r/bigboobproblems • • 14d ago

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r/bigboobproblems • • 3h ago

RANT - no advice wanted It peeves me when someone with boobs way smaller than mine try to relate to me Spoiler

36 Upvotes

I had a reduction 4 weeks ago but have a small rant. I’m a D cup, at least, after having 3.5lbs removed. I was an L cup (US) before surgery and I’m 5’3”. When women with boobs nowhere near the size of mine tried to relate to me, it annoyed the shiiiiit out of me. At work my boss used to do this and she is an absolutely tiny person. When I told her I had gotten approved for a reduction she told me how she has chronic pain from her large boobs too and that she “used to be a double C cup.” Like… LMFAO. Anyone else encountered this? Like if you aren’t even a G cup don’t try to relate.


r/bigboobproblems • • 5h ago

RANT - advice welcome I HATE when people comment on the size of my breasts Spoiler

44 Upvotes

I went to a bachelorette this weekend with a lot of women I don’t know. For some reason, one woman in particular felt it was appropriate to comment on how “humongous” my boobs are. She’d also frequently tell me that I was “falling out” of my bathing suits. It was never complimentary (not that it would matter) and I feel like she just wanted me to feel disgusting about myself. It felt like I was back in the middle school locker room.

This is more a vent post that anything I just fucking hate it.


r/bigboobproblems • • 4h ago

need advice Help with finding bras Spoiler

2 Upvotes

Hey! New to the subreddit. I have bigger boobs. I think im sitting around 34G/H. I have found some results on Amazon but they brake down easily. I went to a shop in my town for "specialty" bras and they honestly made me feel fat and very unatractive. They put me in bras that I would describe as "grany" bras. I almost cried and my very supportive boyfriend who was with me said that im in control and can leave woth out feeling guilty. I am just kinda scared and stuck in trying to find something. La vein rose doesn't fit me even online and any other non specialty brands. Any recommendations would help. I just want to feel sexy and not have a four bood situation. Thank you!


r/bigboobproblems • • 44m ago

need advice Anyone else dealt with a stepson always staring? Spoiler

• Upvotes

My stepson is a great kid, and we are very close but I swear! The past year he just can’t seem to not glance at my boobs constantly. Anyone else dealt with this?


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

clothes my boobs are ruining my birthday fit

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82 Upvotes

13 going on 30 is my favorite movie ever, and I’m turning 30 this month!! I’m having a costume party that is early 2000’s movie themed, and all I want is to wear this dress to my party. I’ve bought 4 different dresses between Amazon and dolls kill and none of them are working. Im a 38E, and my boobs just do not fit in the dress. Does anyone have any advice? Have any of you been through this too?


r/bigboobproblems • • 10h ago

bras Front-fastening bra options for ~36HH (UK)? Spoiler

3 Upvotes

I'm going to be having shoulder surgery soon and am looking for a front-fastening bra to wear while I heal, but most options are S/M/L/etc sizing and the size conversion charts are fairly useless. I'm also pretty projected so need to take that into account.

Has anyone with a larger bust found anything suitable? I know Bravissimo do the Dana with proper bra sizing, so I'm going to try a 38H in that—but I'd like to have alternatives in case it doesn't work for me.

(Also posted to ABTF.)


r/bigboobproblems • • 12h ago

positive & funny I MADE THE APPOINTMENT!! Spoiler

4 Upvotes

I (30F) have some lumpy & saggy boobs unfortunately. (I have gone to the doctor and done an ultrasound, etc and was advised it’s nothing serious & some women just have some lumpy boobs)😂

I have ONE fairly prominent fibrocystic lump that has made one significantly larger than the other. It’s become something that I’m extremely insecure about & I hate my chest so much.

I’ve been wanting to get it removed as well as getting a reduction or a lift. I finally made that appointment with a surgeon!! So pumped to finally be fixing my crooked melons.


r/bigboobproblems • • 6h ago

bras Sports!

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Hello all, I’m a 36 DD, I know this is probably nothing to some of you lovely women out here but I am also a college soccer player and struggling to find a sports bra that I don’t feel self conscious in. All the ones I’ve had previously are just adidas or Nike not specific sets but “high support”. I really need some advice on good high supporting bras that reduce movement mainly for my games as it’s all I see when I watch footage. Ideally ones I can buy in stores such as dicks or on Amazon!


r/bigboobproblems • • 8h ago

need advice Masc lesbians with big boobs how do you hide them? Spoiler

1 Upvotes

Hey masc lesbians 💗 I’m curious how those of you with bigger boobs make them less noticeable. Do you wear sports bras, binders oversized shirts, or do you have other tricks? I’d love to hear what works best for you 🏳️‍🌈


r/bigboobproblems • • 21h ago

RANT - advice welcome My bra leaves red grooves into my skin Spoiler

5 Upvotes

I know I got fatter and my bras got too small for me but I just can't be arsed to remeasure myself and buy new bras (if they even have my size) right now. So I wear bras with my (not so) old size, and the bra leaves painful, red grooves (not wounds just grooves) onto my underboobs. The pressure from my bra is so intense it hurts, today I even have to insert paper towels between my bra and my skin.

I'm so tired of having boobs like this.


r/bigboobproblems • • 16h ago

need advice Veiny and sore boobs? Spoiler

2 Upvotes

For context my boobs are SMALL I just had no idea where else I could ask this, thought I’d consult the experts…

So recently the veins in my boobs have been very visible and they hurt so bad, mainly to touch. It’s been like this for a while and now they’re noticeably bigger. I’m just wondering, is this normally how boobs grow? I wouldn’t know considering I have been lacking them my entire life and google is no help. I am 20 which is probably relevant

Also were any of you pretty much bordering flat until this age too?


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

RANT - advice welcome Does anyone else try to lay your phone on your stomach to watch something when lying down but your boobs block the screen? Spoiler

20 Upvotes

idk if I’m the only one with this problem because it’s kinda specific


r/bigboobproblems • • 17h ago

experience I’m wanting to lose weight but don’t want my boobs to get saggy what can I do ? Spoiler

3 Upvotes

So anyone here that was almost c cup at 19-20 yrs of age then d cup untill 22 and suddenly spurted up to e at 23/24 then g then h cup finally at 26 ?

I also gained weight from when I was 24 yrs of age

Did u guys see ur boobs shrinking when u again lost weight ?

How do I know if they will lose bcz of weight loss or still stay the same ?


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

need advice Any tips on getting boobs to sit up like this? Spoiler

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Hi! I'm planning on dressing as Teacup Sallie for Halloween and wondering if anyone has any tips on achieving the shelf look? I'm around a 38L and probably a similar body shape and size to the lovely Sallie.

Would an underbust corset work? I don't think I have the time (or funds) to try and find a proper one that will fit me


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

need advice Medical condition making my boobs bigger? Spoiler

10 Upvotes

So, last year(literally in October) I had found my perfect size of 38 GG. And it stayed that was for a month and a half, I waited out getting new bras for 3 months, and my size changed to a 36 JJ. I now wear a 34 KK. And they keep growing. I saw macromastia, and it sounds familiar, as I've literally dropped 2 band sizes, and kept growing in the cup. It looks like the only treatment for it is to get a reduction, which I'm scared to do, because I'm 23, I know they'll just grow back(I don't plan on becoming a mother, ever).

I just want to ask the people on this sub if it's "normal" or if I should ask for a reduction(I have knots in my muscles along my shoulder blades, my shoulders are so hard that they can't relax. I also frequently get headaches.

Any advice?


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

need advice How do you groom the stray hairs on your breasts? Spoiler

12 Upvotes

Early 20s, recently started tweezing the few of them, but I am afraid if that will cause any harm, considering that breast skin is thin and not as resilient as elsewhere...


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

positive & funny YouTube - How to talk to a person with Big Boobs Spoiler

31 Upvotes

IDK if I'm allowed to post this, so apologies if I bend a policy here. However this video is a funny comedy bit on "How to talk to a person with Big Boobs" I found this relatively entertaining, and it sort of hits all the beats in a light way... I hope you enjoy it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMJ9LpArhzw


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

experience Does anyone else have one boob bigger than the other? Spoiler

23 Upvotes

One of my boobs is definitely a little bigger than the other, but most of the time I don’t really notice it. It’s only when I wear certain bras or a fitted top that it suddenly looks more obvious. One side sits perfectly, while the other just looks a little different.

It never really bothered me before, but now that I’ve noticed it, I see it all the time


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

clothes What are y’all wearing for workout tops? Spoiler

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I’m so tired of looking like a massive tent when I see myself in the mirror at the gym. I’m not even overweight but my boobs are giving me body dysmorphia. When I wear a loose T-shirt I look massive. And I don’t necessarily want to wear anything tight because…boobs. Is there any good workout shirts in between? I’m so over this I just want to chop them off 😩


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

need advice Volume Loss w/Age Bra Recs? Spoiler

1 Upvotes

I’m looking for a bra that’ll help me feel like me again…between age and weight loss and 2 years of BF, the girls are looking sad. Up until now I’ve enjoyed the Wacoal Back Appeal wireless t shirt bra. But now I’ve lost weight and the top half of any bra is empty and I hate it. Need push up/separating recs — ideally wireless bc I haven’t worn underwire in like 8 years haha


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

need advice Help with size fitting Spoiler

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So I got a size of 34h/hh from abrathatfits
But idk I feel when I got a marks &spencer 34 h bra and tried
I felt my right boob wasn’t completely tight and filling up the cup
With my left boob it was filling the cup , but there was no upper boob show or cleavage
Idk is this my right fit ?
Also this was non padded bra
Is it normal that no upper boob show and all


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

bras Need a good compression bra Spoiler

1 Upvotes

I’m an actor around a 38H (last time I measured but my boobs have grown since then lol), and I’m currently playing a man in the show. I really want to compress my boobs as much as possible because they are hella apparent and protrude from my body. Binders are so expensive, and I’m wondering if there’s a cheaper alternative that will make me appear basically as flat chested as humanly possible? A really good compression sports bra maybe? Like I don’t want these things moving at all.


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

ad fail How a bra shouldn’t fit Spoiler

6 Upvotes

Even for 5€ I wouldn’t trust that bra.

https://www.next.de/de/style/st059269/688387


r/bigboobproblems • • 1d ago

RANT - advice welcome Just found out my real size and I feel actually crazy Spoiler

9 Upvotes

Ive been thinking for years I was a c cup because ive always had weird gapping and fit issues in larger sizes, ive felt like every bra ive found ever either gaps, or cuts in and is crazy uncomfortable with no support, sports bras have either cut in painfully or done NOTHING in terms of support or shaping. Just calculated my real bra size and found out IM AN H!!!! im currently hunting for a cute lingerie set to try and get something thats comfortable and actually makes me feel pretty (rather than squished and frumpy)

Im feeling so overwhelmed looking at brands, I dont know which brands are trustworthy, which ones actually are true to size, and im at an absolute loss finding things I find cute.

I want things absolutely covered in ruffles and lace and embroidery and the only "cute" things im finding are basic lace that do absolutely nothing for my brain, anyone have suggestions?