I apologize if I used the wrong flair.

I'm very hairy, from facial hair to my underarms, legs, thighs, stomach, groin and butt and it's always been an insecurity of mine and I just find it gross since I got all hairy in grade 9 or so compared to my male classmates who are smooth as a baby.

I always just used scissors to trim down my pubic hair, even used disposable razors on my groin several times before (which was not only time consuming but also hella itchy) but I'm thinking of buying a more dedicated equipment so I'm looking for suggestions especially for electric razors or whatever is appropriate to buy. I've also been thinking of just buying hair removal spray for my legs, thighs and chest.

I'd like to get waxxed but I'm still a student so it's not really a priority.

Should I buy different razors for facial hair and body hair? Which brands do you recommend?

Hi! I just want to ask yung mga veterans dyan or anyone na may knowledge about nipple/chest play on how to make it more pleasurable?

A little bit of context, so yung body ko now is what people would usually classify as “chubuff” and as such medyo mas prominent yung chest ko and perky yung nipple kodin. A lot of people would tell me na it’s perfect for chest play but whenever I try to do it with someone, wala ako masyadong maramdaman na pleasure, may konti naman pero I find myself wanting more.

May need ba akong gawin to make my nipples more sensitive? Should I use toys or something?
Any related advice would be greatly appreciated. Thankyy! hehe

for gay men who are in a relationship or have been in one, what are some little things you wish your partner did that would make you feel loved or sweep you off your feet? nothing grand or expensive, just simple things that would mean a lot to you.

and if your partner never did those things, what made you stay?

Hello Guys, for those who shave their balls, what specific brand of razor do you use that gives you a smooth shave without cuts or irritation?

For those naman who use hair removal creams, what brand do you recommend that actually works? Have you found one that's safe for the sensitive skin around your balls?

Would appreciate your recommendations and personal experiences. SALAMAT PO sa mga sasagot. ☺️

Disc: Reposting it here since this is still my current struggle and badly need advice.

How do you turn down or cut off someone na long time mo nang ka-fun?

I met this guy back when i was just an OJT, way older siya sa akin nang many years and matagal na siya sa company. He is respected sa office, manly, malalim boses, malaking tao and honestly i look up to him na parang father figure sa office. It was too late nang na realize ko na ung pagiging touchy pala niya sakin or samin ay may iba talaga meaning and di ko lang masyado pinansin since close siya samin and mabait talaga siya to almost everyone.

Long story short, he was my first same seks eksperience who introduced me to a lot of things, pleasurable things na i didnt know possible na a guy can do to another guy. Marami siyang kinks na at first i was weirded out and didnt know exist and kabado or natakot pa nung mga unang beses pero ngayon parang normal na lang and nakasanayan na.

I lost interest and stopped seeing other people din esp girls when those things started happening between us. Madalas scheduled ang ginagawa namin madalas after Friday shift diretso sa condo niya pero minsan kahit walang usapan, when i feel so H, i go to his place and don ko binubuhos lahat.

Outside sex, marami rin naman siyang naturo sakin like fitness and pano mag-gym kaya umayos physique ko and pati mga work-related that eventually landed me a job dahil inabsorb ako ng company.

But I cant shrug off the feeling na parang guilt o ewan. I always say to myself na last na to or after nito tapos na whenever nagpupunta ko sa place niya pero I always find myself coming back. Hanggang sa bigla siya na-assign overseas for almost a year and na-reduce ang communication namin online. Thats when things got complicated dahil nagiging magagalitin siya sa tuwing di ko siya pinpansin sa chat or call or sinusunod mga gusto niyang gawin. Then I learned na may mga naka save pala siyang private photos and videos ko and namin na sinesend niya sakin. He also gave my contact to 2 of his friends na naiwan sa Pinas na he made me meet up and eventually may nangyari rin samin (separately and makgkasama). 😭😭😭

Now nakabalik na siya sa Pinas and inaaya niya ulit akong makipag-meet. May ekspectations na naman ako kung ano ang gusto niyang mangyari pero parang nagbago or naguguluhan na ko if tutuloy ko pa ba after nang mga nalaman kong ginagawa niya without my knowledge and when he set me up with his friends which is alam niyang ayoko dahil kaya ako mag stick sa kanya lang dahil ayokong may ibang makakita and makaalam this side of me and takot ako sa sakit.

Di ko alam how to turn him down directly especially sa mga hawak niyang info ko and photos/vids he saved. Dagdag ko lang na im also not out to anyone and cant afford na malaman ng tropa ko and esp my family mga nangyari samin.

Can we talk about this huge topic in our community? But mine might be an unpopular opinion. I'm open to hearing other perspectives here so feel free to drop your insights! Curious if there's any take here that might sway where I stand.

I see a lot of people in our community accusing gay men who are not into femme gays (when it comes to dating/hook ups) have misogyny, femmephobia, internalized homophobia, and such.

True or false? - for me... neither. kasi it's not that simple.

First off - there's some truth in it. Phrases such as "Pass sa halata", "Ay bading", "Ay binabae" - all these fall into the notion that anything "feminine" is inferior which is a form of bigotry.

However, not all gay men who aren't "attracted" to femme gays have those prejudices by default. For some, feminine traits just simply do not appeal to them from a sexual and romantic standpoint. But in other aspects, they don't treat feminine gays any differently and most importantly, they don't say those phrases. Para lang siyang "You like tinola. I like sinigang"; "You like fem/masc. I like masculine."

Now, if a gay man actively mocks and speaks ill of femme guys, then that's a totally different story. Esp if they talk about them with undertones of discrimination.

My point? I hope we stop viewing this issue as a black and white situation, and we don't automatically label gay men who aren't into femme guys "misogynist", "femmephobic" simply because their preferences do not fit your ideals. Dig deeper. Ask them why? Take time to understand what shaped their preferences. Are they coming from a place of unconscious bias against femininity? Or are they simply just attracted to masculine energy? We're so quick to judge and label someone without even bothering to be curious first.

There are nuances na we need to acknowledge cos at the end of the day, we're complex human beings with complex emotions, preferences, and desires. Ayun lang naman. Ikaw ba? Ano take mo?

As the question says, for Bi guys out there, saang gender kayo mas nadadalian makipag hook up? and in what instances were you able to hook up with them? by apps or in person?

kapag with guys, is it easier kapag apps while with girls mas common ba pag in person or apps din?

Ano difference ng approach niyo sa kanila?

i am very curious talaga kung paano yung set up ng mga ganitong group session hahahaha

may naka try na ba? how was the flow? kakain ba muna bago magkantutan or vice versa? paano mo malalaman kung pwede na mag sex? pano ka makakapili ng kakantutin? hygienic din ba siya or amoy zonrox na yung place? HAHAHAHAHA hindi ko talaga ma-imagine.

ano thoughts niyo sa ganito?

he is llo poch!! ask ku lang if possible mangyari na irecommend ng FB ‘yung profile mo to people that you have chatted in Grindr or kahit other applications irrecommend ‘yung profile mo like IG, X, Threads? (may account po ako on all mentioned apps)

it might be a dumb question pero siguro curious lang me dahil kapag sa locations ganon, kapag nearby kayo, ‘di lang pala sa Grindr magpapakita profile mo sa ibang peeps 😭 kasi years ago, i saw a post na parang may binago/inayos lang shea sa settings ng phone niya (not sure if airplane mode ba or what, also not sure this is super accurate sowri) tas ‘yung hinahanap niya na stranger from a place na pinuntahan niya nagappear sa People You May Know sa FB niya wahahaha. share niyo namanch experiences’ed niyo. hihi thank youu.

So I did some medicine buying inside the mall and also had lunch as I had not eaten anything yet for the entire day. Lo and behold, there was a sale making the mall slightly packed than the usual weekday.

After having my late lunch at Din Tai Fung, had a haircut at Bench Fix and went to Dairy Queen.

Then saw this super paper-white-skinned guy named Von or Boy holding 2 Pull & Bear paper bags. I sat outside and heard his name called (heard him say his name to the cashier as I was paying to the cashier right next to him). So yeah he went outside probably (i think) waiting for me to remove my face mask as we locked eyes I guess at one point.

He was with his friends so I dunno. Damn. He looks soooooo adorable. If you’re here, just wanted to say “hi”. 😁

It could be a good or bad thing. Good thing maraming nag papacheck kaya na over estimate ang supply. Bad na wala nang pondo ang DOH. I have a separate posting about something similar din. Just a cautionary tale.

Hi! I'm in my late 20's/Male, and just like what the title says, I finally had my first successful meetup with someone from the G app.

I've been lurking on the app since 2022, but I've never actually had a successful meetup. I'm not really out yet, and I find it difficult to send pictures of myself. I'm also still unsure about my orientation, although I've always been attracted to both sexes. I guess I haven't had enough experience with the same sex to really know what I want yet.

Before this encounter, I had actually deleted the app because I found it useless. But one night, I decided to download it again and sabi ko, bahala na.

Three people messaged me right away, even though I didn't have any pictures on my profile. Only one of them sent an album, though. I told them that I don't send pictures or do video calls and would rather show myself in person. I also told them that I only do side fun. Only one agreed to meet, and he was the one who sent an album with his face in it.

I asked him to choose a safe place where we could meet. He sent me his location, and I went there.Looking back, my actions were lowkey manic. I didn't even think twice. I was really like, bahala na talaga.

And when I saw him omg he was even cuter in person. He was discreet, with no trace of femininity, and he was lowkey batak as well. He's the type of guy that usually makes me question my sexuality.

I said hi and asked if he was still down after seeing me in person. He smiled and said, "Why not?"

Ngl I thought everything was too good to be true, and I could have easily been walking toward my own kamatayan. 😭 Pero in my mind, wala naman sigurong holdapper na conyo.

He couldn't host, and I told him I wasn't ready to bring a stranger to my place yet, so we decided to talk in my car first. I even offered to get a hotel room for us, but he said he wanted to, although he didn't want me to spend money. So we decided to talk in the car first.

We initially tried to be discreet about our personal information, but our conversation flowed so naturally and smoothly, as if we'd been friends for a long time (his words btw). He even said it was unusual for him to meet guys like me on the app.

We eventually realized that we had the same social circle and had attended the same university, so I guess that made things easier for both of us.

To cut a long story short, we ended up talking in my car for FOUR HOURS, until dawn (with some stuff happening in between)

We talked about really deep and personal things. He comes from a very liberal background, and I found out that he's not really a fan of labels. He said he never felt the need to come out because of that. Only a handful of people know that he dabbles in same-sex encounters.

I never gave him my real name, but he ended up telling me his.

And here's the thing that got me: he complimented me on the exact things about my body that I'm most insecure about. He somehow knew the right words to say, and I wasn't expecting that at all.

He also gave me his number, saying that he doesn't usually do that. He told me to message him so there is still a way for us to keep in touch after the encounter.

I explained that it might take me a while to message him because everything that happened that night was completely new to me, and I'd probably need a few days to process it all. He said he understood and respected that.

When he insisted on getting my contact information, he said we could just be buddies, we could hang out and have dinner somewhere in our neighborhood daw. In my mind, I was like, "Is this his way of friend-zoning me?" hahaha. I mean dont get me wrong, I'm not expecting it to be something more.

I never gave him my number because I was scared he'd figure out my identity if he saved it on other apps.

Two days after the meetup, I was still completely high from the experience. I eventually messaged him using my second number, which isn't associated with any of my accounts. I just wanted to thank him for the great time and tell him he could message me at that number anytime if he needed a buddy.

He replied: "im glad you also had fun haha will do! enjoy your weekend"

And that's it. I didn't reply after that. Maybe because, deep down, I was expecting a little more than the message he sent. Idk tbh.

Now, here's where I'm confused.

As I mentioned earlier, all of this is completely new to me: messing around with guys, opening up about my sexuality to someone, and just being able to experience this side of myself.

I went into that meetup expecting a quick release and then goodbye. I never expected to spend four hours talking to a guy I had literally just met, sharing personal stories, and feeling comfortable enough to let my guard down.

I don't know if it's because he's genuinely someone I clicked with or because the entire experience was new to me, but it felt so liberating. It's been a week, and I still find myself thinking about him and what happened that night.

So, to the guys here who have been using the G app for a while, I have a few questions:

1. Does this kind of thing happen often in the G app? Do you sometimes meet someone expecting nothing more than a casual encounter, only to end up talking for hours and connecting on a personal level? Or am I just romanticizing the experience because it was my first time?
2. Should I message him again and ask if he wants to meet up**?** I dont know if this is worth pursuing and I don't know if he feels the same way or if he was just being nice. Would you interpret his response as disinterest, or am I reading too much into it?
3. Should I keep exploring with other guys instead?

I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship with this guy, and I don't even know if I have feelings for him. I just know that the experience affected me more than I expected.

Would love to hear your thoughts, especially from people who've been in a similar situation. Am I making this encounter into something bigger than it was, or is it normal to feel this way after your first experience?

Almost 3 years of relationship, gone. My boyfriend cheated on me. Our relationship was good. Four months ago, I caught him chatting with a few guys on Telegrm and Messenger. In some of the chats they were planning to meet, but it never happened because he didn’t have the means yet, being a fresh graduate and unemployed. I confronted him about it. He said sorry, and I forgave him because I still loved him and believed he deserved a second chance.

Yesterday, I saw on his phone that he met a guy from the same university where he works. The guy knew he had a boyfriend. They met at his place and slept together. I’m devastated. He used to say he hates cheaters because his ex cheated on him, and that was why they broke up. He even told me that if he caught me cheating, he would expose me on social media. Now he’s done to me exactly what his ex did to him. I’m heartbroken. I haven’t confronted him yet. We only see each other on weekends. Should I confront him by phone or in person?

Hi everyone! I just wanted to ask if anyone here is in a serodifferent relationship, where one partner is HIV-positive and the other is HIV-negative.

I recently met someone I genuinely like, and he happens to be HIV-positive, while I am HIV-negative (non-reactive). We’re both interested in getting to know each other more seriously and exploring the possibility of dating exclusively. Although, he is scared to cum inside me kasi baka hawaan daw niya ako kahit na I’m on prep and he is UD

I’d love to hear from couples who are in a similar situation. How has your relationship been? What challenges have you faced, and how do you navigate them together?
I genuinely believe that someone’s HIV status shouldn’t define their worth or their ability to be loved. I just want to learn more and hear about your experiences.

I apologize if my questions sound ignorant. I’m still learning, and I’m asking from a place of genuine curiosity, respect, and a desire to better understand. Thank you so much!

Kung feeling mo nabasa mo na to before, yes ako nga yun. Nasuspend kasi old account ko na walang dahilan. Hahaha. Resharing this story of mine kasi sakto may konti akong update na idadagdag.

[Warning: Long Story ahead]

Dumaan din ba kayo sa ganitong phase ng buhay niyo? I'm glad na nahanap ko ang subreddit na to para maishare ko ang story na to about my exploring phase now.

Hindi talaga ako sexually active noong teenage years until 20s ko, i mean compare sa iba, hindi ganun kataas libido ko not until I reached 30s.

Technically, I'm still a virgin. Hanggang Jaks at MOMOL lang experiences ko. I know I know I feel like a loser dahil 30s na ako pero virgin pa din ako.

Sabi nila hindi naman ako pangit kasi may mga babae at gays na nag coconfess na crush nila ako. Nung mga panahon kasi na yun, mababa self esteem ko kasi diagnosed ako with depression tapos takot din ako makabuntis. I had a long time girlfriend noon and she was my greatest love kaya kami naghiwalay dahil hindi ko siya nagalaw ever. Hanggang MOMOL lang. Kaya ayun na buntis ng iba. Saket mga pars pero naka moved on na ako dun.

Akala ko yun na yun pero andami ko pa pala na discover sa sarili ko. Parang ngayon lang ako naging curious sa mga bagay2. Late comers yun?

May mga friends ako na LGBT at minsan kinukwento nila sa akin ang mga sexual experiences nila kaya hindi naman ako ganun ka naive pero dahil sa reddit, my knowledge of LGBT (like how do you guys think, how do you interact, how do you guys feel) has further deepened tapos I realized andami terms na ngayon ko pa lang nalaman like (Top, Bottom, Versa, Sides, Gay, Bi, Bi Curious, St8 curious, Discreet Bi, etc.)

Growing up, I like girls. Nalilibogan ako sa mga babaeng petite with big boobs. Idol ko dati (until now) si Carmen Luvana, Mia Khalifa etc. just like other guys do. Hindi pa ako interested sa Gay porn at that time.

Observed ko dati na if may nakikita akong pogi or maganda ang katawan, napapatingin ako sa kanila pero wala naman halong pagnanasa, pure admiration lang talaga like I wanna be like them too someday or kino commend ko discipline nila.

Tapos nagsimula to last year na nadiscover ko na may ganitong side pala ako. Nasira phone ko nun and while waiting for my phone na maayos, nag tablet muna ako. I already have T G pero hindi ko masyadong ginagamit tapos may nasalihan akong GC na nag sesend ng mga porn (Straight at m|m). Sa GC na yun, may invitation ulit sa isa pang GC kung saan pwede magparate ng dick pic mo.

At that time, libog na libog ako kaya nagsend ako ng dick pic sa admin tapos pinost niya rating niya. 8/10 daw. Tapos andaming comments praising my dick kaya mas lalo akong

ginanahan magshare ng dick pics esp may nahanap na naman akong bagong GC tapos nainvite na naman ako sa isang Jabolan GC na 24/7 may nagjajabol.

Gusto kong sumali sa jabolan out of curiosity kaya lang natatakot ako na baka may makakilala sa akin or ma hack account ko tapos ibablack mail nila ako, something like that, kaya observed2 muna ako tapos nung lumakas na loob ko tinry ko na. I make sure naman na sa isang safe place ako magjajakol yung walang makakarecognized sa lugar at hanggang chest lang ang makikita nila sa akin.

Pucha nakakalibog pala kapag kinakabahan ka tapos finocus ko lang camera sa akin dahil hindi ako komportable na makakakita ng maraming tite. Habang nilalaro ko alaga ko, may biglang tumawag sa username ko tapos inuungulan ako "ugh sarap mo" "bilisan mo" "sarap ng etits mo pare" kaya mas lalo kong binilisan hanggang sa nilabasan ako. Sandamakmak na DMs natanggap ko pagkatapos, pinagjakolan daw nila ako. Fck!

Dahil dun, nadevelop ang kink ko na magjabol na may thrill o habang may nanonood. (UPDATE: Nawala na hilig ko sa ganito. Baka phase ko lang talaga yun)

Nagsimula na rin ako manood ng mga gay porn tapos dun ko na realized na posible pala akong malibogan dun. Akala ko mandidiri ako pero hindi naman. Na eenjoy ko pa nga kapag nakikita ko ang bottom na sarap na sarap habang may tumitira sa kanya.

Pero hindi ba masakit yun? Tubol pa nga lang masakit na ano pa kaya tite na mismo ang pumapasok. Sabi ng isang friend ko na Bi, masakit daw na masarap at parang may natatamaan daw kasi sa loob.

Nag research ako dito sa reddit at dun ko natutunan ang tungkol sa G Spot o Prostate. Babae't lalaki pala may ganyan.

Kaya nung minsan na nag jakol ako, sinubukan kong ipasok ang finger ko sa butas ko. Uncomfy ako nung una kasi medyo masakit tapos ang sikip pa nung akin pero pansin ko, tumatagas precum ko (malakas ako mag precum). Linabas masok ko finger ko pero hindi ko mahanap kung saan ang sinasabi nilang g spot (hindi ko kasi idiniin ang pag finger ko).

Bumili ako ng maliit dildo na may vibrator (5") at lube (based pa rin sa nababasa ko dito) para subukan kung masasapul niya ba g spot ko. Hayup pagpasok ko ang sakit tapos may sumabit pa kaya nawalan ako ng gana kaya nag research ako ulit kung ano ang ginagawa ng mga bot bakit malinis yung sa kanila kahit galing sila sa matinding bakbakan.

So ayun nung 2nd time ko, sinakto ko na pagkatapos ng jebs, nag douche ako gamit bidet at dun pa lang nasarapan na ako kasi tumatagas precum ko.

Nilagyan ko ng maraming lube ang dildo at dahan dahang pinasok ito sa butas ko. Sinagad ko talaga yun at dun ko naramdaman ang naghahalong sakit at sarap. Steady lang ako dun tapos in-on ko ang vibration mode.

Haup, naging awakening sa akin ang concept ng G spot. Sarap na sarap ako kahit na medyo masakit. Tuloy tuloy pagtagas ng pre cum ko at para akong naiihi. Feeling ko ito na yung g spot na sinasabi nila. Linabas masok ko din ang dildo para lalong ma stimulate g spot ko. Konting jakol na lang, lalabasan na ako. Ito na ata ang pinakasatisfying na jaks sa buong buhay ko.

Paghugot ko pucha, bat may dugo? Kinabahan ako dahil akala ko kailangan ko nang pumunta ng hospital pero nag research muna ako tapos ang sabi, normal lang naman daw. *sigh of relief. Ganito pala feeling na parang na devirginized ka. Haha.

Bumili na din ako ng isa pang anal plug for jaks purposes. Minsan iniisip ko, ano kaya feeling kung totoong tite na mismo ang pumapasok sa akin. Yun lang kapag bot ata required chumupa haha ayoko kasi chumupa at ayoko sa lasa ng tamod (natalsikan kasi ako ng sarili kong tamod dahil shooter ako). Ayoko din magpadominate pero baka kakayanin ko na lang for the sake of experience. (UPDATE: Willing na ako na gawin ang lahat ng to, chumupa, magpakantot and maybe tasting other's cum pero hindi ko lang alam kung paano sisimulan kasi inexperience nga yung kuya niyo hahaha mag inuman ba muna para hindi kabahan o good convo lang?)

Pero gusto ko magpachupa lalo na sa mga hayuk na hayuk sa tite. Nakalalibog kasi mga napapanood ko. Ang galing nila chumupa.

Gusto ko din ma experience ang ma edge ng ibang tao like gaano ba katagal kaya ko at gusto ko din ma experience tumira at pansin ko kung kapwa lalaki pag uusapan, I'm into lean or petite, yung tinatawag nilang twinks.

For now, hanggang Vjaks lang ang experience ko with m|m. Next time na ako susubok ng actual. Haha. Safe to say naman siguro If I identify myself na as Bi?

If umabot kayo dito, salamat po sa pagbabasa!

Hi reddit! Pa-isa lang ulit since this has been bothering me for quite a while now and I think I'm at my capacity of ignoring it.

I sit adjacent to 2 officemates na girlie pops. Oftentimes, doon tumatambay yung straight guys na tropa nila. Straight in a sense na sila 'yong tipong pinagbabakla baklaan kapag may office performance tapos nilolokong maraming chix.

So they have this certain phrase na ginagamit kapag nanunukso na, "para kang bakla". They use this analogously when describing their tropa as "maarte", "afraid", or "malandi". Basically, any negative trait that questions one's "manliness". Girlie pops do this as well.

I've been ignoring it whenever I hear them say that phrase gaslighting myself thinking "it's not directed towards me so, whatever" or "I don't need to feel anything because it's just a joke".

I'm also just a couple feet away from them kaya rinig ko talaga. Now, I'm already starting to feel too uncomfy that I can no longer pretend to be deaf anymore.

I'm bi but I've been identifying myself as gay for the longest time since I'm not "manly" or "discreet" enough for some gay guys.

But the way they use the word "bakla" really feels derogatory.. or am I just overreacting?

I'm not mad or anything pero it just kinda feels insensitivity. Idk. Thoughts?

Paminsan minsan lang ako gumamit nento pero matagal ko na talaga pinag iisipan mag subscribe and ma check if worth it ba.

Ayun, nakakatuwa kasi nagagamit ko yung ibang features na hindi available noon, pero pucha unang usap pa lang, catfished na agad.

Daming bading na di kaya lumaban ng patas ayy.

Ano kwentong Grindr niyo?

I am seriously and genuinely curious kung paano napupull-off ng mga kakilala ko na makipaghook-up with a friend, classmate, or schoolmate.

To my mind, how do you guys even start talking about it, let alone inviting and/or doing it? Hahaha I’m just curious since may nakausap ako sa ibang app and he just casually mentioned it. Nahihiya naman ako ako magtanong kasi diko alam if appropriate ba siya??? Hahaha

Thank you!

The other day, my friend showed me a conversation na he had sa g-app. Kinikilig sya, so sinabi ko anobang chinat sayo. Ang sabi nung ka chat nya:

"Hindi ka pang hookup lang, dapat sayo ay dine-date, pang totoong relationship"

I told him to just be careful, I mean malaki naman na sya and alam na nya yon, lalo na hindi pa sila nagmemeet in person after a week of chatting.

As someone, who was previously active sa grindr during my 20s, it led me to think of conversations I had in the past - andaming beses kona nabasa yung linya na yon and nakakatawa lang na up to this day ginagamit padin yun to lure guys in.

I'm trying to recall other "gasgas" na linyahan from grindr or any othe datin sites na ginagamit padin to this day haha.

Wouldn’t people naturally want to avoid getting sick? At first glance, this seems like a simple and perhaps repetitive question, but I think it raises a deeper issue about human nature.

Putting aside education, healthcare access, and other external factors, does this come down to risk-taking, impulsiveness, and the competing desires of human nature?

If we look at this from an evolutionary perspective, the desire to find at least a mate has played a role in human survival. Sexual attraction and intimacy can be powerful motivations. However, does this mean that finding a sexually desirable partner can sometimes take priority over other considerations, including health?

Are we actually more driven by immediate desires and instincts?

There is also a fundamental problem with how we perceive health. I mean, there are people who care about their health and those who actually take care of it, but we can't always know if we're sick until we actually are. In today's modern world, despite having access to everything, do we still only prioritize our health when something goes wrong? After all, who are we to judge someone's health based on how they look? We naturally see someone who looks healthy as healthy, but in reality, we can never be entirely sure.

It just makes me wonder that perhaps the contradiction is that although survival is fundamental to human nature, our decisions are not always guided by long-term survival.

So, is the problem human nature itself, or our tendency to prioritize immediate gratification over our own health and the well-being of others?

if youre a bottom would you allow the other bottom to give you a rim job? Masarap ang ma rim siempre. Ano ano mga na experience nio sa mga bottom rimmers haha. Meron ba dito na ni ri rim ng bottom friends or top na ni rim na ni bottom? I wanna know hehehe

Hookup post but not really NSFW. If you want the NSFW part, dm na lang. Eme.

I’ve tried 3s na puro strangers or at least fubu lang yung other two pero ito yung first time ko na two-top couple. So siyempre ako na yung bottom.

I was preparing myself na either magiging awkward yung setup or may male-left out or maiintimidate ako sa kanila. Ika nga, expect for the worst para di masaktan if it doesn’t go well. Pero ang di ko inexpect ay magiging key takeaway ko pala sa gabing iyon ay inggit. HAHA! Nakakainggit yung makita silang so cutely in-love with each other. Na-amaze ako at how an open relationship can still feel so full of love despite how the general public sees them (I guess). Actually parang mas in love pa nga sila kaysa sa ibang monogamous relationships I know.

So cheers to all the forms of love out there! 🫶🌈

I turn 20 next year and I’ve never had sex.
It’s not something I’m ashamed of at all; rather, I’m very frustrated.

I’m a transguy, and I have quite a high libido because of testosterone. That might also be due to hypersexuality as a result of porn exposure before I was even in 1st grade, but I’m not sure.

Anyway, in the past few months I’ve been soooo incredibly curious about what being intimate with someone feels like. I’m pan and when I watch porn I just wanna fuck or get fucked because masturbation always leaves me wanting more.

I’ve had relationships, and chances to be intimate. Pero something that I discovered about myself a few years ago is that I’m really not meant for commitment. I don’t like serious relationships nor do I want to devote (for lack of a better term) myself to anyone else. But at the same time, being vulnerable and exposing my body to someone I don’t/won’t have an emotional connection with really freaks me out. Parang, in my head, g ako for hookup culture - but when it comes to the real thing, ayoko… and I don’t want to lose my virginity to someone that I don’t care about, even if I don’t see myself “falling in love” or anything like that. Medjo senti ako and I want my first time to be meaningful, but ayun nga, I don’t want to be particularly attached to another person. A good middle ground would be FWBs and I’m down for that naman (I used to use the microlabel “demisexual” which means that I am only sexually attracted to people I have an emotional connection with) pero I’m not conventionally attractive so it’s not like I can just pick and choose from a “roster.” Pati, FWB culture is very risky since you’re juggling the relationship pero lowkey fantasy ko din yan HAHAHAHAAHA

I guess my question is just… what do I do about this? My urges are so strong but I don’t want to do anything stupid. I don’t wanna make a huge mistake, but I want to be able to give my body what it wants. And, most importantly, I want whatever intimate situation I find myself in to be fully consensual, both for them and for me.

Last week was so exhausting to me kaya naman I decided to pamper myself with a massage just last night. My last massage is pre-pandemic pa kaya I think madami na akong lamig sa katawan.

Nagpunta ako sa trusted ko na ispa dito lang malapit samin at nirequest ko yung magaling na maletherapist. Unfortunately, resigned na daw si male-thera kaya sabi ko kung sino na lang available na male-thera for the hard press.

So OK na, nagwash na ng feet at dumrecho na ako sa madilim na silid. Naghubad nako pero di ko hinubad brip ko, tas humiga na at tinakloban ng towel harap ko. A few minutes dumating na yung male-thera, naaninag ko mejo sakto lang katawan at may tattoo sa braso. Inumpisahan na yung massage, inuna paa ko, shet ansarap, solid. Then paakyat na sa binti, pasarap nang pasarap yung masahe.

Syempre ako naghihintay lang ng chance na sana masagi ko yung ano ni male-thera. In fairness maingat sya dahil di man lang dumadaplis sa balls ko or etits ko yung kamay nya. May time na pasimple ko syang chinachansingan pero hindi talaga umaabot sa ano nya.

Pinadapa na ako for back massage, eto talaga yung inaabangan ko. Kaso hindi ko nagugustuhan yung press nya dahil time to time sinasabihan ko ng "pa hard press po". Iniintindi ko nlng dahil cguro pagod na pero ansarap sana kasi ng masahe kung hard press sa likod. Sa isip-isip ko, ang hina naman nitong si male-thera at laging nireremind na hard, hard, hard. Hindi rin sya masyadong nagsasalita, ang tipid magsalita, parang impit pa yung boses.

So malapit nang matapos yung masahe pero di man lang dumaplis kamay ko sa nota nya kahit anong gawin ko although maingat din ako na hindi halatang chinachansingan ko sya. Hanggang pinatayo na ako for stretching! Alam nyo yung parang spooning tas binabanat likod mo at ikaw yung small spoon, ganon. So I took the chance, inaangat at inuusog ko yung pwet ko para lumapat or masagi etits nya. Kaso bigo ako! never lumapat dahil di ko naramdaman yung bulge nya!

Natapos na kami at mejo nalungkot ako dahil feeling ko may kulang sa massage although OK naman ang masahe ni male-thera.

Habang pinupunasan ko katawan ko, nag thank you ako sa kanya at tinanong ko name nya. Nawindang ako nung sinabi nyang "Joyce po"! Taena kaya pala wala akong masagi, YOBMOT pala! 😭💔