I've had a pair of Apisto Borelli in my community tank for a couple of weeks. The (tiny!) female seems very chill, she comes out to feed, and we see her frequently. The male seems stressed, he has gotten very lethargic, seems to be breathing heavily, and generally just sits in one spot all day. He would come out at first, and the pair would swim together.
No-one is attacking him, he was occasionally chased by a barb, but no nipping. Temperature of the tank is temperate, sits mostly at 22/23° but has some night/day fluctuation. Water readings are 0/0/20 and done with a liquid test kit. Ph is 6.5. Did a 50% water change yesterday anyway. I just don't quite know what to do next. :(
Edit: thank you to those who commented. He has unfortunately now passed away. I intend to leave the female to herself for a few weeks, then perhaps consider introducing a new male and trying again, with a slight rescape and more cave options available from the start.