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I'm a 21 y/o trans girl, and I recently decided, a month ago, to start wearing diapers 24/7 and wetting them. I'm not really into messing in them (it does create issues when out of the house, and it's such a mess to clean up!), and I've started leaking in them whenever I have the slightest urge to pee.

The ultimate goal for this journey is to enjoy myself and move into needing diapers, both as a habit and by reducing my bladder capacity, reducing my ability to both hold (which will make desperations quite easier to set up when I'll want to do them, I'm also into them) and know when I'm leaking pee.

This decision has been years in the making, with me each time deciding to do it, then chickening out because of the fear of being found out, and I've finally decided I can manage the fear and allow myself to do what I want with my body. I'll be wearing my diapers 24/7, using both adult diapers and pull-ups interchangeably, depending on the situation, although I'll mostly use adult diapers as they feel the most comfortable and allow for less changes.

Here below is the first month!

Week 1: Immediate Change!

Yesterday was the end of Week 1, and I must say: I didn't expect to get used to this as easily! Might be cause I've been dabbling in diapers since I was 12, but I found the transition to be quite easy and natural for me. I've also downloaded the DiapStash app, to both easily keep track of my supplies, and to know how much time has passed since last change. My current average per change is 6h48m, which includes both day and night changes (which of course are much longer), during the day I'd say I usually change every 5hrs. 

I've tried doing a "pull-up day" yesterday, and boy I won't do that again, at least for the full day. They seem to be less bulky and keep me fresher (although, with Fall coming, it's not that much of a selling point, might be useful next summer!), and I leaked in every single one of them. They just don't last enough for me to use them more than 2.5hrs, given how hydrated I stay. I've had them leak on my pants and skirts so bad it seemed there was nothing protecting them. I'll use them sparingly from now on.

I've told my GF about this lifestyle change, and although she said she finds it a bit "weird", she's still supportive, also cause she already knew about my interest in diapers. I'm very lucky to have her in my life.

Night wetting: it's getting better! I'm finding it rather easier to wet in my bed, even with my girlfriend present in the bed with me. I still (obviously, given only a week has passed) don't wet in my sleep, and resort to flooding when I wake up instead. I've actually peed so much two days ago, that I had to change my sheets, they were soaked!

Wetting in my car is still a bit hard, and I find myself to be still clenching my bladder most of the times when outside of the home, as opposed to when I'm in my office (I work from home fully) where I'm able to leak confidently whilst seated.

Wetting whilst standing has become easy, which is strange as I've never really peed standing this much before. Walking though is impossible for me though, at least if the flow has to start. Starting to walk whilst already leaking doesn't stop it, which is very reassuring.

Lastly, let's talk regrets: I have none! At the start of the week I was tempted to give up, or to make it a temporary thing, and I've kept that feeling on and off for the first 3 days. Lately, I've fully accepted this as my new norm and as a matter of fact: I'm bound to diapers, and there's that. I don't even give it much mind anymore already, it's become second nature to always go change myself whenever the time comes, and I don't really even question whether I should or not.

Week 2: Socializing in diapers

Woah, what a week it has been. After the end of the month I guess I will start updating per-month instead of per-week, unless something really exciting happens.

First of all, thank you all for your comments, I read through all of them as they come and would like to hear everyone's journeys into diapers 24/7, as if there's one thing I got so far, is that mileage does vary for everyone. 

This week has been a bit strange, firstly because I got to spend about 24 hours without my diaper, as I had to do a few things I'm still a bit anxious wearing my diaper to, and I must say, it was harder than expected. At one point, as I sat down, I felt I needed to pee and I instinctively released my bladder, thinking "oh, I got my diapy, it's okay", only to then realize I, in fact, did NOT have any protection, as I almost wet myself. I managed to stop in time, only dribbling a bit in my panties.

Needless to say, that semi-accident convinced me even more I do belong in diapers.

This week I've also started getting out of the house some more, not only for groceries and working out, but also to hang out with some friends, of course, wearing protection in the meantime. I've opted for full diapers instead of pull-ups as a result of my "pull-up day" I did back in Week 1, as it showed me they will leak pretty fast if I don't keep on changing them.

I expected to be very self-conscious of my diapered butt, but it turns out I'm very confident in them! I started wearing skirts a lot more, which helps, but with a few tricks (such as wearing workout shorts and a onesie over my diaper) I saw I can also afford to wear tighter jeans without my diaper showing, too. 

And, most importantly, I managed to leak into my diapy while talking with friends, that were literally next to me! Like, we're talking inches away, standing near me! That felt wonderful, knowing they were none the wiser and I got to be myself and let go on my padding. Wetting while standing has become very easy, as did wetting whilst sitting.

I'm also finding it easier to wet in my car, although not while driving still, as I imposed myself to sit in my car, standing still in a parking lot, until I peed. That has helped quite a bunch with making me feel more at ease in wetting whilst sitting in a car.

Stats so far!

Total of diapers used until now: 38

Total diapered time: 12 days, 10 hours

Average changes per day: 2.6

Amt. of diaper leaks: 13 (nearing 40%)

Week 3+4: One month!

It has been an interesting couple of weeks, and I'm proud to say I finally wrapped up my first month in diapers! First of many to come!

The most important change I've noticed is the complete lack of any remorse, settling in at around the middle of Week 3, where now I don't question or second-guess my new lifestyle, I just accept it and keep on going. Being diapered is now more of a "new normal" as compared to a novelty - of course I'm still adapting and learning, and I'm only one month in, but I think I've already settled in quite nicely. The novelty hasn't completely worn off yet, but it's certainly less than the first days.

I've tried doing a "no-diapers day", which was more like 12 hours (of which 8 were spent sleeping), to see how I would like it (and also to give my skin a bit of rest, as a diaper rash was starting to form), and I almost peed myself again. Like last time, I leaked mindlessly thinking I had protection on, only to realize there wasn't any, much to my both dismay and amusement. I'd say accidents would be quite easier as compared to Day 1, I would probably get desperate in slightly less time.

On the "easiness to leak" side, it's surely getting way easier to just let go in my diapy when I feel the need to do it. I'm experiencing way less the "trying to pee but nothing comes out" I had during the first 2 weeks, and the only two ways I currently still have that is if I'm either actively walking, or driving. I'm actually exercising both actively! For now, I both start the flow by standing still, and then start walking trying to leave my bladder completely open, and when driving I take advantage of red lights and busy intersections. I'm seeing some improvements, but overall I'd say these two are the two areas where I'm still completely new.

Peeing and leaking whilst sitting and standing, even with people near me, has become quite easy at this point. I no longer mind that much, especially cause I understood that even if I know what's happening, it doesn't mean others do. The only thing that's still quite bothersome is the leaks: these diapers just aren't made for people that depend on them. I will switch to Tena Slip Maxi from next month, as I'm quite fed up of worrying about leaks. I've heard they're pretty good, even though I'll have to go through a few hurdles to get them, as I don't really know how discreet their shipping is. If y'all have a favorite brand or tips regarding that, I'm all ears.

My objective at this point is reaching OAB, where my bladder is both small and overactive, and my brain isn't used to interpreting "bladder fullness" signals anymore, so going out without a diaper can lead to unexpected accidents, leaks and an uncomfortable experience. I still have a long way to go, but that's the ultimate goal.

Now, the stats!

Total of diapers used until now: 60

Total diapered time: 23 days, 5 hours

Average changes per day: 2.5

Amt. of diaper leaks: 18 (30%)

I’m padded at work, and use neighbouring businesses’ toilets as I work in a small shopping park. But why oh why is there not anywhere to dispose of sanitary/medical waste??! I normally use a changing facility but that was closed down for cleaning so I had no choice but to go with an alternative which lead to me not having anywhere to dispose of my diaper… I’m really not bothered about my diaper being full but I’m bothered about not having bins for each toilet OR in the bathroom itself. That’s really not ideal…

Time to sog in the soak for a bit longer til I get home..

Because what do you mean he is just a normal dude (or technically fish) when another character flashes past him at a high speed. He transitions into this. Riding his trikey, holding his sucker and his toy paddle. Tongue sticking out like a goofy kid. When he is looked at by the person beside him, this fucker says, “Uuuh, I can explain….”

Explain what my guy?!😭

The covered up ones are "Punishment", "Blindfolding", "Noncon Roleplay", and "Suspension".

Copying this from the helluva boss Reddit. I wish diapers was in it. From what little I understand of the Kink world that scene in the show is pretty good. They go over a safe word and also the traffic light system.

He is into role play so maybe in the future. Also would be interesting he has a cloaca so yeah wonder how that might play out

The new version of the Abu peekabu has sparked some discussion and debate. I've noticed a lot of negative feedback but I'll share my personal experiences and observations. The cons while there's only really one I have personally to point out is the thinner shell which is prone to tearing but I found that a different approach to fastening to solve that issue. Instead of pulling up I pull more to the sides to get wrinkles out so the tapes don't land on any wrinkles because that's what leads to tearing but once I got used to that I found the thinner shell to actually have some perks such as and this is just a personal preference i am only speaking for myself here but thinner shell makes for more visibility and I and I know some others like to see the usage as it happens so there's that. The pros (again my own personal preferences) it seems to be more crinkly now and I and many others are very keen on loud diapers. The core is upgraded so it now holds basically endless amounts of liquid provided it's been fitted properly and after a wetting or 2 the swelling is amazing and it will get you waddling whether you like it or not. I still preferred the thicker shell of course but I still like these once i got used to them. I have seen people write them off in posts but I will still be buying them because I still think im getting my moneys worth. But just be gentle with them and you'll still have a top shelf product. But I reiterate im only speaking my own personal experiences.

It was my first one (M68). I began wearing Depends a couple of years ago for when I went to the laundromat. Their restroom is always locked when I am there early, so I was straining to hold it until I got home. And of course I have had accidents, but now I enjoy them.

So yesterday I made a mess wearing a Sunkiss diaper and loved the fit. I was sitting in my chair and was squeezing out a little at a time and it was getting delightfully squishy under my butt. And my diaper held all of it.
For those who enjoy messing, what is your favorite diaper?

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You become friends with someone on here, get super close and then out of nowhere they delete their account and completely vanish 👌

Was dreaming that my girlfriend had been stripped and put into diapers by some type of organization and they wanted her to poop in them, since that'd make her regress and easier to control. I got to her when she had already messed and was starting to act babyish.

I helped her escape but couldn't manage to get the dirty diaper off of her and she'd keep removing any type of clothing i put on her. Was in a race against time to change her diaper before she messed again and regressed even more while trying to avoid this organization's agents, and i think it was just some rich guy who wanted her as his baby girl.

This should be a movie.

Heyy,

Does anyone have expirence with the brand DiaperU?

I am thinking of ordering from them but i am not sure. Also i am scared about shipping not beeing discreet (i am from Europe).

Thanks everyone! 😊

https://diaperu.com

Does anybody know of plastic panties that has a close fit and doesnt make a ton of noise.? For public wear.

Hi everybody! First time poster here—it’s a pleasure to meet you all! My partner and I are moving into a new home and are preparing to build a new nursery. We had one in a previous apartment (photo attached for reference), but we haven’t had the space for one in our last few places. We’re moving into a 3,500 sqft home and will finally have the room to build another! We’re looking for any suggestions on custom furniture companies/builders (crib, changing table, high chair, etc), decorations, room orientation, and any other thoughts anyone might have! We didn’t love our previous crib / changing table so would appreciate any and all recommendations. On the attached floor plan you’ll see the two rooms we plan to use for the space (media room 11’-11” X 24’-5” & Library/office 14’-0” X 13’-5”). We’ll be installing a wall that conceals the entry to the nursery rooms so that any houseguests are unable to tell there are even two rooms behind it! We have the budget to build our dream nursery and we are happy to splurge on the right furniture, products, etc. So to anyone who has a home nursery and loves it—who do you recommend we check out and reach out to for furniture? And more generally, we’d love to hear about anyone’s dream nursery ideas and how you might set up the space in the attached photos (sorry for low quality images, I don’t have many photos of the room’s interior that don’t include my partner or I!))

Long story short I had a playdate that didn't work out we were both disappointed that things didn't happen but the guy said "We may not be able to get together but text me your address and I will send you something cool in recompense"

I gave him my address not really expecting him to send anything or to just send me a pack of diapers.

What I got instead was this magazine thing that is old I think pre DPF they call it an Adult in Babyland Novel but its really just two stories of about 15 pages each. Nothing compared to a story nowadays but I sure just having a physical something would have been amazing back in the day

I am not the best guy with a camera but it says

"Return to Childhood" and the PO box is from somewhere in Seattle its either late 80s or early 90s.

Does anyone have any idea what this might be? It looks like it could have been printed yesterday.

I am disappointed the playdate didn't work out but I wasn't aware there was print ABDL media before DPF started doing "Tales from the Crib"

Are the land of genie rompers/onesies/bodysuits that you can get on Amazon worth it? *edit: what about the little for big ones too

I've been looking for a few days on f95 trying to find a public build of hhp but haven't been able to trust any of the links I find, does anyone have a reliable link they could share?

I haven’t been able to wear in a while and this is only going to ruin the second diaper, for a sample pack where it’s 8 dollars per you’d think they’d have more quality control, the one I’m wearing currently had the same issue just to a lesser extreme and was only a quarter of the bottom hook and loop tape, this is actively in the leak guard which may not be the biggest deal it’s just the fact these tapes aren’t going to be nearly as effective now, and since it’s a top tape is going to start falling more easily on an already big body. I wish I could get a refund or at least a pair of diaps I like with regular tapes.

I saw this stroller in an ad on Facebook. It is obviously designed for an older child, but I wonder if it could fit and hold an average sized adult. Examples - 5 foot 9 inches 165lbs for a male or 5 foot 4 inches 135lbs for a female.

What do you think everybody?

Hey, hope this is on topic, but I wanna post my diaper videos to subreddits like r/DudesInDiapers, r/Diaper_Messing, etc, but both dont allow MP4s

I just posted a GIF to r/dudesindiaper but the quality is like a little bit shit.

So if anyone can give some websites or apps that are best for this kind of stuff, I can feel confident in posting these vids :3. Thanks

I have a romantic partner that is into abdl that im a mommy for but they have given me their blessing to look for a platonic daddy for myself. I guess im just curious if thats common or even heard of here?

Am I allowed to promote abdl discord groups here?

Hey everyone,I’ve been quietly lurking for a while and finally decided to make an account. I’m completely new to the ABDL side of things and honestly a bit overwhelmed, but also really curious and excited to explore it.I’ve always had this soft spot for the comfort/security feeling of diapers and the whole regression/little space idea, but I’ve never actually tried anything beyond looking at pictures and reading stories. No real experience with wearing, gear, or the community yet.I’m looking for gentle, practical advice from people who’ve been where I am

-How did you first start (what did you buy/try, how did you ease into it)?

-Any beginner-friendly products or simple ways to test the waters without spending a fortune?

-Tips for dealing with the initial awkwardness or “is this weird?” feelings?

-How do you balance this interest with everyday adult life?

I’m not looking for anything extreme right now just wanting to dip my toes in, see how it feels, and maybe connect with others who get it. Open to DMs if anyone’s willing to share their early experiences. Thanks for reading, and sorry if this is a super common post. Appreciate any guidance. Also… is it normal to feel both really interested and a little embarrassed at the same time?

Hey guys just curious if anyone has ever done a paid service and how did you find it. Any advice

I thinking about getting those on diaper minister they claim to have a 12,000ml capacity I know these aren’t real world capacity’s but does anyone know how thick they get cause it’s probably the main factor for me do the swell like Rearz or kiddos or kinda swell less and how tall are the leak guards cause I love to use some extra boosters cause they look a bit more like medical diapers thanks for any help

Hey 👋

Rephrasing as my last post was removed by mods.

On mobile, so apologize for spelling errors.

I am not here to make contacts, nor is this a personal ad, I know this is not the sub for it. I am only here for relationship advice related to the kink.

Like many others I have been struggling with self acceptance since I found out that I have this kink (mainly DL, but with age regression during changes).

I (26M) am very lucky to have a wife (28F) that has been with me from the start (we've been together since I was 14). Since we've been figuring it out together, we have had ample time to figure out what works, and we currently do "diaper weekends" 3-6 times per year.

For the last couple of years I have really been struggling with the feeling of being wrong and out of place due to this kink. I ended up going to therapy, and really had some great conversations. It's a lot better now, but since then, I have had the urge to introduce a 3rd person (woman) into this dynamic with my wife.

I have (like many others I imagine) a fantasy of just being allowed to be my diapered self in a setting where, when I wear, everyone is ok with it, and I am changed by either both, or whoever has their hands free. (To add to this, in my fantasy it is weirdly important that I am ONLY around women when I wear, irl I have never worn around anyone else than my wife, and only in a private setting)

I want to make it clear that my wife NEEDS to be a part of it, I don't want anything sexual with the 3rd person, and I certainly don't want to cross any boundaries with my wife. We can talk completely openly about it, and when I've spoken to her about it, she said that she would be fine with me wearing around a 3rd person that knows, but not anything more. I respect that.

This just leaves me in a bit of a weird spot in terms of... Who? Hiring an escort seems a bit over the top for me (and makes me feel unsafe). Likewise I have heard that dating apps are filled with husband's and wives looking for a second woman. Are dating apps even the right place to search for a female friend that just happens to know and accept that I wear diapers??

She herself (my wife) had suggested one of her friends, but I am not totally sold on an existing relationship of hers possibly being ruined, but maybe I am overthinking it?

This leads me to my question: what have you guys done? Did you tell a friend (that then later are ok with it?), did it stop at the thought? Maybe something else?

I have explored local groups, but I live in a small county (Denmark), and with all due respect, it was not for me.

Sorry for the messy (heh) post. Do ask if something doesn't make sense.