To preface:

its not a huge problem in our relationship and if i verbally ask him to make me finish he likely would the majority of the time so its not a matter of needing a solution, but i just wonder if this is okay complain about like im confused on what counts as pushing a boundary or a reasonable request.

I would say he makes me finish like 10-20% of the time me and my bf are intimate. Its worth mentioning that I can only finish from him using his hand and it can take 15 minutes up to over hour…so I absolutely understand not wanting to do it all the time. He’s very patient when he does do it, and I enjoy penetrative sex a lot even when I don’t finish, it just kind of bothers me that often when he doesnt make me finish, its when we have sex and he finishes quick and then obviously his drive is gone and I don’t want to make him do anything he doesnt want to.

I guess the part that bothers me is just that once he loses his drive, its seems like he doesn’t want to JUST because it makes me feel good like once hes satisfied hes done. I totally understand the feeling like theres a stark before and after but i just feel like if it was quick, and you’re not tired, and you got me all riled up for 5 minutes of sex then..it can be a little sexually frustrating. I just wish he would dedicate a little more time just to my pleasure.

I (19F) feel a bit stupid asking this, but I'm having trouble penetrating my vigina when I masturbate.

I have been masturbating for ages, but I only ever stimulated my clitoris and never really gone inside. I have been trying to give it more of a recently but I can get a little bit of my fingers in.

Does anyone have any advice on how I could penetrate myself more?

Holaaaa, acabo de cumplir la mayoría de edad y estoy lista para explorar mi sexualidad pero nunca tuve la confianza de preguntarle a alguien, qué se hace? Como empiezo? Jaja
Para empezar, existe algún tutorial para prepararte antes? El aseo, la depilación, etc? Mil gracias 🫶🏼

I think a lot of you can relate - I’ve always wondered how it feels when a male is stroking his cock. Can that feeling be replicated on a woman’s vulva/clit?

I tried to simulate it by grabbing my clit hood and trying to stroke it, but it doesn’t do too much for me... but maybe that’s it? (I read that the penis has a lot fewer nerve endings than the clitoris.)

I’ve even tried to grab the whole vulva skin and stroke it...

I mean, as stupid as it might sound, I just want to get as close as possible to the feeling of a cock stroke, so I can understand how it could feel.

Has anyone tried? Do you mind sharing?

Not enough orgasms

Arousal is low etc