r/ABDLPersonals • u/LittlestChloChlo • 6h ago
F4A 21f4a lil girl lookin to chat for tn!! NSFW
Not a whole lot goin on, still not able to get diapered, but that's ok! Come say hi!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/LittlestChloChlo • 6h ago
Not a whole lot goin on, still not able to get diapered, but that's ok! Come say hi!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/hallodfn • 10h ago
Hello everyone, I am a fairly new Mama/Mommy. I’ve decided that I want to embrace and live out my Mommy side more. Because of that, I’m looking forward to any messages I receive.
I come from near Munich, in the district of Fürstenfeldbruck, but I won't give any more specific details than that. I still live with my parents and my sister, but I’m currently looking for an apartment and planning to move out. I work as an EMT (emergency medical technician) with the Red Cross in emergency services, and I’m currently getting my heavy vehicle driving license. 🚑
In my free time, I’m active with the Red Cross in the disaster response and medical service units, as well as in the Youth Red Cross as a group leader for children and youth. I love being outside in nature 💐 for hiking or just sitting and taking in the view. I enjoy coding and working on nerdy projects. I also like painting and drawing, though unfortunately I don't do it very often. I love fantasy, especially Tolkien's universe—not just the Lord of the Rings books, but all the other stories of this fascinating world 🧙♂️. I enjoy watching movies and listening to music and podcasts.
I’m looking forward to getting to know you, and hopefully talk to you soon.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Soft_Tadpole3690 • 10h ago
Tx/dfw looking for friends preferably in the DFW area to chat. I’m down to hangout irl also only if I get to know you and feel comfortable. In my free time, I'm into biking, gaming, fitness, sports cars, and sci-fi/thriller movies and tv series. On the non-vanilla side, I'm asexual and mostly DL with some AB side.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Soft_Bat_Mommy • 19h ago
First and foremost, I am currently in a romantic relationship with my partner whom I love very much. HOWEVER, due to their increased work hours and limited availability during the week, they have given me their blessing to look for an additional platonic dynamic to satisfy my need for the caregiving/momma role I have.
IMPORTANT
In your first message to me, please include what I should call you, your age, your location, what drew you in to respond to me, and a fun fact about yourself. Please feel free to make it as long or as short as you would like, just know that I appreciate and tend to respond to longer messages more.
Local preferred but open to long distance!
(If you've messaged me in the past, please feel free to message me again if I didnt reply to you or double message me if we havent chatted in a bit, my dms get really crazy lol.)
Hello! I'm Batty and I'm searching for a little:) I'm a soft caregiver all the way and I would describe myself as very compassionate and caring.
A little about me:
I am plus size but I am losing weight for my own health (50lbs down since January!), if plus size is not your thing, please do not message me! I present myself as alt/goth and have piercings and tattoos and split dyed hair. I am smart (ask about my degree if you'd like!) and have experience being a temporary mommy domme to a couple subs/littles in the past as well as being a momma to my current partner!
Some things I would expect of you is to follow rules set in place after vetting each other for quite some time. Vetting takes time and I am in no rush to get into a dynamic. I would have rules such as self care (showering, brushing teeth, etc), self improvement (gratitude journal, positive self talk, etc), and other things that are catered to your specific wants and needs.
I AM NOT JUST ABOUT SEXUAL PLEASURE AND WILL NOT BE GETTING SEXUAL IN THIS DYNAMIC, so if thats what you're after, please look somewhere else. I truly want to help you grow as a human being and take care of yourself. If you message me something sexual, I will be blocking you. Please do not send me any explicit photos either.
I am chronically ill and currently not working full time (just part time) due to my health. I have an autoimmune disease that makes me constantly sick and lethargic. I am working on getting into a new specialist that can help with a care plan but the health care in the states is difficult so its gonna take time. If this is a dealbreaker for you, that is fine. I realize that me not working full time poses challenges. Rest assured that I do have an income, it's just not a lot.
A little bit about you:
I have no height, weight, or looks preference for you. In fact I'd rather talk for a bit before sending any pictures. I wanna get to know you for you:) You Ideally will be 20- 40 years old although I'm not going to write you completely off if you're not in that range by a couple of years. I AM VERY VERY VERY INTERESTED IF YOU ARE LOCAL TO ME! If you are local to me, please say so! I love intelligence and being passionate about things. If you nerd out over things and yap about them, I wanna chat. Good hygiene is a must but if it's something you struggle with, we can always work on it together. I'm not looking to rush into anything, I want to take my time with this.
Some things about me now. I enjoy reading and writing (I recently wrote a book!) and try to take the time to do so everyday. I'd love an ear to listen to me ramble about plot points and/or characters. Or perhaps even better yet we can each do our own little activity while in the same room. I always love that. I play video games from time to time but I'm not too into them. If you're super into them I'll gladly watch you play. I'm getting back into fitness and health. For my own good. Hmmm what else about me. Ahhh my core values- empathy, knowledge, love, stability, growth, and happiness. I make decisions based on these 6 values. If my decision doesn't align with them, I make a new decision. I expect you to learn how to go through with this process as well:) It is very beneficial and life changing.
What I am NOT looking for. Please do not call me mommy right away. That takes time and I've been getting too many messages that start off with that. It's quite disrespectful to yourself honestly. You should be looking to call that title to someone who has earned it. I am not looking for someone across the world. I apologize, I know it's hard finding dommes but I am only open to those in the western hemisphere due to timezones.
What I AM looking for. I am looking for rules set in place. These aren't to upset you, but they're to push you to be a better human being. I am looking to get to know you on a deeper level. I want to know you inside and out. What makes you upset, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, and so on and so forth. I am looking for someone who has patience. I am still figuring this side of me out. I am a newer mommy domme and have limited experience. That being said, I do think I naturally give off mommy energy irl so it shouldn't be too hard haha:)
I want someone who will adore our dynamic and me. Post about us on social media. Put my selfies I send you as your wallpaper on your phone. Talk about me to your friends and family. Nonchalant people don't impress me. I want someone who is going to be desperate for my attention and needy. Obviously we both need our personal space but overall I want obsession (healthy obsession). I need to feel wanted.
Ideally if you're still reading this there's at least some interest, if you would like to message me, I ask that you message me with more than just a "hey, how are you?" Or "will you be my mommy?". Those will get ignored. Get deep and tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for. The longer the message, the more appreciative I am. Thank you for reading and I hope you have a lovely day/night♡
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Finding_Myself26 • 16h ago
Hello lovely little
Second time trying this (please don't remove my post again 🙏)
So long story short, I have accidentally adopted a little over Snapchat and thought it would be fun to start a gc with littles (CG's welcome too) for a crèche sort of thing. Where the littles can play and I can learn more about my CG side.
We are looking for femmes and trans folk for now but may consider changing once we get going.
Not sure if I've missed anything but let me know if I have.
🩷🩷
r/ABDLPersonals • u/thewayw • 11h ago
Hello there! Little here looking for a mommy/mommy domme to help give me guidance, take care of me, and keep me in line! Ideally i'd like a long term mommy to get to know on a more intimate level. I want a mommy who can control me physically and break me down and control me mentally as well.
I love the idea of rules and tasks to help keep me busy and behaving through out the day! I think rules would help me feel more little and not in control. I like the idea of having certain privdleges being taken away because I am not old enough.
Physically I'm 6'0 and slim with short hair. happy to send pics on snap :)
Kinkwise i'm curious about a lot, but haven't done much kinky stuff irl. some things i'm curious about are, diapers, abdl. bondage, spanking, orgasm control, edging, exams, inspections, uhm maybe anal/anal training, medical play, ect! I can get needy if I edged and ill definitely behave in hopes of getting release.
This is uhm embarrassing but, I struggle with how long I can last and I would like someone who can train me to last longer so I can please my mommy.
I'm perfectly fine with online or chatting to curious mommys with no experience! Hope to hear from you!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Lucky_Engineering560 • 7h ago
Hi! :3 I'm from the USA (New England) but can only really do online stuff. I'm AMAB, but I mostly present feminine for kink stuff. (though I'm happy being either a boy or a girl if someone else wants me to! :3)
I'm really into both the AB and DL sides, both wetting and messing, as well as both sexual and nonsexual aspects. I wear diapers a lot (mostly at night), and I also love gaming, programming, and a bunch of other nerd stuff.
Kink-wise I'm into most things I find either gross or cute. Big stinky diaper messes, hypno, and forcefem are some of my favorites, but I like a wide variety of things. I also have only a few limits, so I'd love to talk nearly anything kinky!
If any of this sounds interesting to you, hit me up. I love talking to all sorts of different people!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/FakeDaughter • 14h ago
Mostly been a a bratty teen/middle style but curious about the little lifestyle. Would love to have a strong controlling type to take charge so I can give up worrying about the decisions and just be a happy little girl. Mostly part time sissy versus full trans but open to seeing how far things can go . Wouldn't look to have anything go 24/7 but ideally can add little bits of femininity and littleness added to the daily routine as much as possible or to be hidden under more normal vanilla situations. Same with signifiers that I'm a special little girl that could be kept discreet at all times.
Particularly love wardrobe control and micromanagement but open to other topics and feel free to share what you have in mind and what sort of situation you are looking for.
Would love to find someone to approve activities, select shows that are allowed to watch, and choose the decor for my room and those sorts of things too. No practical abdl experience but open to being regressed further
Ideally into older than me Daddy types but anyone with the right attitude could work. Let's chat to see what works. Hope to hear from you soon
r/ABDLPersonals • u/zoebabe420 • 15h ago
Me: I'm Zoe, 35 im currently working in healthcare (night shift girlie), plan on pursuing my education, love to travel and have decided to make Denver my new home base. In my free time you can find me at concerts. ( Im an EDM girlie.) PLUR. I teach yoga, outside spending time In nature, ooh and im a snack expert. I'm best friends with Mary Jane. You don't have to love her just respect my choice. I also speak Spanish & French and that's a big part of ms also.
Little me: Im An ABDL little who's is wanting to explore that side more. My ultimate dream is to have my own nursery. I enjoy wearing onesies and all the little gear. I love decorating pacifiers. Plus im finally in a huge ABDL city so that's extra exciting.
You: 30 +, Have goals/ career going, in Denver or comes visits often, Has some similar interests as me, likes ABDL girls, is looking for someone to connect with & Can balance kink with regular life.
Thanks so much for reading if you got this far. If my.post caught your attention please dont hesitate to shoot me a message. Mention to me your Harry Potter House or Fave movie so I know you saw this.
Looking forward to the good times ahead .
r/ABDLPersonals • u/forsaken_faye • 5h ago
loveeee being told what to do, and embarrassing little rules like being baned from the potty or like a day of only baby food.
need help being gently pushed into being more of a little baby.
I struggle to embrace little space alone and it helps a tone if some one is encouraging me.
I allso loveeeee being teased and feeling embarrassed.
pretty please turn me into a diaper dependent baby:3
outside of abdl stuff im a huge animal lover, I play alot of video games, and I collect random stuff.
I can be a little shy at first but I warm up quickly.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/luckyguy2346 • 9h ago
Im looking to make some friends and maybe friends w benefits w the right lady, im into cars, music, art, and video games. Im really just looking to see who else is around and into diapers and would wanna hangout irl. Im super easy going and open minded, clean, fit, respectful maybe you could start w telling me your favorite brand of diapers!!! I look forward to hearing from some of you!!!
Kinks include:
Diapers
Im a switch
Watersports
Pumping
Prostate play
r/ABDLPersonals • u/OldAbbreviations2979 • 16h ago
Heiii🌻☀️
ich suche einfach eine Person mit der man sich gemütlich etwas austauschen kann ganz ohne Zwang.
Bin eine sehr zurückhaltende little DL, hab keinerlei Erwartungen und ich hoffe du/ihr auch nicht 🙈
Schreibt mich gerne einfach an😇
r/ABDLPersonals • u/cityofevil810 • 2h ago
I’m a dom leaning switch and prefer f/tf but all are welcome :) (please don’t be boring or I won’t respond!)
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Ilovenascar8 • 10h ago
Looking for little friends, daddies, mommies!
I would love to get to know you :p shoot me a message or leave a comment!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Otherwise-Reveal-288 • 11h ago
Hi 21m just wanted to try and find other people like and and talk a bit
r/ABDLPersonals • u/BidMaterial7786 • 9h ago
take down if not allowed
After so many unsuccessful attempts at finding a cg, i want to try again.. 22, M, I go by H, little age is less than 2 (circumstantial), from Ohio. preferred online, calls during work or when driving, voice messages (i absolutely love and will play multiple times), willing to be okay with delayed messaging while i'm with family
about me:
i used to be a semi driver, now im a warehouse employee restarting a business of mine, scrapping metal. i have an ESA for some metal health problems, but dont let it fool you, im very friendly and outgoing! i have my days, but generally im smiling and laughing and joking around. I DO NOT SEND SEXUAL IMAGES, i am not comfortable doing that, and i will explain if you choose to message me.
if you see this:
if you read to this part, please tell me a little about you, so i can get to know you, feel free to ask about me, but please respect my boundaries. please don't call me baby right away or make me call you mommy. i have that title reserved as "momma" holds a special place for me, and is given with utmost respect.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/AzelfFan • 11h ago
I'm still fairly new to abdl relationships, but I'd likebto be someone's care giver. I'd like to care for them, give gentle support, and let them be who they are without judgment. I promise to do my best with someone and will make you feel valued and cared for.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/Ok_Photograph1121 • 14h ago
Hi, I am Abe 32M I’ve been in the space for 15 years looking for a CG or someone to hang out with locally. I am married but this is sexual for me. I cannot host p.m. open.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/InterestingWave6173 • 8h ago
Hello, I’m George, nice to meet everyone.
A bit about me, Ive been an ABDL for over 15 years, but mainly has been a private thing.
Would love to open a little bit more, even if it’s online, therefore I’m doing this post.
Not always, but for me ABDL has its NSFW side, that is why Im tagging M4F, but I’m also super open to explore the SFW side of things.
I’m mainly a sub, but not closed to having a cool dynamic were everyone wears.
Outside of diapers I also love movies, sports, and a bit of partying, so can also chat about interests outside of diapers.
Hope to meet someone cool.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/FromThe937 • 7h ago
Hello, everyone!
I am a 33M "factory installed" ABDL located in Ohio. I have spent most of my adult life in a relationship where I could not be my true self... and honestly, I don't know exactly where I fall on the ABDL spectrum. I'd very much like to find out who I am and what all I like and would love to be able to explore that with someone else!
I am into lots of things (both kink and non-kink) and am looking for someone to get to know and explore everything with. I have never been a "casual" guy, and would REALLY like to find something ongoing or even long-term.
Feel free to DM me if you'd like to know more!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/FabulousTune8995 • 16h ago
Hey I’m kinda new into all this. I love the idea of finding a girl to be in a diaper loving relationship. Im curious to both dom and sub so either or both are welcome.
About me
Very active and super fit
Love watching sports
Short strawberry blonde hair
5’10”
All girls that are interested DM and Id love to get to know you more!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/CarlSimpson33 • 16h ago
Hello, as the title says I’m looking to hopefully swap used diapers or just take any used diapers off your hands in Maryland. I love wearing other peoples diaper trash. I’d also be happy with someone just peeing in the diapers I’m wearing. If that sounds interesting please reach out!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/AmiyaLikesDiapers1 • 6h ago
Heya Everyone trying my luck here. I’m Amiya. I’m 25F i’m Bi and i’m looking for a little.
A bit about me:
I’m Amiya, I’m a nurse. I’ve done nursing for 4 years now excluding studying. I working in ED and often have very busy days/weeks with odd timed shifts and a lot of working hours. I love to diaper up when I have free time at home and will wet till my diaper can’t hold no more! I got into diapers about 12-11 Years ago, with my first experience sneaking a diaper from my younger cousin to wear before bed (no I wasn’t caught but at 13-14 this was a thrill. I used to wet them then get anxious where I’d hide or dispose of them. Oh how I miss the thrill of it all. I currently live alone Just east of London.🇬🇧 My favourite Disney princess would have to be Jasmine from Aladdin, she’s so elegant 😌
About my experience as a Mommy:
I became a Mommy 4 years ago at the end of my schooling. Reason being I didn’t have the chance to wear very often (still my reasoning for now) but I love to express my care and nurture to others. I’ve only had female littles in the past and their and my own experiences have been great! Being said this has all been online. I can help with meal plans, changing, diaper picking, issues regarding chafing or any issues down there from diapers (thanks to my experience from nursing), nap times, company, a safe environment and almost anything else you could think of?? In the past I’ve had experiences regarding NSFW mommy-ing.
If you’re interested feel free to PM me or comment below and i’ll be happy to respond! I don’t bite 😊
When Messaging me start off with a bit about yourself e.g. Age, Gender, What you’re interested in, and other things that come to your mind!🫶
TLDR: I’m Amiya, I’ve been into diapers for 12 years. I am A nurse and I have 4+ Years of Mommy and NSFW Mommy experience.
r/ABDLPersonals • u/BroadLog5420 • 4h ago
Hi!
Writing this post to see if I can find my little.
I’ve been into this for about 5 years and have had 1 little long term, realistically looking for someone I can care for, help throughout the day, be there for anything they might need. This is including, issues throughout the day, needing someone to talk to, texting, calling, and getting you throughout the day with someone being there.
Me:
I’m 5’9, brown hair, green eyes, white skin. I moved down to Florida for work a few months ago and definitely see myself staying here for a few years. I like to run, cook, hike, camping, and being outside with nature. I work in the hospitality business, it’s what I studied in school and have a really good career going.
You:
Someone that loves to talk, near me, would like to have fun plans, active lifestyle, has a fun personality, and would like to take trips (I get really cool benefits with this job).
Cg/little:
Would really want someone to take care of, change, do an amazing bubble bath for, put cartoons on, brush their hair, give you the best little time you can think of, take on all these trips centered on you, and congratulate you on everything you accomplish throughout the day.
If this seems like something that can work please DM me! I would love to talk to you!
r/ABDLPersonals • u/frosteeboi • 4h ago
Hey all you DLs!! I’m a DL pilot and racing driver from Minnesota. I loooove thai and italian food, and my favorite band rn is LCD Soundsystem!
I would be over the moon to chat with and hopefully meet a DL woman, in whatever capacity that ends up being (as the title suggests). If it’s important to you or you just want an idea in your head, I’m white, above average height, thin, and kinda muscular. I’m not personally too picky with looks. This kink just is something I’m really hopeful I can experience with someone else :)
I'm just a DL and underwear messer, no ageplay involved, and no extreme scat play. I just love the act of messing and wetting myself, the freedom and taboo of it gives me such a rush.
If we eventually were to meet up, I’d love to watch each other mess and hang out in our messed diapers/pants (online or in person), make out and mess together as we grab each other's loads, cuddle with loads, possibly some kind of sex with loads, or even maybe discrete public wetting/messing :) I live in the twin cities metro, for irl reference.
I'm not just seeking instant gratification in a reddit chat, I'd really like to make a connection here. Just to be transparent, if dating is on the table for you too, I am polyam and I have a primary partner who is wholly supportive of me seeking this kind of connection. We date separately, so just me here. However, I’m not exclusively looking to date, any kind of connection would make me happy :)
Please DM me or leave a comment if I sound like someone you'd like to get to know <3 excited to hear from you!!