r/SipsTea • • 21h ago

SMH The advice didn't age well.

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u/big-williestyle 18h ago edited 18h ago

These posts all have the same issue, they completely don't understand how people lived. They see tv and the brady bunch all flying to hawaii and think everyone did that. I'm 51 and in my childhood eating out was rare, nobody flew anywhere on vacation and people drive the same cars for so long it's how you knew who was coming down the road. The only people I knew who "lived like rock stars" were single males who had no kids and had the boss job at the factory.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 17h ago

I remember my dad in the 1980s, working as a police officer, with my mom working as basically a secretary, barely making ends meet with three kids. I still remember when my dad said that he had to buy used tires for his car because he couldn't afford new ones. It's both funny and embarassing for the posters of such nonsense to actually believe what they are spouting.

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u/loondawg 17h ago

Do bots have beliefs?

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u/98983x3 16h ago

No. But the ppl who believe the bots do.

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u/Legal-Butterfly-4507 2h ago

Well do you loondawg bot?

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u/hollowsoldier- 17h ago

That same salary today would be renting and would certainly not support 3 kids. They had it better by a country mile, if they opened a saving account they would “only” get about 7 percent interest. If I open one now I get .3 percent. Used tires? That’s so tragic.

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u/Shot_Investigator18 16h ago

Seriously though everyone’s wants to play struggle olympics. People could afford homes and children on two sometimes one income and now my partner and I make over 100k a year after tax and we have almost no hope of buying a home. Spoiled generation

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u/brendan84 14h ago

You can easily buy a home with that income.

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u/Right_Lengthiness266 13h ago

Entirely depends where. The cheapest home with half of an hour of me that doesn't require a teardown is $250k, for a 2 bed 1 bath. This is not a particularly high CoL area, and even with a 20% down payment you'd need to be making 80k to afford the mortgage+taxes+insurance.

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u/brendan84 12h ago

I bought my place for $210k making 50k per year and I used the first time home buyer option so only needed 8k down. My mortgage was $1569 including taxes, mortgage insurance, and home insurance. I've had no problem at all making payments. Obviously, it wasn't ideal spending 35% of my income on my mortgage and I had to cut back on spending, but that's always been the reality of home ownership, and I certainly wasn't struggling. I make more money now, I was able to refinance to get the mortgage insurance off, and while rent continues going higher, my mortgage has gotten lower. So, the sacrifice was more than worth it. Now that I have equity, I can use that to get into a nicer home if I want. This has always been the way it works.

Yes, homes were more affordable in the past, but the interest rates were insane and you had to save up that 20%. It's not as big of a crisis as reddit will have you believe. The reason housing is up so much is because the homes in desirable areas have skyrocketed. The population continues to climb and there's no more room to build. There's still plenty of affordable housing in outer ring suburbs, people just think they deserve a penthouse in the cities and jobs starting at 100k per year straight out of college.

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u/Minute-Advisor9961 7h ago

Was that 50k a year before or after taxes? What year did you buy this house? Did you have kids? Did you have savings? Do you live in an area that doesn't have a ton of competition for those houses on the market? Did you ever have any threat of medical issues costing you thousands and taking out your savings and ability to make payments?

Do you really think there is no room in America to build houses? Is that an honest to God thought that you have?

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u/brendan84 6h ago

There's plenty of room to build houses, just far less than there used to be in desirable areas. That's why the highest cost of living areas have exploded in value, on top of many people locking in to super low interest rates during the pandemic. It's called supply and demand. If you actually went to college and paid attention in your economics 1101 class, this concept wouldn't be lost on you. It was $48k salary before taxes on 2016. Yes, I have kids. I had a major surgery in 2015, my insurance covered 80%, my HSA covered the rest. I had 8k, my down-payment. I live in an outer ring suburb and commute 35-45 minutes (at night, it would easily be an hour of I worked 9-5) to downtown for work. My house is now worth about 300k. Easily affordable on my salary and the person i responded to. In fact, they could afford a much, much nicer house than me.

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u/brendan84 3h ago

Lol not sure what you tried to send me, but it was immediately removed. I'm guessing you said something you shouldn't have? Anyway, your first half of the message was there and it was accusing me of struggling on my 48k income before taxes with my $1600 mortgage. I did not struggle in the slightest. I grew up poor af bro. My grocery bill is about $100 a week, even with inflation. I meal prep. I save. I am still wearing clothes I bought before I bought my house. Not everyone needs the newest iPhone, camry, or Jordan's to be happy. I'm sorry that you don't know how to use this economy to your advantage, but I promise you that it's 100% your fault, not societies. Good luck with your victim complex and bad attitude though, I'm sure it serves you well!

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u/Minute-Advisor9961 2h ago

Was that 50k a year before or after taxes? What year did you buy this house? Did you have kids? Did you have savings? Do you live in an area that doesn't have a ton of competition for those houses on the market? Did you ever have any threat of medical issues costing you thousands and taking out your savings and ability to make payments?

Do you really think there is no room in America to build houses? Is that an honest to God thought that you have?

Don't know why you couldn't see this but it didn't get remove, sorry to disappoint you, common reddit bug.

You didn't have kids in that house with those payments. I grew up poor too kid, I don't spend money on anything unnecessary, but you are just a goofball

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u/brendan84 1h ago

You sent a wayyyy different message than that bro lol. You said something about being full of s*** 😂 you know what you sent.

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u/GLaDOSisapotato 1h ago

The cheapest house close to where I live is 450k.

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u/brendan84 1h ago

Sure pal. Must be nice to live in fairytale land the cheapest house is 450k? Get real

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u/Right_Lengthiness266 11h ago

I mean, that's a 2 bedroom home in an outer ring suburb. Property taxes are high here, so that drives up the cost more.

So a higher amount financed, higher property taxes, and probably higher interest than when you bought, which requires a higher income. $80k would make that house borderline unaffordable here, which basically means that the median household income can barely afford the cheapest house available.

I also don't disagree that if you can get into a house it can be a great deal, but trying to highlight how that that's increasingly difficult.

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u/cruiser616 12h ago

20% down? I’ve never met anyone who did that.

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u/hailtheprince10 10h ago

I’ve almost exclusively met people who put 20% down. It started during the Great Depression. Prior to that, 30%+ was common.

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u/HibiscusOnBlueWater 7h ago

Y'all need to stop spouting this misinformation that 20% is what most people do. A two second Google search will tell you less than half of people who buy a home put down 20% the majority are putting down less. I’ve bought 4 houses over my life and I’ve never put down 20%. Reddit thinks 20% is required. It’s not. It’s what you need to avoid the PMI penalty, but the PMI isn’t often that much. On one of my homes it was like $50 a month.

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u/hailtheprince10 3h ago

Never said it’s what most people do. All I did was share my personal experience to add to the personal experience of the commenter before me

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u/cruiser616 8h ago

FHA 3.5 down minimum

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u/Right_Lengthiness266 11h ago

And if you can't do 20% down than you'd need to be making even more than that to cover the additional monthly cost + PMI.

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u/Shot_Investigator18 10h ago

Oh can I? I didn’t know you were in my situation. A starter home is 500k plus

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u/brendan84 5h ago

Lol. That's not a starter home. Maybe if you live in San Diego or something. Even then, there's rural areas you can move to. If I transfered to San Diego and kept my current position, id be making 50-75% more money too. So, if you're making 100k combined, you must be in extremely low level positions. If you're both making 100k, you can easily afford a 500k home. Honestly, it's doable (though, not ideal) on 100k total. That's only 20% of your income. You'd be looking at a 3kish payment. Probably about what you're paying in rent if you live out there anyway.

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u/Shot_Investigator18 5h ago

I’m Canadian

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u/brendan84 5h ago

Don't you have universal healthcare? If So, that's $300 per month extra that I would have in my pocket living up there.

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u/AddressForward 10h ago

Struggle is pan-generational for sure but the gap between salary and house prices has been growing.

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u/Legal-Butterfly-4507 2h ago

Your not trying, there's ways and most of these generations, simply don't try or even care to listen the advice they're given, a few listen and achieve the goals of buying a home! I've given up trying to help people understand this...

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 16h ago

Hourly wages in early 1980s were around $7 per hour, while the minimum wage was $3.10 per hour. I remember making the minimum wage in 1980, and the company thought they did something when they gave me a $.25 per hour raise. Savings account interest rates were higher because interest rates to borrow money was higher, up to 19 percent for a used car loan. Morgage rates were as high as 16 percent in the early 1980s. When all your money went to survive, and you needed to drive every day to work, buying used tires was the only way to go. I lived through it. Did we have it better then? Doubtful. No AC in the house because the electric bill was so expensive; no vacations, other than riding up the road to Atlanta to Six Flags once. Three channels on a 19 inch TV. One phone on the wall. Fast food was a luxury, not an everyday meal.

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u/Tak-and-Alix 14h ago

I mean, that $0.25/h raise was an 8% raise. When I was working minimum about 10 years ago, a 25 cent raise was reserved for only the favorites and was only a 3.4% raise. Not even keeping up with average inflation. Most of my coworkers got 5-10 cents most years.

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u/CorbonBleu 12h ago

Hourly wages in early 1980s were around $7 per hour, while the minimum wage was $3.10 per hour.

Great, so what is the equivalent with inflation?

And what is the minimum wage now?

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 11h ago

Minimum wage now is irrelevant,as it probably was back in the 1980s. Only about 1 percent of U.S. workers get federal minimum; if you still work for a job that only pays you minimum, walk across the street to McDonalds and double your salary. The market and states have stepped in to raise it.

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u/CorbonBleu 11h ago

You think having a floor on wages is "irrelevant" to wages overall?

What an interesting take. So why'd you mention the minimum earlier?

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u/Adventurous_Ad7442 7h ago

In the 80s starter type jobs did pay the minimum wage.

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u/Mr_Bob_Dobalina_69 13h ago

I certainly would if the family wasn’t buying iPhones for everyone and tv subscriptions.

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u/hollowsoldier- 13h ago

Such a ridiculous argument. My phone is 10 years old iPhone 11 Pro Max. I work in a scientific field and make a reasonable amount of money.

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u/Mr_Bob_Dobalina_69 12h ago

Lol because you have an old iPhone, phones for five people, computers, PlayStations and TV subscriptions aren’t expensive. Great argument 😂

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u/Available_Curve8653 7h ago

Fuck Boomers. You were born into the single greatest period of prosperity of any generation of any country in the history of the world and spent your entire adult lives pulling up the ladder on everyone who came after you. This revisionist “we are frugal” fantasy is laughable. Your prosperity came from offshoring the great job you enjoyed, killing the great pension you enjoyed and padding your stock portfolio with all the profits you gained from selling out future generations. All while putting the costs of living beyond your means on the national debt that, surprise, you knew you wouldn’t be around to have to pay off.

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u/Mr_Bob_Dobalina_69 7h ago

Derivative.

How old are you, junior?

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u/raz-0 13h ago

Well I can tell you that as a kid I had a savings account that got ~3.5% interest when the prime lending rate was around 11%. Today I have one that pays about ~3.5% when the prime lending rate is ~7%.

Mostly the economy is at least as good/bad today as it was then. The main thing that is fucked is housing and cars. Both are fucked for the same reason which comes down to government policy. Primarily with keeping interest rates at 0% or close enough to it for so long. Secondarily via regulatory requirements.

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u/Rough-Board1218 11h ago

The main thing that is fucked in housing

This is pople's largest expense (other than taxes). So saying "housing is fucked" is synonymous with "the economy is fucked"

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u/raz-0 9h ago

No. "housing is fucked" in terms of housing prices collapsing would mean the economy is fucked. What we have isn't going to suddenly put downward pressure on the economy unless we suddenly get a surplus of housing or the people needing it suddenly go somewhere.

Which is what makes the problem extra pernicious. What could be fixed with policy won't be because nobody wants to be in charge for the contraction in the economy you'd get from making the housing situation better. Kind of like how you are never going to see healthcare improve. I mean shit.. you reign in healthcare costs by 7% and you have pretty much created an ongoing recession that will likely last long enough to be a depression. Do you know what that would do to <fill in career politician's name here> legacy/chance for reelection?

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u/hollowsoldier- 13h ago

I honestly appreciate these perspectives. Those are huge issues to me but I agree with what you’re saying. It sucks that it’s the 2 things that are basically necessary for life.

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u/raz-0 10h ago

The car stuff is fixable. Just odds are some more people will die each year to fix it.

The housing stuff is a bigger problem because one of the things the interest rates did was make a lot more places built out, which fundamentally reduces your policy options going forward. It sounds bad even to me, but I'm really thinking we need to bring back company towns for a bit and to get employers to move to places building more housing is viable instead of just bidding up heavily populated places.

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u/Cultural-Treacle-680 12h ago

Also everything is super insured, and having cell phones, 4 TVs and 3 cars was not a luxury even imaginable.

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u/blueblip 12h ago

Cell phones aren't luxuries. See how many jobs you can get, even entry level ones or unskilled ones, if you say you don't use a cell phone.

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u/hailtheprince10 10h ago

They’re not luxury items anymore but that’s a very recent change in the lives of a lot of people.

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u/Bzzzzzzz4791 7h ago

I have to use my smart phone to log into work everyday. I’m 52. It’s no longer a luxury. How to fly without a phone? It’s next to impossible.

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u/givemeyours0ul 17h ago

I'm in my forties. I got my first saving accountin the late 80s. It paid less than .1% interest.

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u/hollowsoldier- 16h ago edited 16h ago

Really? A google search tells me that in 1990 the average savings account had between 8-9 percent interest. In 1981 that number was 14 percent. I’m sorry you picked the wrong account. If you’re in your forties how the fuck did you have an account in the late 80s? You would be like 14 tops

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u/honeybabysweetiedoll 15h ago

Your google search is wrong and turned up a bad result, or you misinterpreted. HYSAs have only existed for 20 years, so I know it’s not that. In the mid, late 70s I got my first savings account as a little kid, and the rate was 5 1/4%. My dad later found that S&Ls were paying 5 3/4%, so we moved my account. I’ve had a savings account at various banks since then, and those rates were the best they ever were.

I think you’re talking about CDs and t-bills, which is not an average savings account.

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u/hollowsoldier- 15h ago

Ok but 5.5 percent would be fantastic compared to .3 percent. You guys aren’t making the compelling argument you think you’re making. But I’ll concede that I could have gotten the wrong info

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u/honeybabysweetiedoll 13h ago

I agree, that’s HYSA territory. But inflation isn’t nearly as crazy as it was then.

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u/MikeExMachina 16h ago

Its true saving accounts got up to 7% in the 80s, but you're missing the part where inflation was 14%. A HYSA account today will actually beat inflation, those savings accounts did not.

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u/hollowsoldier- 16h ago

They aren’t announcing it but the real inflation we are experiencing right now is way over 14 percent. Groceries cost more than 40 percent more than they did 2 years ago, my insurance went up by 150 a month. If you think .3 percent covers anything Youre insane.

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u/givemeyours0ul 16h ago

My parents and I went down to the bank to set it up. They had a cool brochure about the power of saving!   

What was the average required balance to get that percentage? 

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u/Mundane_Finding2697 15h ago edited 15h ago

I'm guessing since you had to Google the information, you aren't old enough to understand.

I respect that Google is a source for you and it can be helpful. There are gaps though.

Case in point, you sarcastically asking how they got an account was some nuance that your Google search didn't provide you with.

It was FAR COMMON to give a child a bank account even earlier than the aforementioned 14 years old this person seems to be.

Even if they were in their late 40s, 48 is the number I used, that would make them born in 1978.

They'd be 3.

An adult got them that account and you'd be surprised to learn, again since you are Googling so you probably weren't alive then, that a NON parent might have gotten them that account. Like an aunt.

An uncle. A grandparent. It was pretty common. Now, we don't do that. We do other things.

Like I've done for my granddaughters. @ investments and such. We might get them an account 'for fun' so they can see the difference between slow growth and rapid growth but we have access to more tools.

Hell, it wasn't until 1974 ECOA was passed.

What the hell does that have to do with what you are talking about?

Everyone didn't have the VERY clear and insightful knowledge that you CLEARLY possess now because they likely couldn't open a savings/checking account to begin with. I say that because you were pretty glib here... >> I’m sorry you picked the wrong account. 

They hadn't had much practice at it, the full scope nor the benefit of HINDSIGHT like you have here.

So excuse them for not picking a HIGH YIELD ACCOUNT, which is the number you cited BY THE WAY.

They picked a regular savings account because they were happy to be able to do just that or they just flat out didn't know better.

I know this because in 1981 REGULAR ACCOUNTS WERE CAPPED AT around 5.5% max. Picking a year inflation was high (and the reason why rates were that high) is pretty a take for sure on your part for the record. Yes, the yielded more return but their actual spending power went down a LOT.

This is my problem with 'quick Google searches'. Especially if you aren't going to give Google a lot to work with as far as the surrounding issues that effect the numbers you are seeking to prove your points.

They miss a lot of context. Important context.

You still probably feel how you feel too which is fine btw but I just couldn't read this without adding context because context matters.

You working with children and being (rightfully) empathetic to context as it relates to them I'm sure you agree that's fair no?

You seem well versed in context and detail but it's not happening here. I suspect because you (or those around you) are feeling the brunt and the blame has to go somewhere.

ARE THINGS HORRIBLE NOW?

Yup.

Nothing I said changes WHAT IS HAPPENING NOW.

We just don't have to lie (even by omission) about the past though is all I'm saying to get into a grief Olympics over the issue.

My (grown) kids live with me and their only hope of a house is if I sell them mine.

Which is what I'm going to do.

I'll take the loss because it's a gain for my personal well being.

I do not disagree with it being bad now. At all. I live it every day as a widowed Father of 3 helping all of my daughters in some way.

We all can't do that though.

Just can't be done.

Same way we all weren't left a pot of gold nor was I expecting that from someone who came from one of 19 brothers and sisters. lol

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u/hollowsoldier- 15h ago

They said “I got an account” and now Youre acting like I misunderstood. 5.5 percent would be a godsend so idk what you’re on about, if that’s the average thats fucking amazing. You literally went through my history to write this essay lol. And then in the end you agree with me that things are terrible now and that if you didn’t generously give Your children would be completely screwed. My original context was speaking to my father as he described his experience of getting a savings account in the early 90’s and I used google to check my facts.

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u/Mundane_Finding2697 15h ago

I used your history because it was there AND I wanted to make sure you knew I didn't think you were dumb honestly EVEN THOUGH you responded sarcastically to the person in question.

That's why I cited it.

The information is there. I personally drill down information so I used what was available. It took 2 seconds and my 'essay' wasn't about your character in the end. It was about what you wrote on the topic. I type 110 wpm minute, this is FAR FROM AN ESSAY for me.

You couldn't deduce, after figuring out their age, they didn't actually set up the account fam? Come on now.

Really?

A google search tells me that in 1990 the average savings account had between 8-9 percent interest. In 1981 that number was 14 percent. I’m sorry you picked the wrong account.

This is you saying it 5.5% is a godsend where?? Telling them you are sorry that they picked the wrong account after saying 'Really?"

I addressed why they might have 'picked the wrong' account. @ what I was on about.

Your comment is EDITED so what did you originally say? I ask because reading your comment on it's face when compared to their original comment doesn't sound like a complimentary comment AT ALL in it's current form.

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u/hollowsoldier- 15h ago

I added to my comment in the edit lol I didn’t remove anything. Are you a publisher come to review my comments? The 5.5 percent comes from your comment, which is a godsend because I don’t have access to that kind of rate. They had it better and you have not convinced me otherwise.

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u/Mundane_Finding2697 14h ago

My only point was to say that those accounts didn't outperform the rate of the goods and services at the time.

We make the same legit argument for the things now when that happens and we are correct.

You want to think they had it better because a number was higher even though it was still under the inflation rates because it was the past, have at it.

I'm not here to change your mind. You got it.

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u/hollowsoldier- 14h ago

I think life was better because I don’t know more than 3 people under 40 who can own a home and have children. I think life was better because a trip to the grocery store makes me want to cry, and every day it gets worse.

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u/TakedownCan 15h ago

You remember your savings account interest when you were like 8??

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u/givemeyours0ul 15h ago

I do, only because the bank made this big thing about the power of saving and compound interest, and I asked my parents about it, and was told about how that was all true,  but at that interest rate it would take like 10 million years for it to really do anything. The contradiction of their gushing brochure and reality has stuck with me. 

I had that account until the bank got bought out about 10 years later and the new bank wanted to charge me every month for the privilege of having a small balance savings account with no checking account or regular deposits. 

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u/under1over1 11h ago

If your using US Bank or Wells Fargo to store your cash, sure. Theres plenty of high yield savings accounts available that get you 3-5 percent and offer full online banking so location is irrelevant. Either way if your saving long term it should be in an IRA or 401k invested in index funds for a healthy 7-15 percent depending on the year.

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u/Mlabonte21 5h ago

Savings accounts could be had for 3.5% if you can bother to look

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u/Manymarbles 15m ago

Thats...not true? I know a couple police officers who raise 2 kids just fine. They are not scraping by and id put money down they could add a 3rd just fine. Those kids get spoiled lol.

Also there are high yield accounts that get 4%. Look into them.

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u/Extension-Eye-4920 15h ago

They also had an average mortgage interest rate of 12.5%. And you can easily find 3.5% interest on savings accounts today.

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u/hollowsoldier- 15h ago

Median home price was 47k it’s now 460k. I’ll take high interest any day. I don’t have to do the math to tell you that we are putting way more money toward the interest than they were in 1980. 400 bucks a month (14 percent, 30 yr 47k house in 1980 with only 10 percent down payment) is 1500 after inflation adjustment. Today a 300k home (160k below median price mind you, with a 20 percent down payment) is gonna run over 2500-3k despite lower interest. I used very conservative numbers to get this and it is heavily weighed in the favor of your 1980s example (lower down payment, expensive house, highest interest rate recorded vs my modern example with 20 percent down, way below median value and a low interest rate)

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u/Extension-Eye-4920 14h ago

Median home price was absolutely not 47k, by the early 80s it was around 70k. And today its closer to 420. And also, comparing the average purchased middle class home in the 1980s to today isnt exactly apples to apples. Typical homes were 500-700 sqft smaller, maybe a single car detached garage, central air was a luxury, garbage tiny kitchens, and averaged 1 few bedroom and bathroom.

And that cop's salary was probably like 20k tops. His take home 1600 a month? The difference in interest from 5% to 12.5% is almost 300 month.

And maybe Im misundetstsnding what you are saying, are you saying a mortgage payment today on 300k is between 2500 and 3000?

Im not saying things weren't better in years past, but lets not pretend like they were just giving out homes like candy.

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u/hollowsoldier- 14h ago

You’re right it was 64k median (stupid AI answers). But my math dramatically favored the 80s home and I picked a modest home far under median price for the modern one. So let’s see 80s home is now 504 a month which is 1909 adjusted for inflation. It’s closer than I thought so I have to give you credit. But let’s be real I’m using 1981 interest and it’s still less expensive. In 1980 the rate was 8 percent not 14. if I compare modern prices with 1990, 1980 or early 2000s it’ll be more drastic than picking the highest period of mortgage interest rates in recent history. I was just making a point and I don’t feel like doing more math.

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u/Extension-Eye-4920 13h ago

Thank you for telling me you dont want to do more math. I dont want to either. Are things tougher now? Yes, without a doubt. I think it gets a bit exaggerated though.

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u/hollowsoldier- 13h ago

I appreciate the discussion. Thank you for your perspective!

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u/ThelVluffin 12h ago

Where are you finding HYSA without a promo that is giving 3.5% or more consistently? Discover and AMEX are at 3.1 and they're the highest I've found.

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u/Extension-Eye-4920 12h ago

I do Robinhood and I get 3.6% at the moment. It was over 4 for a portion of last year.

Marcus by Goldman Sachs is also very good. EverBank also seems to be consistently the highest.

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u/aquavelva23 11h ago

7% interest because inflation was over 10%! get real

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u/Minute-Advisor9961 7h ago

7% interest is 23.333 times as much interest as .3 interest. Inflation being 10% is only 2.5 times the inflation we have today. This doesn't prove the point you think you are making.

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u/aquavelva23 7h ago

thats just bad math. lol and the Fed rate was 20% peak. and unemployment well over 10%

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u/Minute-Advisor9961 7h ago

You are the one who said 10%... How is 3.5% today not 2.5 times lower than that 10% number YOU said? And do you think that .3 times 23.3 isn't 7?

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u/Gore1695 13h ago

4.5% is the rate you can get on a savings account right now. All the misinformation and crying is ridiculous

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u/hollowsoldier- 11h ago

4.5 percent is the rate you can get from one single bank in an online high yield saving account. 90 percent of people are getting .3 percent

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u/ShadowJory 12h ago

Nobody ever got a 7% return on a savings account bro, like ever.

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u/hollowsoldier- 11h ago

Yes they did my friend, they just took that from you and convinced you it was normal

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u/HawaiiNintendo815 10h ago

You’re not taking into account that inflation was a lot higher then so that ‘high’ saving rate isn’t as high as you’re making out

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u/hollowsoldier- 9h ago

I will die on the hill that real inflation is much worse than what we are being told

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u/pg_osborne89 10h ago

Cry me a fuckin river. Keep thinking you’re helping with your stupid answers on Reddit. Nothing will change for you

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u/hollowsoldier- 9h ago

Awww did I hurt your feelings by having a different opinion? Or was it that people liked my opinion more? I know it’s hard being such a snowflake so I forgive you for being rude!

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u/pg_osborne89 9h ago

Couldn’t give a fuck less about your opinion and who likes it.

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u/hollowsoldier- 8h ago

Haha sure bud

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u/UsualGarage 17h ago

Used tires! How tough

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 16h ago

Yep. Last half as long as new tires, which means you replace them sooner. It's like the poor tax. You need good workboots, but they cost $200, so you settle for Walmart boots for less than $100, but have to replace them more often costing you more money.

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u/UsualGarage 16h ago

Believe it or not I also just bought used tires. And in what world do Walmart boots cost 100$ parents must not know what a thrift store is

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 16h ago

Back in the 1980s, we had no thrift stores, and no Walmart. Had to depend on Kmart and Sears. Even today, finding workboots at the thrift store is a crapshoot at best.

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u/CitizenHuman 14h ago

I can't speak for everywhere, or even for the entire 80s, but as a young kid in 1990, I definitely remember going to "secondhand stores" with my mom. So unless they magically manifested January 1st, 1990, I would think they existed in some form (like Goodwill?) in the 80s.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 14h ago

I guess it depends on where you lived, or, in my case, what you were exposed to growing up. Kmart was the place for discount clothes.

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u/WhatevMannnnnnnnnn 16h ago

I looked up the guy who wrote this and he went to a prep school and lives in a high-rise in NYC. So I doubt he has much first-hand experience of struggle.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 16h ago

Most people who write these rarely have had any struggle in life, which makes it more funny when people, who actually are struggling, believe the nonsense.

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u/WhatevMannnnnnnnnn 16h ago

It's the same as when some rando who's never met an immigrant has really strong opinions about them. It's just amplifying propoganda.

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u/AdGullible5804 16h ago

Well maybe your dad shoulda pulled harder on them bootstraps like you tell everyone else to do.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 16h ago

He did. Worked his shifts as a police officer, and worked second jobs as a security guard all the time.

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u/No_Elk9676 16h ago edited 16h ago

Yeah, and theyd be able to afford half of what they had with those same jobs today.

Fuck, if they bought the house they had then today, they probably could barely cover the mortgage with those jobs

Housing prices have almost doubled in the last 8 years, want to guess what hasn't even come close to doubling in that same time? Thats right, wages

In 2010 the average wage of my position was $25 an hour. The house my wife and I bought sold in 2019 for 117k. Estimated value in 2010 was around 100k.

We bought it last year for 250k, my jobs average wages have gone from $25 to $35.

Our buying power is dwindling and we have idiots telling us it was always like this

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 16h ago

Funny. The house that we lived in just resold, after exenstive remodeling, for right at $200,000. It's three bedroom/two bath upstairs, with a full apartment in the basement. Has a huge front and back yard. So, yeah, with the jobs they had back then, at today's salaries, they could have afforded it.

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u/No_Elk9676 16h ago

I call bullshit.

Housing prices have doubled in just the last 10 years alone, and tripled since 2000, and are 6-8 times more expensive than the 80s.

They wouldve bought that house for ~28-30k in the 80s.

Which regardless of if they could afford it today, the fact is if they were struggling then, they absolutely would not be able to afford today

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 16h ago

I am not sure what they paid for it in the late 1960s, but they sold it for around $19,000 in the late 1970s. The price is what it sold for last year. Nice house, starter or otherwise, for the money. The basement apartment was nice to have.

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u/No_Elk9676 15h ago

That home was valued at 50k in 2020 and 32k in 2005

Now let's do a comparison

The average policeman wage in the 70s was 12k, house sold for 19k during that time.

Meaning the entire cost of the house was 1.5 years of a policemans wages.

The average policeman wage today is 76k, meaning it would be almost 3 full years of wages.

Do you really not see the problem here.

And this house seems to have been historically underpriced like CRAZY. An over 2k sq ft house going for barely 200k in 2026 is WILDLY out of the norm

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u/14InTheDorsalPeen 13h ago

It’s almost like the normalization of the two income household and the resulting glut of labor and explosion of average household income caused wages to stagnate and costs to increase sharply to eat up all that extra spending power.

Who’d a thunk it?

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u/wiggermaxxing 16h ago

I bet he owned the house, or at the very least was able to pay a mortgage

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 15h ago

Well, based on his salary, mom's salary, and with a little help from grandma, he and the bank of course owned it.

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u/wiggermaxxing 14h ago

I make 55k from the military annually and work a nice cushy govt contractor job that pays handsomely as well and I am STILL struggling to find an affordable starter house.

I am today’s 1% in my age group at ~30 years old, so I’m LUCKY.

They lived in an easier time, financially, than us. Point period.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 14h ago

You should move where it's cheaper. There are 500+ homes for less than $150,000 in just one city in my area.

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u/wiggermaxxing 14h ago edited 14h ago

I’m sure that’s just a wonderfully spacious and safe area 😂

I also love how we just moved the goalposts away from your incomprehension of financial freedom between generations to “hey if you don’t like it just move!”

Again, how many 30 year olds are making six figures after taxes? I’m not the benchmark.

Why Do I Have To

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u/wyliec22 15h ago

You made me remember ’recaps’!!

The myth of ‘the good old days’…

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u/TakedownCan 15h ago

The 80s was bad for most with the recession, most boomers were just getting started then. The age range is 1946-1964. I was born in 1980 and yes my parents struggled a bit but by late 80s into 90s were thriving.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 15h ago

My parents were struggling through the 60s, 70s, and into the 80s. By the time dad retired, getting his public service pension and getting another full time job eased life a bit. But it still was apartment to mobile home to apartment living for them.

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u/wade_wilson44 15h ago

Priorities were just different. I don’t know what drove it really.

Houses were affordable.

But everyone naturally brought their lunch to work. (Not everyone but generally) and now it’s like you’re halfway obligated to go to lunch with coworkers. (You don’t have to, it’s just more of a social priority)

Old, ripped shoes were common and nobody judged. Now you’re judged for what brand you wear.

Beater cars were cool. Paint it yourself, mod it yourself. Now you’ve got to buy the newest model and take it to the car wash every week. Plenty of people rent their apartment so they can afford a flashy car.

A road trip to camping was an awesome vacation. Now if you don’t fly overseas does it even count?

Now we need to pay bills for internet, security, Disney, Netflix, cell phone, PlayStation, and soon ai agents. Back then basic cable was free and everyone watched the same shows and nobody judged you because everyone had the same access. Now you’re weird if you haven’t seen game of thrones 5x over.

Of course none of this is law, everyone could always do what they wanted, I’m just saying expectations I’ve noticed being different or at least valued in different ways that change the equation of how people generally prioritize their spending.

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u/Iaintgettinyounger 14h ago

You realize we can just compare the median salary to what the shelter, food, transportation, education, childcare and healthcare cost right? TV's are cheap, but living is not. It's not complicated to see that for the things that matter, the essentials have all outpaced wages dramatically. Most people would need a 50% raise to have similar purchasing power to what we did in the 80's.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 14h ago

Statistics only tell you so much. Unless you lived through it, scraped by on your income, did without, you have no idea what you are talking about.

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u/Iaintgettinyounger 14h ago

I did live through it. I'm watching my kids live through it now. Denying reality doesn't change it.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 13h ago

Then you know it's the same song, just a different dance. Each generation has their issues. I remember in the late1970s having to borrow a suit from my mom's friend's husband just to have something nice to wear to an awards banquet because they had no money to spend on nice clothes for the kids.

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u/Iaintgettinyounger 10h ago

We got a waltz. I'm not saying it was easy, just that their situation is harder and has way less margin for error. It doesn't diminish what you did.

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u/Final_Cockroach2510 14h ago

It's not nonsense at all. I could recommend half a dozen books on this topic, and it's very deep rooted and a real issue in the developed world.

Sure, in the 80s parents still had to scrape by. However, people scraped by and still owned their houses along with retirement pensions. The value of a dollar earned was also higher in the 80s (outside of the stock market meltdown).

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u/Imalsome 14h ago

Buying used tires instead of new ones is literally the norm. The fact that he considered that embarrassing shows that he was wealthy enough to have an entirely different standard of living.

Like even putting that aside he had a home and 3 kids. That shits not possible nowadays. He has to cherry pick data and be like "Oh it was a real struggle, I had to get DISCOUNT tires instead of buying ultra premium, woe is me"

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 13h ago

Yeah, so wealthy that they couldn't run the AC in the summer beause of the electric bill. Had to borrow dress clothes for a school function. Buying used tires is not the norm; it's for those who can't afford new tires, which they could not based on their salaries in the 1970s and 1980s, which is the point of the whole conversation.

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u/domdomdom2 13h ago

> That shits not possible nowadays.

At age 35, about 61% of baby boomers owned homes, compared with about 56% of millennials. That's a 5% difference. To say "shits not possible" isn't true. It's a little harder, but stats show it's definitely possible at a similar rate as boomers years ago.

https://newslink.mba.org/servicing-newslink/2025/march/mba-servicing-newslink-tuesday-april-1-2025/gen-z-millennial-homeownership-rates-flat-in-2024-redfin-finds/

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u/Fun_Reputation5181 13h ago

This brought back a memory for me - when my dad got a flat tire on his truck we took moms car to the junkyard and picked through a huge stack of tires to find one in the right size with some decent tread on it. Then we went in the office and haggled a bit. But it was a very comfortable middle class upbringing - both parents were teachers and I have nothing but good memories. My only time on an airplane before college was to go to grandpa’s funeral and eating out at restaurants is something I don’t really remember at all other than a big family gathering maybe a couple times a year. When a Dairy Queen opened in our town it was a huge thing and every once in a while we’d get money to buy a cone and hang out with other kids outside the DQ.

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 13h ago

I remember going to the only McDonalds in town; the church bus picked up us kids, and bought us a single burger, fries and Coke. The Coke was especially good becaue we couldn't afford it in our house.

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u/matteusko 12h ago

I'm MSc and hold position on par with my degree and I've bought used tires, my car is 18 yo.. My dad on the other hand bought brand new Volvo in 90', he was a technician and my mom a baker. Neither were well paying jobs. They split up, finances 50-50, he bought his own place, a summer cabin and a new car shortly after. None of this is in my reach other than the divorce 😅

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u/Strict_Cut_1206 12h ago

So, just so I understand. You dad was a tech of some sort and your mom was a baker; neither were well paying jobs. After the divorce, they split what must have been considerable assets for him to have two mortgages, with the accompaying taxes and insurance, utilities, etc., and a new car, plus, maybe, child support, depending on how old you were, You say nothing about your mom, and how she lived, and what she bought. So, basically, I say this story is a bit of a reach unless he got considerable assets in the divorce, or had family money.

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u/Love-Bitter 9h ago

The truth is somewhere in between. Reality is most were not living like rockstars however every credible study of ‘affordability’ shows that it is substantially more difficult for the upcoming generation than it was for even mine (in my 50s) anyone who doesn’t recognise that just doesn’t understand economics.

My parents had a detached house 3 kids car and a comfortable life on a gas fitter salary. No uni education. Mum worked on and off (barmaid, debt collector, factory worker) that is completely and utterly impossible today.

I went to university which cost me ZERO and in fact the government gave me money to go (student grant)

Things are not the same.

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u/BendDelicious9089 9h ago

Same. Don’t forget it would be just buying one tire at a time - cause can’t afford 4 new ones.

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u/SlyFrog 8h ago

Worse than believe it, to explain to people who actually lived it that they didn't actually live that way.

Young people would be outraged if we invalidated the actual lived experiences of the unhoused, people of color, LGBTQ, etc.

Yet they have no problem mansplaining to an entire generation of people what their own lives were like and how everything was easier for them all.

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u/Jijimuge8 8h ago

So they couldn’t afford to buy a house back then either?

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u/jj22925h 4h ago

Maybe your parents were just bad with money and his parents knew how to budget.

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u/DamnIamHigh_Original 17h ago

Then explain why all boomers now have a house and allpeople from my generation can only dream of owning a house.

At the end of the day, they could live. Im starving.

We can only even think about owning anything if our parents help

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u/Objective_Run_7151 17h ago

Because they are old and they invested.

Time in the market = $. But it takes a lot of time.

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u/DamnIamHigh_Original 15h ago

No. They bought houses. I can save up as much as I like, rent money will always drain from my account.

I will never earn enough to be able to invest much more, to end up higher than they did.

The old generation is starving the young ones, pulling up the ladder behind them and leaving the world with nothing to return - because they spend most of it on useless things

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u/plywooden 17h ago

I'd say it's because of the times they lived in. Times are different now.

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u/DamnIamHigh_Original 15h ago

Nah we have increased productivity with computers etc by a factor of 10 or 100, with AI I sped up processes alot more too.

We are in times of abundance but it's all beeing hoarded