First and foremost, I am currently in a romantic relationship with my partner whom I love very much. HOWEVER, due to their increased work hours and limited availability during the week, they have given me their blessing to look for an additional platonic dynamic to satisfy my need for the caregiving/momma role I have.
IMPORTANT
In your first message to me, please include what I should call you, your age, your location, what drew you in to respond to me, and a fun fact about yourself. Please feel free to make it as long or as short as you would like, just know that I appreciate and tend to respond to longer messages more.
Local preferred but open to long distance!
(If you've messaged me in the past, please feel free to message me again if I didnt reply to you or double message me if we havent chatted in a bit, my dms get really crazy lol.)
Hello! I'm Batty and I'm searching for a little:) I'm a soft caregiver all the way and I would describe myself as very compassionate and caring.
A little about me:
I am plus size but I am losing weight for my own health (50lbs down since January!), if plus size is not your thing, please do not message me! I present myself as alt/goth and have piercings and tattoos and split dyed hair. I am smart (ask about my degree if you'd like!) and have experience being a temporary mommy domme to a couple subs/littles in the past as well as being a momma to my current partner!
Some things I would expect of you is to follow rules set in place after vetting each other for quite some time. Vetting takes time and I am in no rush to get into a dynamic. I would have rules such as self care (showering, brushing teeth, etc), self improvement (gratitude journal, positive self talk, etc), and other things that are catered to your specific wants and needs.
I AM NOT JUST ABOUT SEXUAL PLEASURE AND WILL NOT BE GETTING SEXUAL IN THIS DYNAMIC, so if thats what you're after, please look somewhere else. I truly want to help you grow as a human being and take care of yourself. If you message me something sexual, I will be blocking you. Please do not send me any explicit photos either.
I am chronically ill and currently not working full time (just part time) due to my health. I have an autoimmune disease that makes me constantly sick and lethargic. I am working on getting into a new specialist that can help with a care plan but the health care in the states is difficult so its gonna take time. If this is a dealbreaker for you, that is fine. I realize that me not working full time poses challenges. Rest assured that I do have an income, it's just not a lot.
A little bit about you:
I have no height, weight, or looks preference for you. In fact I'd rather talk for a bit before sending any pictures. I wanna get to know you for you:) You Ideally will be 20- 40 years old although I'm not going to write you completely off if you're not in that range by a couple of years. I AM VERY VERY VERY INTERESTED IF YOU ARE LOCAL TO ME! If you are local to me, please say so! I love intelligence and being passionate about things. If you nerd out over things and yap about them, I wanna chat. Good hygiene is a must but if it's something you struggle with, we can always work on it together. I'm not looking to rush into anything, I want to take my time with this.
Some things about me now. I enjoy reading and writing (I recently wrote a book!) and try to take the time to do so everyday. I'd love an ear to listen to me ramble about plot points and/or characters. Or perhaps even better yet we can each do our own little activity while in the same room. I always love that. I play video games from time to time but I'm not too into them. If you're super into them I'll gladly watch you play. I'm getting back into fitness and health. For my own good. Hmmm what else about me. Ahhh my core values- empathy, knowledge, love, stability, growth, and happiness. I make decisions based on these 6 values. If my decision doesn't align with them, I make a new decision. I expect you to learn how to go through with this process as well:) It is very beneficial and life changing.
What I am NOT looking for. Please do not call me mommy right away. That takes time and I've been getting too many messages that start off with that. It's quite disrespectful to yourself honestly. You should be looking to call that title to someone who has earned it. I am not looking for someone across the world. I apologize, I know it's hard finding dommes but I am only open to those in the western hemisphere due to timezones.
What I AM looking for. I am looking for rules set in place. These aren't to upset you, but they're to push you to be a better human being. I am looking to get to know you on a deeper level. I want to know you inside and out. What makes you upset, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, and so on and so forth. I am looking for someone who has patience. I am still figuring this side of me out. I am a newer mommy domme and have limited experience. That being said, I do think I naturally give off mommy energy irl so it shouldn't be too hard haha:)
I want someone who will adore our dynamic and me. Post about us on social media. Put my selfies I send you as your wallpaper on your phone. Talk about me to your friends and family. Nonchalant people don't impress me. I want someone who is going to be desperate for my attention and needy. Obviously we both need our personal space but overall I want obsession (healthy obsession). I need to feel wanted.
Ideally if you're still reading this there's at least some interest, if you would like to message me, I ask that you message me with more than just a "hey, how are you?" Or "will you be my mommy?". Those will get ignored. Get deep and tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for. The longer the message, the more appreciative I am. Thank you for reading and I hope you have a lovely day/night♡