The longer you are with the narcissist, the deeper the damage of the psychological pain from their manipulation, devaluation, and gaslighting. Don't ignore the red flags. Narcissists don't change, they mislead you to feel you are the one who needs to change.

Do narcissist spouse not know that they are being manipulated every minute? Dont they feel exhuasted by constant highs and lows, push and pull and insecurities, stress? How does a narcissist spouse remain in relationship knowing that spouse has habit of cheating and hooking up with many female outside of their marriage?