Hey Everyone,
I've made a couple posts on here looking for friends as I know many others have too !
However, it never really lasts and I find myself alone again. Either they move away, which is understandable and long distance friendships become harder. Or they will only schedule meetups once a month, which feels too formal, but I've always still gone through and done that ... Or other times, the effort just fades away, people get busy and no one has time to do anything all of a sudden. I feel like I become the one who's always messaging, checking in, and there's no effort from others until I stop texting altogether !
Again all of this is understandable because that's just how life is... But for someone like me, I don't know what more to do to make a good genuine friendship that will last !
I'm not from here, my family is back home in a different country, I'm not too close to them anyway, I literally just have my boyfriend and nobody else I can rely on, especially in bad times... I've made a few good friends to go out with for drinks and stuff, but I miss the deep emotional support I sometimes need. I need a network, a community...
I've tried girls on the go, meetups, other groups, meeting people one on one because that's where I shine best rather than a group !
I'm not really age restricted either, I'm 26F and while I do prefer more female friendships, I don't care how old you are, some of my best friendships have much much older people and I don't mean any of this in a weird way.
I love reading, hiking, music, dance, travelling, night outs, arts and crafts, I'm always willing to explore and literally do whatever.
I do wish to have friendships where we can just turn up at each other's houses like in the old times, and just exist in each other's company, you can do your thing, I'll read my book in a corner, talk in between, maybe cook together or have a movie night !
So I guess I'm here, trying again, looking for advice, or if anyone's in a similar situation feel free to message me and let's connect xx
Thanks in advance, and also a big thanks to the good genuine people I have met off here !