r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • Aug 16 '24

Please read [META] Considerable Changes to Reduce Scammers NSFW

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Hey RAOBJ

Wanted to say that I’ve implemented changes that should, and already have, reduced the number of scammers and nefarious users from the sub.

Again, as always, if you encounter a scammer you can report to mod mail or report the post or comment on the post to prevent users from falling victim.

Hope this helps! Cheers.

RCG

Edit: we are implementing a change for verified women to bypass these rules. If you’re a woman who wants to verify, follow the directions in our wiki.

Please don’t dm me with issues. Message mod mail instead.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • Aug 05 '24

Meta [META] Update on Sub Moderation NSFW

71 Upvotes

Hey y’all,

Just wanted to give some quick updates to you in regard to changes I’ve implemented to help the server.

The first change will reduce the number of scammers, sellers, bots, and other nefarious actors from posting on the sub. The gist is we now check whether or not a user is active in questionable communities and if they’re found to have participated then their posts will be auto removed. I cannot go into it further without possibly telling scammers how it’s being done or what subs are in question. BUT this change might also affect you and require you to make a new account. The mod team cannot and will not manually approve posts, there are just too many.

The second change is in regards to our weekly post limit. If you post more than the allotted times per week, you’ll be banned. Many people abuse the rule, so nobody will be given grace with this. If you’re posting on the sub then you should know and follow ALL the rules.

The third change is that saying pics on profile or anything of the sort is a banable offense. You’re not verified, you can offer pics elsewhere.

That’s it, hoping it helps. Cheers.

RCG


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 5h ago

NB4A NYC 33 [NB4A] #NYC - looking for a big dick to suck while transmasc friend watches NSFW

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Hii I, nonbinary amab individual, am looking to suck a big dick while my trans masc friend watches. Also down for other side play. My friend may be down for more for than watching but that shouldn't be the expectation. Ideally looking for another trans person of color but wont be too picky if your dick is right for us lol looking to meet up together next week

Both of us are latine, i'm 5'6 and 150lbs. They're 5'6 and 140lbs.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 1h ago

M4F Dresden 26 [M4F] #Dresden - (Mostly) soft dom looking to spice up his trip through Germany and Central Europe, moans guaranteed NSFW

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About me: 26M, 6’1 (184 cm), 85kg, dark hair, green eyes, good beard, glasses. Dad bod-athletic — I could absolutely pick you up 😉

I'll be staying in Dresden and then travelling the central Europe for 2 weeks so if you are somewhere around I'd love to chat and plan a meetup. Hope tot alk soon!

I’m a soft dom at heart. I love both experieced girls who know what they are doing or the shy ones just learning how to please a man. I like a passionate head, but on the other hand, I want to see you deepthroat if you have the skills for it😉 Mixing them up is what creates the fun for me.

And I'm very vocal, so if you like a man moaning, I'm the one for you.

I would love to connect outside of the bedroom as well, I belive it's what gives it the fun and trust inside the bedroom. That includes dates, talks about life and much more😉.

Hobbies: traveling, cycling, hiking, cooking, reading, gaming, binge watching and more travelling.

I genuinely love aftercare, cuddling for hours and giving massages. I respect limits and boundaries fully, from purely platonic / non sexual connection, to more intense dynamics. None of that fake dom stuff haha.

I am also open to reciprocating and taking it further, if it's something you'd also like.

Tldr: Firm but encouraging Dom energy. Safety and communication come first. 100% not a dickhead guarantee.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 1h ago

M4F Vancouver 39 [M4F] #Vancouver - On your knees.Mouth open. NSFW

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I’m looking for a woman who wants to be put on her knees and used for her mouth.

I’m 39, 6’2”, fit, clean, DDF, recently tested, and I can host downtown. I want a girl who gets wet at the idea of being told to open up, take it deep, and look up at me while I use her throat. I’ll grab your hair, control the pace, and decide when you get to breathe.

I also enjoy returning the favor when I’m in the mood — but make no mistake, I’m looking for someone who wants to please first.

If the idea of being a good little cocksucker for a night (or more) turns you on, message me.

Tell me how you like to be used.

Local only. Serious replies.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 2h ago

M4F Tokyo 47 [M4F] #Tokyo - Fit, respectful man visiting Japan seeking sloppy oral NSFW

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There is something incredibly sexy about a woman who finds genuine pleasure in worship. The sparkle in her eyes that clearly says there’s nowhere she’d rather be than down on her knees.

A bit about me: Caucasian, with brown eyes and short brown hair with some salt and pepper. I stay active and keep myself in shape. I have a handsome face, ususporting a few days of stubble. I’m cut, 6”, neatly manscaped, and STD free. (Tested Sep 2026) I am chill, funny, and respectful, but have a bit of a dominant streak. I’m expressive and vocal so I’ll let you know when you’re pleasing me.

I am staying in Shinagawa and am happy to host. Let’s grab a drink, check the chemistry, and see where the night takes us.

If this post caught your eye, send me a chat with your age, location, a physical desription, and the code word “pickle” to show you read to the end.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 3h ago

M4F NYC 31 [M4F] #NYC - I Love Getting Head But Can't Put That on the Apps NSFW

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I'm looking for someone who wants to experiment with sweet slow sensual blowjobs mixed in with a bit of rough throat fucking. Ideally you are someone who wants to take their time on me. Really get into it, and making eye contact while taking me whole would be amazing.

About me: I’m a native East-coaster, taken, average height with an athletic/lean body (although I've been slowly letting work wreck my 'going to the gym' momentum), recently tested, kinky and find consent hot.

I’m into discussing kink, baking, garbage reality tv shows, identifying plants, and hot takes

Ideally you are: a person who wants to build a rapport through texting before meeting up, and interested in giving a BJ.

Let's start the convo by you telling me the one household chore you hate doing

Cheers


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 7h ago

M4F Toronto 31 [M4F] #Toronto - Blow me while I give you an RMT level massage NSFW

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The Toronto fall season is here and all you want is to feel warm, safe, and utterly spoiled.

Imagine you’re lying face down, completely relaxed. My hands are working out the tension in your back. You feel safe, spoiled, and cared for.

I ask you to turn over and then, the mood shifts.

This isn’t about a quick fix; it’s about a full sensory takeover. I’m a 30-year-old RMT, and I want to pour all my professional focus into our pleasure. I want to slide down between your legs and stay there after you do the same to me. A nice sensual warm massage building the momentum & we take turns in pleasing the hell out of each other.

I want to worship until the legs are shaking and you’ve forgotten your own name. No rushing. Just pure, focused devotion.

Me: An RMT who knows exactly what he’s doing , 5'9", Fit, Attractive, Clean/DDF.

You: 25+, Open-minded, and ready to be completely adored.

Let's connect if you’ve ever fantasized about the massage continuing after the towel drops.

When you message me, tell me what drives you wild.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 3h ago

M4F SanJose 62 [M4F] #SanJose - In Great Need NSFW

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My partner hurt her jaw (car accident) a couple of years ago and she just can't suck for long, so she never does any more. Totally get it, but it is my very favorite sexual activity. So I need this, badly, and I need to be absolutely discreet, because I am not hurting her feelings.

I'm what you'd call pleasantly assertive in sexual settings, but I am entirely content to sit back and let you take your time pleasing me. I like finishing in your mouth, and I like you to keep sucking for a while after I cum because I get these aftershock things that are pleasantly intense.

I'm a large person, 6'3, 230, active and healthy in all respects. Pretty standard issue 6" cock with a bit of girth to it. I will send a picture of my face to respondents that seem promising, but I don't send dick pics.

I'm not terribly picky, but I do like exclusively women, so no responses from dudes, thanks, and please be a generally healthy person.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 7h ago

M4F NYC 38 [M4F] #NYC - Forbidden Fruit Tastes Twice as Sweet NSFW

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You keep promising yourself you’ll stop. You know there are much easier ways to do the same thing… and yet, every time you see that ring, something stirs inside.

To this day, you aren’t quite sure what keeps bringing you back. You’ve tried explaining it to friends a few times, but some things sound worse when said out loud.

They don’t get it, and therapy is better spent on something actually useful. So now, this is just your little secret. Besides, it’s more fun that way.

Much of the entertainment comes from picturing the men behind the posts and wondering what brought them here. You daydream about what it might be like to meet one of them… little games that beat doomscrolling.

It’s like riding the subway, where you sometimes pass the time spotting married men and guessing how many you could “flip.” Most, probably.

Today feels different, though. No, you haven’t kicked the habit. If anything, the opposite. Today browsing doesn’t feel like enough. Labor Day has come and gone, and it’s time for business, a little fun while the weather is still nice.

So here you are. You read a few posts and open a handful of profiles, but nothing catches your attention… Then you find yourself reading an unusually long post.

It’s intriguing. In some way, it speaks to you. He says he’s married, which makes you smile. He’s 5’8”, works in finance, and seems to have a fulfilling, happy life, he’s just looking for a little adventure, or so he says.

After a bit more chatting, you exchange pictures. He’s reasonably fit, with black hair, stubble that’s starting to see some gray, and wears a confident smile. You like what you see.

So far, he’s been funny and polite, a welcome change from the others. There is something disarming about him. Nothing particularly remarkable, really. And maybe that is exactly what made him interesting.

Eventually, he asks if you want to meet.

You smile again, this time nervously. Meeting someone new always sets butterflies loose in your stomach. You wonder if he feels the same.

His next message has an address, a time. He follows it with:

“So… see you then?”

Suddenly, this feels real.

“I’ll be there” was the last thing you typed before putting the phone down.

Time to pick what to wear.

..
….so, what are you wearing?


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 4h ago

M4F OrangeCounty 25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking for a Nerdy FWB to Run Some Experiments With NSFW

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Hey! Thanks for stopping by.

I'm 25, East Asian, 5'8", 150 lbs, average build, clean, respectful, and easygoing.

I'm looking for the kind of FWB where we're just as excited about grabbing dinner or boba as we are about getting each other's clothes off. Ideally, I'd love something ongoing where we text during the week, flirt, laugh, hang out, and build real chemistry instead of feeling like strangers who only meet when we're horny.

I'm especially hoping to find someone who's a bit of a nerd. Not necessarily stereotypically nerdy—just someone who's naturally curious, gets really into random interests, enjoys going down rabbit holes, and thinks "wait, what if we tried this?" is a fun sentence.

And yes, that applies to the bedroom too. I've been getting interested in experimenting with different techniques and seeing what actually works, including some personal goals around increasing my volume. I'd love to find someone who's amused by the idea of being my enthusiastic research partner—and I'm more than happy to return the favor. If you're curious about figuring out what makes you tick, experimenting with different approaches, or seeing how far we can take our little science experiments, I'm game.

No spreadsheets required.

...Although I can't promise I won't eventually make one.

Outside of the bedroom, I have not just a touch, but a full whack of AuDHD, so I have a ton of hobbies and nerdy interests we can talk about and maybe explore together. I'm into photography, cooking, trying new restaurants, boba, walking, random drives, exploring new places, Genshin (I sorta play), 3D printing, and generally getting way too interested in whatever happens to catch my attention.

My ideal Saturday is probably finding a new ramen spot, wandering around somewhere we've never been, getting distracted by something random along the way, then spending way too long arguing about what movie to watch because neither of us can decide.

I'm happy to chat and get comfortable beforehand, but I'm ultimately looking for something in person. If we seem like a good match, I'd rather actually make plans—grab boba, get dinner, go for a walk, whatever—and see if we click than spend weeks texting without ever meeting. No pressure to rush into anything; I just want the conversation to eventually lead somewhere in real life.

I'm naturally a pretty giving and attentive partner. I really enjoy focusing on my partner's pleasure and taking my time rather than rushing through things. I'm big on making out, plenty of foreplay, and figuring out what my partner enjoys because everyone is different. Good communication, mutual enthusiasm, and feeling comfortable with each other make everything so much better.

I'm open-minded and enjoy exploring new things together. If you're the kind of person who likes experimenting, communicating about what works, laughing when something definitely doesn't work, and trying again, I think we'd probably have a lot of fun.

I can sometimes host depending on the situation, but if you're able to host, that's definitely a plus. Otherwise, I'm happy to split a hotel.

I'm East Asian, wear glasses, and I'm happy to exchange photos early on so we can make sure there's mutual attraction. Attraction is subjective, so no hard feelings if we're not each other's type.

If you've made it this far, send me the word "peach" in your first message so I know you actually read the post. I'd also love to hear what you're nerdy about, what you enjoy doing, or what random topic you could talk about for three hours without realizing it.

I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I am looking for something genuine and ongoing—where we actually see each other, enjoy each other's company, have great chemistry, experiment together, and look forward to hanging out again.

If you're a quietly nerdy woman who thinks this sounds more fun than a conventional FWB setup, say hi. :)

P.S. Yes, I speak Chinese.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 4h ago

M4M Orange 29 [m4m] #Orange - Any DL guys looking for head after the bars? NSFW

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Seeing if any DL guys are down to get sucked up later tonite. I’m also a bottom if ur trying to do more.

Can’t host, but down to travel or do car. In OC area of So Cal. Looking for after midnight.

I can trade pics, and not into anon situation. Not interested with guys who don’t have a single picture of themselves to trade.

29yo
5’11”
175lbs
Slim-Average body build
Hispanic
Smooth body

!Unlock.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 4h ago

M4F LaMirada 29 [M4F] #LaMirada - Been stressed and need a way to let forget it for a bit NSFW

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looking to have some fun and see if this goes anywhere Been in a bit of a dry spell and just want to let out a load to relieve some stress, former partner didnt like facials or giving me blowjobs so just missing that a little extra rn

Well just throwing this out there to see what happens, I Work out often between cycling and swimming so currently just got a bit of extra energy . I am in decent shape overall though. 5’9” 180lbs latino


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 4h ago

M4F LosAngeles 32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - heavy cummer here NSFW

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Keeping this pretty simple:

seeing who’s around and interested in making some plans.

Usually looking for something fun after work or over the weekend. Lounges, music events, bars, clubs, whatever sounds good that night.

SFV / Los Angeles

32, 5’10”, 180#, Colombian/mixed. Clean & tested, DDF, discreet, established and fun to be around.

Looking for someone HWP, within a reasonable distance, attracted to each other and looking for the same kind of fun.

Message me if interested. I can share more privately and if the vibe is there, we can figure something out.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 4h ago

M4F newjersey 31 [M4F] #newjersey - I want to cum in your mouth while we lock eyes NSFW

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There’s nothing hotter to me. I want to find someone I’m attracted to that is 100% single.
I’m 6 feet tall, 165 pounds, disease free and can send photos early so we can both gauge attraction Open to this leading to more, not just sexually but overall. I know this is a subreddit for blowjobs but tell me more about yourself and your likes as well as dislikes

What are your hobbies?

Goals?
Favorite things to do to unwind
I don’t want this to feel transaction, as much as I’d love a pretty face to cum on/in


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 4h ago

M4F LosAngeles 40 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Tall, fit guy looking for relaxed, enthusiastic oral NSFW

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40M in LA (6'4", athletic, clean, DDF).

Looking for a woman who genuinely enjoys giving oral, likes taking her time, and is into slow teasing and buildup. Happy to return the favor if you want, or keep the focus on you — whatever feels best.

Low pressure, discreet, good hygiene, and clear communication are musts. Flexible schedule and open to private meets (hotel or whatever works).

If this sounds good, send a DM with a quick intro. Happy to trade pics early.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 5h ago

M4F SanJose 34 [M4F] #SanJose - Help me end this dry spell with a splash NSFW

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Being a busy adult and pursuing a writing passion in my free time has left me with little time for dating. Be that as it may I still have needs and the apps still suck so I've turned to reddit once again. I've had a few successful hookups from subs like this before (using since deleted accounts) so hopefully we'll make lightning strike again and create an amazing experience for the both of us.

My stats are: 34 years old, white/latino, 180lbs worth of a fit dad bod type build, short beard, long brown hair I've been growing out to donate, and a 5'10" height. Clean and tested.

Personality wise I'm laid back, easy going, chill etc., I appreciate service workers and like dogs, have a blue collar exterior with a nerd core, and have been told I'm a good listener with a dark sense of humor. Kink and vanilla friendly as well.

In terms of what I'm looking for, all I ask is you be hwp, have good hygiene, and are not an insane person. I'm open to meeting in person/doing a zoom call before hand as a vibe check and willing to go on date to set the mood. I can't host at mine due to roomates but I'm able to afford a hotel or airbnb for more privacy.

Think that covers it, wish me luck RAOB!


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 7h ago

M4M Ludington 35 [M4M] #Ludington - Oct 31 Weekend NSFW

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35 M here, will be by Ludington Michigan this Halloween Weekend. I’m white, bearded, bit of a dad bod. Very new and nervous to all of this and can’t promise I’ll follow through but … any BWC out there looking to facefuck a newbie? Must be clean, drug and disease free. And must host, I can’t host. 5’11” Dad Bod White with Beard.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 7h ago

M4M LosAngeles 26 [M4M] #LosAngeles - In search of cool guys to blow NSFW

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Hey all, stumbled across this community and figured it was worth a show. I’m looking to meet cool guys who are looking for some great head. I’m open to any way you want it. Seeking guys who are willing to keep between us.

A little about me:
White
5’10
145lbs

I would prefer some guys around my age and in pretty good shape. Open to older if you are cool. Please send a photo when messaging me. Hit me up. Hoping for tonight.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 7h ago

M4F Seattle 41 [M4F] #Seattle - Fit BWC looking for a blowjob enthusiast 😈 NSFW

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Hello there 👋 Hope you had a good week so far! As the the title states, I'm looking for a cutie who loves nothing more than sucking a nice dick, it's your favorite thing there is. you love the taste and feel of a cock, and the loads that come out. You take pride in your skills and ability to please a man. You love everything about it 😈

As for me, I'm 41, avg height, very fit at 145 lbs, and have a nice 7" cock. I am handsome with a well groomed beard. Been told I look like Jesse Pinkman if you know who that is. I am very clean, great hygiene, and have recent clean STI results. I can host in North Seattle, but happy to travel within a reasonable distance. Also open to car or other places to have some fun.

If this sounds of interest to you, feel free to reach out out with a message. Hope to hear from you!


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 7h ago

M4M Brooklyn 33 [M4M] #Brooklyn - passionate throat hosting for sloppy session tonight NSFW

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Hi

Normal dude
Clean
Walk in
Unzip
Lay back

Average body
6’4
Latino
Clean

Willing to suck 2 loads out of you.

Leave.

Safe space.
Clean here

You must be clean :)

Send details.
Looking for now as long as this is up


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 7h ago

M4F Seattle 43 [M4F] #Seattle - Your oral fixation can be our little secret NSFW

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Listen, I'm not saying you're really, really into having cock in your mouth. Something throbbing for you to worship. The feeling of cum pumping when you've done everything right.

And I'm also not saying the biggest reason you don't do it more often is because you'd like to keep it a secret?

But...

If the thought of dropping to your knees excites you and you get off on it being 🤫, send me a message. I won't tell anyone.

(6'1, fit. BDSM Dom, a sadist who's into consent and safe play)


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 8h ago

M4F boston 38 [M4F] #boston - backed up and looking for discreet fun in southern New Hampshire NSFW

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It’s been far too long since I’ve had my cock sucked. Willing to reciprocate in more ways than one. Discretion is a must.

6’2, white, 235lbs, 7”

Manchester/Nashua area

Guys please don’t message me. I’m not that desperate, respectfully.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 8h ago

M4F Toronto 33 [M4F] #Toronto - completely drain me however you want in my car at 6am NSFW

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Hi, looking for someone to drain me completely in my car till I can’t drive for a while lol. How that’s done is completely up to you… mouth, hands… whatever… it’s up to you. Just looking for someone that enjoys giving. I will also reciprocate if wanted. I’m free tonight. Hopefully we can meet for a vibe check.

I’m in the GTA (Mississauga/ Brampton) looking for someone who is going to be awake at 6am. I’ll just be done work so I can come to you and even drive you if you need a ride to work.

Bit about myself
I’m a 33y/o, conventionally attractive, athletic build 5’10 Italian guy with a 6” thick dick.

Some sfw things about me
I’m really into travelling and I do have a lot of days off from work. I am successful in my career and really enjoy what I do.

Hope we get to connect. Only open to female connections, thank you.


r/RandomActsOfBlowJob • • 8h ago

M4F Philly 40 [M4F] #Philly - Looking for that exciting feeling again NSFW

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40M, 6’0, 200 lbs, fit, intelligent, curious, respectful.

Not sure how many years it’s been since I’ve gotten a blow job, but suddenly I want to feel that sensation again - not just the physical pleasure, but the feeling of having someone so enthusiastically focused on trying to make me happy.

Whether you’re experienced or not, just watching you put in the effort would drive me wild. All experience levels, body types, and personalities are welcome.

Make me cum hard, and I’ll put it wherever you like - in your mouth, on your body, or on myself. I want you to feel proud of the impact you have on my body.

Let’s get together and enjoy that exciting feeling together! Please include age in first message.