Lonely, melancholic, deeply passionate young man, with an endless desire of feeling alive.

I consider myself somewhat antisocial, and often feel like merely a guest in this society. I've never felt as if I belonged anywhere (especially as i have been moving around a lot since childhood), so instead I am desperately searching for the person I could belong to. Naturally, fetish plays a part in it, but I want someone I can enjoy this bleak existence together with, a companion for travel, learning, and all the other things I love. Behind every successful wife there should be a husband like me.

Kinks:
I am into most things femdom related, and tried much of it before. Some of my favorite things are anal training, chastity, humiliation, light fem, pet play and 24/7 / TPE. My hard limits include forced bi, sounding, severe cbt,anything permanent and pet play.

Thank you for reading.
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Photos of me on my page! I can verify I’m me as well and have a verified Fetlife profile.

I’m a white male with a very muscular toned body, 5’10, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes and I suppose you’d say very conventionally attractive. I can provide full photos that include my face once I know someone is serious about a real, in person relationship. I make a good salary in tech, I work remotely and can travel often.

Please note that I’m only looking for someone skinny/slim. I am not into men or trans people, nothing against it but it’s not my thing so don’t waste your time.

First, as I mentioned, I’m open to relocating the right person in time if we’re a great match. Yes, I realize distance makes things a little harder in the beginning, but it’s not hard to plan to book a flight to see eachother a few times and I’m definitely open to relocating someone after we really form a connection. When you’re into extreme forms of kink, I believe you have to be open to the fact that your perfect person may live far away and it’s worth the effort and time to meet.

I’m looking for a long term, committed relationship with a slave. Please do not reach out if you just want to sext or just treat this like a kink in the bedroom. This is a full lifestyle for me. This all needs to be consensual of course and I don’t expect us to jump right into the crazier kinks right away, it takes time, trust and connection to get there.

For the sexual side of things, this isn’t really for the feint of heart… I’m looking for someone who wants to be broken down mentally and physically, abused, dehumanized, objectified, essentially turned into just a cocksleeve and a cute little house pet that I can use whenever I need you. I want to bully you, interrupt you mid sentence and tell you to shut up and suck my cock, telling you sweetly that nobody cares what you have to say anyway and use you as a footrest when I’m done with your throat. Some days you’ll be sitting in your dog cage, soaked in piss and cum and wondering when I’ll come back in to use you. Other days you’ll be cooking, cleaning, ready at all times for me to take a break from work and jerk off into your mouth like you’re just an object. You’ll have strict rules in your daily life and I’ll control everything about you from what you wear, how you speak, what you do, what you eat (which will all be from a dog bowl at my feet), quite literally everything. This is definitely for those that like extremes within kink, or who want that eventually. This would be real slavery in every sense, not just kink or light play. So if you have extreme, very taboo and incredibly crazy kinks, are not afraid of genuine mental, physical and emotional abuse, extreme misogyny, female inferiority, gross kinks, whatever it may be, please reach out! Trust me, there are absolutely no limits whatsoever here.

On the other side of things, I need real romance. I enjoy the dichotomy of having that romantic side of it all as well and want a real, committed relationship with my slave. Some nights our relationship may look like watching movies and playing games while you sit in your cage, it might be loving and sweet and we’ll be having wine and celebrating something while slow music plays, going out for cocktails, joking around, traveling abroad together, being dorks and other times it might just be harshly disciplining you for not having my breakfast ready and your mouth on my cock for my morning piss. I need someone genuine who can have a loving relationship while also knowing they’re owned as property and a slave.

If you’re serious about being a slave and actual property and truly making this happen, especially if you have more taboo and extreme desires, I’d love to hear from you! Please don’t just say “hi”, but send a message describing you, your age, your location, a physical description or photo of you, and tell me what you’re looking for.

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Ignore the profile pic LMFAO it’s kuromi. Post below:
Hi!! First off sorry if this is too wordy or a lot, this is my first time jumping into the deep end like this so I wanna make sure I don’t end up hating it later.

My birthday is coming up (24), and I was trying to think of what I wanted. And honestly, I want the same experience from sex that all my friends rave about and I never understood.

I don’t know if it’s asexual and I just don’t realize it, or if it’s a medical condition like HSDD, or just me having severe anhedonia and depression, but I don’t feel pleasure from anything sexual. Porn? It’s fine, but doesn’t get me going going. Same with erotica, anything adjacent. Masturbating is meh at best and unpleasant at worst. Orgasms (which I think I am having) feel like barely anything, it literally feels less enjoyable than eating your favorite food.

I don’t know if I’m just broken or a robot or what, but it sucks because when I first learned sex was a thing a year ish ago (yes I’m autistic can’t you tell LOL), I was like… huh. Orgasms and masturbation, THIS is what everyone is so excited about and says it’s this big o, the thing people literally get addicted to… and yet it feels like nothing to me.

So I write this with not much hope. I doubt much can actually be done by a single person, and not a gyno or something, but I digress. I look at subs like fucktoyfactory or barbieacademy or even girlscontrolled, forced orgasms, or sapphicsexualityplay and so many of the stuff on here I’m like “damn that looks like it would feel amazing”, but I doubt I could do that. I mean, I’m so ambivalent to sex in general. Like people have told me “wow you really don’t get aroused at all? That must suck for you” and I’m like, no not really, because I just don’t care. I have other stuff I’d rather do anyways, so it doesn’t matter.

But part of me wants someone to disregard that. Even though I’m into women and (more than likely) a lesbian, for some reason I always have this recurring fantasy of an older man knowing he knows better than me, seeing a smart nerdy college student and wanting me to be dumb and braindead, to overwhelm me with all the pleasure I can experience that I get addicted to the feeling and ditch everything else. Like a complete 180 in who I am. To go from not caring if I ever have sex to needing to cum every hour.

It seems so impossible, and is likely just a stupid fantasy thing, but I wanted to at least post to see if experienced ppl in this whole thing have seen this before and would be up to the challenge of “corrupting” and converting me to go from likely asexual lesbian with zero interest in sex to thinking about it constantly. I think it would take a lot of conditioning and gentleness (bc I hate rough stuff and that’s almost a surefire way to scare me off), but firm too, pushing my boundaries in a way I don’t even realize they’ve been eroded. For example, the thought of ever meeting up with someone for real and doing this seems so terrifying, but then maybe this kind but firm older man breaks down my walls and all of a sudden I find myself meeting up with a man twice my age being forced to cum over and over.

I hope this went into enough detail to give people a picture of what I mean, but feel free to ask more or anything like it. It’s midterm season so I am rlly busy but yea.

tldr: hot, young, overthinking 24-year-old sub in NYC looking for a guy to court her kindly and ruin her thoroughly

Me on the surface: I'm 5'10, blonde, and slim/somewhat fit (32DD). If you have a thing for tall blondes, you won't be disappointed. I work in PR/Marketing and will complain and gush about my job in equal measure. Outside of work, I love to read, I love golden retrievers, and I will drag you on West Side Highway walks at sunset (you're welcome).

What I'm looking for: A tall (above 6'1 to the front of the line), somewhat handsome, somewhat fit, 24-38 year old guy in NYC. I want a partner to enjoy Sunday brunch with, provided I spent all of Saturday tied to your bed. (Bonus points if you have cognitive dissonance like me and also go to church on Sunday after committing carnal sins all week.) That's all to say, I'm looking for a long-term partner who understands how to let our kink life and everyday life live in perfect harmony and doesn't want to compromise on either.

Some of my kinks include, but are not limited to: TPE, calling you "daddy" (and yes, I do have a great relationship with my father, so who knows what's wrong with me), CNC, being tied up, choked, gagged, spanked, whipped... there's little my masochistic heart won't enjoy in the pain realm. Love power dynamic play, rules, tasks, etc. - being subby and turning off my brain is my favorite state of mind. And not to toot my own horn, but I am exceptional at giving head and getting throat-fucked - it is one of my favorite pastimes.

Who you are: Tall (6'1+), handsome, fit, and between 24-38. You're single/un-partnered and emotionally available. You present well, or at least well enough that my upper-middle-class Christian mother will tolerate (or hopefully enjoy) your presence. You have a job/career that you don't hate and are proud of. You're responsible but will still go out dancing with me on a Friday every once in a while.

And most importantly... you know what you want, and what you want is to hurt and control the pretty girl that you love on occasion (in an entirely consensual way that she also enjoys, of course.) My type is sadistic men with a heart of gold... take with that what you will.

If you've read this far - feel free to send me a message (preferably via reddit dm) telling me a little about you. Look forward to chatting! :)