r/transfem • • Jul 19 '26

Meta [Meta] AI content is no longer allowed

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Hi all, this is just an announcement to let you all know that we have a new rule that AI content isn't allowed here. We've noticed an uptick in AI spam accounts, especially ones which post AI-generated images and try to pass them off as real selfies, and this is to clarify the rules and make sure fewer of those kinds of posts slip through moderation.

If you have any thoughts or questions, feel free to send us a modmail or leave a comment below! Hope you all have a nice day/night wherever you are🫶


r/transfem • • Aug 01 '25

Meta [Meta/Discussion] Update: "Do I Pass" posts are now only allowed on Fridays

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Hey y'all,

thank you for the feedback and suggestions on the past meta thread! I'm going to try adding a new rule that "do I pass" posts are only allowed on Fridays. There is also a new flair specifically for "Do I Pass" posts -- please make sure to use this flair when making "do I pass" posts!

Rule 6: "Do I Pass" posts must only be posted on Fridays

Posts asking for passing advice, or asking "do I pass" and other similar questions should only be posted on Friday. This is to reduce spam and decrease the number of repetitive posts. "Do I Pass" posts which do not have the proper flair will also be removed.

This should help decrease the amount of spam and repetitive posts, while not fully restricting those posts. There's a bot now which should automatically enforce this rule, but it might mess up sometimes so if your post gets removed in error please send a modmail!

If this rule ends up being unpopular or otherwise flawed, I can try tweaking it or removing it altogether as needed. Once again, if you have any feedback or suggestions please feel free to reply to this thread, or send a private modmail if you'd prefer.

Thank you!


r/transfem • • 8h ago

Selfie Goth Trans Girl šŸ³ļøā€āš§ļøšŸ¦‡

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r/transfem • • 13h ago

Selfie Just a Girl

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that’s it. that’s the post


r/transfem • • 7h ago

Question/Discussion Is this bad?

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It’s a hole in the rubber stopper. also sorry if this violates rule 7, don’t yell at me :(


r/transfem • • 12h ago

Progress! 3 years of social & just over a year of hormones! (19 - 26)

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I did not know I was trans in the first two photos


r/transfem • • 7h ago

Progress! There is hope for all of you! These pictures are 5 years apart

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I know it can feel a little overwhelming and hopeless at times. Especially for those of us who discovered we were trans after puberty. I just wanted to show these pictures and tell all of you that there is hope and you are beautifulā¤ļøā¤ļø. The first picture was taken on my 18th birthday, and the second was taken a week after my 23rd


r/transfem • • 8h ago

Selfie Trans Girl Makeup Skills

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r/transfem • • 1h ago

Selfie 😼

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r/transfem • • 5h ago

Selfie Selfies šŸ’ž

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r/transfem • • 9h ago

Selfie All red like an apple, who wants to take a bite?! Haha jk šŸ˜

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Went to a restaurant wif my familia for breakfast


r/transfem • • 14h ago

Progress! It took 16 years, but HRT works

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r/transfem • • 3h ago

Question/Discussion Attraction changes…?

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When I started hrt I was maybe 20% attracted to men/masculinity. This is now at about 80%. I’m in a relationship with a woman and I want to stop playing a masculine role, but she’s also a bottom.

We’re both in talks and working on improving our intimacy issues, but it’s been going on for like 9-10 months at this point. We are intimate maybe once a month.

Has anyone experienced attraction changes like this? If so how did you navigate them in a monogamous relationship?


r/transfem • • 6h ago

Question/Discussion I'm so sad

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I feel like I should just give up going down this road, that I'll be making my life significantly harder, that I'll be disappointed and never pass as much as I want to. But at the same time I can't let it go. I've tried to repress these feelings again but it feels almost impossible this time around.

The depression around this is hitting me like a frieght train, I'm trying to stay positive and let things unfold as they do naturally but it's so hard. Thankfully I am seeing a gender affirming therapist on the 22nd to get some clarity with this so it's not like I'm not doing anything to explore this but even then I worry I'm going to find out I'm just cis and have some fetish/obsessive fantasy and the thought of that would be so devastating since I feel this less and less being attached to sex.

It feels very pure and innocent to me because I can trace these feelings all the way back to being 12 (I'm 30 now), and it's made me so happy to have that connection back to my younger self and being able to say "there really is something to this", I feel like finding out there isn't would be heartbreaking.

Idk, I'm a mess lately, I feel more vulnerable than I've probably ever felt in my adult life.


r/transfem • • 6h ago

Question/Discussion Breast forms?

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So I’m looking for a breast form that I can preferably get online for under 45 dollars and wanted to know if you girls have any suggestions 🫶


r/transfem • • 1h ago

Question/Discussion I think it’s time to accept I’m a woman and I’m scared to admit it (20 mtf)

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Hey, I’ve tried to say this multiple times and I’m just going to type some things and get them out there. I’ve had these thoughts for a long time around teen years and tried to shut them out, in my mind I was supposed to be male but I freaked out cause I knew deep down I didn’t want a male body.

I feel like my masculine features came a bit later and before I thought it wasn’t a big deal I was fine being a boy but then those features came in and oh no. I don’t think it’s me, I don’t hate being a boy but the image of being a girl gives me no grief. Aging as a man seems weird, a little wrong. However, wanting to be in a female body just seems to resonate with me in way I can’t describe.

I’m just really scared this is a big big thing to come to terms with, and I feel like I push it down and feel like I’m fine during the day when with people, but at night the feelings always creep back up. I get obsessed with what it would be like to be her. I’m so jealous of women where they got to live as women their whole lives but I see a beautiful woman and get a little sad I can’t look like her, as if I’m missing out on the greatest thing ever.

I also have to come to terms that cis men don’t have these thoughts and I’m most likely a her. I have a serious choice to make.


r/transfem • • 1h ago

Selfie [30] For whoever asking !! Here is my bday dress.

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r/transfem • • 1d ago

Creative Trans BlƄhaj

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94 Upvotes

I Bought myself a BlƄhaj and i had the biggest smile on my face cause i been wanting it for a year already and I'm so happy i bought it, i wanna figure out a name for them so lmk a good name! Stay safe out there fellow dolls ^-^ #BlƄhaj #Transfeminine #TransPride


r/transfem • • 6h ago

Question/Discussion feeling ugly and depressed

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hope i’ll be more feminine in the future


r/transfem • • 16h ago

Creative Love being trans šŸ’“

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r/transfem • • 9h ago

Question/Discussion Newbie help

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So im a newbie when it comes to this I've just finally at 22 accepted im mtf even tho I knew since 17 and I wanted some advice...I wanna start my transition but dont know where to start im in canada I know we have alot of resources but idk where to start looking I thought about calling one of the hospitals that deal with trans stuff maybe I can join smoothing but yea any advice for a newbie starting out


r/transfem • • 14h ago

Selfie New wig

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r/transfem • • 17h ago

Selfie Started taking estrogen last month, might be confident enough too rock this outside :3

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r/transfem • • 21h ago

Selfie finally outside, out for a stroll

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r/transfem • • 1d ago

Selfie But when I go through hell.. it’s when I know myself (天)

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~ Anyone else lowkey excited for the street fighter movie? šŸ˜‹