r/dirtyr4r • • 12d ago

October 2026 - Revised Dirty4r rules and posting requirements, FAQs and how to spot a catfish guide! NSFW

2 Upvotes

UPDATE - DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.



The rest of the rules - please go through to refresh yourself. If you were directed here by a mod you should definitely go through this before sending us a reply.

RULES OF r/DIRTYR4R

SELLING

Selling posts are not allowed on r/dirtyr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.

If you do interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.

FREQUENCY OF POSTS

12 hours is the minimum amount of time between posts. Posting more often will result in your post being removed and subsequently may result in a ban. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation of this rule. Furthermore, ban evaders will be reported to Reddit admins.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

From the sidebar

> Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the OP banned right away. Users reported for doing so within personal PMs, alongside proof will be banned as well.

GENDER TAGS

Please remember to tag your post titles correctly so that it doesn't get user reports. M4F means that you are a Male who is looking for(4) a Female.

SAFETY FIRST!

Meeting someone IRL after you made a post? Remember to stay safe! Check out some match.com tips on how to have a successful date: https://www.match.com/help/safetytips.aspx

Not all dates happen in person, some can take place within PM's and/or other messaging services. Be smart and avoid sharing personal information right off the bat. Furthermore, check your profile history to ensure you have not shared any personal information in the past that may be traceable to your IRL self. Keep in mind that holds true for both parties; someone refusing to send a picture of themselves does not always mean they are catfishing.

If you do encounter a problematic PM hit that report button and block that user. Send the mods a PM with a screenshot so that we can take action against troublemakers.



JOIN THE DIRTYR4R CHAT!

As some of you may have realized, we quietly introduced a dirtyr4r chat a little while ago. This is a chat based system that allows users to cam up and interact with other dr4r's. It's a fantastic and dynamic way to meet new people! Too shy to cam? No worries, it's still as fun. Click here to check it out right away!

Please report violations to any of these rules either via Mod Mail or by hitting the report button underneath a post.

COMMENTING ETIQUITTE

There is absolutely no reason for you to comment things like "PM", "Check your Inbox", "PM me" on posts. If you've sent a message, great! Now just sit back, relax and enjoy because the other user has received a notification. In fact it is less likely that they will even talk to you now. "If I see that you are repeatedly spamming this I will be giving out temp bans with possibilities of perma bans as well" - u/ScrewYourDriver.



Are you active here and have suggestions or requests? Message the Mods!


r/dirtyr4r • • 7d ago

[/r/dirtyr4r live chat] 36 pervs, 4 on cam -- Welcome to dirtyr4r! Cam up, have fun, & be nice! NSFW

Thumbnail icanhazchat.com
2 Upvotes

r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 24 [F4M] Charlotte - adore it when a man gets obsessed with me and ofc he will be horney NSFW

28 Upvotes

blonde with large tit and hips. favorite thing is making a guy crave me till he cant think of anything else. love being told im wanted and sending spicy photos. want u to think only of me all day


r/dirtyr4r • • 5h ago

female [F4M] 18 UK/Online - Please use me while my boyfriend is away. NSFW

28 Upvotes

As the title suggests, I want to be fucked and used like the total bimbo slut I am behind my boyfriends back while he’s away. Hoping a nice strong man old enough to be my dad could fix all my problems and treat me like the good girl I am. I’m feeling really slutty and wet today so your help would be very much appreciated. I like all men, muscular or skinny, age I don’t mind but honestly the older the better. I’m 5’3, blonde, quite petite but a nice waist and round ass with perky tits. I’ll be your obedient little slut for an hour or two and possibly we can be fuckbuddies, or, in my case, a hole for you to use whenever you need to relieve some stress. Please tell me your age when you message me and what intrigued you about my post. As you can tell I love the ddlg dynamic but I also love being degraded and told how filthy and slutty I am, as well as being bred and told what a good girl I am. Don’t really have many limits other than the usual toilet stuff. So if this post interests you and you need a good girl to sit on your lap and gargle on your cock until you shoot hot ropes all over my face then definitely give me a message!

Oh and please include in your post something about you, what you’re into, bonus points if you actually show me yourself tho it’s not required. Something other than the regular “hey how are you?” Kinda messages. Can’t wait to hear from you, daddy! Mwah


r/dirtyr4r • • 29m ago

female 27 [F4M] Cali -I'm married but love to flirt with my fellow married horny strangers since my hubby won't NSFW

• Upvotes

I don't care if you have a wife, I have a husband too, let flirt together


r/dirtyr4r • • 8h ago

female [f4m] [24] #germany #online cum in me, pretty please? NSFW

46 Upvotes

hellouuuu party people \\\\\\\~

so, listen.

i got new meds. and i can cum again and i have a libido and thats great - but im also very lonely tonight and i wish there was someone here with me to assist me a little if you catch my drift

i only date women irl

but man

i have a breeding kink

things are rough out here

i just want to be pumped full of cum tonight

and to be held and told that im going to be a mommy

i would really, really like that

ps: id like to stay on reddit chat and i dont do pictures, sorry :)


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 20 [F4M] Indianapolis - my fantasy is show my pssy to random men NSFW

• Upvotes

im embarrassed to send nudes to my own man. but hiding my pssy from unknown men drives me wild. no shame with them so i get so aroused


r/dirtyr4r • • 47m ago

female 22 [F4M] Charlotte - the best thrill is sharing my pssy with men i never met NSFW

• Upvotes

could never be that bold in person. yet showing my pssy to total strangers is my thing. they wont judge me and it makes me soaked


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 20 [F4M] Sydney - need a man to tell me how deep he would go NSFW

• Upvotes

get soaked thinking about depth and fullness. need u to describe what u would do in detail. make me feel it


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 27[F4M]Salt Lake City - ex mormon wife on my knees pic NSFW

• Upvotes

kneeling on the bedroom floor in a thong and nothing else, hair down, hands on my thighs. took the pic on a self timer.

reply here and i'll send it over. want a man who will absolutely not be nice about it.


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 26 [F4M] Los Angeles - getting off on showing my pssy to strangers is my top dream NSFW

12 Upvotes

irl im timid and wouldnt even flash my guy. but i melt showing my pssy to men who dont know me. no judging so i feel free and so wet


r/dirtyr4r • • 4h ago

female 22 [F4A] #netherlands tell me about your taboo story NSFW

12 Upvotes

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For some reason or another it has always been incredibly hot for me to hear peoples real sexual toughts. And I don't mean the toughts you share with your friends but the things you keep for yourself. Maybe you once had a taboo sexual encounter with your teacher, your boss or your best friend? I would love to know and chat about it, whoever it is!

So if you had some taboo story or fantasize about someone, I would love to hear it and I hope we can have a lovely chat about it :)

Don't be afraid to share your toughts with me I'm very open-minded and everyone is welcome :)

When you dm me please introduce yourself first so I know who you are :)


r/dirtyr4r • • 4h ago

female 21 [F4M] Brisbane - need a man dom, i wanna be your dolly NSFW

14 Upvotes

need somebody in charge everywhere. take the lead and i will naturally follow. crave a strong hand


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

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11 Upvotes

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r/dirtyr4r • • 7h ago

female 18 [F4M] - England - Online - Tipsy British uni student wants to suck a bunch of big cocks! NSFW

21 Upvotes

Hey there, so I haven’t really planned how I’m gonna write this out so I apologise if this comes across as a little bit of a ramble but try and go with it haha. Anyway, I’m an 18 year old British girl called Emily who goes to university, and I’m a little bit (a lot) tipsy. Anyway, this is the last thing I would normally post as I can be quite reserved and a good girl most of the time, but the drink kinda changes that.

As for my appearance, I’m a pale blonde girl, long blonde hair most of the way down my back. I have blue eyes, a few freckles on my face, soft lips, sorry now I probably sound weird. I keep myself in good shape but am very naturally busty with a big round arse. I guess you could call me a pawg. God it’s embarrassing describing myself like that haha. I’m shaved, I have a navel piercing and I think that’s about it.

Sorry I know this probably doesn’t make a lot of sense but as you can probably tell from the title of the post, when I’ve had a few drinks I have a big thing for sucking on cocks. Well at least fantasising about it. Big, fat, juicy cocks, big balls. I sound like such a slut, shit haha but I can’t help it. It’s not something my friends know I keep it to myself but this is a bit more anonymous I guess. Older men too, like I know it sounds bad but guys like twice my age are really, really hot. I’d love to suck a bunch of big, juicy older dicks at once. Milk them all dry, have them all cum for me. On my face… in my mouth, on my tits… I’ve watched a bunch of porn of it too. Blowbangs I think it’s called. Only when I’m kinda drunk but yeah haha. I am now so you guys are in luck.

I’m not in the right headspace to roleplay as I’d probably lose track haha so I’d rather keep it to more of a conversation, so if that’s good with you feel free to message me. Tell me your age, and put a little effort in. I don’t expect an essay but a little effort goes a long way. Sorry if I don’t reply as I know I’ll probably get swamped with messages but I’ll do my best.

My limits are scat, gore, death, blood, animals and underage.

😘


r/dirtyr4r • • 13m ago

female 23 [F4M] Charlotte - #online im at school rn but i cant focus to my lesson bcs i just think about naughty things and its makes me so wet i need back to my bed rn NSFW

• Upvotes

school is honestly dull and unbearable. maybe i can go home if i found brave boys come on, turned me on and make me come home. if you can make it, it might be a surprise for u


r/dirtyr4r • • 34m ago

female [ Removed by Reddit ] NSFW

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r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 20 [F4M] Charlotte - I am your nextdoor girl and I need to hear about the dreams you have about me. NSFW

8 Upvotes

sweet and friendly to everybody. but alone i am so needy. need a stranger to unlock it. be the one i can be honest with


r/dirtyr4r • • 8h ago

female 38[F4M]Phoenix AZ - older woman craving daily texts with a younger man NSFW

22 Upvotes

38, latina, 5'5, curvy (dd chest, thick hips, softer middle), long dark wavy hair, olive skin. i'm affectionate, playful, and lowkey needy through text when i click with someone.

i've been solo a while and honestly i just want a younger man 22-32 to text me every day like i'm his girl. tell me good morning, tell me you're thinking about me at lunch, complain about your boss at 5. i'll be soft and warm back i promise.

i'm open to being your online older woman... teaching, spoiling with attention, being dirty for you eventually when it feels right. i can be very very soft but very not-innocent when i trust a man.

send me a chat if you want it and i'll send a pic of me from tonight


r/dirtyr4r • • 9m ago

female 19 [f4m] london- fwb NSFW

• Upvotes

I'm looking for fwb or one-time fun online.


r/dirtyr4r • • 10h ago

female 34 [F4M]PA - rate my nipples, reply for a shot NSFW

34 Upvotes

italian, milfy, 36d saggy real tits, huge dark puffy nipples that get rock hard in two seconds... i want to know if they're the good kind of puffy or the weird kind. brutal is fine. send me a chat if you want it.


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

trans 21 [T4M] #Germany / online looking to chat with dom guy NSFW

7 Upvotes

hii, 21yo kinky tgirl looking to chat with a dom guy about anything really 🤭
We can chat normally, or we can be more flirty, or you can tell me what you think of me, insult me and tell what you want to do with me if that’s more your style 🙈

I would love to get to know somebody to chat with regularly / long term :)

About me I‘m 21, 5‘10, white, I‘ve been transitioning for 1.5 years and I‘m into a lot of stuff


r/dirtyr4r • • 8h ago

female 30 [F4A] BC Canada / #Online - Inexperienced German born girl who's been single all my life just being curious NSFW

22 Upvotes

Hello my name is Ivory but you can call me Ivy!

Despite being 30 I've never been in a serious relationship and only had sex a handful of times. So I'm looking for someone to get my feelings out at

Some Facts about me: I am 6' 1" and 112Lbs

I am diagnosed with an severe eating disorder so I'm hoping some praise may help me feel better about my body

I have chronic crippling anxiety that may make me seem a Little adverse and distant at first I love showing off photos of myself.

In a sfw sense: I love art, I work a sad dead end job. I love photography of myself and I have a cat.

Now for the NSFW: i tend to be very subby when I get comfortable giving up control. I am a little and often do regress when in the mood. I have cnc and taking advantage kinks but only once I'm comfortable.

I love showing off as I absolutely melt at praise and it makes me very happy.

Alright fair warning I'm not super experienced since I've only had sex 2 times my entire life

I'm looking to find someone who can truely control me phtsxially and mentally. Put me in my place and make me do things I never thought I could in and out of the bedroom. And I'd like a better release of my pent up hypersexuality

I also have a huge turn on for showing off my body to others and having them praise me

If that's your style I'm down to chat please hit me up! Feel free to make it wordy so I know who I am getting to know

Iman conversation first type of person. I think it's important to know each other for an enjoyable and safe experience

Interests passtimes kinks. Anything really


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 21 [F4M] Sydney - #online need a man obsessed with my tit and hips NSFW

10 Upvotes

im thick and i adore it. want a guy who worships every inch. tell me how much u want this body and i will melt


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

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8 Upvotes

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