Ich wollte gestern ganz entspannt nach meiner 12 Stunden Nachtschicht mein Motorrad waschen fahren.

Ich fahre aus meiner Tiefgarage raus um die erste Kreuzung und sehe schon eine Riesige Traube an Menschen (wohne in der City) um ein Auto an der Kruezung stehen.

ich Filtere durch den ganzen Stau um zu schauen was passiert ist und sehe jemanden unter dem Auto liegen der offensichtlich bewusstlos ist...

Also (leider) nochmal back 2 Work (Bin Pflegefachkraft) und vom Bike abgestiegen um erste Hilfe zu leisten.
Aber anstatt das irgendjemand mal was tut (bspw Stabile seitenlage und co) stehen alle nur wild rum und zücken ihre Handy´s UM VERFICKT NOCHMAL ZU FILMEN.

Nachdem ich also meine Ersthelfer raus gepickt hatte kam die ansage (weil beine unter Auto eingeklemmt und mein "Patient" ausm Mund Blutet und sowohl A als auch D Problem hat [ABCDE- Schema]) die Beine unterm Reifen zu befreien (Füße waren sowieso gebrochen, aber die können zumindest noch heilen, anders siehts aus wenn er mir weg stirbt).

Währendessen ich also den ganzen Bullshit Manage merke ich wie konstant Handys auf mich gerichtet sind, und als ob das schon nicht genug ist WILL SO EIN DRECKIGER HUNDESOHN MEIN MOTORRAD KLAUEN.

Beim 1. Mal wo ich gemerkt habe das er an meinem Bike rumfummelt und vorallem an meinem Schlüssel, habe ich ihn schon lauthals angeschrien "PFOTEN WEG VOM BIKE ANSONSTEN HABEN WIR GLEICH NOCH NEN VIEL GRÖßERES PROBLEM!" darauf kam erstmal keine reaktion und er machte weiter, danach wurde ich aber mal sehr sehr laut sodass ich aufeinmal die ganze aufmerksamkeit aller leute im Radius von ca 20 Metern hatte und ihn alle leute anschauten.
Hiernach verkroch er sich in die Crowd an leuten um auch einer derjenigen zu sein die das ganze Filmten.

Gott sei dank war unter den passanten die zufällig so wie ich unterwegs waren auch ein Notarzt der dann (gott sei dank) für mich übernommen hatte, sodass ich mich darum kümmern konnte das alle leute die mit dem shit nichts zu tun hatten weg schicken konnte.
Hierbei wurde natürlich auf die bitte zu gehen nicht reagiert, also nochmal schön in kräftiger stimme "ALLE DIE HIERMIT NICHTS ZU TUN HABEN WEG, HANDYS AUS UND ANDERE RICHTUNG GEHEN UNZWAR SOFORT!".

Nachdem also eine deutlich beherzter ansage kam, kamen die leute auch dazu wieder in ihre Geschäfte zu gehen als auch die Straße auf und ab.

Ich raffs einfach nicht wie dreist man sein muss um:

1. Die ganze scheiße mitm Handy zu Filmen
   
2. Versuchen mein Motorrad zu klauen
   
3. Auf ansagen erst reagiert wenn man sichtlich sieht das jemand mal ganz hoch fährt und nicht mehr Freundlich ist

Gedigendes FICK DICH, an alle leute die einfach nur rumstanden und Gefilmt haben!

Props gehen aber raus an die ersthelfer die auch nen Guten Anruf bei der leistelle gemacht haben denn es kam 1 Löschzug +3 RTW´s + 2 NEF´s inkl anschließend (Leider) noch ein RTH.
Aktueller zustand: Lebensgefährlich verletzt, aber noch am Leben.

Thoughts???

I’m just gonna be consistent here. Biden was too old. Orange man is too fkin old. So is Karen Bass.

I don’t want anyone above 65 anywhere near any political position. Tired of it.

Politics is hard. Dealing with complex social and economical issues is difficult af. We’re gonna let ppl in their mental decline handle those things? Hell no.

Hi everyone. Thank you to everyone who commented on my first post. I read almost all of your replies, even the harsh ones. I said I would update after our family meeting this weekend, so here it is.

Quick recap: I (28F) live with my husband (30M) and his mother (55F). Three weeks ago, my MIL asked for a DNA test for our 4-month-old son because he “doesn’t look like our side of the family.” I asked my husband for distance, and he said he couldn’t leave his mother alone.

A lot of you were split. Some said I was overreacting. Many said I should never take the test. But after a lot of thinking, I decided something different.

I am going to do the DNA test.

Before anyone attacks me, let me explain why. I don’t need it. I have always known who my son’s father is. But I realized this doubt would never go away. Every time my son looked a little different, she would whisper again. Every time there was a fight, this would come back. I’m not doing it for her. I’m doing it so this question is closed forever.

I already asked a friend where such a test can be done, and I’m planning to book it myself. My husband didn’t push me. If anything, he would have kept everything the same and “worked it out” while I sat across from her every day. I told him clearly that I am doing this because he is not willing to leave his mother, so I have to carry the burden of proving myself.

At the family meeting this weekend, I said this in front of everyone:

“I will do the DNA test. But I have one condition. When the result comes back and it matches my husband, and it will, I will move out and live in a separate home with my husband and my son. And my mother-in-law will not be moving in with us.”

The room went silent. Some relatives said I was being harsh. My MIL said she “only wanted peace of mind.” I told her peace of mind should not come at the cost of destroying my dignity.

I also decided one more thing. When my son grows up and becomes mature, I will tell him the truth about what happened, that his own grandmother once doubted his mother and made her go through this. I won’t lie about it, and I won’t hide it.

At the very least, I want her to feel regret for what she did. She may never apologize, but when that report comes back, she will have to live with it.

So, AITA for making the test conditional on us moving out? And am I wrong to want my MIL to feel the consequences of her own words?

Posers. Posers everywhere.

They show up to your community & fucking ruin it.

And when you call them posers, tourists or fake fans, people always say "wHy aRe wE gAtEKeEpInG x ?"

Real fans dont need to worry about gatekeeping. If ur constantly being gatekept then stop being a fucking poser.

Im an original 2000s goth & to see the state of whats happened to our culture is cringe. And we arent allowed to call these fake people who are basically a parody of goth out? Fuck off

This is not what I was hoping for when I paid the extra 50c

This project was harder than I expected. He basically gave me free rein to do whatever I wanted and had very little input

I’m no stranger to clients letting me have creative freedom, but this was more than I have been given before. I take a very collaborative approach to design build, so it was strange when I fished for feedback/input and got very little.

Anyway, this is what I came up with.

They wanted a grand water feature but I didn’t want it to be gaudy or out of place. So instead of building up, I went wide. I made sure to keep it low enough so it didn’t block the window. The building behind the waterfall is a sauna/wellness center and it will be nice to view and listen to from inside.

The putting green is an infilled green, so it plays more true than the standard artificial putting greens do.

I tried to keep the planting fairly simply. Between the putting green I mass planted some Hamlin, which is a dwarf fountain grass. The thought was to make it look like a golf course rough and to funnel people to the wall way on either side. On top of the waterfall I added a weeping blue atlas which should be cool as it grows.

The walkway to the right of the putting green is the main entrance to the back yard. And I plan on installing 2 std crepe Myrtle’s. I’m trying to talk them into adding a nice metal arch over the walkways as well to make it a little more grand.

I haven’t done the billing yet, but I’m guessing we’re going to end up in the kid 40’s

Any questions or feedback im all ears.

I found one in the wild!

Met online in the days of AIM — we asked each other A/S/L? and the rest is history.

I’m hopelessly in love with him and I think he’s starting to like me too 🥸