r/GBr4r • • Feb 09 '22

META [META] - Watch out for recurring catfish who are pretending to be carnal and looking for hung guys NSFW

273 Upvotes

Seriously, if someone makes a post (especially an account that's like a week old or less), and "she" states that they won't respond without you sending photos first, that should be a red flag that it may be a catfish/pic collector/blackmailer.

There's at least one guy that keeps popping up in this sub pretending to be an F looking for an M. He uses stolen, edited pics as verification, and makes new names each time he gets busted.

His most recent username, u/12selfie, was created an hour after getting called out on r4rasian for catfishing with his username of u/12selfies.

His latest post in this sub is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/GBr4r/comments/so7gux/21_f4m_londonuk_feeling_carnal_and_looking_for/ (here's a mirror of their dirtyr4r post, which was the same text: https://i.ibb.co/18FVcD3/12selfie.jpg)

The pic he linked to on imgur was stolen from a now-deleted user, her pics (including an edited verification pic) is what he's been using for the last few usernames to pretend they're real.

He's also previously been:

And a bunch of others I haven't listed.

edit: u/12selfie has deleted his account after realizing that he's not able to post in many of the various subreddits he usually tries to post in... for reasons.


r/GBr4r • • Sep 23 '23

GBr4r Success Megathread NSFW

53 Upvotes

The mod team works incredibly hard to remove the users that should not be here. Ban evasion filter set to maximum, just single user reports raise push notifications on our phones to respond to (reddit default is three reports before a notification), karma limit to prevent 0 day accounts with no activity (bots) posting and a responsive mod team. Posts from malicious users have been reported, removed and banned in under four minutes so your reports are a massive tool in fighting against bots, scammers, catfish and content sellers, thank you to all those that take the 30 seconds to report posts - having heard horror stories from other subs you save potential victims a lot of money and stress - please continue reporting where appropriate.

But I would like a positive post, rather than the negativity of bots which post ten+ times a day I want to hear about your successes.

I am pinning this post as a Megathread for you to comment about how this sub has benefited you, if you have met people and maybe even if we have any engagements, marriages or kids effectively originating from the sub. Many users have had many meet ups and found the sub beneficial but those comments haven't been public until now.

If you have any other queries or questions for the mod team please feel free to post those here too but after answering (and giving you sufficient time to view and respond) these will eventually be removed to keep this as a success and post of celebration - we don't want to hide away from any criticism or feedback either though which is why I'm happy to open the floor to other thoughts.

Be lucky and stay safe.


r/GBr4r • • 8h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] #kent and london searching for someone dominant but good with words NSFW

8 Upvotes

I’m a working professional girlie, feminine and talkative, successful so want someone similarly hard working and ambitious! I want a man who is calm, handsome, confident and naturally takes lead but not in a forceful manner.

I stay fit and take care of myself. I need affection and chemistry, and intelligent conversation.

Don’t message if you don’t look after your health/fitness.

Open to english speaking people of all ethnicities 25-40

When you text me please take some effort give a small intro, but not a massive essay

Effort is appreciated thanks for reading:)


r/GBr4r • • 8m ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #London/Surrey - I want to go down on you after your sweaty run or gym session NSFW

• Upvotes

I go absolutely wild for a woman’s taste after they exercise.


r/GBr4r • • 8m ago

M4F 49 [M4F] #West London guy up for some fun NSFW

• Upvotes

Friendly, easy-going and handsome guy seeking casual encounters and fun times with anyone locally. I’m a very discreet and respectful person, and I can host at my place in Twickenham. I’m 49, but look younger - or so I’m told! Average physique, but I like to keep in shape as best I can. Attractive, tattooed, fairly well-endowed, and a great kisser.


r/GBr4r • • 21m ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #London - In Central for work tomorrow night, fancy some company? NSFW

• Upvotes

Know this sub is mostly blokes, but throwing this out there anyway!

Staying in a hotel in Central tomorrow night for work, so I’ve got an evening free and would rather not spend it on my own.

Bit about me: 27, 5ft10, beard, normally Surrey-based. Dry sense of humour, easy to talk to, and no drama. I like good food, a proper pub, and conversation that doesn’t feel like hard work.

Thinking dinner and drinks to start and seeing where the night goes. If we get on, great; if not, at least we’ll have had a decent meal. No pressure either way.

If you’re free tomorrow evening, send me a message with a bit about you.


r/GBr4r • • 28m ago

M4F 36[M4F] [London] Prof working from home, let's keep each other company NSFW

• Upvotes

I hang out on here off and on, but most of the people I speak to are American and it would be great to connect with a Brit for a change.

There's lots about me in my post history. I'd like to chat. Ask me anything? Try me? I'm a prof at a university in the UK. Avoiding work I guess and just a bit...restless?

I am 36, English, have several degrees and a pretty normal social and sex life. I have plenty of normal hobbies: I run, read, like movies, love travel, play the guitar etc. I'm not a gamer. Looks-wise, I'm quite tall, white, brown hair, blue eyes, not fat though a bit of a dad bod.


r/GBr4r • • 57m ago

M4F 36 [M4F] North West NSFW

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36 [M4F] North West - Chat, Flirt and maybe more?

Hi I’m a single 36 year old living in the north of England and would just like to chat and make some new friends and see where the naughtiness leads us. I’m fun, adventurous, open minded and looking for someone similar.

I would describe myself as around 6.23 ft tall, my hair is shaved, I have brown eyes and possess a stocky Dadbod build. So if you like what you read for starters then please come and say hello


r/GBr4r • • 1h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #London - Offering sensual, erotic and orgasmic full body massage. NSFW

• Upvotes

I’m offering a full-body erotic massage for women who enjoys being touched by someone confident, attentive, and very comfortable taking control.

This isn’t a rushed rubdown with a few predictable extras. I like anticipation, slow hands and making you wonder where I’m going next. Learning what makes your breathing change, what makes you tense, and what makes you finally stop trying to behave.

Expect plenty of oil, teasing, firm hands when you want them, softer touches when you don’t expect them, and attention to every inch of you. I’m patient, slightly dominant, and I get a lot of pleasure from seeing someone gradually surrender to the experience.

The chemistry matters to me just as much as the massage, so I prefer meeting for a drink first. No awkward pressure or assumptions, we see if we click, and if the attraction is there, we take it further.

About me: 5'11", mixed race, athletic, clean and well-groomed. Software engineer in everyday life, discreet, respectful, and considerably less innocent outside office hours. Super kinky and love exploring London's hedonistic underbelly, been to a few clubs and would like to visit more.

Based in South East London and happy to travel for the right person.

If the idea of lying back, giving up control for a while, and letting someone take his time exploring exactly what gets a reaction from you sounds tempting, send me a message.


r/GBr4r • • 1h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Liverpool/Online - Geeky, freaky switch in the market for new chat partners and kinky friends NSFW

• Upvotes

Is that the sort of thing that could interest you? We might both be in luck! I'm open to new connections from all over the country, to chat about kinks and experiences, every day life, play if the vibe is right and ideally make a lasting friendship. And if we're in reasonable travelling distance and there's connection and attraction, I'm open to meets too.

A bit about me:

  • 31M and a Southerner in Liverpool
  • Married for two and a half years, in an ENM relationship
  • All messages exchanged in confidence
  • Kind, stoic, curious and non-judgemental
  • Unapologetically geeky
  • Sometimes a little bit funny, definitely a little bit weird
  • Sub-leaning switch
  • Fair share of kinks and a handful of limits...
  • ...but underneath it all a fairly normal person
  • Slender with dad bod features, and long hair like a rock star

Please be interesting, and actually invested in having a conversation. If you ghost me, I'm not going to chase you - I have too much self-respect for that.

If you read this far and think we could get along then please reach out and introduce yourself by answering the question: if you had to be trapped in a room with a famous person for one week, who would you pick and why?


r/GBr4r • • 1h ago

M4F 28[M4F] #Southampton | Hampshire - Seeking a FWB situation NSFW

• Upvotes

As the title says I am looking to meet someone who is ideally looking for a fwb situation or something regular if all goes well. I was in an OFF and ON relationship for 3 years which finally ended a year ago. So I do find intimacy way more enjoyable when I connect with the person no matter how little. But at the same time I've had ONS which were mind blowing, like being all over each other at the end a successful first date 😌.

I live in Southampton so best case scenario you're also in Southampton or the surrounding areas such as Totton, Romsey, Winchester etc. Happy to host you and take you on a date to get to know each other and check the vibes or perhaps we click before that and you love to have your body treated right, either way is always fine 😎.

In terms of appearance I am dark-skinned, 6'4 or maybe more as I've never measured my height but my brother knows his (6'4) and I'm just a tad taller? I have a slim athletic build plus a good hygiene which is important to me and should be to you too. Can't be giving cunnilingus if it smells like sweaty fish down there 😅. I do keep low faded beard and I sometimes have an intentional rough look to my hair while smelling nice and well groomed. Happy to share photos when we chat and get along.

So if this post interests you and you're happy to meet a nice/rough guy who takes pride in your pleasure then message away. I look forward to replying to the 1 & half message I'll get hahaha.


r/GBr4r • • 2h ago

M4M 33 [M4M] Leeds looking to give first handjob NSFW

1 Upvotes

Pretty much like the title says, looking for someone to wank off. Bicurious male, wanted to know what it's like to stroke another man. Not looking for anything more at the moment. Don't care about looks or body etc, just interested in stroking you, happy for you to watch porn if preferred. City centre would be ideal.


r/GBr4r • • 2h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] Derbyshire 8 inch, thick BWC hosting in a nice house. Anyone up for some fun with a monster cock? Dm for pics and chats! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Dm me :)


r/GBr4r • • 4h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #Cheshire. It’s a numbers game… NSFW

1 Upvotes

F’s, pick a number from 1-20 in chat or DM and check your inbox…

Had to put something down here to satisfy the character count. No time limit on this post.


r/GBr4r • • 4h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #Edinburgh- Looking for a FWB NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m based pretty much central Edinburgh and looking for a local or semi local FWB. for regular meets. I’ve met people on Reddit previously and always had an amazing time, looking for that again

About me:

I’m a homeowner, I have a decent enough career and on a good path in life. I absolutely love my travel and have explored some incredible places around the world, something which I will continue in 2027. I’ve got a great sense of humour and love to not take myself too seriously. I love going out to new bars / restaurants, as well as cosy nights in with a good film.

For reference, some kinks I’m into include:

Choking, bondage, throatfucking / deepthroat, breath play, orgasm control, collars, remote control vibrators in public, plugs, swallowing, free use, spanking, denial, edging and many more.

Physically I’m 6ft, in shape, exercise at the gym regularly, white, brown hair, few tattoos

Ideally you’d be located in a reasonable distance, easy to get along with, chilled personality, into similar kinks, fun, interesting and just a cool person.

Drop me a message and let’s see how things go!


r/GBr4r • • 11h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #Oxford - I need someone to come give me a slow, intense blowjob this weekend NSFW

2 Upvotes

I am a 5’9 guy with a dad bod, tattoos and a big beard. It has been so long and I am desperate for someone to come round to mine, come in and sit me on the sofa. Take out my dick and give me a great, slow and intense blowjob.

I am looking for a NSA hookup - I am not looking to change anyone’s situation or anything. I just want to have some fun and release some tension with the help of your mouth.

Oxford UK not the US - I can host


r/GBr4r • • 11h ago

M4F 25 [M4F][Central London] Looking to entertain and chill tonight NSFW

0 Upvotes

Total shot in the dark but I’ve a nice place with amazing views of the city and am looking to entertain and spoil someone for the night. I’ve had a hectic week and enjoy light conversation and going down on someone who enjoys being eaten out slowly.

Drop me a line, and I’ll make it worth your while. I’ve a nice big bathtub and views of St Paul’s Cathedral from my place (:


r/GBr4r • • 12h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #Hampshire, where all the yummy mummies?? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Any hot MILFs ? Come say hello 👋


r/GBr4r • • 12h ago

M4F 50 [M4F] London/South East M4F NSFW

1 Upvotes

M50 London/South East Attractive easy going cultured professional M London looking for new friends and connections


r/GBr4r • • 12h ago

M4M 28 [M4M] #London blond, smooth submissive boy looking for long-term dominant men in London. +++ if cut or Arab NSFW

0 Upvotes

blond, smooth sub boy here. 63kg, smooth, and 170cm in height. Very open minded and lots of kinks and interests outside of sex too. Looking for dominant men, ideally older, for long term connections. Huge plus if cut or Arab but not required. I’d love to get to know you, DMs open


r/GBr4r • • 13h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] Loughborough - looking for a meet up. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Who's free? I can accommodate.


r/GBr4r • • 13h ago

M4F 18 [M4F] UK(Coventry) looking to lose virginity hmu NSFW

1 Upvotes

Got a thick cock hmu


r/GBr4r • • 13h ago

M4A 21 [M4A] Birmingham NSFW

1 Upvotes

Would love to meet someone who can be my friend and also do some extra things with.

About me; I am 186cm, athletic type, originally from Europe and I’m recently graduated so now I’m looking for a job, and working out mostly. I also like to play video games, read books and I am an intermediate photographer if there is such a thing.
I like movies and music, the usual stuff, I can also cook well and like to do so. The music I generally like is either techno, or house and I’m more into the philosophical/historical books.
When I can I also like to do sports, I am good at tennis and golf but have played many other ones too.

Intimacy wise, I’m not too picky as I am not too experienced so don’t be shy.
I do have a few criteria; don’t be hairy like big foot, preferably be slim or toned/muscular. I like femms too so don’t be shy if you’re one.

If you’re looking for the same and my description appeals to you, or you’re just curious then don’t be shy and say hi! :)


r/GBr4r • • 17h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] London - Where are all my curvy/thicker women? I want to treat you to a night all about you NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello!

I’ll get straight into it, I have a massive preference for curvy, thicker women! All my past relationships have pretty much only been that body type and there’s just something about thick thighs, bum and tum that I find really aesthetically pleasing!

So.. my proposal is, I want to treat you to an evening that’s solely revolves around you. We may go out for dinner and drinks at my expense or a home cooked meal of your favourite dinner. We might go out for a dance and drinks and end up late back at mine or you might just want a takeaway and plenty of orgasms; the choice is yours!

I’m 6ft, conventionally attractive, dark features and hair and I’m VERY well endowed. Kinks wise, I’m definitely dominant and very much enjoy giving pleasure. I’ve got LOADS of toys for us to enjoy and I’m great my with hands.

I live in Clapham on my own and there’s lots of great things to do here.

As for you, I really just want someone that matches my energy, is up for a laugh and likes a bit of spontaneity. A great pair of tits also never hurt anyone!

If this sounds like your cup of tea, send me a message with a bit about you and what you’d like to do! Please don’t be boring!

Thanks,


r/GBr4r • • 13h ago

M4M 27[M4M/A] Manchester/Greater Manchester Bi man looking for no strings FWB NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi stranger

You’re in your mid to late 20s and have a solid career that pays you well. You’re a sociable person and people find it easy to get on with you, you have many acquaintances and a core friend group of 2-3 people you see when you can. Your evenings are spent mainly on a sport or another hobby and if you’re not there you’ve got a YouTube video on in the background whilst doom scrolling reels. You enjoy watching anime, playing video games and smoking 🍃. You’ve only ever had relationships with women, you don’t just find their physical appearance attractive but also their personality, smile, mannerisms etc however the same can’t be said for your fellow man. You can realise some guys are better looking than others but the feeling isn’t the same compared to looking at a woman. That is until you’re horny and the guys pants are off 😂. You’ve lurked on Grindr and have had some good experiences and some bad. Although you may not see men in the same light as women you know you’re not straight. You like having a cock inside you and like having your cock inside anyone, but you keep that to yourself.

If this sounds like you, you’ve found a kindred spirit. I’d like to get rid of the uncertainty of hook up apps and actually have a friendship with a normal guy who feels the same way as me. I think it would be cool to share memes, play video games together and hang out from time to time, but knowing that we could casually get intimate with each other either through watching porn, mutually masturbating or having sex.

About me, my heritage is south Asian. I’m 160 cm tall but that height is wasted as I am a bearded broad shouldered hairy man, like a dwarf from lotr. I keep myself in shape and most importantly keep myself clean. I don’t have much in terms of preference but I do ask you are closeish in size, have good hygiene and are reciprocal in the bedroom. I also don’t want someone who is purely a ‘top’ or ‘bottom’, it’s a give and take with me and I’d like to find someone on the same wavelength.

Now that is super specific but if you don’t ask you won’t get. Also want to add that this is a throwaway account, discretion is important to me when it comes to the benefits 😬

If you’re a lady and somehow have reached this point, my dms are open to you too but the boys are getting priority.

Ta x