r/TikTokCringe • u/ConradFisher69 • 14h ago
Humor/Cringe Guy gets ROASTED on a dating show
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u/Feeling_Ad_1034 13h ago edited 12h ago
Honestly he's doing much better than most men. He's just not her type. The genuine laugh at her backhanded insults is perfect. He seems secure in himself to me.
EDIT: IF YOU DISAGREE, Why not provide a BETTER EXAMPLE of a secure man's response than his?
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u/Worried_Jellyfish918 11h ago
Being able to laugh when someone insults you is usually the sign of a person who is happy with how they are
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u/EcstaticBoysenberry 9h ago
Yeahh. That would probably fuck me up a little inside for a minute but knowing myself id probably laugh in the moment with the person 😅
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u/Frosty-Bat-8476 13h ago
For all you know he just laughs when he’s nervous or upset lmao lots of people have weird responses to stress or anxiety.
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u/R34CT10N 13h ago
We don’t know, but we can make educated guesses. It looks like he picks up on her accidental “roast” and laughs genuinely at it, and then laughs again when she presses the button. It doesn’t look like true nervous laughter to me.
Sure, it could sting a little bit on the inside too, but it’s also pretty damn funny, and making humor out of awkward/unintentional situations is an infectious form of “confidence” or whatever you want to call it. Dude seems solid
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u/meeps1142 11h ago
100%. That type of confidence will get you far. Not everyone will be into you, and being secure in spite of that is such a green flag.
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u/Hilarity2War 11h ago
If you can laugh at people making fun of you, you'll get ahead at life... is this the lesson?
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u/meeps1142 10h ago
I mean, there's nuance to it. Sometimes you need to stand up for yourself, but there's wisdom in knowing when to not give AF about someone else's opinion of you. Choose your battles
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u/Feeling_Ad_1034 13h ago
A laugh is still among "healthy" responses, but go ahead and share with me what a better response would have been?
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u/sevenpioverthree 11h ago
People who are disagreeing with you are ignoring the fact that he made a joke about his own virginity in the beginning, so yeah he’s secure and confident enough to joke about himself and therefore laugh at himself
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u/kitsunekratom 12h ago
Agreed, laughing is good here. To make it even better, he could have said "Yeah, I do have a great personality!" enthusiastically
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u/MackAttack0137 11h ago
It's crazy how insecurity is seen like a perfectly normal human emotion for women but a character flaw for men. Like maybe men wouldn't have such fragile egos if they weren't expected to be secure in themselves 24/7
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u/StrangelyBrown 12h ago
He seems nice but that answer was slight Gabe energy.
"I'll tell you her last name tomorrow because she's going to be screaming it tonight!"
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u/djpiperson 13h ago
This is not the confidence you think it is. Source: I laugh too when uncomfortable, just like he does.
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u/DownWithTheSickness8 13h ago
Of the reactions you could have, an awkward laugh that keeps the convo from getting too tense is a good one.
Laughing while uncomfortable is social behaviour, and exhudes some level of confidence even if you arent really comfortable at the time.
All I'm saying is, probably the guy is not feeling gery good about the underhanded insult, but keeping a straight face regardless is impressive.
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u/Hour-Perception-5417 13h ago
Maybe in a date, but people always think i’m not taking things seriously. Worse, some of them think I am making fun of them.
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u/djpiperson 13h ago
Yeah that the Joker in that movie. QUITE LITERALLY!! I had this conversation when my gf-now-wife started dating. She'd think I was laughing at her or at the arguments we had.
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u/Hour-Perception-5417 13h ago
The first time I got pulled over, the cop kept asking if I was on drugs. I explained its just a nervous reaction. Then of course he hits me with the “why are you so nervous?”. Which ofc made it worse
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u/Excuse_Odd 11h ago
This woman is being insanely rude and disrespectful, there isn't really a better way to respond without getting into a fight about who's less attractive.
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u/CrazyElk123 13h ago
Him laughing doesnt mean he didnt find it insulting or negative. What a delusional comment.
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u/thissexypoptart 13h ago
No part of their comment claimed he didn’t find it insulting or negative. The comment was praising his seemingly nonchalant (doesn’t mean on the inside) demeanor in taking the insults.
Calling people delusional when you’ve read something into their comment they never said is unnecessary.
Being secure doesn’t mean you don’t perceive insults or negativity. It means when you clock an insult you don’t let it get to you. At least in the moment, no telling what happens after he goes home, he seems secure and well adjusted.
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u/odysseyofocelots 9h ago
the comments on this innocuous video are so insanely dramatic and emotional, wtf is going on lmao?
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u/SkangoBank 12h ago
That isn't what they said at all.
Laughing shit off is a much better reaction than some hyper-insecure and overly defensive response, as you might be able to relate to.
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u/East_Living7198 13h ago
They never claimed that the laughing doesn't mean he didn't find it insulting or negative. The secure part is being able to receive something insulting or negative and still be cool.
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u/federalmanagement_21 13h ago
The guy literally made a joke about not having sex seconds before that he’s obviously secure and self effacing.
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u/SkangoBank 12h ago
That isn't what they said at all.
Laughing shit off is a much better reaction than some hyper-insecure and overly defensive response, as you might be able to relate to.
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u/Friendly-Rice7351 7h ago
Its so funny how you watch a video of a woman being shitty and still feel the need to take a shot at men. Just classic tbh.
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u/Haxorz7125 12h ago
Some people need to learn to laugh at themselves a bit.
When I hung out with a girl once she told me “you have really nice skin for someone who dresses like that”, I had just come off work and was wearing a hoodie and pajama shorts, she was tagging along to the dog park.
She immediately felt bad realizing how it might come across but I thought it was the funniest shit ever.
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u/Slumunistmanifisto 11h ago
She'd refer him to friends.
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u/Feeling_Ad_1034 11h ago
So his response should have been what? demanding a list of referrals? Help me understand.
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u/Slumunistmanifisto 10h ago
No im saying hes normal and has humor, she probably has single friends, and probably knows a similar humored girl.
Chicks love a chance to match make bro!
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u/Feeling_Ad_1034 10h ago
Ah sorry I'm treating every response as disagreeing with me lol. Gotta calm down.
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u/RudeAndInsensitive 9h ago
Ya. I read as playful teasing. I don't think she finds him to be her type but she seems to enjoy his presence. In his position I would assume she is good for meeting her friends.
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u/untucked_21ersey 13h ago
is this show still somehow going?
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u/pickledtoesies 11h ago
I think this is the Cut channel on youtube. Looks like theyre trying to change their name to Human…
These types of scripted videos always reminds me of The Fine Bros.
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u/Embarrassed_Bend_291 13h ago
I hate this type of fucking passive aggressive fake nice people man!
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u/VeterinarianThis3545 1h ago
"oh is that meee~an" lmao
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u/Perfect_Librarian873 1h ago
Right it would’ve been funnier if she played into it instead of pretending she wasn’t trying to be mean, bc by saying that she just doubled down on insulting him
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u/Piccadil_io 13h ago
ROASTED!
Fucking hate this generation.
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u/assortittiesNOTboth 10h ago
I mean... These are the types to be on this kind of show...
If someone saw Jersey Shore back in the day and said they hated that generation because of it, that wouldn't make much sense.
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u/fancywipe 13h ago
Freddy Kruger made a lot of sense now that I’m older
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u/iliketopoopitpoopit9 13h ago
The pedophile?
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u/djpiperson 13h ago
The monster/ghost/demon(whatever that thing was) was not a pedo, but the man was, iirc
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u/Embarrassed_Use6918 12h ago
Was the original version a pedo? I know the...newer like 2016 version or whenever that was was but I don't recall the original version being a pedo. In fairness I haven't watched those movies in like 10 years so I might just be totally wrong.
I guess I know what I'm watching for the spooky season.
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u/explosiv_skull 6h ago
The remake was 2010. There was a different pedophile all over the news in 2016 though so I see the confusion.
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u/nitrosmomma88 12h ago
No, not the originals he was just a killer who was murdered. He was only a pedophile in the reboot but that was part of the original story line and ultimately got cut because it was considered distasteful
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u/Coffeedemon 11h ago
It was strongly implied that he was a chicken hawk in the original too.
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u/Choice-Strike1 11h ago
Bro I'd never heard of the term chicken hawk before but just found a new way to use it on at least one President lol
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u/00Avalanche 10h ago
That’s not how you use Chicken Hawk. If you said it about the president or anyone in politics it suggests that they are a strong advocate for war and military conflicts to achieve goals. It applies to Trump but not in the way you think.
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u/Nebulacarina 12h ago
Nah, we watched the original for Halloween last year and he was 100% doing nasty creep shit to those kids.
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u/djpiperson 12h ago
Yeah that's what I knew, but apparently the other versions had the monster also being a perv.
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u/ghoulieandrews 13h ago
Idk man, he got pretty nasty with a lot of those teens...
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u/Hail_MF_MAry 9h ago
Man people acting like the og wasn’t a pedo never watched it. Mfer literally say’s “come to daddy” and kisses children. It’s never outright stated, but it’s subtext that’s in bold.
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u/DieBotDie 12h ago
Why does this have hundreds of upvotes? Jesus people. Don’t live with all this hate.
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u/buku-o-rama 8h ago
Who asks a stranger they just met to show them a photo of the person they lost their virginity to? Am I the only one who thinks that's weird af?
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u/momo76g 5h ago
You see weird and fake make these shows "content" I find it more weird people who consume it.
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u/Life_as_a_new_weeb 7h ago
Ehhh. He insinuated theyd be having sex tomorrow which i think is arguably worse.
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u/strawbsrgood 6h ago
I don't disagree it was cringey but one was a pick up line, the other was her genuinely telling him to show her.
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u/QiDeviation 13h ago
Did he get roasted though?
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u/ChimpPimp20 11h ago
Not believing that he used to date the woman who was “so pretty” then saying that she is sure he has a “nice personality” and topping it off with “nah, you’re cute though” only to then hit the button anyway is a sly way of saying “I’m not attracted to you.” She doesn’t have to find him attractive but the way she did it was disingenuous. Just be honest and say you don’t find him pretty. Too many people are just “performative nice” these days.
In short, yes, he got “roasted.” It was just subtle backhanded compliment.
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u/ForeignImports 11h ago
Idk how to tell you this but you can find someone cute/pretty without being attracted to them. He’s a good looking guy and seems pretty chill but she’s probably just not interested
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u/AshenSacrifice 11h ago
Sure but this video was not that
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u/ForeignImports 9h ago
It’s a 45 second clip, it can be interpreted either way without seeing their whole interaction in full lol
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u/AshenSacrifice 7h ago
Saying someone dated you because of your personality has been a slap in the face since the beginning of time. Let’s be real please 🤣
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u/Perfect_Librarian873 8h ago
Why are so many people defending her? I’m a girl and this was backhanded af and one thing I’m gonna say is… sometimes girls do this when they Are attracted to you like their brain freezes and it irritates them that someone can be so smooth and confident so their response is “well I’m nonchalant and cool too and I don’t care about you”
And I say this from experience too, I’m not like this anymore these days but back in hs there was a guy I was crushing on hard but I literally did nothing but throw subtle jabs I have no idea why, thankfully I’m more secure myself now
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u/meeps1142 11h ago
There are people who I think are attractive, but I'm not necessarily attracted to them. Her calling him cute isn't necessarily disingenuous.
A lot of people view rejection while dating as a sign that there's something wrong with them, but there were plenty of times where I rejected someone not because they were flawed, but because they just weren't right for me. Dating is about compatibility; like I have plenty of friends that are wonderful, but that doesn't mean we would work together if we were dating.
(Obviously, sometimes rejection can be in response to a perceived flaw, and you still want to be introspective. But it's often not the case.)
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u/Oblique9043 5h ago
Honestly seems like the girl on his phone is really hot and it made her feel insecure and then all of her behavior afterwards is due to that insecurity.
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u/Significant-Way9330 4h ago
Its a show that farms bits like this to generate the exact kind of response your giving. This isn't a real interaction. It literally is performative content. Its just outrage engagement.
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u/TheRealAmused 9h ago
She's being mean but acting nice. People like this are why I feel like an imposter, failing personality theater everywhere I go.
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u/fcktrmp42069 8h ago
People like this are sociopaths. Don't let it get to you. This is not "normal" behavior and you shouldn't feel bad that you don't know how to play the snake game because you're not a snake.
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u/BRtIK 13h ago
She looks wayyy older than a 1 year difference
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u/Frosty-Bat-8476 13h ago
Hard disagree lol he doesn’t look 25 to me (as a 25 year old) 🤷🏼♂️😂
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u/AshenSacrifice 11h ago
He looks 19 and she looks 30🙊
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u/Frosty-Bat-8476 10h ago
She doesn’t look 30 either lol makes me feel like none of you have spent any time around anyone between the age of 25-30 💀 she looks 26, he looks 19-20. He has a baby face and she looks like an adult.
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u/DenielEvenin 12h ago
And SHE presses the button? guy was way cooler than her
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u/ultradouble 12h ago
the losing my virginity tomorrow joke was a massive swing and a miss though
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u/NeighborhoodDude84 11h ago
Idk why you being downvoted, that reminds me of something I said to girls on myspace when I was 13 and wondering why I wasn't getting laid.
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u/SendMeF1Memes 10h ago
Yeah it's funny and I would have laughed but I would also immediately press the button
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u/Dry_Butterfly_721 9h ago
I was a dumb kid (still probably dumb), but I had a few missed opportunities where I didn’t realize that a woman was flirting with me until a month later.
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u/DenielEvenin 11h ago
I would ve laughed if somebody said that to me
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u/ultradouble 11h ago
so if you were a woman, and a man you just met tells you hes a virgin and then jokes that hes gonna sleep with you tomorrow, you wouldnt be grossed out? come on man. that might not have been a thousand words, but it painted a pretty vivid picture. a weird and uncomfortable picture.
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u/Reddit-Simulator 8h ago
It's a joke pickup line. He's not serious. You're acting as if he was planning it.
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u/Imnotnewhere_07 11h ago
I wanted to shade this but I remember MTV dating shows back in my day lol
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u/SteeleHeller 8h ago
Soooo weird to immediately be like “LET ME SEE WHO YOU LOST YOUR VIRGINITY TO!”
Clearly wants to compare herself to them.
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u/Voluptulouis 10h ago
I know it's not that uncommon for people to lose their virginity by 15, and more common for girls, but that's so crazy to me. I was not ready for that shit at 15.
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u/CranberryLast4683 2h ago
Unfortunately that’s around the time of halo 2, cod 4, gta San Andreas, gears of war etc. and some of us were too indoors to do all that.
Yet somehow we fucked everyones mothers
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u/Yourdjentpal 6h ago
You never know. It was always the woman initiating when I was that age. Especially the first time. It was basically like the scene in the new Carrie show where sue basically tells him what’s going to happen
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u/Any-Lychee9972 8h ago
PRESSURED ~
At least I did it with someone my own age. (Although, he did go around bragging about it to literally everyone after he broke up with me the next day. We had been 'dating' for 2 years.)
I feel so bad for my friend who also lost hers at 15 to a 23 YEAR OLD with a KID.
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u/xSerenadexx 12h ago
Bro just be mean to me straight up instead of suffering through that cognitive dissonance live in 4k.
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u/Coffeedemon 11h ago
Hate to break it anyone but if you were that much of a catch you wouldn't be negotiating with a fake robot for dates. If these shows had a shred of reality in them that is.
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u/FruitApprehensive603 8h ago
Why doesn’t he press the button first
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u/MedicalAwareness5160 7h ago
Cause she's attractive
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u/lifemanualplease 7h ago
Because he has the nicest personality, and that’s clearly not what she’s attracted to
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u/coupl4nd 11h ago
Not really? They both had a good laugh... weird post.
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u/odysseyofocelots 9h ago
everyone in these comments is apparently taking this silly video extremely personally and seriously for some reason lol.
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u/Habib455 10h ago
And the fact that no one calls this out as negging saddens me. I swear, that shit is only called it when men do it, and now you got unironically thinking it’s a male behavior
Loser shit
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u/Novel-Pen8811 11h ago
This comment section is so tone deaf.. I mean is millennials had a show called next! And room raiders..
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u/ThomasSun 6h ago
“Oh, let me see…” takes the phone and immediately starts swiping up to check out the rest of his gallery 🤦🏾♂️
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u/bottomlace 37m ago
I thought I was average. After reading these comments I realize I am in fact ugly.
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u/OakyAfterbirth91 11h ago
People in here calling her ugly are insane. She's physically very attractive. She's unnecessarily mean, though.
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u/Janus9 2h ago
She is average.
It is ironic how a lot of average ladies think they are hot asf while so many truly very attractive ladies are very humble about how they look.
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u/agodrevealed 1h ago edited 6m ago
Average, from what data set?
Mean, median, or mode?
You're all arguing about completely different things
Edit- y'all are making me sad. You should've learned what's required to define or calculate an average in middle school.
Otherwise you're just sharing your personal opinion and why would you argue taste?
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u/Denebola_leonis 7h ago
She is very beautiful. People should stop having beauty standards based on celebrities. And as for being mean, well, a guy that makes a joke about losing his virginity tomorrow, implying with her, it's creepy for a first meeting.
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u/Sub90iqHimbo 2h ago
shes not ugly shes just average, some men will find her super attractive though just because she isnt fat (bare minimum for both men and women)
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u/Technical_Evening404 8h ago
She looks very average, maybe slightly above average?
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u/DrakonSpawn 6h ago
Where the hell do you live? Miami? LA? In small town, midwestern state, that’s the most attractive girl around.
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u/Technical_Evening404 6h ago
Sydney, Australia, which has a large variety of woman from around the world.
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u/BillNyeForPrez 1h ago
Anecdotally, one of the most attractive cities in the world. More so than LA or Miami.
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u/beanofdoom001 6h ago
I don't find her physically attractive at all but to each their own. My taste is not the law. And how attractive I do or don't find her means literally nothing.
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u/utzutzutzpro 2h ago
Definitely not unattractive, but she also looks quite old for 26.
I have the feeling that gen z looks older in a larger portion than gen y and we see two good examples of different portions. He looks young for 25 she looks old for 26.
I have seen a lot of people in mid twenties who look early mid 30s. She here also looks rather 30s.
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u/masteroftheinternet7 10h ago
she's not pretty enough to be acting that way
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u/FaultyFaucet_6 13h ago
This is the second video I've seen about sleeping with somebody being a main topic. Is Gen z obsessed with sex or something?
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u/sevennotsogoodapples 11h ago
Honestly it’s a weird mix of gooners and absolute puritans, honestly interesting to see.
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u/Harry_Saturn 52m ago
Isn’t that literally the entire history of humanity? The more things change, the more they stay the same…
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u/mrev_art 10h ago
They're the least sexual generation, with fear and purity driving there sex culture.
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u/wiseguy187 8h ago
I think this is one of the biggest problems happening in the world today. People see 2 videos and think they understand a group of 40 million people.
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u/Hopeyouhappytho 12h ago
young people are, and always will be, obssessed with sex
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u/Motor_Watercress_489 12h ago
Wow, two whole videos!
Yeah, those Gen Z kids must be OBSESSED! Buncha weirdos.
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u/PM_me_ur_claims 11h ago
You ever see boomers on the newly wed show from like the 70’s? “Where’s the craziest place you’ve made whoopie” etc etc. or anything that was ever on MTV once they stopped showing music videos. Hillarious you think it’s a Gen Z thing.
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u/ZachMartin 13h ago
She seems like she is really pleased with herself. This will come in handy when she is constantly single.
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u/Many-Manufacturer-72 12h ago
Is this female negging?
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u/feelinjustpeachyyy 11h ago
Negging is negging, regardless of gender. But yeah she's just being a bitch. The whole "losing my virginity tomorrow" line was a swing and a miss for sure, but I don't think bro deserved all that 💀
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u/PoulanWeedEaterBowl 11h ago
If anything she paid him a compliment. Take it as one. Stop giving a shit about what random ass people think.
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