PROBLEM:
okay so hi ppl, i got into a bad fight with my parents like reaaally really bad fight to the point that my dad cut off all my privileges and stopped giving me allowances bcos they found out i never stopped seeing my gf and ive been sneaking out and pretending i have school jsksksk just to go on a date with her and now i am on the verge of getting kicked out for real, my gf cant support me so she broke up with me 😂😂😂🥀🥀, i honestly am fricking trying to understand our situation and why she did that but come on leaving me alone while im in the lowest point of my life?

CONTEXT:
- m!n0r1t33, im svntn
- my parents know i like women and i date women lang and theyre saying tanggap naman nila ako but their words and actions says otherwise the moment they find out i have a girlfriend/talking stages
- our relationship (parents-daughter), super rocky ever since i had a gf and they caught me

so now i only have freaking 2900 pesos and with all the gastusins, ambagans for schools and commute i seriously don’t know where ill get money to sustain my basic necessities, my dad stopped giving me money, i do have a small business (pastry), my customers are my schoolmates but business hasnt been doing well lately and i dont really know where ill get my money for the next few days

please i need a JOB/SIDE HUSTLE anything i need to make money, no to inappropriate sh!t ok pls that aint for me. I am still a student so I would appreciate online jobs 😞 i really am desperate to be employed and earn money so please help me out

Problem: Running low on binders 🥹

Context:
Asking for help since I’ve been struggling for so long to find good binders. I currently use 2, one for everyday, and one that’s really tight na ginagamit lang if poporma ng bongga

They’re both starting to give up on me eversince I started having onsite work, and I’ve been dreading to buy again kasi hirap ako makahanap ng well-suited. For context, I’m kinda big and my chest measures at 43 inches. So it’s a real adventure to look for one that binds well as in removes the unnecessary bump of boobs/removes the jiggle, doesn’t crush my ribs when I wear them for work, can fit both boobs ng hindi umaapaw sa taas 😩😩

Hoping for some help from fellow heavyset mascs/butches out there. San kayo bumibili? 🥹 or if ever, good sports bras would be nice too!! Thank you!!

Problem: I feel this intense yearning even tho I dont have a crush on anyone hahahaha

Context: So I’ve been single for like 9 yrs na. Stopped hooking up for 2 yrs so would say im a celibate for 2 yrs hahahhaa

Recently im feeling this feeling na I want to fuck someone, but im not horny. But at the same time i dont even have a crush on anyone. It feels like im yearning on someone that dont exist or someone i dont know. Like blanko tlga

This just so weird for me kasi im a bottom HAHAHAHAHA recently tuloy im fantasizing on taking over someone and its so odd for me kasi iba fantasies ko before

Anyways its just so weird na im like, is this normal, what message is the universe giving me? Top na ba ako ngayon HAHHAHA

I hope someone feels the same way tas tell me what to do hahahaha

Context:

Hello so, need ko ng thoughts niyo sa situation ko rn. May gf ako, masc siya and fem ako. May issue ako with her GBF, so back story ung GBF na to is nagkagusto sa gf noon, this happened before pa magkakilala kami ng gf ko. Umamin ung GBF niya non, pero ung gf nireject naman siya, she told never daw siya nagkagusto sa GBF niya. Nagtuloy tuloy ung friendship nila, up until now. Note LDR kami ng gf ko, nasa US ung gf ko and me naman nandito sa pinas, ung GBF niya nandito din sa pinas. Me and my gf have been dating na for 8 months, and lately lang we had a big fight about smt, hindi naman siya dahil sa third party and hindi din siya about sa gbf niya. Like super lala talaga nung away namin na we almost broke up.

Me and my gf kasi mahilig kami magplay ng games sa pc, and we have this discord server which is ung members nakilala niya lang din through me. Then today lang she added ung GBF niya sa server na yon which is not issue naman for me. Sakin lang kasi, super uncomfy ako sa friend na yon, kasi eto ung plot twist my gf and her GBF had this agreement before na if single pa daw sila during their 30’s sila na lang daw. Nagulat ako nung nakwento niya yan sakin noon. I feel uncomfy pero idk how to confront my gf about this kasi feel ko ending mag aaway kami and pagod na ako don. Plus pa mga beh, tawagan nila ng GBF niya bebu,baby tapos sabi ng gf ko typical american joke daw yon. Napa shut up na lang ako, I dont want to look like the bad guy, na parang pinagbabawalan ko siya makipag interact sa friend niya. Its just na idk how do I handle this the right way. My gf told me naman platonic lang talaga ung meron sila, pero gosh sobrang uncomfy ko talaga. Ayoko na ako ung mag addjust kasi ako ung gf eh. Please help kasi I have no idea how to handle this, I dont wanna be the selosang gf controlling her partner. I feep like naiinvalidate ung pagiging uncomfy ko kasi, my gf told me ganyan lang daw talaga sila.

Context:

I’ve been seeing a girl for 5 months and we have a strong connection, but our sex life is a struggle. I’m a stone top and she’s a pillow princess. When we make love, she doesn't get wet, and I leave feeling unsatisfied.

I want to try using sex toys on her, but she doesn't want toys used on herself. Instead, she wants to use them on me—which crosses my boundaries as a stone top.

Is it okay to end things over a sexual mismatch like this, even when everything else is great? Has anyone dealt with something similar?

pls gusto ko na ulit mag mahal hahahahahaha at may sumbongan after work, okay? halimaw pa naman ako magmahal at dali lang mauto. pero ngl, nakaka enjoy naman tlg maging single, i think it’s just one of those days. pls saan niyo ba nakukuha yung mga jowa niyong femme? grabe kada scroll ko sa tiktok mga wlw na jowa wid na para bang bg music

Problem/Goal: I need advice po on what to do when your partner asked for a cool off

Context:

We had a mini fight the night before ng first year anniversary namin because I told her that I hated how she's constantly on her phone while we're on a date. Most of the time, nag uupdate sya sa work gc nila or sometimes nag sscroll sa fb or nagpapakita ng mga babaeng kawork nya na need ko lang makilala to reduce any suspicions. Nagsorry sya.

I didn't know what to reply to that, so I waited for a few minutes if may sasabihin pa sya. Then she asked me if ayaw ko na ba sya kausap. Wala na raw sya sasabihin if ayaw ko na sya makausap. Sabi ko, naghihintay lang ako if may iba pa syang sasabihin dahil di ko alam ano irereply sa sorry nya. After this hindi na sya nagreply.

I thought matutulog na sya so naggood night na ako. Kaya lang, before I sleep, nagcheck ako sa fb and messenger if I missed any messages from her or other people, to which nakita ko, na lumabas pala sya with kawork (gay guy) nya na nagyaya mag SB. It was posted during the time na naghihintay ako ng response nya. It felt off to me kase gising pa ako and we have an unsettled conversation, and she just left like that. I told her halfheartedly na nakita kong lumabas sya and mag enjoy sana sya before I sleep. Ang sama ng loob ko that night.

Kinabukasan, anniversary na namin. Saka lang sya nagreply na inaya daw sya ng kawork nya mag sb that time and then, proceeded to greet me a "happy anniversary" with some short message about loving me, etc. Hindi ko naappreciate. Something was off. I felt like she's just escaping again sa difficult conversations. Pero I didn't want to be rude kaya nag greet pa rin ako ng "happy anniversary", though wala akong other message after that.

Wala akong dinugtong sa greetings na yon all day and I was already expecting a bad response from her. Kaya pag uwi ko from work, I felt like with this situation, parang di ko kaya makipagkita sa kanya to celebrate our anniv and my birthday. Ang ending, though I was scared while typing it, nagtanong ako if pwede bang imove nalang yung post celebration date namin. Hindi sya agad nagreply but she had seen my message. She then asked for a cool off.

I accepted it and apologized. Of course it hurt me but gets ko pa rin kung saan sya nanggagaling. First anniv namin pero dahil sa akin, nasira lang.

Please don't be rude sa comments. I've been having a hard time mentally in the past few months and while we're on a cool off, I informed her that I'm trying to book an appointment for mental health consultation. I haven't told her yet but I've been feeling lonely kahit I'm in a relationship with her. Take note, we're in an LDR relationship. I feel like kahit sabihin at ipakita nyang mahal nya ako, it doesn't pass through my own bubble. At this point, I could relate na sa song ni Olivia Rodrigo na What's Wrong With Me.

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Goal:

To get genuine, practical advice from fellow WLW about meeting my girlfriend in person for the first time, overcoming my inexperience with physical intimacy, and feeling more comfortable and confident without overthinking or embarrassing myself.

Context:

I'm a 19-year-old girlie planning to meet my girlfriend in person. I genuinely love her, and I'm excited about finally being able to spend time together outside of our phones.

I've dated before, but my previous relationships were relatively brief, so things never really progressed that far. I've never kissed a girl, cuddled with a girlfriend in bed, or shared a bed with a partner. I'm not new to dating, but I'm inexperienced when it comes to physical intimacy.

I'm open to exploring affection with my girlfriend when we're both comfortable and ready, whether that's our first kiss, cuddling, sleeping beside each other, or gradually exploring more intimate experiences. I just don't want my lack of experience to make me overly conscious, awkward, or embarrassed when the moment comes.

I'd love to hear from women who've experienced similar situations, especially those who've been in LDRs. How did your first meeting go? How did you approach your first kiss? How did you become comfortable with physical affection? And what advice would you give someone who wants to enjoy these experiences naturally without feeling pressured to know everything beforehand?

Note:

I'm looking for genuine experiences, honest advice, and practical tips from the WLW community. I'm not expecting everything to be perfect, and I understand that intimacy should happen at a pace we're both comfortable with. I genuinely love my girlfriend, and I want our first meeting to be a meaningful, comfortable experience for both of us. Please be kind; I'm asking because I want to learn, not because I expect anyone to judge or make fun of my inexperience.