.

(Inspired by someone question, about if there is a top who doesn't like to suck)

As a bottom, I really don't like receiving a BJ from the top. I'm okay if he touches it in a humiliating or degrading way, but that's about it.

It's a complete turn off for me when the top is actually interested in my dick. I wouldn't even get hard from that, not even if he edged me for hours.

This makes dating for me a lot harder. Finding a true full top feels almost impossible.

I feel like whenever i say that, people start to shame me about it.

Do any other bottoms deal with the same thing?

Okay So this question is obviously meant for bottoms who are like me, chasity cage or staying limp during Sex. (which I sadly can‘t do but I‘m confident I‘ll be trained for it) Since our Tops Cock isn‘t the only one that matters but literally the only one and we focus on pleasing him.

I know it‘s a bit crazy to think about, but I‘ve been having this fantasy lately where I wish I had a top/Owner who isn‘t okay with me being in a chasity cage, even if it‘s the smallest one possible. He wants total removal of whatevers left of my „manhood“ and it turns me on soooo much. The thought of being so deeply emasculated that I don‘t even have a clit anymore just a mound or healed flat skin… never being able to cum again and truly only be a hole for him. I know there‘s multiple problems that occur like peeing but I‘m sure with todays science and all that it couid be possible. Now obviously the dream would be to enlargen the prostate or somehow operate on it that it can actually completely cause anal orgasms so you still have some, but in the most humiliating way. Could you imagine literally cumming from your boypussy???

Think I should clarify: Not just talking about balls removed or inability to impregnate, I mean ALL of it.

Anyways I‘d just love to hear your thoughts on it and of course Tops are wanted to comment too, if you‘ve ever thought about doing it to your bottom. Just an intrusive thought.

Do you/ can you self-suck? I’m bi and haven’t had dick in over two years so I find myself self-sucking into a sloppy mess a few times a week 😵‍💫

My balls are usually tucked up, round and close to my body - but sometimes after a day of edging when I'm feeling a bit dopamine depleted, especially if it's a bit warm, they tend to sag and I feel a bit self conscious about it - especially if I'm about to hookup.

How many of you actually care? Do you have a preference? Should I soak my balls in ice-water to perk them back up again? lol (a real thing I did one time 🫣)

Thanks in advance.

Like seriously how do you invite some random guy over or go to some random house after the smallest conversation? Let me know i am curious

Sometimes I see someone who I think is interested but I don’t know how to signal it and certainly when your partner is with you

This weekend I’m going to a orgy what advice do you have as a bottom. Also top what do you like a bottom to do in an orgy?

Time and place for everything, and as a bottom I enjoy a good pounding as much as anyone, but lately I really love when it's slow and sensual. I don't have a bf or regular fwb so aside from including it as a preference in my profile, curious how others experience this and what works for or with you in the moment.

I’m 55, vers bottom, I’ve enjoyed casual sex for years but I’ve never bottomed bareback because of the health risks. I understand why bareback feels better for tops, but I’m not sure how it would feel much different for bottoms. So why is it worth the risk?

A couple of weeks ago I went for a pretty normal massage, expecting no more than a happy ending. The guy was really lovely and before I knew it he was inside me, bareback. I had this huge surge of adrenalin, omg, this is really happening! He must have sensed it because he asked “are you ok?” and there was a moment of indecision. My brain was going nuts with lust and worry, my heart was pounding, my stomach was flying, and my ass was full of cock… and I just said “yes baby, give it to me, that feels so good!”

The short story is, we finished, it was amazing, physically it didn’t feel different at all. But mentally it blew my mind, and now despite all the risks I’m just craving for more. It’s like covered sex doesn’t hold the same appeal anymore and I don’t really understand why.

So that’s my question. Why do I want it so much? You readers can’t answer that for me but I’d love to hear your reasons. The desire is so strong I don’t know how it could just be physical or a desire to please the top.

Speaking as a bottom I know why I enjoy bottoming and the immense amount of pleasure it brings me.

Lately I’ve been trying to Top a few times and see if that brings me joy but I somehow don’t find as much in it as when I bottom.

So I’m asking Tops here what makes you, you. And perhaps I can pick up some tips too.

I'm not talking about small penis humiliation or fetish kinks which I'm strongly opposed to but actually enjoy them and the men they're attached to. I mean a genuine appreciation for them. I'm self-conscious about mine and it makes me feel like less of a man or a desirable partner. If you comment, please be nice because I'm NOT looking to be humiliated or shamed so if you're into that please don't respond.

I have two dildos that are shaped like a horse’s cock. One is the XL Chance from Bad Dragon and the other is a generic one from Amazon. Personally I like the shape, but I’m interested to hear how others feel about them.

I've always been a bottom, but recently I've been considering masturbating exclusively anally. Jerking off and cumming or anything relating to my dick has never brought me much pleasure; it feels nice, but I'm never really satisfied. Anal has always done it for me. I've been thinking about becoming a total bottom, never touching my dick at all since it doesn't do anything for me. But I'm scared going anal-only would be too much? I'm horny 24/7, even if I cum multiple times. I don't want to kill my hole by messing around in it too often lmao. I'm curious of others' experiences.

Curious how others feel about breeding/being bred. I have had such an ever increasing urge to be completely and utterly dominated and bred by a bigger stronger man. I have played in the past but the urge has never been so strong. Its literally the only thing I imagine at night. Maybe its the weather.

A top wanted to hook up with me today. I told him I could only give head. But said if he wants to just put the head in my ass and cum inside me he could. This was because I could only do a quick cleaning and could but fucked deep. So after about 10 minutes of giving him head I thought he was ready to just put the head in my ass and cum inside me. But he proceeded to start fucking me deep. He is a decent size and easily reaches my second hole. It felt so good I didn't want to stop him. After about 5 minutes of him fucking me deep he pulls out and says what the fuck bro. He yells at me to leave and goes to the bathroom. I said sorry and left. I thought there would be a big mess. But when I got home and went to clean up there really wasn't much of a mess. I feel bad but I made it clear I only did a quick cleaning and only wanted him to put the tip in when he came. What do you guys think about this? Was he right in getting pissed off at me?

Call me a little old fashioned, but as a bottom I wanna date a top. I don’t center what I want out of a relationship around sex but it’s still important to me. However, any time I’ve gone through the motions on a dating app or the very very few times I’ve met someone in real life that went that direction, 9/10 times it’s other bottoms and the tops I have met end up saying they “aren’t looking to date”. I’ve heard the theory before that the majority are already taken but even with that it seems a little hard to believe none are left. I’m in my late 20’s, live alone in one of the bigger cities of the east coast with a large queer population, and have been told by hook ups they think I’m very attractive so what am I missing?

So I’m a bottom looking to impress my tops with amazing throat skills and am looking for tips. I’m talking pro tips, not “lay backwards on the bed with your head slightly over the edge” or breath through your nose”.

Someone recently posted or commented something with a whole lot of tips for an improved face/throat fucking experience. I’ve searched and searched but I can’t find it. In included a whole bunch of preparation ideas like what to eat/not eat and drink/not drink, and maybe something like taking antacids so that when you gag there’s no acid, just wet throat slime.

Basically I’m hoping that person can come share their wisdom once again. I’d be very grateful 🙏🏻

I am a bottom and love cuddling and making out but ive noticed some tops want to be left alone completely. As a bottom that can go over and over this feels so foreign! What makes you stay engaged after you cum?

Top folks… when watching porn, it’s all about the cute little bottom getting fucked hard right ? Is it a turn on for you as a top if the bottom is not touching his dick while getting fucked ? Even better if the bottom stay soft ? And do you pay attention to the top fucking or not at all ?

So I linked up with a nice thick bttm and was vibing pretty good. So I return from the bathroom and he removed most of his clothes and had some sex lingerie on and I was fully hard seeing this and he stared at dick print and grabbed it. At this point I begin to pull it out and receive oral for about 20 mins nice and wet like I like it. So I never got rimmed before and he was very eager to be my first so while doing this I came so hard I was completely drained. And he had to play with himself because I was mentally exhausted in a very good way.

Bottoms can answer too, just what your top likes or what makes you feel the sexiest. I have a big thong fetish, and love lace or cotton mens thongs :) Makes my ass look soo fuck-able