r/ABDLPersonals • • May 16 '26

Welcome to r/ABDLPersonals — Read Before Posting (New Rules In Effect) NSFW

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This sub is for finding personal connections related to ABDL. It is not for selling products or services, nor is it for getting off. As such, the mods have updated the rules. Please do not message the moderators if you post was removed by the automod and you don't like the reason (message us if there's an error though).

Please bear with us as there will be some growing pains as we get things set up to filter out posts that break rules. If you think there was an error, please message us.

New Rule: ABDLs Only

Your post must include some reference to ABDL, diapers, nappies, etc. These need to be genuine; please report any posts that attempt to bypass this as the automod can't catch everything.

An example of a recent post trying to bypass this rule started out with "Hi ABDL people!" and then proceeded to talk about fetishes not related to ABDL. Please report posts like this.

CGL posts without mention of diapers do not belong here. There are other subreddits for CGL personals such as [r/cglpersonals](r/cglpersonals) or r/CGL_Personals. This is to ensure that only ABDLs are posting here; it's frustrating when you are talking to someone only for them to mention that they aren't actually into ABDL after they posted in the ABDL personals subreddit. This rule is to cut down on that behavior.

Don't assume your post is "obvious" if you don't explicitly mention ABDL related things. Most terms related directly to ABDL should be approved (diapers, nappies, padding, ABDL, AB, DL, etc.). Vague terms like "wearing", "24/7", "baby", bodily fluids, etc. can apply to other fetishes too and will result in the removal of your post if nothing else about ABDL is mentioned.

These may seem over the top at first to not include in our filter, but we have had posts for instance of someone wanting to be a "24/7 Sugar Baby" which was a scammer looking to take your money. Or another example would be "I'm wearing lingerie DM me" which has nothing to do with ABDL specifically. So while terms like that can apply to ABDL as well, we have to filter them out to keep this a safe community for ABDLs.

New Rule: Only One Post A Week (Every 7 Days) Allowed

This is to give everyone a chance to see relevant posts to them. When some people make multiple posts a week, others who don't post as frequently have their posts buried. This is to make it more fair to everyone so everyone's ads have a good chance of being seen!

New Rule: Post Flair Required

Flair is now required on all posts. The flair should match your R4R format in your title. For example, if your title says M4F, please use the M4F flair. R4R text is still required in titles in addition to flair.

This is to enable easier search features on the subreddit. There is a navigation bar at the top of the subreddit where you can select post flair to filter by when searching.

R4R Title Text is Still Required!
Formatting your title:
Your title must follow this structure: [Age] [Gender]4[Gender]
Examples: 24 M4F or M4F 24 or 19 NB4A

Missing either your age or your gender/seeking format will result in automatic removal. Adding extra characters such as "{ }" or words in between the age and gender can confuse the automod and result in post removal. Please follow the format listed (including using the "4"). We won't make an exception for any reason for anyone.

Reporting Issues

We have had a lot of reports of things that happened (such as people asking for money) in private messages or on another site. We are unable to verify these things without proof and will not remove posts or ban people without receiving proof. If you have screenshots, please upload them to Imgur and send us a message with the link. Unsubstantiated reports will be ignored.

What belongs here

  • Personal ads looking for genuine connection with other ABDLs
  • Friendship, relationships, dynamic partners, casual or serious
  • Long distance or local or online only

What doesn't belong here

  • Solicitation, paid services, or anything transactional
  • Selling or advertising content of any kind
  • Roleplay requests (try r/abdlroleplay or similar) are no longer allowed
  • Other fetishes without mention of ABDL
  • Posts that appear to be horny posts will be removed.
  • AMA posts, posts requesting upvotes, etc.

If your post was removed

  • Make sure your account isn't brand new and you have recent karma in other communities (we don't know how much you need, messages asking will be ignored)
  • Re-read the rules above and repost

If you still think it was removed in error, message the mods. Please don't post asking why your post was removed, just message us.

Modmail is for:

  • Removal disputes
  • Reporting rule violations
  • Urgent issues

Modmail is not for chatting, asking general questions, or requesting exceptions to rules. Please, please do not inundate the modmail because you don't like the rules. You are subject to a ban if you are argumentative because you don't believe the rules apply to you.


r/ABDLPersonals • • May 16 '26

A Guide for Successful Connections NSFW

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Hi there! I'm a new mod here at [r/ABDLPersonals](r/ABDLPersonals) and I am here to make this community better for ABDLs searching for relationships and other connections. I recently implemented the ABDLs Only Rule to help filter out posts that are unrelated. And I plan to make some other changes too over the coming weeks to hopefully make it easier to search for posts.

I have been an ABDL for as long as I can remember, and met my long-term partner and ABDL Caregiver right here on this subreddit a few years ago. Here's what worked for us. I can't promise this will work for everyone, but it's a good place to start to find real connections.

Genuine, Thoughtful Posts

My CG posted an ad with a few paragraphs detailing what they were looking for in and out of a dynamic. How ABDL/diapers would ideally fit into their life. But also talked about their vanilla interests and hobbies too. A post with detail helps the reader understand who you are as a person and why they should be interested in you!

Also, keep it positive! While you may feel frustrated at the lack of responses, putting that into your ad is a turn off for a lot of people. For example, saying things like "I have had no luck here and I don't even know why I keep bothering but here goes" in your post doesn't set the tone that you are actually excited to make connections. It creates an "ick" factor for a lot of people and could actually be the reason why you haven't made any connections!

Give it Time

As frustrating as it is, sometimes you have to post multiple times over the course of a few months/years. My CG posted multiple ads over the course of a few years before we connected. This platform isn't easy to search through, and posts get buried. It's hard sometimes to find those connections if a person who would be a good match doesn't see your post. I have implemented some changes to make it easier to find posts (a minimum 7 day rule between repeat posts and post flair requirement with a flair navigation tool to filter posts by).

Despite these changes, posts may still get buried at times if there's a high volume of submissions. Don't get too discouraged if you have to post a few times before making a connection. Also respond to other posts! I never made a post myself, but responding to other posts is what led me to meeting my CG. And remember, this is the nature of online dating in general; that it takes time to filter through profiles and find genuine connections. It takes patience, but it is possible!

Don't Rush

We all get excited when we think we found a new connection. Spammers rely on this emotion to lure you in. They will ask for money quickly after a few messages or try to get you to move off platform quickly. My CG and I messaged each other on Reddit for months before we moved off platform. These things take time, and if someone is pressuring you to move off this platform too fast, it's probably too good to be true.

Unfortunately we can't catch all of them, so please let us know (by sending us an Imgur link with screenshots) if someone is doing this to you.

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I will continue to edit this post if I think of more tips. I hope this helps for now!

Edit: Please don't message me asking for personal advice. It will be ignored.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 1h ago

F4F 25F4F Diapered Mommy Looking For A Little NSFW

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Heya Everyone trying my luck here. I’m Amiya. I’m 25F i’m Bi and i’m looking for a little.

A bit about me:
I’m Amiya, I’m a nurse. I’ve done nursing for 4 years now excluding studying. I working in ED and often have very busy days/weeks with odd timed shifts and a lot of working hours. I love to diaper up when I have free time at home and will wet till my diaper can’t hold no more! I got into diapers about 12-11 Years ago, with my first experience sneaking a diaper from my younger cousin to wear before bed (no I wasn’t caught but at 13-14 this was a thrill. I used to wet them then get anxious where I’d hide or dispose of them. Oh how I miss the thrill of it all. I currently live alone Just east of London.🇬🇧 My favourite Disney princess would have to be Jasmine from Aladdin, she’s so elegant 😌

About my experience as a Mommy:
I became a Mommy 4 years ago at the end of my schooling. Reason being I didn’t have the chance to wear very often (still my reasoning for now) but I love to express my care and nurture to others. I’ve only had female littles in the past and their and my own experiences have been great! Being said this has all been online. I can help with meal plans, changing, diaper picking, issues regarding chafing or any issues down there from diapers (thanks to my experience from nursing), nap times, company, a safe environment and almost anything else you could think of?? In the past I’ve had experiences regarding NSFW mommy-ing.

If you’re interested feel free to PM me or comment below and i’ll be happy to respond! I don’t bite 😊

When Messaging me start off with a bit about yourself e.g. Age, Gender, What you’re interested in, and other things that come to your mind!🫶

TLDR: I’m Amiya, I’ve been into diapers for 12 years. I am A nurse and I have 4+ Years of Mommy and NSFW Mommy experience.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 4h ago

M4A M24 M4A Massachusetts Diaper Lovers NSFW

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Im looking to make some friends and maybe friends w benefits w the right lady, im into cars, music, art, and video games. Im really just looking to see who else is around and into diapers and would wanna hangout irl. Im super easy going and open minded, clean, fit, respectful maybe you could start w telling me your favorite brand of diapers!!! I look forward to hearing from some of you!!!

Kinks include:

Diapers

Im a switch

Watersports

Pumping

Prostate play


r/ABDLPersonals • • 2h ago

M4M 33 M4M in Central/NW Ohio NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello, everyone!

I am a 33M "factory installed" ABDL located in Ohio. I have spent most of my adult life in a relationship where I could not be my true self... and honestly, I don't know exactly where I fall on the ABDL spectrum. I'd very much like to find out who I am and what all I like and would love to be able to explore that with someone else!

I am into lots of things (both kink and non-kink) and am looking for someone to get to know and explore everything with. I have never been a "casual" guy, and would REALLY like to find something ongoing or even long-term.

Feel free to DM me if you'd like to know more!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 36m ago

T4F 21tf4f/tf. hi! im looking for a long term mommy or big sis to put me in my place and turn me into the dumb little baby i was allways ment to be. NSFW

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loveeee being told what to do, and embarrassing little rules like being baned from the potty or like a day of only baby food.

need help being gently pushed into being more of a little baby.

I struggle to embrace little space alone and it helps a tone if some one is encouraging me.

I allso loveeeee being teased and feeling embarrassed.

pretty please turn me into a diaper dependent baby:3

outside of abdl stuff im a huge animal lover, I play alot of video games, and I collect random stuff.

I can be a little shy at first but I warm up quickly.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 37m ago

M4A 22M4A looking to chat about messy diapers and dreams about it NSFW

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Last night i had a dream that my girlfriend had been stripped and put into diapers by some type of organization and they wanted her to poop in them, since that'd make her regress and easier to control. I got to her when she had already messed and was starting to act babyish.

I helped her escape but couldn't manage to get the dirty diaper off of her and she'd keep removing any type of clothing i put on her. Was in a race against time to change her diaper before she messed again and regressed even more while trying to avoid this organization's agents, and i think it was just some rich guy who wanted her as his baby girl.

Anyway, anyone wanna chat about it or about any similar dreams/thoughts you've had? Dm me


r/ABDLPersonals • • 4h ago

M4F 22M4F? looking for a mommy/cg NSFW

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take down if not allowed

After so many unsuccessful attempts at finding a cg, i want to try again.. 22, M, I go by H, little age is less than 2 (circumstantial), from Ohio. preferred online, calls during work or when driving, voice messages (i absolutely love and will play multiple times), willing to be okay with delayed messaging while i'm with family

about me:

i used to be a semi driver, now im a warehouse employee restarting a business of mine, scrapping metal. i have an ESA for some metal health problems, but dont let it fool you, im very friendly and outgoing! i have my days, but generally im smiling and laughing and joking around. I DO NOT SEND SEXUAL IMAGES, i am not comfortable doing that, and i will explain if you choose to message me.

if you see this:

if you read to this part, please tell me a little about you, so i can get to know you, feel free to ask about me, but please respect my boundaries. please don't call me baby right away or make me call you mommy. i have that title reserved as "momma" holds a special place for me, and is given with utmost respect.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 6h ago

M4A 28 M4A - Online or Minnesota- Looking to be a care giver NSFW

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I'm still fairly new to abdl relationships, but I'd likebto be someone's care giver. I'd like to care for them, give gentle support, and let them be who they are without judgment. I promise to do my best with someone and will make you feel valued and cared for.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 1h ago

F4A 21f4a lil girl lookin to chat for tn!! NSFW

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Not a whole lot goin on, still not able to get diapered, but that's ok! Come say hi!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 11h ago

T4F 38tF4F/T Accidently adopted a little NSFW

7 Upvotes

Hello lovely little

Second time trying this (please don't remove my post again 🙏)

So long story short, I have accidentally adopted a little over Snapchat and thought it would be fun to start a gc with littles (CG's welcome too) for a crèche sort of thing. Where the littles can play and I can learn more about my CG side.

We are looking for femmes and trans folk for now but may consider changing once we get going.

Not sure if I've missed anything but let me know if I have.

🩷🩷


r/ABDLPersonals • • 5h ago

M4A 23m4a Tx/dfw looking for friends NSFW

2 Upvotes

Tx/dfw looking for friends preferably in the DFW area to chat. I’m down to hangout irl also only if I get to know you and feel comfortable. In my free time, I'm into biking, gaming, fitness, sports cars, and sci-fi/thriller movies and tv series. On the non-vanilla side, I'm asexual and mostly DL with some AB side.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 5h ago

M4A 24 M4A #Las Vegas NSFW

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Looking for little friends, daddies, mommies!
I would love to get to know you :p shoot me a message or leave a comment!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 1h ago

NB4A 19 FemBoy4A #Netherlands looking for a friend or an cg or another switch NSFW

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Hiii, im a femboy from the netherlands, I like wearing and using diapers. Im open to chat with anyone who is around my age

A little about me:

-Im a little over 6 feet (182cm)

-long blonde hair and blue eyes

-I can go fem or boy mode depending on the day

-I use diapers for both

-some other kinks I'm into: bondage, anal, etc

-some non kink stuff I like: cozy building games, board games, roleplay(dnd, role-playing events)

-I'm a sub leaning switch and swing al directions(pan)

Just send me a dm, with who you are and what you whould like :3


r/ABDLPersonals • • 10h ago

F4M 36 [F4M] Denver/ Palm Beach ABDL little looking for her older daddy. NSFW

5 Upvotes

Me: I'm Zoe, 35 im currently working in healthcare (night shift girlie), plan on pursuing my education, love to travel and have decided to make Denver my new home base. In my free time you can find me at concerts. ( Im an EDM girlie.) PLUR. I teach yoga, outside spending time In nature, ooh and im a snack expert. I'm best friends with Mary Jane. You don't have to love her just respect my choice. I also speak Spanish & French and that's a big part of ms also.

Little me: Im An ABDL little who's is wanting to explore that side more. My ultimate dream is to have my own nursery. I enjoy wearing onesies and all the little gear. I love decorating pacifiers. Plus im finally in a huge ABDL city so that's extra exciting.

You: 30 +, Have goals/ career going, in Denver or comes visits often, Has some similar interests as me, likes ABDL girls, is looking for someone to connect with & Can balance kink with regular life.

Thanks so much for reading if you got this far. If my.post caught your attention please dont hesitate to shoot me a message. Mention to me your Harry Potter House or Fave movie so I know you saw this.

Looking forward to the good times ahead .


r/ABDLPersonals • • 2h ago

NB4A 21 [NB4A] Online Genderfluid ABDL happy with any of chats, friends, teasing, humiliation, switch-y shenanigans, or doting NSFW

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Hi! :3 I'm from the USA (New England) but can only really do online stuff. I'm AMAB, but I mostly present feminine for kink stuff. (though I'm happy being either a boy or a girl if someone else wants me to! :3)

I'm really into both the AB and DL sides, both wetting and messing, as well as both sexual and nonsexual aspects. I wear diapers a lot (mostly at night), and I also love gaming, programming, and a bunch of other nerd stuff.

Kink-wise I'm into most things I find either gross or cute. Big stinky diaper messes, hypno, and forcefem are some of my favorites, but I like a wide variety of things. I also have only a few limits, so I'd love to talk nearly anything kinky!

If any of this sounds interesting to you, hit me up. I love talking to all sorts of different people!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 6h ago

M4A M4a 21dl looking for others Hey just looking to chat a bit to others like me NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi 21m just wanted to try and find other people like and and talk a bit


r/ABDLPersonals • • 16h ago

M4A 34m/27f4A - 24/7 diapered couple - Philadelphia, PA NSFW

14 Upvotes

24/7 authentic diaper couple - friendship - Philly for the weekend.

34m and 27f diapered couple looking for ABDL friends in the Philly area for this weekend. We reside in Schuylkill County but are heading into Philadelphia for some weekend festivities. Looking for chill, easy going people that wanna hang out. We can be as discreet or open for you comfort level.

Let me know!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 2h ago

M4F 30[M4F] #Online - looking for a diaper lover NSFW

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I'm Kevin and I'm from Alberta Canada :)

I'm looking for a princess that's more a diaper lover than little but I'm okay with both :)

 I have been into this community for about 10 years now and am looking for someone to match my lifestyle :) 

I'm active and like to go out but I also like to stay home and have cozy movie nights. 

I'm a pretty easy going person and I like to joke around and have fun. I like to play video games, watch hockey, hiking, camping, events, and outdoors stuff 

I'm looking for a girl that kinda matches my lifestyle but not a must.  Ultimately I'm looking for someone that I can be besties with. 

I'm looking for someone to have a vanilla relationship with outside of the house(most of the time) and then a kinky and fun life inside the house 

If you are a little, I am  strictly non sexual during little space. 

Im 6 feet tall, 260 pounds,  I'm muscular and attractive. I'll send selfies if requested 

I'm an open book so don't be afraid to reach out 

Please DM me if you have any questions 😊😊😊

Cis female only please 


r/ABDLPersonals • • 3h ago

M4A M4A 18m looking for a CG NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello! 18m and I’m looking for someone to introduce me to the whole abdl thing since I’m still pretty new. I’m bisexual so please let me know! Have a great day DMs are open😁


r/ABDLPersonals • • 3h ago

M4F M4F 28 ABDL looking to meet new people NSFW

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Hello, I’m George, nice to meet everyone.

A bit about me, Ive been an ABDL for over 15 years, but mainly has been a private thing.

Would love to open a little bit more, even if it’s online, therefore I’m doing this post.

Not always, but for me ABDL has its NSFW side, that is why Im tagging M4F, but I’m also super open to explore the SFW side of things.

I’m mainly a sub, but not closed to having a cool dynamic were everyone wears.

Outside of diapers I also love movies, sports, and a bit of partying, so can also chat about interests outside of diapers.

Hope to meet someone cool.


r/ABDLPersonals • • 11h ago

T4A 27 TF4A #Germany looking for someone to chat NSFW

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Heiii🌻☀️

ich suche einfach eine Person mit der man sich gemütlich etwas austauschen kann ganz ohne Zwang.

Bin eine sehr zurückhaltende little DL, hab keinerlei Erwartungen und ich hoffe du/ihr auch nicht 🙈

Schreibt mich gerne einfach an😇


r/ABDLPersonals • • 14h ago

F4A 27 [F4A] #North Carolina #NC - Soft Mommy Domme Looking For A Little For Platonic Dynamic NSFW

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First and foremost, I am currently in a romantic relationship with my partner whom I love very much. HOWEVER, due to their increased work hours and limited availability during the week, they have given me their blessing to look for an additional platonic dynamic to satisfy my need for the caregiving/momma role I have.

IMPORTANT

In your first message to me, please include what I should call you, your age, your location, what drew you in to respond to me, and a fun fact about yourself. Please feel free to make it as long or as short as you would like, just know that I appreciate and tend to respond to longer messages more.

Local preferred but open to long distance!

(If you've messaged me in the past, please feel free to message me again if I didnt reply to you or double message me if we havent chatted in a bit, my dms get really crazy lol.)

Hello! I'm Batty and I'm searching for a little:) I'm a soft caregiver all the way and I would describe myself as very compassionate and caring.

A little about me:

I am plus size but I am losing weight for my own health (50lbs down since January!), if plus size is not your thing, please do not message me! I present myself as alt/goth and have piercings and tattoos and split dyed hair. I am smart (ask about my degree if you'd like!) and have experience being a temporary mommy domme to a couple subs/littles in the past as well as being a momma to my current partner!

Some things I would expect of you is to follow rules set in place after vetting each other for quite some time. Vetting takes time and I am in no rush to get into a dynamic. I would have rules such as self care (showering, brushing teeth, etc), self improvement (gratitude journal, positive self talk, etc), and other things that are catered to your specific wants and needs.

I AM NOT JUST ABOUT SEXUAL PLEASURE AND WILL NOT BE GETTING SEXUAL IN THIS DYNAMIC, so if thats what you're after, please look somewhere else. I truly want to help you grow as a human being and take care of yourself. If you message me something sexual, I will be blocking you. Please do not send me any explicit photos either.

I am chronically ill and currently not working full time (just part time) due to my health. I have an autoimmune disease that makes me constantly sick and lethargic. I am working on getting into a new specialist that can help with a care plan but the health care in the states is difficult so its gonna take time. If this is a dealbreaker for you, that is fine. I realize that me not working full time poses challenges. Rest assured that I do have an income, it's just not a lot.

A little bit about you:

I have no height, weight, or looks preference for you. In fact I'd rather talk for a bit before sending any pictures. I wanna get to know you for you:) You Ideally will be 20- 40 years old although I'm not going to write you completely off if you're not in that range by a couple of years. I AM VERY VERY VERY INTERESTED IF YOU ARE LOCAL TO ME! If you are local to me, please say so! I love intelligence and being passionate about things. If you nerd out over things and yap about them, I wanna chat. Good hygiene is a must but if it's something you struggle with, we can always work on it together. I'm not looking to rush into anything, I want to take my time with this.

Some things about me now. I enjoy reading and writing (I recently wrote a book!) and try to take the time to do so everyday. I'd love an ear to listen to me ramble about plot points and/or characters. Or perhaps even better yet we can each do our own little activity while in the same room. I always love that. I play video games from time to time but I'm not too into them. If you're super into them I'll gladly watch you play. I'm getting back into fitness and health. For my own good. Hmmm what else about me. Ahhh my core values- empathy, knowledge, love, stability, growth, and happiness. I make decisions based on these 6 values. If my decision doesn't align with them, I make a new decision. I expect you to learn how to go through with this process as well:) It is very beneficial and life changing.

What I am NOT looking for. Please do not call me mommy right away. That takes time and I've been getting too many messages that start off with that. It's quite disrespectful to yourself honestly. You should be looking to call that title to someone who has earned it. I am not looking for someone across the world. I apologize, I know it's hard finding dommes but I am only open to those in the western hemisphere due to timezones.

What I AM looking for. I am looking for rules set in place. These aren't to upset you, but they're to push you to be a better human being. I am looking to get to know you on a deeper level. I want to know you inside and out. What makes you upset, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, and so on and so forth. I am looking for someone who has patience. I am still figuring this side of me out. I am a newer mommy domme and have limited experience. That being said, I do think I naturally give off mommy energy irl so it shouldn't be too hard haha:)

I want someone who will adore our dynamic and me. Post about us on social media. Put my selfies I send you as your wallpaper on your phone. Talk about me to your friends and family. Nonchalant people don't impress me. I want someone who is going to be desperate for my attention and needy. Obviously we both need our personal space but overall I want obsession (healthy obsession). I need to feel wanted.

Ideally if you're still reading this there's at least some interest, if you would like to message me, I ask that you message me with more than just a "hey, how are you?" Or "will you be my mommy?". Those will get ignored. Get deep and tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for. The longer the message, the more appreciative I am. Thank you for reading and I hope you have a lovely day/night♡


r/ABDLPersonals • • 11h ago

M4A 19 M4A MD, Diaper swap or use my diaper NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hello, as the title says I’m looking to hopefully swap used diapers or just take any used diapers off your hands in Maryland. I love wearing other peoples diaper trash. I’d also be happy with someone just peeing in the diapers I’m wearing. If that sounds interesting please reach out!


r/ABDLPersonals • • 5h ago

F4A 20 TF4A #germany/online Liebevolle Mama sucht kleines um die/den sie sich kümmern kann / Mommy looking for little to care for NSFW

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Hello everyone, I am a fairly new Mama/Mommy. I’ve decided that I want to embrace and live out my Mommy side more. Because of that, I’m looking forward to any messages I receive.

I come from near Munich, in the district of Fürstenfeldbruck, but I won't give any more specific details than that. I still live with my parents and my sister, but I’m currently looking for an apartment and planning to move out. I work as an EMT (emergency medical technician) with the Red Cross in emergency services, and I’m currently getting my heavy vehicle driving license. 🚑

In my free time, I’m active with the Red Cross in the disaster response and medical service units, as well as in the Youth Red Cross as a group leader for children and youth. I love being outside in nature 💐 for hiking or just sitting and taking in the view. I enjoy coding and working on nerdy projects. I also like painting and drawing, though unfortunately I don't do it very often. I love fantasy, especially Tolkien's universe—not just the Lord of the Rings books, but all the other stories of this fascinating world 🧙‍♂️. I enjoy watching movies and listening to music and podcasts.

I’m looking forward to getting to know you, and hopefully talk to you soon.