r/PeePersonals • • Mar 21 '20

Meta No-effort comments (pm sent, dm me, etc) will result in removal and BANS NSFW

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Right, so I just can't conceive a reason to have 12 comments per post all saying nothing more than “Dm fOr SnAp”, so from now on these are going to be removed as spam; repeat offenders and those caught spamming it to every post will be banned.

This is consistent with what other subreddits are doing.

If you want to reach out to someone, put some effort into it! Give them a reason why they should drop into your DMs. And for the love of Pee, there's no reason to send someone a comment telling them you sent them a message; that's just stupid. The comment section is not the place to mark your territory.


r/PeePersonals • • Jun 15 '22

[Meta] Search By Location is finally here!! Big changes to post flair too, and new requirements for posts. We're also seeking feedback: What info should we require to make posts more useful, what else do you want to see improved/changed here? NSFW

26 Upvotes

Last Update: June 18th

TL;DR: Check out the top menu to search by location. Re-read the rules for updated title requirements, or read on below for the full details.

We are changing how Meetup vs. Online posts are specified; this will now be done entirely through tags in the post title, rather than flair. Those looking only for online play now need to include the tag #Online within their post titles. Those seeking meetups should continue to include a tagged location, e.g, #Chicago, Illinois, as they've previously done. If you are seeking both online and in-person, be sure to specify both a tagged location and the #Online tag. Please use the format #City, State/Province (including the comma, and with only one # before the city name) if possible; specifying a state/province and country (#Uttar Pradesh, India), or just country for smaller nations (#United Kingdom), is also permitted, if you don't want to include your specific town or city. Up to two location tags (including the #Online tag) may be specified, e.g., #DC and #NOVA or #NSW or #Online. Please ensure your #tagged location suits how far you are willing to travel to meet someone; don't specify an entire country or huge region if you're not able to venture far outside your city.

This change means that it is now quick and easy to locate others in your area! The search menu at the top of the page lets you do a coarse search of the most-commonly-posted regions; finer-grained search is also possible, and we'll be posting a location directory and guide at a later date to further explain how to do this. Searches can also be done by tapping on a post's flair to show more like it, or selecting a region from the main menu and then removing flair search terms as needed to narrow your search. Note that many flairs cover large areas, so refer to a post's #tagged location to see where the author is actually located. Some more details on the search menu are at the end of this post. Let us know how its working, or if there are any improvements needed!

Post length/quality is another concern we'd like to address. Currently, we don't have any significant post length requirement, which has led to a lot of posts that are almost completely empty, or just re-state the minimal required information from the title, giving no details whatsoever about themselves. These low-effort posts have been burying the posts of people who have put time and effort into composing good, descriptive posts, and also make for a poor searching experience. As such, we are instating a new length requirement of 50 words; this will be phased in gradually over the next couple days/weeks, to give us time to adjust things if people run into problems. The removal message will give an estimate of how many words short a post is, to assist users in fixing their posts. Note that padding out a post with filler or nonsense will not make it meet the requirements; the bot is smart enough to not count filler text. Please let us know what you think of these changes; do you agree, disagree, or have other suggestions we should implement?

We now allow users to choose to lock their posts. To do so, include the command !lock anywhere within the body of the post. Locked posts will get a comment by the automod reminding users how to contact the author; by default, posts will not be locked or get said automod comment, as some people find it annoying, and this will remain an optional feature for those who do wish to allow comments. Locking doesn't affect a post's visibility or ranking in any way. Some people, particularly new accounts that may not be able to send chat messages, may prefer to respond in comments, but we leave it up to the author to decide if they want to allow these types of responses or not. In the near future, we will also be looking into additional comment length requirements, to cut down the number of no-effort or spam responses to posts which do allow comments.

We are hoping to introduce an official, optional, method of including a verification clip and photos in posts. As an initial step, we are seeking individuals willing to verify ahead of time, so that we can refine the verification instructions and produce some correct examples for people to refer to when creating theirs. If you can help with this, please reach out by messaging the moderators.

These are the ideas we are currently working on, but we are open to other suggestions as well if there are additional concerns we should address. Please leave your feedback in the comments. We will continue to update this post based on feedback and progress on introducing these features; updates will be added below.

Some Notes On Location Search

The menu options are divided up based on activity over the past 2 years; areas that get a lot of posts have lots of divisions to make them practical to search, while regions where Reddit or our community is not popularly used may be divided only into continents.

For example, if you're a woman seeking a guy in Calgary, you'd start by picking Canadian Prairies from the Americas region menu. When you find an appropriate M4F Alberta post, tapping on its flair will show others like it, with the exact R4R tag and province. Alternatively, you can edit the search query after selecting a menu item, to keep only the desired flair:"Alberta" search query.

The actual flairs themselves are divided mostly at the country level; some non-country territories also have an entry, mainly when they are widely separated from their parent nation. The United States, Canada, Australia, India, and Brazil are further divided into states/provinces. Argentina and Kazakhstan meet the subdivision threshold area-wise, but we only plan to enable state-level flairs if we happen to actually get posters from those countries.

We will review these divisions and their menu structure periodically, to ensure they continue to suit our user base. The hope is that this will be intuitive, and give a coarse place to start your search. A more detailed location directory is being worked on, and will be posted at a later date along with an official How-To Guide.

Due to severe space limitations in the menu, some of the names are difficult to read, so here's what they mean:

Menu Item Definition
Americas North America (not including the United States), Central and South America, and West Indies
Eurafrasia/Oceania Europe, Africa, Asia, Oceania, and Antarctica
New Zealand/Islands New Zealand and Oceanic Island Nations and Territories
West/North Australia Western Australia and Northern Territory of Australia
Victoria/Tasmania/SA Victoria, Tasmania, and South Australia
New South Wales (AU) New South Wales, Australian Capital Territory, and Jervis Bay Territory
Non-contiguous Non-contiguous US States and American Continental Territories of the United States
Asia (Except South) All of Asia, except for South Asia (there wasn't a good term for this division)

If there are any others that are unclear to you, or if you want to suggest better names for these, please let us know.

Location search took a lot of work to get up and running smoothly, and we're still making tweaks; it will even be fully brought over to the Old Reddit layout as well sometime in the next several weeks. I'd also like to thank everyone who has worked on building or testing this feature over the past year. If you see anything acting strangely, please let us know so that we can fix it.


Recent Updates & Known Issues:

Known Issue: Locations in Texas must follow the recommended format above, or they will receive the wrong flair. If your post names a major city in Texas, the bot will will ask you to double-check the flair, and correct the post if needed, however we aren't able to make this work for every possible Texas location. Areas outside of Texas are not affected by this limitation. As of June 18th, we believe we've gotten this mostly working now for new posts; please let us know if there are any remaining issues.


r/PeePersonals • • 2h ago

M4F California 35 [M4F] #SouthernCalifornia - Any women interested in getting tickled until they pee? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have a major tickling fetish, I’ve been curious about tickling a woman until they peed potentially while they’re restrained. Please reach out if interested. Looking for open minded women (one or more) to help me play it out. Or couples where I or we tickle your gf/wife. Please tell me a bit about yourself when you reach out! Let me know you found me on this sub. Please be in SoCal or planning to travel here soon, thanks!


r/PeePersonals • • 3h ago

T4A Online 29 [NB4A] #Online fit enby with a fat ass looking for someone to turn me into your good little piss girl NSFW Spoiler

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Hey I'm Rylee, and I'm just a desperate slut who needs a TF or Futa babysitter to corrupt me into a good piss girl and butt slut. If you're not a girl with a cock irl, you're welcome to pretend to be one using futa hentai or trans of models as your pics. Just please start in character and be able to send pics as often as you want me to. Im such a needy slut for girl cock 🥵


r/PeePersonals • • 7h ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 44 [M4F] #London, UK #Online Chunky, bearded guy in search of someone to explore with. In person preferred, but open to online NSFW

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44M from the UK, live near Reading. 6', chunky, hairy, bearded. There is a pic on my profile, should you so desire!

Looking for someone who wants to explore with me, open to someone experienced or first timers, not too fussy either way.

Happy to start off online/chat based, but would prefer it to develop into in person play. I've managed a meet up before with someone from Reddit and the experience was amazing. Really solidified how much I love watersports, and I'd like to indulge some more.

In an open relationship, and I understand that's a deal breaker for some so hence my honesty. I work away a lot, mainly London and Birmingham, and usually have a hotel, so can host. Can be a little tough with the timings around work, but willing to make it work if you are.

Age, race, size are not really important, as long as you love it wet! Tho if pushed, I would skew towards preferring chubby brunettes, but it's not a deal breaker!


r/PeePersonals • • 8h ago

M4F Colorado 44 [M4F] #Colorado - Seeking FWB/GF to explore my favorite kink NSFW

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This has always been my favorite kink, so I'm looking for someone to share it with. Specifically, I'll want to see you go places that aren't the bathroom, outdoors, somewhere discreet. I also enjoy giving golden showers, there's something really intimate and sexy about it.

Outside of that, I enjoy a short hike, coffee on a cool morning, spending time with friends, occasional golf and daily gym

Let's chat for a bit and see if we vibe, and go from there

I'm white with dark hair, 6'2" and 190 lbs. DDF, atheltic build


r/PeePersonals • • 8h ago

M4F Online 37 [m4f]. #online please let me watch you pee? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a dirty chubby 37 year old man who loves nothing more than to watch beautiful femmes pee. Be you an older femme with a trickle stream or a younger girl with a powerful push, I want to see it all. I adore watching ts girls wet themselves and bbws leak all over. I just want to see girls/femmes pee. Please make a perv happy and reach out. Maybe I can make some of your fantasies work out too


r/PeePersonals • • 11h ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 43 M4F #UK #Online. Looking for a pee partner NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey all,
I’m quite new to this world and would love to find someone to chat to, and potentially play with online. I am think along the lines of pee videos, requests, and general sexy pee play. My DMs are open, so drop me a line


r/PeePersonals • • 13h ago

M4F Online 30 [M4F] #Online. Looking for girls who want to be controlled. NSFW

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I’m looking for girls who want their bladders controlled. If interested, you can ask me for permission to go, get teased, or play games that will make you pee.
I can give tasks and challenges that will make your need to pee worse, or just command you to go.

Please girls only!!


r/PeePersonals • • 23h ago

M4F Online 25[m4f] #Online. Looking for a sub to do omo stuff with over a call, and also a friend! NSFW

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Hello! My name is Street, and I'm looking for someone to hang out with while they hold! On top of that, I'm specifically looking for someone who wants to do that, but also hang out in non-lewd ways, too! It could be playing games, or watching videos, or just chatting!

I don't have a pee kink by any means; it's only omorashi! Watching someone start to squirm and maybe breathe heavy or moan and leak is super cute, and, yes, pretty hot, too! I'd love to get to hear that (or even see it) over a call! Bonus points if it's not even a lewd call at first, and we just naturally flow (get it? flow?) into it!

I don't have too much experience with this kink since I haven't really gotten to do it with anyone. As for me, I don't like doing it myself, but if we end up becoming close friends, I might do it just for you! In any case, I'm hoping to learn more about how the kink goes in reality rather than in text RP, which is about the closest I've gotten!

As a fun fact, here's one very specific scene I've definitely daydreamed about once or twice: Playing games with a friend, and we're on a call, and suddenly they stop, and when I look over, I see them wetting themselves over the video call all embarrassed because they couldn't wait until the round ended! It just seems like the cutest thing ever! With that said, I do want to say that I don't show my face, and I don't send lewd pictures, either!

So, what I'm looking for is mostly calls, since, like I said, I don't have a pee kink; it's just watching my partner getting desperate (and, to a lesser degree, losing control) that I enjoy! If you're interested in what I've said, feel free to reach out! I'm friendly, and I'm happy to give praise (just don't ask me to be mean)!


r/PeePersonals • • 21h ago

M4A Online 24 [m4a] #online planning on holding and leaking the rest of the night, who wants to join ? NSFW

1 Upvotes

I have decided that tonight’s gonna be a wet and fun night. I’m gonna slowly leak into my pants the rest of the night and I’m banning myself from taking my underwear off no matter how bad I have to go. I’m up for someone to give me some dares and challenges while I hold. I love some sneaky public fun(nothing too crazy) and being told when to leak. Feel free to shoot me a message and we can get chatting!


r/PeePersonals • • 22h ago

M4A Netherlands / Online 22 [M4A] #netherlands #online Desperately holding my pee while gaming NSFW

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Im desperately holding my pee while gaming and would love to be controlled till the point im going to leak and i love when u make me do something thats makes it even harder to hold my pee. Message me privately if u want to control my bladder


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Online 31[m4f] #online - looking for a pee master? NSFW

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I am a 31 yo guy ready to control your bladder and get you to full desperation. I enjoy a lot when subs pray to release their loads. Wanna be taught the real kinky way? Let me take control over when, where and how to release your bladder, babe.


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4A Online 19 [M4A] #online I’ve been holding my piss for ages and I’ll happily show myself making a mess on my bedroom floor NSFW Spoiler

4 Upvotes

Desperately looking for someone that wants sext with a pisskink ive been holding in for a long time and want to show myself being the little slut that i am and wetting myself all over my bedroom floor, ill even wet my pant if you want me too, tell me anything and ill do it my wish is your command.


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F New Hampshire / Online 48 [M4F] #NH/Online-seeking curvy/chubby girl to pee for me often! NSFW

2 Upvotes

I am a 48-year-old man into curvy girls who like to pee for me often! I like girls with thick legs, cellulite, big arealos, prefer shaved, likes to use toys! I’d like to get to know each other a little, play around, and see what else we can get up to!
Dm me your favorite color and what turns you on! Drink lots of water!


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F North Dakota 34[M4F] Bi male seeking long term partner who loves everything pee. Other than degrading. Traveling okay #North Dakota. NSFW

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Buckle in, I am looking for the woman of my dreams - someone who will indulge in the absolute ecstasy of peeing with me. I love the sheer intimacy it provides, it is nothing but pure bliss for me. I want to explore you and have you explore me. Your wildest fantasies are what I want you to experience.

About me, I’m 6’ tattoos, uncut, nerdy/geeky, fit build, and likely the most open to trying new things person you’ll ever meet.

Peeing is what I want to be the highlight of our intimacy, to feel desired at all times, but when the words I need to pee are spoken, a flame erupts and we can’t stay off each other.

Things I’ve tried and love: wetting, peeing and masturbating, going down on a woman and she pees her panties and I move them to the side and tickle her urethra with my tongue. Touching her while she’s peeing, peeing inside her (yes I can pee hard!), having her pee while I’m inside her. I do like playing with my foreskin while I’m peeing, to me it’s very important you enjoy an uncircumcised penis.

Things I want: everything listed above, someone who isn’t shy of not only tasting my pee but theirs as well (important were both well hydrated or this is not enjoyable at all), someone who loves cum and from time to time, wants to share that as well.

I said I’m bi which may not be important other than information. I have never done anything with another man but would absolutely be willing if it’s a fantasy of yours. Going down on another uncut man is something I desire tremendously. I’d love if he tasted like you first :)

Please do not hesitate to message.


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Florida / Online 29 [M4F] #Florida/Online - Lets Chat About A Public Piss Fantasy I Have! NSFW

1 Upvotes

29 years old, 5'11", fit build, submissive. I have a fantasy in particular that i can’t stop thinking about lately. I’d love to tell you all about it! Ill answer any questions you have, and would love to hear your fantasies as well. Message me and let’s chat!


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Illinois / Online 37 (m4f) #online #illinois looking for a piss partner near or far NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello there. I'm a 37 year old male from Illinois in search of a fun and outgoing piss partner. I'm very open to all things piss related. It could be from the dom side of things like bladder control and omorashi. Can be things together like sharing ourselves going, showers exchanged, piss during sex and so much more. If you think you're into like I am and think we might click. Don't hesitate to send me a message.


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Online 25 M4F looking to control your bladder #online NSFW

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I love starting out an easy chat with a woman, absentmindedly encouraging her to drink. As the conversation flows, so does the water down into her bladder.

Her urgency slowly increases, but she knows her relief is tied to my permission. Leg twisting turns into crossing, escalating in even more agitated contorsions, as her bladder becomes fuller and harder.

At this point, the conversation is over and the game begins. In spite of her begging, I'll press on her bladder and give her challenges to bring her urgency at an all time high.

No matter how much she begs or squirms, I will keep her horny and desperate for as long as possible, until she either loses it or earns her relief.

if this sounds interesting to you, don't hesitate to dm me!


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4A Online 30 [M4A] #online Piss Drinking Chat and Ideas, and other NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm a 30 year old guy. I'm super into piss drinking. I'd love to talk to someone about it. I'm a little shy, but I like going really far with it and wouldn't mind you pushing a little further. (I like eating food with piss, for example.) I'm also open to other kinks.

I'm bisexual, so anybody is fine. If you'd like me to do something or to chat, let me know.

Limits: public, scat


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F California / Online 45m [M4F] looking for face sitting #losangeles #online NSFW Spoiler

1 Upvotes

Looking for pee drinking and analingus and any girl also wanting golden showers optional I love to please orally in all methods and want to try new things . Open minded to trying scat receiving on chest and watching some domination and spitting in my mouth female femboy trans love big tits and even more big lips let me drink your pee straight from your pussy slips


r/PeePersonals • • 2d ago

F4FT Online [25F4F/T] #online Feeling insatiable all day. Can’t stop wetting. NSFW

5 Upvotes

A few days a month I become completely feral. When I’m turned on, I automatically wet. I’ve been sitting in my puddle all day. Looking for a friend to connect streams and talk about other kinks. I have many. Let’s leak together. No cis men please.


r/PeePersonals • • 2d ago

M4A Pennsylvania M4A] 32 #PA - Would you like to hold, wet and pee together? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Looking for a fellow urinary enthusiast to get into some wet fun together with. Lets hang out and get wet together~

About me: i'm 32m, bi, in the philly burbs, chubby bear type. Very into holds, wetting in clothes/panties, giving showers and peeing in fun places/outdoors.


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4FT Utah 50 [M4F/FtM] #CNY Golden Shower NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for F/FTM into piss play. Specifically to piss on me and let me lick them clean. Prefer in person meet (over online but do enjoy chatting & sharing) where you can host. Just looking to enjoy the fantasy. Your boundaries will be discussed first & respected. Not a bot


r/PeePersonals • • 1d ago

M4F Florida 44 [M4F] #miami put my hotel shower to good use NSFW

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A bit late for tonight, but I will also be here Wednesday October 14, 2026. JW Marriott Miami on Brickell. Ask me for a pic of the shower where you’ll empty your bladder into my mouth and all over my face, it’s a nice recently renovated room.

I’m 44, 6’ tall, 185 lbs, in shape, professional, good looking, and a bit of a pervert. Talk soon!