TL;DR: were looking for "J" names to fit a family tradition but are open to other options. We plan to use a nickname and like ones that end in an -ie sound.
So I just had a baby girl (yay!) and her mother and I can't figure out a name we both like. Hoping that some outside brainpower injects some new ideas.
Any input is appreciated but for context here's what we've talked about
Approach 1: My family has a (short) tradition of naming girls in the family so that they have the initials JMB. For the middle name we like Margret or Mara, the last name is set, but the first name we haven't been able to figure out.
I like Joan (vetoed: racist aunt), Juno/Juneau (vetoed: Micheal Cera movie), and Jessica (vetoed: already someone in the family with the name). I kinda like Juniper, but as stated in the sub post about overly used names, it feels a little to "crunchy" and worn out. I just don't think I can name my kid after a berry.
My wife likes Juliet (I like this name in a vacuum but I'm not a fan of Romeo and Juliet, not do I want to drawn a ton of attention to her when her class inevitably covers the play) and Jamie (I don't like unisex names, and I while we'll definitely give her a nickname I don't want her given name to be a nickname).
Jaden/Jadyn is one we both kinda like but aren't convinced on. For me it's a little to unisex, my wife is mostly happily with it but has a lot of other preferred names. Jane is also in the running but we can't come up with a good nickname and it might be a little "to plain"(?). Hard to nail down why this one doesn't work, but we are both a little uncertain with it. Jennifer is a name we both like in a vacuum but feel like it is over used in our generation.
Approach 2: Scrap the family thing and just give her a name that doesn't fit that system. This one is all on me, I'm overly sentimental and a fan of history/connections so I have a hard time giving up the family thing.
That said, we like Katherine (but not the nicknames that go with it like Kat and Kate, Katie is our favorite of the bunch), Andrea (and-rea-uh: we like the meaning Strong/Brave but have a hard time coming up with nicknames for this, and are unsure if the pronunciation sits right), Veronica (we like nicknames that end with the -ie sound but Roni is an exception).
Approach 2.1(?): Moon themed?
Not sure why this is so interesting to us, were not really into nature names but lunar themed names have both been a little bit of a hit. We like Luna but feel it's a little to crunchy/plain, I do like the nickname Lu or Lulu though. We were also thinking about Sena/Selina/Seluna, but feel like it's to close to Seline (vetoed). Maybe we just need convincing.
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Sorry for the wall of text.