Honourable mention: After 23 years, Blizzard dropped the trilogy to the Warcraft Campaigns: The Forsaken. I'll make this discussion thread quick coz Lady Sylvanas needs me.
MEGATHREAD RULES:
Sub rules still apply: eg, do not post personal information, no self-promotion (i.e 40M dm me), pay for play content etc. This is a discussion thread so please control the thirst 👏👏
The same karma and other qualifiers for posting and commenting still apply. We'll do our best to approve comments that have been removed by the automod.
Avoid downvoting in this thread. Unless it’s something particularly heinous, downvoting a comment just because you don’t agree with it hurts the sub and its members 😤 It’s not easy to build karma for a NSFW account and this is a space for discussion.
RESPECTFUL disagreement and debate is acceptable. Outsiders coming here to disparage the general concept of RAOMDs will be banned; however, users respectfully criticizing the sub, its rules, and the mods is fine
No detailed success stories (make a [SUCCESS] post for that)
Please do not report posts here. We have the report button for that, and the mods do see them
🚩SAFETY STUFF🚩
RAOMD Safety Searches - includes our public ban log and safety searches for vetting reddit accounts
In September, this sub has been viewed 1.5 million times, with an average of 9.1K individual visitors each day.
🚫 MOD BANS 🚫
In the past 30 days, we issued 122 temporary and perma bans.
📷 VERIFICATION 📷
12 users were verified this month = 5 females and 7 males
💹 Post stats 💹
Below is a rough USER count of each R4R category in September
REDDITOR 4 REDDITOR
POST COUNT
% (rounded up)
F4M
80
4.93%
F4F
21
1.30%
F4A/T/NB/Couples
20
1.23%
M4F
1491
91.98%
M4T/A/NB/Couples
4
0.25%
T 4 F/M/A/T/NB/Couples
0
0%
NB 4 F/M/A/T/NB/Couples
1
0.06%
Couples 4 F/M/A/T/NB
4
0.25%
❗QUESTION FOR THE TRANS AND NON-BINARY FOLK ❗
Historically, it is very rare for trans and non-binary users to post on this sub and I would like some insight as to why.
For those that identify as T or NB, do you find this sub to be inclusive and welcoming? To be muffdived, you need female genitalia so I understand this might be very dysmphoric for trans/non-binary users.
💦MOIST MAP💦
Created by Claude. Please note some countries have banned reddit, there's no internet access or there is a crisis happening, which is why there's no active posters. I'd like to think RAOMD can be used as an indicator of a healthy democracy.
Global Map:
Closer look at USA & Canada. Y'all can be friends for this:
After a successful encounter a while ago, I am interested in finding a new partner for playful pleasure.
A European lady with curves and natural look wants to be the centre of your attention. 160 cm
If you do not smoke, are DDF, get pleasure out of my pleasure and are willing to meet for a vibe check in public you might be the right one for this adventure. Please send me a message with a little introduction, a sfw pic and mention the last book you read.
Please save us both the time if you are not in the country, you are looking for reciprocation, you are keen on sending unsolicited nsfw pics, or if you can't write a well written introduction or hold a conversation.
I m in the mood of receiving and exploring pleasure and seeing you enjoy giving it. Open to something ongoing.
I will only reply to messages that show you have read this entire post. In best case, you can tickle my mind and my body.
I’m a tall-ish (5’8”), soft-bodied/chubby (195 lbs), white, brunette woman. I enjoy flirting and getting to know someone a bit before getting physical. For that reason, I’m in search of a date that ends in a dive rather than a totally transactional encounter where it may not matter if we vibe. Daytime or evening is currently an option. I’ve been to Seattle several times, but I’m sure there’s something fun you can show me. 😉
Safety and comfort are super important to me, and I hope they are to you, too. I have two success stories in my post history if you are curious to learn a little more about me. I was away from RAOMD for a bit BUT NOW YA GIRL IS BACK.
I am looking for a true pleaser. Someone who very much wants me to have a good time and who wants me to feel good.
If you think we might be a match and will be in Seattle on Saturday, October 17, feel free reach out. I like friendly messages that aren’t overly sexual. And I definitely want know a bit about you and to see a g-rated pic or two! There is a special place in heaven for men who send pics right away after the chat is accepted or include a link to pics in their initial message. 😍
I’m open to a variety of types of men, but historically go for men bigger/taller than me because I’m a big girl with a fat ass [complimentary] and I don’t want to crush anyone 😭. But if you’re a small guy who is unafraid, feel free to drop me a line.
Thanks for reading. I hope you find what you’re looking for.
Please don’t bother to reply if you’re not going to put any sort of effort into your reply. Ideally you’d be willing to send a photo relatively quickly so we can get the attraction piece out of the way.
I’m pent-up white BBW looking for an enjoyable evening that leads to your head between my thighs and my eyes rolled to the back of my head. I haven’t been able to be selfish in a while and I really just want to lay back and relax (or maybe sit on your face and relax). I’m about 290 and I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. That’s OK with me — we like what we like. I’ve got a great personality, fantastic sense of humor, and am lots of fun in the bedroom, even when I’m being a pillow princess. Most men who like big girls think I’m cute. Although I’m not looking to reciprocate, I love making out and I give a mean neck rub. I’m also pretty comfy to snuggle with in between rounds.
I like men who like big girls. I like men who go down on a woman like it’s their last meal. I like men who can make me laugh and who are interesting and who can act like a decent normal human being. Strong preference for white, Black, or Latino men. Prefer 30+ — I don’t want to feel like I could be your mother. I like all sorts of men, but I’d love to find someone on the athletic dad bod to gym bro spectrum this go around. DDF. I have a thing for rugby player thighs, haha. Don’t be gross — literally or figuratively. Not really into bringing a power dynamic into this.
I can squirt when I’m worked up enough, so you’ve been warned. I’m not hairy but I do have a little peach fuzz going on on top right now. I’ll host tonight or tomorrow in Back Bay. Let’s see what we can make happen.
I’m 36. I’m looking for a female with nice big ( . )( . ) to come over tonight and lick me until I say stop. Helps if you’re good with your fingers too. Im between 4’11-5. 106 lbs. petite and tight. Not looking for something long and drawn out. I’m looking for tonight. Red wings certified/friendly is a plus. I can host. Right now not looking to reciprocate but will probably want to play with/suck on your ( . )( . )
I'm 5'6 147lbs brown hair and brown eyes. I see so many beautiful women of all shapes and sizes and really just want to fulfill their needs.
About me: I've been to 15 countries and the thing I love most isn't the destinations, it's the moments you don't plan. The wrong turn that leads somewhere incredible, I unintentionally get lost on every trip. The sights you stumble onto. The conversation you're still thinking about a week later. I once flew to Iceland specifically to see Sigur Rós perform, just to see them in their home country. Standing there I thought: this is exactly the kind of things life should be full of. Also trying to see Radihead in Japan this summer if I can get tickets...
Who I am looking for is someone who is very communicative, what I mean by that I want to take my time to get you off which means I want you to tell me how to please you, like the weather channel I want constant updates, whether moans or even just telling me what turns you on. I want this to be a fun experience for both of us.
Personally, I am easy going, respectful and clean. I can be silly or serious. I am 420 friendly. Feel free to message me if you got any questions or see if we vibe. I won't bite, unless that is what you're into 😈
I am a 47 year old man visiting from San Francisco who enjoys the simple pleasure of going down on a woman and making her feel amazing. I love the taste, the texture, the sounds of a woman moaning, the building tension as she gets closer and closer to orgasm. If you enjoy a man who takes his time and pays attention, we’ll get along well.
I am Caucasian with brown eyes and short brown hair with some salt and pepper. I workout regularly and keep myself in pretty good shape. Outside the bedroom, I am grounded, intelligent, laid back, and easy to talk to. I enjoy live music, basketball, Formula 1, good dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.
In the bedroom I typically have a dominant, rough, and primal energy, but for this my focus will be on taking my time and making you feel amazing.
I’m seeking women with a slim to average figure and have a preference for shaved, or neatly trimmed.
Safety and consent are very important to me. We will talk about boundaries and comfort levels beforehand and they will always be respected. STD-free (Tested Sep 2026)
Staying at a hotel in Shinagawa and can host. Happy to grab a quick drink first to make sure the vibe is right.
If this sounds appealing, send a chat with your age, location, and a physical description. Include the code word “scuba” so I know you read the whole post.
I don't need anything, I just want to show you a good time. Let's spend the day together totally naked where I will pleasure you and make you feel like the princess you are.
I'm not looking for reciprocation, but I want to focus entirely on you and make you feel incredible. Let's meet up, make out, then I'll kiss you all over then eat you out. Interested? Message me. I'm in Socal. LA/IE/SD also welcome.
Also a physical description: I'm 5'10 with black hair, brown eyes, brown skin, average build, and glasses
I’m in town for a few days next week and would love to find someone open to coming to my hotel on Monday or Tuesday to letting a random stranger pleasure them with their mouth (and hands, and fingers, and any toys you want to bring and use)
I don’t need reciprocation. There’s no financial transaction or scam. Just a guy who absolutely loves the nonverbals, from foreplay to climax.
Hey! I’ve posted on here from time to time in the past, and although I I don’t post any success stories, I’ve had some past success on this thread. I’m hoping to find some more lovely ladies who are interested in being orally pampered and pleasured for a night or perhaps many nights :).
About Me: I’m a half/white asian male who loves to frequent the gym, and would say I’m of an fit/muscular body type. I’m very hygienic, ddf, vaccinated, and have been told I have a very cute face and am willing to verify! Although I may be a bit shy at first I’d say my personality leans towards being a sweet, little bit dorky, & rather playful comedian 😅
My reasons: I wouldn’t say I’m a lifestyle submissive, but perhaps lean submissive when it comes to sexual conduct. Ever since I was younger I have always found the female body to be truly mesmerizing and beautiful, and I find the act of orally pleasuring such beauty to be incredibly erotic & intimate ☺️. I like the idea of being with a woman who could just lay back, relax, and enjoy some oral spoiling while I do all the work to please her in whatever way she likes most.
Not looking for reciprocation, as I really do enjoy the act of giving and would rather the focus be on you. I’ve been told I am very talented and know what I’m doing, and have the passion, determination, and stamina to ensure that you are always satisfied.(Could go for hours if you’d let me 🥵)
Open to one-time encounters, but my ideal situation would likely be finding a person that I connect easily with, where we can enjoy each other’s desires in a continuous FWB scenario without any pressure 👌
If you’re interested or would like to chat further feel free to message me! Please be willing to verify as well!
Looking for a FWB situation centered around below. Ideally with an emphasis on both the F & the B. Not sure if that fits this sub 100%... oh well, sue me.
You: Sky high sex drive. You fantasize about a guy being completely addicted to eating you out, or at least think it sounds hot. I'm not just looking for "I like being eaten out" I'm looking for "I want 90% of my sex life to revolve around a guy's tongue being practically glued to my pussy". You like the idea of being able to automatically win pretty much any argument by letting me go down on you and plan on taking full advantage of it.
Me: Pretty much constantly wants to go down on you. I could eat you out for an hour and the hottest thing you could say to me after is "I want more". Will initiate frequently but also loves when you do. Goes from zero to so-turned-on-I-can-barely-function just from a text message about your pussy.
Other than that I'm a mostly normal human being with minimal baggage and my shit more or less together. You should be too. I'm some weird mix of science nerd, sports bro, outdoorsy type, and wise-ass. Hopefully that's somewhat appealing. Into traveling, live music, skiing, hiking. Social drinker but I'm mostly a lightweight nowadays. 5'7" reasonably attractive caramel skinned guy. I'd like to think I'm at least a half-decent human. Happy to exchange pics after chatting for a bit. Please be local-ish.
I would like to please a pussy with licking, sucking and eating, all the things that would turn you on. I'm cute, fit, and have an experienced tongue that would love to make you cum. I love all sorts of foreplay and I'm attracted to all shapes and sizes of women. I enjoy the excitement of meeting someone new, chatting a bit and playing. I hope to hear from you!
Hi all. I'm hoping to find a horny female who would like to meet up ( either your place or mine) be stripped naked, laid out on the bed. From there you will endure hours of your body being played with, teased and edged for ages till your begging to be able to cum. I have no time limit on this idea but I know that you will be left happily pleased, pleasured and exhausted. I'm not looking to take my clothes off, just more in it to please the girl. I'm 48, single, live alone and this is a rare occasion I have time to be able to do this that I have been wanting too for ages. I dont have any type of female in mind, can be any age, race ect. I just ask that you be clean, hygienic, easy going, friendly and up for some enjoyable fun. Send me a DM and we can chat about it more. Happy if you have ideas, thoughts or want to bring some toys along.
I’m 45, male, Indian, 6ft, hwp, clean, eager diver with proven skills. I’m staying at upscale hotel can host. I have extra ticket to Doja concert would love to take you along then back for diving or can meet only for diving and orgasms. No reciprocation needed. Let’s chat and set up.
Looking to provide a md to someone who needs/wants it. Im a giver kind of guy and love seeing the pleasure I give. Guide me and tell me what feels good and what doesn't. You are in complete control of what my mouth will do.
I don't expect reciprocation at all and it is all for you. I test regularly and can provide results if we get that far. Can be as discreet as you want it to be too.
Located an hour east of Pitt and willing to travel to you if it is reasonable distance. Age range 18-45 preferred. I've had success here before and those who allowed me the privilege to go down, loved it.
about me:
30M, 5'11", white, athletic build, clean shaven, clean hands, and clean mouth. No one wants krusty krabs lmao
Hey! Have had some success on these subreddits in the past (can verify upon request), and am giving this another shot and hoping to meet someone I have some natural chemistry with.
A little about me: I’m mixed race, fairly muscular, clean/hygienic, DDF, and happy to exchange photos and verify. Personality-wise, I’m affectionate, playful, pretty dorky, and have a sarcastic sense of humor. I’m in Los Angeles but don’t mind driving around SoCal for the right person.
I’m looking for a woman who really enjoys receiving oral that would appreciate someone who genuinely enjoys giving it. There’s no expectation of reciprocation as I’m perfectly happy keeping the focus on you :)
I’m open to different ages (21+), body types, and either something spontaneous or ongoing. A one-time encounter is totally fine, but ideally I’d love to find someone I click with for a comfortable, ongoing FWB situation.
If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. I’m Happy to exchange photos or verify over video.
ife got you down or stressed? I’d love help melt your stress away! Open to any shape color or size
I’m 26 from the west valley. Friendly and easygoing, completely clean, just looking to get a tongue workout and give out some O’s in the process. I’m 6’ 220 kinda Dad bod but also look like I’ve set foot in a gym. I wish I had something more profound to say but I just like to eat pussy so I’m seeking someone who’d let me worship them with my face between their legs.
I can’t host, if you can, great, if not I can get us a room
If this sounds like something you’d be interested in shoot me a message, tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for and we’ll set something up. I look forward to hearing from you! :)
I'm a 33 year old trans girl that really enjoys eating girls out but I feel like I haven't had much practice to get really good at it as much as I would like.
I can't host but can drive to you, and I don't expect anything in return. I just want to go down on you and improve my dining skills.
I'm white, 5'10, average build, and short brown hair. I'm into anime, video games, horror, and cosplay. I'd love to see if we vibe in general before making any plans.
The Toronto fall season is here and all you want is to feel warm, safe, and utterly spoiled.
Imagine you’re lying face down, completely relaxed. My hands are working out the tension in your back. You feel safe, spoiled, and cared for.
I ask you to turn over and then, the mood shifts.
This isn’t about a quick fix; it’s about a full sensory takeover. I’m a 30-year-old RMT, and I want to pour all my professional focus into your pleasure. I want to slide down between your legs and stay there. No reciprocation expected.
I want to worship you until your legs are shaking and you’ve forgotten your own name. No rushing. Just pure, focused devotion.
Me: An RMT who knows exactly what he’s doing , 5'9", Fit, Attractive, Clean/DDF.
You: 25+, Open-minded, and ready to be completely adored.
Let's connect if you’ve ever fantasized about the massage continuing after the towel drops.
When you message me, tell me what drives you wild.
I'm a 35 year old engineer in the East Orlando area (near UCF). 6'0 tall and 320lb (down over 120lbs since last year and more dropping!), Caucasian, and very importantly DDF, clean, and well groomed. I have SFW pictures per request of course.
The title says most of it, but in short, I'm seeking women that enjoy muff diving and am open to all types. Also, I'm willing to accommodate any needs or wants and I don't judge.
I'm super nerdy if there are any folks into that (Sapiosexuals). If dedsired, I'm also a huge cuddle fan, and am alcohol/smoker friendly.
I live a nice private life by myself in a house, so hosting is easy for me but I am also willing to travel within an hour or so of the UCF/Oviedo area. I do not do car play however.
Looking for someone round Manchester for regular/semi regular fun. Cure your Monday blues without the need for reciprocation. Im mainly looking for someone who wants a relaxed afternoon or daytime. I’m not fussed about age and I just hope you’re good to chat to first. If this sounds interesting to you then send me a message.
Nothing helps me relax more than filling the air with moans and that delightful taste of pussy. I want you to lie back, tell me how you like it while you grab my hair and grind your hips. I’ve had a few successful meetups on here years ago but I think we’re all due for another one!
Open to every lady of every shape, size, status and choice of body hair. All I ask is that you’re clean and honest. Willing to discuss logistics and location, scheduling and of course, how often!
Tell me your favorite color so I know you’re real!
Hello. I know there are a million posts here from men in every specific place looking to dive on your muff, and I can respect that. I'm under no delusion that I can easily make my post stand out. So if you've stumbled on mine through blind chance, or if something about the title caught your eye, I thank you for stopping by. Now, let me tell you why I'm going to be the best muff diver you've ever had.
I LOVE this. Dare I say that I was born to do this. This is, somehow, what I was made for. It's not just the skill. I think lots of guys have some skill, especially these days. And it's not just the enjoyment. Though I know it's probably far too few, I know many men enjoy this as much as I do.
Is it the combination, somehow? Possibly. But at the risk of exposing myself, I think that it's my *obsession* with muff diving that makes me the best. I CRAVE it. Every single day, I want it. (Note that I don't DO it every single day, but I would.)
The scent? Drives me absolutely insane. The taste? The feel? Makes me feral. I LOVE getting messy while doing this. Honestly I feel like an animal whose survival instinct tells me to eat pussy for as long as the other person wants/can take.
I'm also respectful and not an idiot. I will strive for your orgasm, hopefully more than one, but if it's not happening and you want to stop, I'm totally there with you. I'm all about your boundaries and expectations and making you feel as comfortable as you can be. I'm also smart and funny, so, you know, I won't be dull or awkward.
I hope you give me a chance to do this for you. I guarantee you a good time, and I always have one myself.