I don’t know what I’m eating I just found it at work
I’m 22 and this guy I’m seeing asked me to get a full panel STD/STI test before we continue our relationship. I agreed because I know I’m clean. I found out I have HSV1, we opened the results together and prior to me opening my results he was all over me and kissing me. He saw it and then he backed away from me. I asked him what was wrong and he said he has to do his own research on it and then he left.
We were texting and I told him that I’m worried that my thing is bugging him and he sent me this: “I really like you and you've been sweeter than any other girl l've talked too but I don't think I'd be comfortable with it. Dating is already hard enough honestly but I'd still like to take you out and hangout this Saturday”
I’m so confused because I thought HSV1 cannot be transferred unless I have an active outbreak. I haven’t had one since I was a child, that was my first and only time I got a cold sore. It’s been nearly 2 decades since then. If he’s so worried about getting it I understand him not wanting to be with me, but we have already done stuff, so I kind of don’t get it?
I’m feeling really gross right now. I feel so incredibly disgusting and there’s no way for me to get rid of how dirty I feel. This thing is forever. I initially didn’t think it was a big deal until his reaction.
Wait wait wait... I'm sorry, you FOUND that food, at WORK, you don't know what it is, and you're EATING IT?!?!
I'm not judging whatsoever about the HSV1 and neither should anybody else, but I may have some opinions about what's happening in that container and I'm very curious about how one finds random, unidentified food at their place of employment.
HAHA I work at target and I bought the frozen meal but it doesn’t look ANYTHING like the picture and it’s my first time eating it 😭 that’s why I was like “I have no idea what this is”
HSV1 and HSV2 can both be spread without an active outbreak and are insanely common in the States. If he "does his own research" and looks at actual studies he will find that out.
Chances are pretty high he has it as well and that neither one of you gave it to the other.
Yeah my partner has one of them and they just warn me when they can feel an outbreak developing. We just don't kiss for a few days. I've gotten full panels since we've been together and it still hasn't transferred because we take the bare minimum precautions.
At the same time roughly 61% of sexually active adults have HSV 1 and about 18% have HSV 2. Overall about 4/5ths sexually active adults have one or the other.
And the chance of transmission without an active sore is very very low.
The stigma has more medical and social relevance than the disease itself and they are no longer routinely included in STI panels for the above reasons.
My Dr told me that this is why they don’t usually test for HSV1 unless asked. Most people have it so it’s just undo stress when you have it but never have outbreaks.
I said below but it's because standard assay testing can give false positives. It's more accurate when someone is dealing with an active outbreak. And many people may have it but are asymptomatic and never have an active outbreak because their immune systems suppress.
Exactly. Always ask for a Western Blot test if you are trying to get a definitive answer. It is the gold standard and much more accurate. 99% accuracy vs 81% on standard tests notorious for false positives.
I had a false positive as a teenager! It really messed with my head. But multiple tests over multiple pregnancies found no virus, and I've never had an outbreak. So who knows what happened when I was a kid.
I'm sorry that happened to you! It can be traumatizing and it's why the index number matters enormously here. HSV IgG ELISA tests are highly sensitive, and low positive results can sometimes reflect nonspecific antibody binding or cross reactivity rather than an actual infection. This is why they don't routinely test people who are not at high risk of having been exposed or who are asymptomatic unless there is a reason to. And for HSV2, specifically, index values between 1.1 and 3.0 (Terri Warren is an expert in this and actually says up to 3.5...) are questionable, with false positives becoming more likely at the lower end. That’s why confirmatory testing with a Western blot is so important but a lot of the general public doesn't know about Western Blot or isn't informed by their doc.
I’m seriously surprised OP was even able to get this test from a doctor. Wonder if it was an over the counter at home test or something? Seems rather frivolous to test for HSV1.
Ugh, I know sometimes doctors test for it when patients push for testing beyond the standard test because I had an ex who did this. He then tried to use his test results to make me stay with him because I 'shouldn't date anyone else now that he infected me because I could spread it.' 🙄
Months after I broke up with him he sent me a second set of test results showing he didn't actually have it after all and tried to use that to get me back. That test is notoriously flaky, so who knows which result was accurate. I still wonder why his doctor didn't try to dissuade him or at the very least educate him about these tests. Or maybe they did... he is a very dumb man.
I got tested at 18 or so and tested positive for HSV1. I had never had a cold sore but lived with the knowledge that I had it for about 8 years until I got retested for a routine work up and for some reason they included HSV1. It was negative! I was so confused. After talking to my dr she said my previous test was likely a false positive. I’ve been tested a few times over the years and always tested negative since then. Weird as fuck working through the emotions/ acceptance and telling my partners over the years that I had it just to be told “oops, nvm.”
Over half the population has HSV1, so acting like a cold sore from childhood makes you unclean is wildly ignorant and hypocritical after he was just kissing you.
This was my first question too. Considering how common it is, he’s more likely than not to have it. OP, should be able to see his test results if he insisted on seeing hers.
If it makes you feel better, literally so much of the population has it. It's incredibly common. He honestly probably has it too it just hasn't ever popped up.
I find it so strange that HSV1 is still a taboo. I cannot think of many people who don't have it. Chances are if a grandparent has it the whole bloody family does unless they are a family who never kiss babies or other family members. Do not feel ashamed or dirty or diseased. Depending where you live up to 80% of the population has it.
I got it when I was like 3. Scabbed up my whole face. Wild to hold something against someone like that, but as soon as you say "herpes" it's a freak out. Chicken pox is herpes and so are shingles. Tbh, I don't think it's a big deal for a long term partner to even have hsv2. If you're on meds and monitor for outbreaks it's easier to manage than diabeties. 🤷
I've had HSV1 since I was like 10. My dad and sister had it too, so I'm guessing that's where I got it. People are super shitty about it still - when I tried to educate someone that it's not always sexually transmitted the person actually said "Oh no, I guess your dad molested you then." WTF.
Yeah I got it when I was a baby. I would get one massive cold sore every winter. Like the size of a dime. I don’t remember the last time I had one as an adult. Maybe when I had Covid. I feel like everyone has this.
Yeah I don't understand this either. I'm 55 and I recall when I was growing up it was nothing - like oh you babe a cold sore, gross! End of story. I have never had a cold sore nor did anyone in my family, until my son got one at about 3 years old. He is a full grown adult and has had them his whole life - it used to be just embarrassing, like a pimple, and now somehow it is a humiliating std somehow??
Hi, I’m a physician. This is not medical advice. Just want to reassure you that a massive portion of the population, if not most, will test positive for HSV-1, many of them having never even had a single outbreak. We do not routinely test for HSV-1, as these test results cause stress for no reason at all. He’s being very silly. Most of our population in the US will test positive and never ever notice a single thing.
As another physician, I agree with this message. So many people get hsv1 even as children. STDs should be destigmstized** but hsv1 isn’t even really considered an std because it’s passed on by kissing/sharing eating utensils. People don’t kiss their newborns to avoid hsv1 transmission to their babies.
wait I thought hsv1 was the one that’s super common—the one that causes cold sores and is asymptomatic in most of the population. Had no idea that it comes up in an STI panel.
It doesn’t come up in a standard STI panel for those reasons, but it can be tested for and it seems like the guy OP was dating specifically requested her to get tested for everything possible
Fun fact. You can get HSV 1 and 2 on any part of your body. It’s typically on the mouth or genitalia, but not always. They’re interchangeable as well. If you have an HSV 1 cold sore and perform oral sex on a partner, they can get HSV 1 on their genitals. Works both ways. Many many people have one or both. My bf gets cold sores. From the time he feels one coming on until it’s gone, we avoid kissing or other activities that could cause transmission. I won’t let him go downstairs anyway at the moment as I have tested positive for HPV. I likely gave it to him before we knew, but I’m not risking him getting throat cancer when we know for sure I have an active case. Get your HPV vaccines ladies!
OMG! I didnt know HPV could cause throat cancer. I tested positive for HPV (after vaccines and only being in long term monogamous relationships 🤷♀️). I asked the doctor if there was anything that my partner and I should avoid but she said nothing about oral. I will stop him from giving me oral ASAP. Thanks for the info
I have two high risk strains. They’re more likely to cause cancer. Unfortunately there isn’t a treatment for the virus. It typically clears. I’ve tested positive and needed biopsies the past two years. Most sexually active people have some form. The vaccine only covers the most high risk strains. That’s better than nothing though.
It’s real frustrating that men can transmit HPV but there isn’t a test for them to see if they carry it 🫠 I got asymptomatic HPV from a man (caught on annual pap), I all the vaccines when I was younger as well. Due to my age my doctor said it would likely go away in a year and she was right, I never tested positive again.
I was so hoping my last pap would be negative. Unfortunately it wasn’t and I had some irregular cells. Turned out ok. Just go back in a year and hope for a negative test then.
A lot of docs won't even test you unless you have an outbreak because it's so common and unproblematic for most, and causes the angst that OP is going through
A full panel STI test does not routinely include HSV1 because it’s not considered a sexually transmitted disease. If you have cold sores it’s generally assumed you have oral herpes along with a large segment of the population, literally so many people have this condition from babies to the elderly. Of course you can give it to someone else by kissing but only when you have an outbreak. I feel like this guy is super ignorant and maybe just needs more information OR he’s a dick and now you know so you can avoid him.
For some people, it is going to be a big deal, and those aren’t your people. Statistics are on your side for finding a partner who also has the virus, or is okay with it. Sone people don’t want the risk — you can pass either type to other areas of the body. If someone is asking for a very full panel, that means that all of those scenarios are something that carries weight for that person. He just wasn’t your person.
Did he get tested for you!? He might have it too. But after this reaction I would be done. But in the future if anyone asks you to be tested (which is fair, and responsible) you should always ask for their results too. I’m sorry this happened, you are not dirty or disgusting. My boyfriend and I got tested before having unprotected sex and he has it too. I did not freak out.
Did he also get a full sti panel? If not, major double standard and if he did, I bet they didn't test for hsv1. It's not really a sti, most people who get cold sores have it...
He got his test on Monday, I got mine on Tuesday. He sent me screenshots of his results and he’s all good. I just opened mine in front of him because I got the notification they were in when we were together.
did he also do full panel or just the regular ones they check for? major overreaction on his part, but he will either do the research and see that or stay uneducated... either way, because of the overreaction i don't think i'd want to continue with this person if/when he does educate himself on it (big IF and WHEN, he's likely to stay ignorant on the topic.)
50-80% of adults in the US have hsv1. Most people have one outbreak as a child (as you can get it from sharing a drink cup or a straw) and never have another outbreak for the rest of their life.
I have genital HSV-1 and my current partner has never batted an eye about it, one because of how common it is, and two because it is so easy to responsibly not pass it on to others (if you know you have it). The right one is out there, that guy is just a loser.
Babe, you're young...so from a middle aged woman. Fuck him. This douchecanoe does not get to define your worth.
You have something extremely common. You are NOT dirty. He is an immature shit weasel who should not be in a relationship with anyone until he grows TF up.
Please don't waste more of your time, energy or emotions on him.
I dated someone who had HSV and it was a nothingburger. We were together 10 years. We did the same— avoided kissing during an outbreak. I was even significantly immune compromised for a period of time. I did take antivirals during that period but I still don’t have it 🤷♀️
I have had cold sores as long as I can remember, and I’ve been married for 38 years. My husband has never gotten it from me. It’s really not that big of a deal.
You are not dirty, OP. HSV1 is super common and honestly, if I was really into someone, a cold sore would be worth it. You'll find a better one than him.
this man is allowed bodily autonomy and is fully allowed to say no to dating someone knowing full well they have an incurable and easily transmissible virus, even if it is just a cold sore. the way y'all disrespect mens bodily autonomy in here is not cute.
Oral HSV1 can be spread to someone's genitals. People have a right to decide their boundaries. That said--HSV is not a moral failing nor does it reflect badly on someone who has it.
exactly. I don't get cold sores and do not ever want to get them, so I would never date someone who does get them. it isn't a moral failing on that person's part. I just do not want an incurable virus that causes painful sores on any part of my body. I am fully allowed to make that choice, as he was.
people are so cavalier about getting a permanent, incurable disease. mostly I think because they do have it and feel bad about it. like ok, you have the disease that gives you uncomfortable, open itching sores and I am sorry that you do. that does not mean I should then drop all my safety measures and get it too. bizarre mentality.
I definitely think it’s a way for people to feel better about having it themselves. It’s not wrong to say you don’t want cold sores or genital sores to make someone else feel better!
Yes, it is common. No, you aren’t gross for having it. Yes, it’s okay to not want it. No, your feelings aren’t more important than someone having control over what they do with their body.
girl this thread is unhinged. the mods need to lock it now. many women not respecting a man's right to say 'no' in here and it should not be promoted at all.
seriously! Thank you! I'm a gay woman and I've rejected people in the past because of it. I freak out when I have a bad pimple there's no damn way I want a cold sore when I eat out which would cause someone to have genital herpes. Have you seen genital herpes go to the face? omg, no no no.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with someone who has it. I just personally would like to never get it so I can understand someone's hesitation.
THANK YOU!!! He is allowed to be concerned. He is allowed to have some time to think about it. He is allowed to step away when the woman he sounds to like quite a bit comes back with an incurable viral diseases. And it sounds like he’s still interested in seeing OP, he didn’t turn her down. When you find out you have HSV1 or 2 you will inevitably feel dirty, undesirable, like damaged goods. But OP you will come to learn the right person will love you regardless and one day you may forget ever getting this diagnosis. You are not dirty because you have hsv1. AND he is allowed to be concerned. Give it a little time and show yourself lots of love and grace right now. And eat some real food.. sorry that bowl of mystery sauce and weird loops ain’t it!! Best wishes from a girl who around your age was in your same shoes and is now 30, happily married, with a sweet little one and one on the way 💗
Bravo to him for practicing safety and encouraging you to get tested, but big BOO to him for making you feel less than because you have an extremely common strain. He probably didn’t pay attention in health class. Or he lived in a place where they didn’t have health class and taught abstinence only.
Either way, tell this man to find his way out of your life. And talk to your doctor for your own peace of mind.
my partner has it but doesn’t get outbreaks, ive never had it, never gotten one 🤷🏻♀️ like before so ffr, I remember SO many kids getting them in elementary school and nobody even batted an eye.
I wish people made a bigger deal of HPV than they do HSV. Get your HPV vaccine if you haven’t. And everyone who’s sexually active should be getting tested for all STDs every 6 months or 1 year at least. More often for sluts like me. Also, PrEP is awesome. Love each other. Ok bye.
He’s gonna be a lonely dude if he’s gonna break up with someone over HSV1. That’s the cold sore virus and something like 70+% of people have the virus. Many people who have it only get 1 outbreak, their first, and are asymptomatic otherwise. It’s so common that many places won’t test for it in STI panels unless explicitly asked for this situation exactly—people get freaked out over something that is, by and large, not an issue.
I’m not saying that cold sores don’t cause any issues at all. I’m not one of those lucky people who is asymptomatic. I still get outbreaks when I get sick or stressed but im careful to take medicine and take other precautions to not spread it when I’m contagious. And even with that annoyance, it’s not a big deal.
Maybe I'm evil, but I'd back off of anyone who had any kind of transferrable herpes, too because I don't want to get it. Just because other people have gotten it in childhood doesn't mean I'd be fine with getting it.
Girlie you are NOT dirty, don’t let him make you think that you are. HSV1 is incredibly common and does not warrant that reaction. I dated a hypochondriac who made me feel like trash over HSV1, it is not worth letting him impact you anymore 🫶 he doesn’t get to define your worth. Fuck that guy
Girl SO MANY PEOPLE have this. It’s almost moot. I say almost because yeah, you can pass it on if you have an outbreak. Some people who have it NEVER HAVE A NOTICEABLE OUTBREAK. They’re just walking around with it.
This guy sounds like an ass. You aren’t disgusting. You aren’t dirty. You ARE deserving of someone better than that. Take care of yourself sweetie. ❤️
Cold sores are so common. This guy lacks understanding and you should not feel dirty. My husband has them and we have been together for almost 13 years. He hasnt gotten one in many years and has not transferred them to me. You are not disgusting
A man who can't handle that a girl he's dating gets cold sores is not a man you want to go through the trials & tribulations of life with. Consider this a bullet dodged.
Yeah but if that’s the case wouldnt she know what she’s eating? The only prepackaged meals that aren’t identifiable by the packaging is food someone packed their self.
OP please clarify that you are not a lunch thief if you aren’t cuz this doesn’t look good at all lol
I have literally had it since I was a baby because of my mother. Active outbreaks are the only way to spread it, and I'd know if not because my mouth is constantly all over my partner UNLESS I have a coldsore, he's never had them and hasn't gotten them the whole decade we've been together. They're cold sores, something most people I know have, and that guy sucks for reacting like that.
Edit; I've been told to can spread without an active outbreak so it comes down to personal risk tolerance at that point. I've been conditioned to view pretty much as a normal thing, as with most people I know, so the only caution anyone every takes is during active outbreaks.
Can absolutely be spread without an active outbreak. You don’t have to be experiencing an outbreak to be shedding the virus. And HSV1 can be spread from mouth to genitals.
Source: My ex passed HSV1 to me without an active outbreak via oral sex. And it is no fun having an outbreak down there. (And yes, it was HSV1. My genital sores were tested.)
Not so much for you since you said you have had an outbreak before, but Western Blot is the gold standard for HSV testing. Other tests are notorious for false positives. Just commenting here in case anyone else sees this.
I'm sorry, OP. Like 65% of the population has HSV1. And your risk of giving it to him without an active outbreak is low, not to mention extremely unlikely outside of its primary site.
my ex grilled me for weeks because i came back with cervical precancerous lesions that i needed to be removed surgically to prevent them from becoming cancer. he freaked out because it meant i have HPV and apparently i “knowingly gave him an STD that could cause cancer”. i ended up going through the whole thing alone and it was the most traumatic thing i’ve ever endured.
trust me baby. this mf did you a favor by leaving.
this might sound bad lol but I actually have so many friends with this. Literally none of them have had an outbreak. They also all have boyfriends, and they always take medication. A this guy is a douche bag and you’re better off without him.
The amount of people here saying the guy is a loser is nuts. The man got tested (says they opened them together) and must be negative, and is uncomfortable knowingly sleeping with someone with a positive, lifelong std. Nothing about that makes him a loser. I don't care if "so many people have it", doesn't mean he wants to risk it. Jfc.
I have HSV2 and I understand not everyone wants to take that risk. I disclose to all potential partners, and no one has ever decided to walk away. But if they did, I get it. I never had that option to walk away or at least know the risks (an old ex had it and never told me), and remember how scary it was when I had that first outbreak. So I get both sides in this situation, he isn't wrong for walking away and she isn't for feeling hurt.
I agree, the comments section is kinda wild. There's a huge section of men who pressure women into stuff having STIs and it's awful, I don't think anyone man or woman should feel shamed for wanting to do their own research on it or deciding they might not want to continue because of it.
Half the population having it doesn't mean anything because half the population ALSO doesn't have it. Despite it being common, not everyone has it. I think we need to stop saying that because everyone had it and it's common, you're wrong to have sexual boundaries over it.
The HSV tests aren’t reliable at all - fake positives and negatives happen all the time, which is exactly why doctors don’t test you for it unless you’re reporting symptoms
OVER COLD SORES
dude is insane
Yeah, sure hsv1 could congregate on his dick if you happened to go downtown during a cold sore but it doesn't like that environment It doesn't last. It doesn't take well usually. It doesn't prefer the area.
Also he's apparently already been kissing you and etc like..... ?????? Dumb
Oooh boy. He's gonna be real surprised when he Google's the percentage of the population infected with this 😂 50% - 80% just in the US. And because it lies dormant for a lot of healthy people, you absolutely can be infected and not test positive or have symptoms.
I had HSV1 symptoms pretty bad growing up to the point of needing an infectious disease doctor.
Fun fact, if he's had Chickenpox, he's had a virus in the Herpes family called Herpes Zoster. Soooooo...
He probably has it himself. What a weirdo. Get you a different man!
Chin up girlie I am sorry he treated you like that and that you are feeling burdened. The body is an amazing, regenerative skin bag (ha!!), it really will take care of you, so love your body and you will be quite alright. Good luck 🍀
Exactly why doctors don’t test unless you beg them to honestly. It creates unnecessary panic. He’s an idiot. You are not dirty. Bright side is that you dodged a bullet!
This made me feel better about a couple positive test results in my time. You’re just living your life like everyone else, none of this makes you unlovable or gross babe.
You’re not dirty or anything like that! A lot of people have STIs. The fact that he doesn’t want to get an infection is valid but I do wish he’d been kinder, shown you his results and maybe had a little more backbone. You’ll find a million other guys who won’t care. Don’t worry babe.
Don’t feel gross, a very large percentage of people have it and it’s just dormant in their system. So many in fact that when I was cancer nursing anyone who was getting chemo or taking any kind of immune suppressant was put on valtrex because as soon as their immune system was affected they would get cold sores. It was so common we didn’t even test if they had it we just gave them the medication anyway. Don’t sweat it, it’s not a big deal and if he’s going to shame you for it then he’s not someone you want to be with anyway
You can literally be born with HSV1. It’s such a common condition, I’m surprised anyone would bat an eye. I mean I’ve had it since I was a toddler and it affects my life in ZERO ways. Forget that dude. There will be plenty of men who don’t dwell on such a common diagnosis.
My friend and I decided to just randomly both get tested. My test was negative, hers was positive. She contacted everyone she had been with, to give them warning. She abstained from letting anyone touch her for years. She ALWAYS disclosed. I told her to go get tested again. The false positive rate is staggering. She got tested again, negative. All of that shame, for nothing.
I mean the truth is that a really large portion of the population carries that virus!
My question is… did HE do the STI panel and open it with you? Id like to know if he has anything because its very likely he already has HSV1. If he doesnt then it proves he hasnt “gotten it from you”
Look? STI testing when you have multiple partners is a good thing. People should do it! But not if theyre going to react that way. Plus if he cared so much he shouldnt had sex/done sexual things with you?
Hi. I work in healthcare. Herpes is literally the most common virus known to mankind. Something like 90+% of people will contract it in their lifetime. I'm so sorry that he's reacting this way, but it's really not a big deal! It's super common. If you've ever had cold sores at all, you have it & always will! It's not as big of a deal as he's making it. Just avoid contact during active outbreaks & you are exactly right -- it will be just fine!
Sending you all the well wishes, & so sorry that this happened to you!
I dated a guy for 6 years during my 20s who had severe hsv1 he contracted as a toddler. I never got it. Between dating him and my husband I contracted hsv2, my husband still doesn’t have it. I also haven’t had an outbreak in 7 years without meds. It’s literally just not a big deal. My dating life actually got better after getting “genital herpes” because it filtered out the immature assholes. Also, I got hsv2 practicing “safe sex”. Don’t waste your time on this kid.
My wife literally gave me HSV1 about 10 years ago and while I wasn’t happy at the time, it wasn’t a deal breaker. There are people out there who will understand or don’t care or they already have it. At the end of the day he has the right to walk away, but I’m sorry it ended the way it did. You are not dirty.
I’ll never understand the stigma around this very very very benign illness. Yes sores can suck but the treatments they have now nip it in the bud before it gets bad. The guy can react in whatever weird ass way he wants but just know this is a non issue in the real world :) PLEASE don’t let this get in your head, I promise reasonable people will come your way
It’s his prerogative to determine whether he wants to deal with someone who has HSV, and he has chosen not to. There’s nothing wrong with that. My question is, did he get tested for anything and did you see his results?
HSV-1 can be spread by kissing. So why didn’t he ask for an STI panel before kissing you if he’s worried about an oral virus? Oh, because he’s uneducated. Nevermind.
People are allowed to make these choices for themselves, you know. He doesn't owe you a relationship. He's decided this is a boundary he wants to keep and that's his right.
You could have had the same reaction to his results and I'd have been on your side too.
People are allowed and highly encouraged to have bodily autonomy and this is him doing so. That it's a "common disease" doesn't matter. He doesn't have it and he doesn't want to get it. This is fair and valid.
He's not a loser and he's not a bad guy. It's just unlucky that it didn't work out for you guys. Oh well. Move on.
It sounds like op was hurt by his immediate reaction to the results- now that's something that I think is fair to discuss with him if thats what led op to feel disgusting since it sounds like they got along well.
I agree even though this is not a popular view. If a guy had an STI and tried to be upset with a woman, then he'd be ripped to shreds! Anyone is allowed to do their own research and want to think about things even if they've already been intimate. Anyone at anytime can decide they don't want to continue a relationship for any reason.
I know everyone says it's super common, but I don't think that's a reason to tell people they have to give up their comfort because they're a jerk if they dont.
And of lots of ppl I've known tested including myself don't have it, it's not something everyone has just because it is common! (And yes, the tests I've done myself and seen results of have included it, my doctor insists on full-screens)
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u/LolaAucoin 🌶️ Spice Girl 🌶️ 2h ago
Everyone else is laughing at the guy, but I’m laughing at you saying you don’t know what you’re eating, you just found it at work. 🤣