I'm in a tough spot right now, and I'd like to hear from others who work in the retail industry.
Background: I have worked for the same company for about 11 years, and I've been full-time for about 5 of those. I have great benefits, but I have to work weekends and holidays like most retail workers. I don't hate my job, though. It's tolerable.
However, I think the reason it's been tolerable is that up until now, the company has accomodated my minor concessions. I have to leave about an hour early on most Thursdays, and they've been OK with that. I didn't think this was a big deal, but apparently, it is.
Today, my boss came to me and said that I have to make a choice: I can choose to leave an hour early and do this after-work activity every week, or I can change to open availability (no set schedule, 7 days a week, store only closes on Christmas day). If I decide to set my own availability and request to leave an hour early on Thursdays, he will make me part-time, and I will lose health insurance and no longer accrue PTO. I would also lose everything else, like dental, vision, LTD and STD. I'd lose everything. But in a way, forgoing this after-work activity feels like I'd be losing everything too. I've been a part of this athletic team for over 2 years, and now my employer is asking me to give it up. Honestly, it's the only thing that gets me through the week. I love doing it and I would be absolutely crushed if I had to let it go. I truly believe I would become depressed and unable to cope. It's that important to me.
I know what my gut is telling me to do, but I want to hear from other people. This job is all I've known for 10 years now, but things are changing in the upper levels of the company and they've decided to put the hammer down and be more strict. I feel disrespected, but even worse.. I don't think I could forgive myself if I chose to give up on my team in order to appease the company. I would feel dead inside, like I gave up my life (and my happiness) just to keep working here full-time. Even worse, next year I jump up to a higher PTO accrual rate if I stay full time. I'd be losing a LOT by going part-time... but then again, you can never get your life back, and the company could theoretically let me go at any time anyway. That’s just how jobs are.
I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. What would you do? Give up your happiness to keep all the perks that a full-time position offers, or drop to part-time and be genuinely happier with your life?