r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 4d ago

Weekly Meta Thread

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Please use this thread for anything not specifically for making friends. Rants, comments, etc all welcome. Follow all sub rules.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • Jul 03 '26

New rule: No minors allowed starting June 5, 2026

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It’s July 5. Typo My bad.

A major change in this sub is set to happen at 12:01am UTC Sunday, July 5. The new rule will replace rule 13. All minors, those under 18, will *NOT* be allowed to participate in this sub. This is for the safety of everyone participating. If you are under the age of 18, please utilize teen friend-finding subs.

For clarity:

Q: Can minors make posts? A: No.

Q: Can minors comment? A: No.

Q: But it’s just to make a friend, there’s nothing nsfw or anything. A: Doesn’t matter, you cannot participate. You will be banned.

Q: If I was previously banned for breaking rule 13, can I be reinstated? A: No.

Q: What if I don’t post my age? A: You must post your age. Any posts without ages will be removed.

Q: Do comments need to include ages? A: No, they don’t.

Q: Since it’s adults only, we can now have a nsfw post or comment history or post nsfw stuff here, right? A: No, that’s still against rule 2.

Q: I’m a minor. Will you keep my previous posts and comments up? A: Yes.

Thank you for your cooperation!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 1h ago

Age 18-21 21f - do men genuinely want friends?

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hey! i think i posted a lot here the past few weeks and out of the hundred dms i received, i have made like 2 good friends. men tend to gravitate towards sexxting after a good conversation. why is that?


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 7h ago

hey guys. i made a post earlier, and i’d like to follow up on it.

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this group does not get enough credit.
up until today, my experience was the same. men and women alike, trying to sell nudies, acquire mine, or just be disgusting. literally
today.. wow. the outpour of messages i received. KIND messages. people who truly wanted to help a stranger.
i’ve been going through the hardest time of my life, one of them. and you guys!!! you guys!! at least 100 people reached out. 99% of them were fuckinf wonderful people. kind people, sweet people. the people we need more of in this world. so if we chatted today, thank you. you instilled faith back in to me, there are good people out there.
there are amazing people in this group! i send blessing to every one!! ♥️ keep your head up!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 5h ago

Age 22-25 ✨22F alt looking for people who can match my energy who’d like to be friends (possibly find my new bff) ^^ ✨

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💫HIII! I’m Lulu, as the title says im lookin for friends! I’m a pretty down to earth person once you get to know me but i can also be very hyper and high energy at times so do keep that in mind if you do contact me 😭

🌟Alil bit about me: I love gaming, right now my main games are terraria, monster hunter, roblox, marvel rivals and genshin though thats not all i play. I’m a big music person, I love lady gaga, charli xcx, alex g, sematary and bunch of japanese shoegaze bands. I love watching shows/ movies, main ones are adventure time, ninjago and a tonnnn of anime.

⭐️A huge true crime person! I like to study cases n stuff (not in a weird idolization way) I’ve always been interested in studying these kinda things and have built a whole buncha knowledge on this kinda stuff 😭

✨Anime wise my top favorites are Jojo’s bizarre adventure, Tokyo ghoul, Initial D, JJK, Air gear and FLCL. I’ve watched hundreds but those are my main faves. I also read manga from time to time but haven’t rlly had the time to do so.

🌠My favorite movie of all time is paranoid park! I also love trying new hobbies, my main hobbies are making music, baking and drawing but I’m always open to trying new hobbies, I love picking up new skills though sometimes i burn myself out 🫩.

💕Thank you for reading this and i wish you all the best of luck on here 🙏 Feel free to DM if any of this resonates with you AND please dm with something more than just “hey, hi, wyd etcc”


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 6h ago

Age 18-21 18F just broke up with my boyfriend :’(

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little about me ~ I’m 18, in uni, from the USA, and i’m from the EST area :3

Some things i enjoy are: listening to music, playing games ( genshin, dbd, minecraft, fortnite etc), watching anime & thriller shows, cooking, hanging with friends, makeup, and chatting!!!

I’m mostly looking for friends that love chatting 24/7, are clingy, and aren’t super busy. I’d love to make meaningful connectionss !! ♡


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 3h ago

Age 30-39 30f looking for chat and distract me

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Anxious and need company

Hello. I’d like to chat whilst I try and distract myself from…well, you know how that goes. If you’re intelligent, enjoy deep convos and can distract me without being creepy about it - I’d like to hear from you


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 3h ago

Long-term 35YO English guy - I love the rush you get when you vibe with someone and you're waiting for the next notification. I'd love long term friends from around the world! From India to Italy, Philippines to Peru, Czechia to Canada, Australia to Austria, you get the idea, all over the world is fun! :)

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TL:DR - I like yapping with people and I think I'm pretty lovely, though I am a bit biased. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, so message me and maybe we get on well? :D

Pretty much title! I have a cold and just feel a bit rough, its super early here and I woke up to go to the toilet, made the terrible mistake of checking my phone and now I'm just laying awake regretting my life choices that have led to me being unable to sleep despite being unwell at 6.30am. Sooooooo, I thought I'd post so I can at least pass the time until I pass out/give up the sleep ghost and go about my day. Location doesn't matter, part of the charm of internet friends is meeting folks that I'd not meet day to day but I'd like long term friends, a long time vibe is the goal as opposed to just one off or short convos

As for myself, I work from home doing a travel insurance job, its mostly mid, but its full WFH and that saves it. My big interest is travel, my wallet hates me so much for it. I've been to Philippines/Singapore/Malaysia over two Asia trips, a lot of Europe as well as Jamaica and Canada. Last year I did Istanbul, Portugal and a Norway cruise, plus a Asia trip. Visited Serbia, Madrid and Poland this year then Budapest on friday next week! I have a cruise with family next year to Greece/Turkey/Malta and a friends wedding in Greece and I'm hoping maybe Asia or Africa next year, fundds permitting, I'm always down for trip buddies so if we vibe I'm in! Beyond that, I'm a pretty keen reader, plus the usual smattering of videogames/sports watching/tv shows/gym (but mostly to offset meals out and a problematic keenness for chocolate). I live at the edge of a town and some of the walks are lovely here too. I've dabbled with painting, taken up and dropped the piano a few times (I used to play when I was younger and was decent and sometimes get the urge to play again).

I always prefer a bit of closure, if we've spoke for a while and your situation changes and you won't be chatting anymore, I hate the ghostly exit, if its early on then fair can't vibe with everyone, but if we've spoke for a while I always feel disappearing is a bit of poor form, but its the internet so it happens.

In terms of where to talk, I do prefer to move to apps, I use most of the usual ones but staying here is fine too if necessary. Include your basic details in your message, the usual about me stuff is fine, don't feel the need to match the rambling essay above! :)


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 1h ago

Hi who up and what to talk to me

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Hi 40 f sitting here watching TV who up and what to talk to me in usa bored cold outside tonight just me and my cat's


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 9h ago

Age 22-25 23f - I’m on here way too much, but I have no life so/lets chat!

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Hi! Im a 23 year old college student. I’m going to school for film but don’t assume I’ve see a lot of movies, because surprisingly I have not lol.

I basically just work and go to school online. I don’t do much at all really. I’ve tried a lot of different hobbies but none of them have really stuck.

I’ve tried knitting, crocheting, coloring, video games, reading, playing piano, playing guitar, etc

I think my next activity or hobby is archery 🏹
Hopefully I like it.

Anyways that’s a little bit about me. Tell me a bit about you and your asl when you message. Oh! And come with a topic of conversation, so we arent just “wyd” all day. Thanks :)

(also if you’ve messaged me before and I didn’t answer, feel free to message me again, I like to clean out my inbox lol)


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 1h ago

Age 18-21 20f just need someone to listen and be there

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i’m in a really dark place and i don’t have anyone to turn to, i feel like nothing i say carry’s weight or means anything. everyone i used to think cared about me turn out to be bad ppl who aren’t here anymore, im so alone, i wanna disappear and i know i gave more potential but my health issuers isolate me from the world. or being able to function. i’m so tired of being in the hospital


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 17h ago

33F | Can we normalize friendships that don’t expire after 72 hours?

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Seriously, why is making friends as an adult harder than finding a decent parking spot at Walmart? I’m married, and looking for strictly platonic friendships with people who actually enjoy having conversations and getting to know someone.

A little about me: I work way too much, but I make time for people who matter. I love being outdoors, hiking, watching movies, laughing at the dumbest things honestly. My humor is questionable, my music taste is all over the place, and sarcasm is practically my second language.

I’m looking for random messages, ridiculous memes, good conversations, playful banter, and someone who can go from talking complete nonsense to having a deep conversation at 2 AM. If you’re going to disappear after two days, save us both the trouble. I’m not asking for constant attention, just genuine effort and consistency.

Skip the boring “hey” and tell me something interesting about yourself, your most controversial harmless opinion, or a song you’ll defend until your last breath. Bonus points if you can make me laugh. Let’s see if we can make a friendship last longer than a free trial.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 44m ago

Age 22-25 25F houston just wanting a new bestie

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FIRST THINGS FIRST I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND IM HAPPY WITH HIM if your cool with that hi I'm hoping to find a genuine best friend who's looking for a long-term friendship.

A little about me: I'm plus size, a total night owl, and I love anything crafty. I enjoy gaming, movie nights, music, board games, and I'm trying to get out and do more. One of my favorite things is hopping in the car for random late-night drives—sometimes I'll decide on a whim to drive to Galveston just to enjoy the ride and clear my head.

I'm a little shy at first, but once I'm comfortable, I can talk for hours. I'd love to find someone who enjoys spontaneous adventures, late-night conversations, sending memes and TikToks, grabbing food, exploring new places, or even just hanging out doing nothing.

I'm looking for someone who wants a genuine, long-term friendship and is willing to put in the same effort I do. If you're also a night owl, that's a huge plus!

If you think we'd get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I just want something to do lol


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 6h ago

Age 26-29 26 F looking to make friends or gaming buddies

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A hit about me I’m from the west coast in California, I play a mix of games and platforms. I play Xbox pc and switch 2. I love elder scrolls online and play cs2 quite often I also enjoy drinking and texting. I don’t like ghosters so if you’re gonna ghost don’t hmu I’m just tryna make some friends. I also use discord more since Reddit kills my battery so I’m always open to text there


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 4h ago

Age 26-29 26m cool guy (me) looking for cool friends (you)

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Nice Australian gentleman here. I'm looking to meet you new friends on the internet. I'm a pretty chill and casual guy. Likes the usual stuff. Gaming, movies, going outside every now and then. I'm really bad at introducing myself so I'll just give you some fun fact dot points

• I have an identical twin (you can't see him you just have to trust me)

• I can't swim. But I still love long walks on the beach

• I was once mistaken for Penn Badgely by old ladies. But everyone since has disagreed strongly with this (though I'm on the old ladies side

• I can do 25 pushups in a row. Probably more if you put a gun to my head

• I'm 5'11 but I tell people I'm 6'1


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 2h ago

Age 22-25 24m the time has come once again to find a new specimen

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hello. im scott (24m). and if you're reading this post. you may just be my new specimen. i look forward to testing the theory...
anyway i play a lot of weird games and think about life a lot and if that sounds like it could be potentially your vibe, dive into the dms dolphin style. im here to meet those who feel very open to talking about anything and truly wish to connect. sending these posts out in the hopes that a RARE fish or perhaps a crusteacean will bite the hook and win the jackpot. except like i probably won't eat you and it will be mutually beneficial. we'll be cohabitating crustaceans, you and i. except you're also my specimen. okay thats all i got for you, say hi (or more, if you are so inclined) and we'll see if the vibe is right


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 5h ago

Age 18-21 19F need more online friends:)

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Hi everyone, just looking for people to talk to (preferably U.S. based). I like talking about anything like games, tv, animals, our likes, dislikes, literally anything. I'm down to get to know you and be friends, or even just casual short-term convo.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 9h ago

Age 26-29 29 f, searching for a friend to be friends with

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Looking for friends

29 female looking for platonic adult friendships with guys who are patient, kind, genuine, understanding. I want somebody who actually wants to talk to me and actually invest time and energy in the friendship. I want somebody who matches my energy. I want somebody who is actually emotionally attuned and empathetic. And most importantly I just want someone who actually cares about their friends and actually chooses their friends carefully and actually chooses their words. I want somebody who actually makes me feel seen and remembered instead of like an afterthought. I want a friend who actually wants me a part of their life and doesn't let life get in the way of the friendship. And one more thing I believe in relationship repair because we are human not robots who are perfect every single time. I don't want a friendship where I constantly have to walk on eggshells or watch everything I say because you'll just cut me off if I cross your boundaries or whatever. So if you're the kind of friend looking for the same thing as I am feel free to message. I'm looking for something actually long-lasting, deep and meaningful. And somebody who won't be afraid of my emotional intensity, somebody who will appreciate me for the good and bad parts of me and won't run away at the first sign of conflict. I also have trust issues so please let's take it slowly. I don't want to be bombarded with questions ask me if you're truly curious. otherwise let's just take it slow.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 35m ago

Age 26-29 27M - Looking for new friends here

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Not feeling the best so hoping to look for new friends to make long term. I appreciate mutual effort and respect. Happy to learn about you and what you're into. Perhaps we could hang out too with a game or movie if things click between us.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 10h ago

Age 18-21 21F I'm up late and I wanna yap with someone!!

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I love gaming, and music/musicals, im playing zzz right now but tbh I'd just like to get to know someone, especially over discord if you're not weird!!

20-28 pls:P

If we hit it off maybe we could hang out more!!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 5h ago

Age 22-25 24 F, Where are the spooky people? 👻

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Hi I'm from California, I love horror films, the paranormal, and rock and metal music. I saw a great concert last week and ive been dying to talk about it! 🤘 I am often fixated on some album or band at any given time.

I am married, looking for platonic friendships where we can play games, talk about music, movies or anything else. I have plenty of time and im down to get to know anyone, but please have a taste for the macabre! 🖤

No provocative dms please and thank you. 🙏


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 3h ago

Age 26-29 29 f looking for a voice chat to end my night !

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I’ve been hard at work all day and got home to more things to do :’) after all of that I’m finally ready to unwind and it would be nice to have someone to chat with!

I’m an artist by trade and I absolutely love my job. Current special interest are reading, gaming and cooking. Ask for pictures of my cats!

Shoot me a message and see if we vibe :)


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 8h ago

Age 18-21 18f east Russian goth who’s vibing with Siberian tigers.

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Your favorite animal will say a lot about you.
And please don't text me if you're going to be accepted into the nursing home soon.

Let’s be friends.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 9h ago

Age 18-21 21f, HEY YOU🤨🫵🏽 let’s be friends !!

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I have like 3 assignments due tonight and I’m in like the worst possible mood😭 I swear it’s like the universe is plotting against my happiness

SOOO that being said I’m in major need of a ✨fun, uplifting convo ✨

ANYWAYS putting my emotional instability aside 🥲 …

Some things that I really enjoy include pretty much anything horror related, it soothes my soul 👻

I also love love love music (send me your playlists immediately), thrifting and visual arts 🎨 which I’m actually in school for rn :p

Message me if you feel like🤧 and keep me company while I do my assignments


r/MakeNewFriendsHere • • 9h ago

Age 30-39 33M Looking for some new friends!

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Hey future friends!

I'm Matt, 33/M from North Carolina. I live alone with my 2 doggos. Due to being out of work currently for medical reasons, I have a lot of free time on my hands while I'm treated and seek employment. I spend the majority of my time spending it with my girlfriend or enjoying my hobbies.

Some things I'm into are:

  • Gaming
  • Technology
  • Film (incl. collecting movies)
  • Cooking
  • Working with my hands.

Shoot me a chat if you think we'd be good friends!