r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • Aug 16 '24

Please read [META] Considerable Changes to Reduce Scammers NSFW

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Hey RAOBJ

Wanted to say that I’ve implemented changes that should, and already have, reduced the number of scammers and nefarious users from the sub.

Again, as always, if you encounter a scammer you can report to mod mail or report the post or comment on the post to prevent users from falling victim.

Hope this helps! Cheers.

RCG

Edit: we are implementing a change for verified women to bypass these rules. If you’re a woman who wants to verify, follow the directions in our wiki.

Please don’t dm me with issues. Message mod mail instead.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • Aug 05 '24

Meta [META] Update on Sub Moderation NSFW

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Hey y’all,

Just wanted to give some quick updates to you in regard to changes I’ve implemented to help the server.

The first change will reduce the number of scammers, sellers, bots, and other nefarious actors from posting on the sub. The gist is we now check whether or not a user is active in questionable communities and if they’re found to have participated then their posts will be auto removed. I cannot go into it further without possibly telling scammers how it’s being done or what subs are in question. BUT this change might also affect you and require you to make a new account. The mod team cannot and will not manually approve posts, there are just too many.

The second change is in regards to our weekly post limit. If you post more than the allotted times per week, you’ll be banned. Many people abuse the rule, so nobody will be given grace with this. If you’re posting on the sub then you should know and follow ALL the rules.

The third change is that saying pics on profile or anything of the sort is a banable offense. You’re not verified, you can offer pics elsewhere.

That’s it, hoping it helps. Cheers.

RCG


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 17m ago

M4F Miami 42 [M4F] #Miami - Married Dad looking for some casual daytime fun NSFW

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42-year-old married guy in Miami looking for discreet, no-strings-attached fun. Mutual privacy and absolute discretion are non-negotiable top priorities for me.

A bit about me: I’m 5'11" with a classic dad-bod build, though I manage to hit the gym a few times a week. I’m easygoing, groomed (cut/shaved), clean, and strictly DDF.

I’m looking for a woman who wants a fun, confidential, and low-drama arrangement. I am also open to a hotwife dynamic or a couple setup where the guy just watches (strictly no M4M contact; open to a scenario where we meet up and hubby/partner drives around while we play in the backseat). Logistically, I can occasionally host, travel, or explore car and semi-public options if the situation and timing align. My interests and kinks include age gaps (18+), breeding/creampies, cheating, light CNC, freeuse, and public or semi-public play, among others.

If this sounds like what you're looking for, send a DM with a quick introduction, a photo if you're comfortable sharing and let’s see if we click!


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 7m ago

M4F Boston 29 [M4F] #Boston - Thick uncut curved BBC visiting NSFW

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Hey! I’m a very athletic 29M looking for females (ONLY) in the BOSTON or surrounding areas. I’m vacationing here for the weekend. I have a fat uncut curved black cock, it’s very unique and some like to call it beautiful haha. Would love to experience a bj for my first time in this city.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 30m ago

M4F Dayton 39 [M4F] #Dayton - It's been awhile NSFW

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Hey I'm from the Dayton area looking to hopefully find something fun. It can be a one-time thing, ongoing or lead to more I'm pretty open to whatever. I don't mind too much about you just please don't be a heavy smoker. If you're interested shoot me a message!

Me: I'm 5'11" maybe a little chubby and about 235lbs, DDF and don't smoke.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 38m ago

M4F JerseyCity 31 [M4F] #JerseyCity - Friday night Dalliance NSFW

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What are you lovely ladies doing tomorrow?

I'm white, 5'7". Cute athletic brown eyes and hair.

I'm going to see the new Nathan Fielder movie at Newport in the afternoon. Looking for someone to grab a drink with around 630/7. Then go back to her place for a NSA evening.

I live in Hoboken. So Hoboken, JC, NYC, all in play.

You should be 25-45. Cute, clean, enjoy movies.

Send me a message if you want to suck some nice dick.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 1h ago

M4F Chicago 28 [M4F] #Chicago - No tricks, just treats this Halloween NSFW

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I’m a 28M in the Chicagoland area. 6’3”, tall/skinny type, caramel skin. I had an idea on how we can best celebrate Halloween this year. We may be too old for trick or treating, but that doesn’t mean we can each receive a special treat.

Here’s the scenario. I dress up as a scarecrow or some other stationary creature or decoration, something that any passerby wouldn’t give a second glance to at night. That’s where you come in. Instead of trick or treating for candy, you seek another treat in the candy bowl. Once you’ve had your fill of that special treat, you woo with the wind and howl with the night and walk out of sight. ;) Let’s talk, figure out some logistics and have fun!


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 1h ago

M4F Atlanta 40 [M4F] #Atlanta - A room with a View NSFW

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40m - 6' - 210lbs - athletic - generally considered handsome.

I have a huge free use fantasy, paired with a love of outdoor/covert public play with a career that has me living out of hotels...

You come to the hotel, a room key is waiting under your name at the front desk. You head upstairs, to an empty room, taking time to get comfortable before I get back. As planned, I knock on the door before entering, as you get a little flush at the idea of what's about to happen...

Lmk if you're interested, here for tonight.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 1h ago

M4F NewJersey 28 [M4F] #NewJersey - Looking for someone that loves to give a sloppy bj NSFW

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  1. Athletic/average build. 5'8", 170,
    Looking for someone that loves a cock to worship and explode in her mouth. I am definitely enthusiastic about using your mouth.

I’m a EMT by profession, but outside of work, I’m drawn to a very different kind of energy. Do u want to train ur bj skills? Nothing is sexier to me than a woman who feels slutty and insatiable for cock and pleasure...

Tell me a little about yourself


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 1h ago

M4F London 39 [M4F] #London - Aussie guy visiting LDN in Dec NSFW

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Now I know London is basically mini Sydney but I will be there for a week in December for work.

6ft3, 85kgs, well endowed and easy on the eyes if i say ao myself.

Would love to meet a local, take her out, have some good banter and if there is anconnection proceed to use our oral skills on each other.

Have a reddit review I can share as proof I am a good time 😅


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 1h ago

M4M NYC 33 [M4M] #NYC - guy looking to give head NSFW

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Hey, 33 year old bi male here from Queens looking to give head. 5’11, 170 lanky build. More on the inexperienced side but looking to learn. Sub here and into older doms. Pretty open kinkwise as well. Can’t host but can travel. Message if interested.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 1h ago

M4F Houston 31 [M4F] #Houston - Ever wanted to give a blowjob wearing some handcuffs or a blindfold? NSFW

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I’m a college educated/professional, 6'3, 230, blonde, short beard, ddf, thick 7 inch cock, large loads, and very kink friendly. Have pics on my profile and happy to share more, or elaborate on previous meetups. I’ve met a few people here and only had great experiences. I have a soft spot for hotwives that like to take naughty pics for their partners, but open to anyone. Pics absolutely not necessary and would not take or share any without your explicit permission. All the pics shared on my profile are from those that approved.

Would love to help you get messy this week! I love to sit back and relax and offer praise, or happy to take the lead and use you too. Experienced in throat fucking and respectful of any and all limits. Whatever I can do to make it the best experience for both of us, please don't be shy! I'm very easy-going and friendly and someone you may not expect this from if you knew me outside of reddit lol, but that makes it all the more fun personally.

I have lots of toys. Ankle and wrist restraints, cross x restraint to connect them, a collar and leash, blindfold, and a lace hood and leather hood with only a mouth hole. Send me a chat if interested!


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 2h ago

M4F NYC 31 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for that special woman that could look me in the eyes while she takes my load. NSFW

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I'll always remember the first person that I met off of Reddit years ago. She went out of the way to come visit me at my empty family beach house after being recently separated. She was incredibly sweet and had these deep amber eyes where all I could think about was the delicious looking stare as she took my boxers off and saw my hard cock bounce out.

I would really like to relive this moment with someone else. I think the act and pleasure of a blowjob goes both ways. Maybe for you it's testing how far you would go for someone and for me it's a validation of how amazing my cock is. Or maybe it's just this burning mutual desire to have our lips on each other.

I'm someone that's patient. Reassuring and I take our mutual enjoyment seriously. I want this to be something that we both think about years later like the example I put above.

I've done a lot in the bedroom over the years and most particularly I love a slow blowjob. I also take my time in the bedroom and there's just something about watching how you move your lips and where your eyes go and how I feel your tongue move. That's just so immeasurably erotic.

I generally get test results every quarter of the year, I'm currently clean, well groomed, and well dressed.

• Deep Blue Eyes

• Shaved Head with stubble

• Goes between workwear and business casual, Italian shirts and nice shoes.

• 168lbs, former rugby player. Slim build.

• 5'10" , 1.78cm

• 7.5 inch, thick and big balls

• Will have a car next week. I've met redditers in my car for spontaneous meetings.

• we use a safe word. I take consent very seriously.

Feel free to shoot me a message if this speaks to you.

I'm always happy to have a conversation, especially about travel and gastronomy.

Best

JH


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 2h ago

M4F SanDiego 46 [M4F] #SanDiego - Charming, well hung business traveler seeks amazing blowjob NSFW

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Hi all - I’m in San Diego this week for business. So naturally I’m in the mood for an amazing blowjob while I’m in town. And If you’re on here I bet you want to give one?

As for me I’m 46, white, 5’10”, in shape, well educated, even more well hung, mindful, safe, and fun. I’m into creating art, exploring the world, and generally bringing positivity to life.

I’m into women who’re smart, quirky, and a bit wild. Is that you?

If I’ve sparked your interest then send a chat my way and we’ll go from there!


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 3h ago

M4F Austin 35 [M4F] #Austin - Any women love giving head? NSFW

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Hey Austin, I'm 6'2 long dark hair, average body, well endowed. I'm looking for a woman in Austin that really loves giving head or just wants some practice. I'm near the downtown area, have my own place, work from home so you can come over whenever you feel the urge. My time is super limited currently hopefully that isn't a deal breaker. Down to meet up tonight?


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 3h ago

M4F SantaClarita 57 [M4F] #SantaClarita - Benefits. A Good Time. Satisfaction. NSFW

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A lot of the posts on here just seem WAY over the top to me. Maybe I'm old fashioned. Maybe I'm just old. lol But I remember when suggestion and innuendo were considered sexy. Being flirtatiously witty was a turn on, and we left the explicit dirty talk for when we were alone.
I'm just a normal guy.
6' tall, average build, salt and pepper. I've been accused of being handsome. I've been accused of being funny.
I may be too nice and polite for Reddit, or maybe the normal women (normal, but just spontaneous enough for an RAOBJ) lurk but don't post, and they reply to the posts they find interesting. I hope that's the case. Because the posts that I read that are supposedly from women are just way too porny to seem real, and I can imagine hundreds of horny guys flooding the inbox of every one of those posts.
So, who's interested in a nice, normal, SANE man who is stable and has a wonderful life, and is just interested in having a nice, normal, SANE woman friend for something fun, spontaneous, passionate, intense, and satisfying?
I'm not awkward. I'm not clingy. I'm not demanding. I have no intention of trying to change your life or your lifestyle. I don't want to take up all of your time or try to make you prioritize me. I'd just enjoy being the one you reach out to when you want a fun escape from the hustle and bustle of your busy life. Let's make each other feel great, and look forward to the next time. Or if you just want to have the fun and then disappear, I know how to enjoy the fun and then not bother you anymore. I'm not really interested in dating, and I have no interest in trying to give someone attention they don't want.
I'm hetero. Please don't message me if you know you're not who I'm interested in meeting. I don't drink or do dr*gs. I don't mind if you drink. I'd rather not spend time with someone who is out of their mind on some substance, or who smells like weed. I enjoy pleasant conversation, but I don't need to know all of your secrets. I'm fine with whatever you want to disclose, but I don't mind if you want to keep personal things personal.
Race is not an issue for me. It's 2026. If race is still an issue for you, then we probably wouldn't enjoy each other's company.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 3h ago

M4M NYC 31 [MM4M] #NYC - two mouths NSFW

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Two guys here:

A: 31 chill/ handsome/ 5'9 / 165 / slim smooth Puerto Rican guy

B: 37 chill/ handsome/ 5'5 / 175 / stocky hairy Puerto Rican guy

Very respectful of privacy and discretion.

Can host in Brooklyn.

We love sucking, getting throat fucked, jerking off, worshipping, and servicing. We take safe sex very seriously - open to providing test results and/or using protection.

STI-free and vaccinated for COVID and MPOX. Hoping to have a safe and fun time with someone. Contact info in profile. Good luck and happy blowjobs.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 3h ago

M4F Boston 26 [M4F] #Boston - incredibly smart and perfect and handsome and humble man looking for a first blowjob NSFW

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Hi everyone. So I spent a lot of time focusing on school and after finishing my masters degree I'm hoping to expand my horizons.
I'm about 5'8 and my weight in the 140-150 range, not super in shape not overweight as I play sports regularly. I do not smoke or drink. I’m a gamer and nerd when it comes to other interests.
Never had sex before and would love to finally hit the milestone on the year of the big 26. Head in particular has been an interest of mine but I'm open to a multitude of arrangements whether it's a ONS, less, or a longer term arrangement if we hit it off.

Verification pictures r a must after we talk!

I require from you some mutual attraction and being between 20-30 and clean. I have no ethnic or height preference. Important we meet up in public first for safety.
Anyways shoot me a dm if interested!
(NOT INTERESTED IN MEN)


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 4h ago

M4F Houston 24 [M4F] #Houston - Looking for someone to have fun with NSFW

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Black male 6'1 average body with some muscles. Can't host but I can travel.

I'm looking for a woman who wants to give a no pressure bj and see where it goes from there. Rough or gentle it's up to you, I want you to be comfortable while you give me head.

Ideally looking for a bbw but I'm open to all body types. No fakes or flakes please. I can send pics/verify upon request and hope you can do the same too.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 4h ago

M4F LongBeachCA 56 [M4F] #LongBeachCA - Looking for a girl that gets off on getting me off NSFW

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Work in the downtown area and would love to find a woman that gets off on sucking a guy off. I haven’t cum from a blowjob in a very long time.

I am 5’11” with very short brown/gray heart and clean shaven face. Weigh 195 with a definite dad bod. 6 1/2 inches below and trimmed.

Open to any age and am only looking for women or couples. Never had my cock shared but am open to it.

Rode my motorcycle today so I can’t host in a car but the parking structure here is private if you have tinted windows. Could possibly get a room for a couple of hours too.

Pictures in profile.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 5h ago

M4F Vancouver 46 [M4F] #Vancouver - Think you can make me cum? NSFW

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Caucasian 46, 6'5" 200lbs, 7" uncut. Trauma from my very first blowjob has put a mental block up and I think I've only orgasmed from a blowjob two or maybe three times in my life. I love the feeling but just can't seem to finish. If anyone would like to take on the challenge, I'd love to chat. I host in Surrey.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 5h ago

M4F Cannes 37 [M4F] #Cannes - Looking for a size queen who wants some fun NSFW

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White/caucasian 1.93 (6’4"), 75 kg (165lbs), well groomed, slim and fit body. Available near Cannes (France) but I can drive in the area to meet. I’m well endowed (7.5" length, 5.5" girth) to make a size queen happy. That would be a first time for me. It will be all for you to have fun with it.

I'm preferably looking for a white or east Asian woman under 40 years old, non smoking, with body type ranging from skinny to normal weight (although I wouldn't really mind a few extra kg).,


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 5h ago

M4F Fredericksburg 40 [M4F] #Fredericksburg - just a guy looking for fun connection in Virginia NSFW

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I'm 5'10 about 190 pounds, in shape but definitely more on the "dad bod" side of things, but I work out and stay in good shape. Fairly hairy all over except for my shaved head, I like to think of myself as "manly". I'm clean and uncut, with a cock that has been described as the "perfect size" which just means it's average lol.

What am I looking for? I'm not looking to make this a long term thing. I'm happy to take some time to make sure we have some chemistry but I'm looking for a one time thing. I want to feel desired and wanted (don't we all) and experience an enthusiastic encounter. Ultimately I've just been lonely for a while and I'd like to connect and have a fulfilling experience!

If any of this sounds like something you would be interested in, please hit me up and let's see where this takes us!


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 5h ago

M4F Chicago 31 [M4F] #Chicago - Looking for talent NSFW

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Clean and disease free(should you be as well) looking for someone that truly knows how to suck a good dick. The messy the better someone that takes their time and isn’t rushed, swallow it whole and make it disappear 😈. I love to eat 🐱 as well so I can mind 69 or eating you out right after making me cum. I have had success on here before but truthfully the blowjob wasn’t good lol hopefully I can find someone better! I can host or travel I’m 5’10 175 pounds with a nice sized dick as welll I can send pictures and whatever else you like! Hope to hear from you

Ps-ladies only lol sorry fellows not interested if you want to watch your girlfriend/wife give me a blowjob that’s fine as well but no male on male contact.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 5h ago

M4F Boston 38 [M4F] #Boston - Looking for some stress relief. NSFW

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Hey! I'm a 38 year old guy about 30 minutes west of Boston who is looking for a women who would be interested in helping me blow off some steam from a stressful few months at work. I'm 5' 7" 170 pounds, on the smaller side and cut. Not particularly picky on age. I'm willing to drive a little or host at my house. Definitely willing to reciprocate! 420 Friendly if you're down to smoke a little too.