The wording is deliberately vague in this article from the BBC but simply states:

“From 6 November, it will be illegal to possess or publish porn which shows strangulation or suffocation, depicts sexual activity between people who are related or shows adults role-playing as children under 16.”

”Someone found to be in possession of images depicting sexual activity involving a person pretending to be under 16 could face up to three years' imprisonment, after 6 November.”

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cmpqgepejr2ro

I know we have been over this before but it does seem rather vague for UK ABDLs.

idk if anyone else has seen this ad, I don't use incognito or anything so I get abdl-related ads a lot but northshore definitely has a customer incoming

edit: did not realize how horrible the quality on this almost belongs in r/countablepixels

This happened a few years ago but when I used to work at Walmart one time it the men's bathroom I stumbled upon an abld diaper but it was used and on the floor. Im sure most abdls have more respect to dispose of it properly but has anyone ever encountered something similar to that.

Hi I’m new to r/ABDL how’s it like? To be honest I’d just like to find friends who are into the same thing I’m into I wear both tab diapers and pull ups (I just wish they weren’t so expensive D:)

Tell Confess-a-Bear anything that's on your mind.

Just bought my fish sunkiss masterpiece diapers and im super nervous because of how big they seen compared as to my well as them being my first plastic backed diapers. Just wondering if they fit well under clothing at well as like the general mobility in them?

I (19M) have always had a fascination with pull-ups. I hid it for a very long time until I finally admitted to my partner (20M) what I was feeling. I slowly told him things and honestly he took it amazingly. At first he was a little weirded out and uncomfortable but after a few months he now says it’s curiosity and wonder. I had a plan to try and stop using them, as they are a coping mechanism, but recent events have made me need to fall pack on it again. I opened up to my partner that I want to actually explore the feelings more and he seems open. I know I want to wear pull-ups more often and I know I want him to help me change (which he said he’s open to but would need to build up to). But I can’t figure out where my limit is. My partner and I already have a very caregiving relationship. I am a submissive introvert and he is a dominant extrovert who loves pleasing people. He does little things all the time like wash me in the shower. He always calls me cute and cheeky and I love that. I honestly want more and I can’t figure out how much more. I like getting babied and I’ve realised I keep talking like I’m a kid and acting more immature when I’m wearing a pullup. But things like dummies, onesies, baby bottles, even full on diapers make me feel gross. Is it my own stigma or do I just not like it? Also how can I ease my partner into helping me more? I love him dearly and would never want to push him into it. He is so open and willing yet states he doesn’t have a personal interest in it. So I don’t know how to approach it.

Has anyone seen this? I haven't but I wanted to know what y'all think. I saw another post but it was of people looking at it through a sexualizing lens. I thought that was kinda weird but I wonder if it's relatable on a trauma base level for anyone.

Heey r/ABDL~! 

I'm a 21 y/o trans girl, and I recently decided, a month ago, to start wearing diapers 24/7 and wetting them. I'm not really into messing in them (it does create issues when out of the house, and it's such a mess to clean up!), and I've started leaking in them whenever I have the slightest urge to pee.

The ultimate goal for this journey is to enjoy myself and move into needing diapers, both as a habit and by reducing my bladder capacity, reducing my ability to both hold (which will make desperations quite easier to set up when I'll want to do them, I'm also into them) and know when I'm leaking pee.

This decision has been years in the making, with me each time deciding to do it, then chickening out because of the fear of being found out, and I've finally decided I can manage the fear and allow myself to do what I want with my body. I'll be wearing my diapers 24/7, using both adult diapers and pull-ups interchangeably, depending on the situation, although I'll mostly use adult diapers as they feel the most comfortable and allow for less changes.

Here below is the first month!

Week 1: Immediate Change!

Yesterday was the end of Week 1, and I must say: I didn't expect to get used to this as easily! Might be cause I've been dabbling in diapers since I was 12, but I found the transition to be quite easy and natural for me. I've also downloaded the DiapStash app, to both easily keep track of my supplies, and to know how much time has passed since last change. My current average per change is 6h48m, which includes both day and night changes (which of course are much longer), during the day I'd say I usually change every 5hrs. 

I've tried doing a "pull-up day" yesterday, and boy I won't do that again, at least for the full day. They seem to be less bulky and keep me fresher (although, with Fall coming, it's not that much of a selling point, might be useful next summer!), and I leaked in every single one of them. They just don't last enough for me to use them more than 2.5hrs, given how hydrated I stay. I've had them leak on my pants and skirts so bad it seemed there was nothing protecting them. I'll use them sparingly from now on.

I've told my GF about this lifestyle change, and although she said she finds it a bit "weird", she's still supportive, also cause she already knew about my interest in diapers. I'm very lucky to have her in my life.

Night wetting: it's getting better! I'm finding it rather easier to wet in my bed, even with my girlfriend present in the bed with me. I still (obviously, given only a week has passed) don't wet in my sleep, and resort to flooding when I wake up instead. I've actually peed so much two days ago, that I had to change my sheets, they were soaked!

Wetting in my car is still a bit hard, and I find myself to be still clenching my bladder most of the times when outside of the home, as opposed to when I'm in my office (I work from home fully) where I'm able to leak confidently whilst seated.

Wetting whilst standing has become easy, which is strange as I've never really peed standing this much before. Walking though is impossible for me though, at least if the flow has to start. Starting to walk whilst already leaking doesn't stop it, which is very reassuring.

Lastly, let's talk regrets: I have none! At the start of the week I was tempted to give up, or to make it a temporary thing, and I've kept that feeling on and off for the first 3 days. Lately, I've fully accepted this as my new norm and as a matter of fact: I'm bound to diapers, and there's that. I don't even give it much mind anymore already, it's become second nature to always go change myself whenever the time comes, and I don't really even question whether I should or not.

Week 2: Socializing in diapers

Woah, what a week it has been. After the end of the month I guess I will start updating per-month instead of per-week, unless something really exciting happens.

First of all, thank you all for your comments, I read through all of them as they come and would like to hear everyone's journeys into diapers 24/7, as if there's one thing I got so far, is that mileage does vary for everyone. 

This week has been a bit strange, firstly because I got to spend about 24 hours without my diaper, as I had to do a few things I'm still a bit anxious wearing my diaper to, and I must say, it was harder than expected. At one point, as I sat down, I felt I needed to pee and I instinctively released my bladder, thinking "oh, I got my diapy, it's okay", only to then realize I, in fact, did NOT have any protection, as I almost wet myself. I managed to stop in time, only dribbling a bit in my panties.

Needless to say, that semi-accident convinced me even more I do belong in diapers.

This week I've also started getting out of the house some more, not only for groceries and working out, but also to hang out with some friends, of course, wearing protection in the meantime. I've opted for full diapers instead of pull-ups as a result of my "pull-up day" I did back in Week 1, as it showed me they will leak pretty fast if I don't keep on changing them.

I expected to be very self-conscious of my diapered butt, but it turns out I'm very confident in them! I started wearing skirts a lot more, which helps, but with a few tricks (such as wearing workout shorts and a onesie over my diaper) I saw I can also afford to wear tighter jeans without my diaper showing, too. 

And, most importantly, I managed to leak into my diapy while talking with friends, that were literally next to me! Like, we're talking inches away, standing near me! That felt wonderful, knowing they were none the wiser and I got to be myself and let go on my padding. Wetting while standing has become very easy, as did wetting whilst sitting.

I'm also finding it easier to wet in my car, although not while driving still, as I imposed myself to sit in my car, standing still in a parking lot, until I peed. That has helped quite a bunch with making me feel more at ease in wetting whilst sitting in a car.

Stats so far!

Total of diapers used until now: 38

Total diapered time: 12 days, 10 hours

Average changes per day: 2.6

Amt. of diaper leaks: 13 (nearing 40%)

Week 3+4: One month!

It has been an interesting couple of weeks, and I'm proud to say I finally wrapped up my first month in diapers! First of many to come!

The most important change I've noticed is the complete lack of any remorse, settling in at around the middle of Week 3, where now I don't question or second-guess my new lifestyle, I just accept it and keep on going. Being diapered is now more of a "new normal" as compared to a novelty - of course I'm still adapting and learning, and I'm only one month in, but I think I've already settled in quite nicely. The novelty hasn't completely worn off yet, but it's certainly less than the first days.

I've tried doing a "no-diapers day", which was more like 12 hours (of which 8 were spent sleeping), to see how I would like it (and also to give my skin a bit of rest, as a diaper rash was starting to form), and I almost peed myself again. Like last time, I leaked mindlessly thinking I had protection on, only to realize there wasn't any, much to my both dismay and amusement. I'd say accidents would be quite easier as compared to Day 1, I would probably get desperate in slightly less time.

On the "easiness to leak" side, it's surely getting way easier to just let go in my diapy when I feel the need to do it. I'm experiencing way less the "trying to pee but nothing comes out" I had during the first 2 weeks, and the only two ways I currently still have that is if I'm either actively walking, or driving. I'm actually exercising both actively! For now, I both start the flow by standing still, and then start walking trying to leave my bladder completely open, and when driving I take advantage of red lights and busy intersections. I'm seeing some improvements, but overall I'd say these two are the two areas where I'm still completely new.

Peeing and leaking whilst sitting and standing, even with people near me, has become quite easy at this point. I no longer mind that much, especially cause I understood that even if I know what's happening, it doesn't mean others do. The only thing that's still quite bothersome is the leaks: these diapers just aren't made for people that depend on them. I will switch to Tena Slip Maxi from next month, as I'm quite fed up of worrying about leaks. I've heard they're pretty good, even though I'll have to go through a few hurdles to get them, as I don't really know how discreet their shipping is. If y'all have a favorite brand or tips regarding that, I'm all ears.

My objective at this point is reaching OAB, where my bladder is both small and overactive, and my brain isn't used to interpreting "bladder fullness" signals anymore, so going out without a diaper can lead to unexpected accidents, leaks and an uncomfortable experience. I still have a long way to go, but that's the ultimate goal.

Now, the stats!

Total of diapers used until now: 60

Total diapered time: 23 days, 5 hours

Average changes per day: 2.5

Amt. of diaper leaks: 18 (30%)

I’m padded at work, and use neighbouring businesses’ toilets as I work in a small shopping park. But why oh why is there not anywhere to dispose of sanitary/medical waste??! I normally use a changing facility but that was closed down for cleaning so I had no choice but to go with an alternative which lead to me not having anywhere to dispose of my diaper… I’m really not bothered about my diaper being full but I’m bothered about not having bins for each toilet OR in the bathroom itself. That’s really not ideal…

Time to sog in the soak for a bit longer til I get home..

Just wondering if I fit comfortably in a Goodnites size L would I be able to squeeze into a Huggies Size 8, I’m very jealous of people that do and always wondered. I have tried Pampers size 7 and didn’t work.

The covered up ones are "Punishment", "Blindfolding", "Noncon Roleplay", and "Suspension".

Copying this from the helluva boss Reddit. I wish diapers was in it. From what little I understand of the Kink world that scene in the show is pretty good. They go over a safe word and also the traffic light system.

He is into role play so maybe in the future. Also would be interesting he has a cloaca so yeah wonder how that might play out

Because what do you mean he is just a normal dude (or technically fish) when another character flashes past him at a high speed. He transitions into this. Riding his trikey, holding his sucker and his toy paddle. Tongue sticking out like a goofy kid. When he is looked at by the person beside him, this fucker says, “Uuuh, I can explain….”

Explain what my guy?!😭

So last week, for a locktober task, i tried diapers for the first time and got hooked. To the point The olny thing I could think of how excited I was to spend today in a diaper. Well, now im sitting in a diaper impatiently anticipating that amazing mushy filling. I have fluffed and shipped my diaper, and i am waiting on some boosters for the next time, which was all recommended (thankyou) to me on my last post to help amplify the experience. But is there anything that you would recommend trying to make tonights experience even better.

Also an another note I'll be on a week long trip alone in two weeks and want to absolutely use some diapers during that trip is there anything fun I can do then also. Feel free to dm and Thankyou.

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It was my first one (M68). I began wearing Depends a couple of years ago for when I went to the laundromat. Their restroom is always locked when I am there early, so I was straining to hold it until I got home. And of course I have had accidents, but now I enjoy them.

So yesterday I made a mess wearing a Sunkiss diaper and loved the fit. I was sitting in my chair and was squeezing out a little at a time and it was getting delightfully squishy under my butt. And my diaper held all of it.
For those who enjoy messing, what is your favorite diaper?

I’d like to try these diapers and see how they fit before committing to buying a whole pack. Is it worth it to pay a little more for a few diapers or just pay the $40-50 for a whole pack? Are there any other options, I’m not thinking of?

Heyy,

Does anyone have expirence with the brand DiaperU?

I am thinking of ordering from them but i am not sure. Also i am scared about shipping not beeing discreet (i am from Europe).

Thanks everyone! 😊

https://diaperu.com

The new version of the Abu peekabu has sparked some discussion and debate. I've noticed a lot of negative feedback but I'll share my personal experiences and observations. The cons while there's only really one I have personally to point out is the thinner shell which is prone to tearing but I found that a different approach to fastening to solve that issue. Instead of pulling up I pull more to the sides to get wrinkles out so the tapes don't land on any wrinkles because that's what leads to tearing but once I got used to that I found the thinner shell to actually have some perks such as and this is just a personal preference i am only speaking for myself here but thinner shell makes for more visibility and I and I know some others like to see the usage as it happens so there's that. The pros (again my own personal preferences) it seems to be more crinkly now and I and many others are very keen on loud diapers. The core is upgraded so it now holds basically endless amounts of liquid provided it's been fitted properly and after a wetting or 2 the swelling is amazing and it will get you waddling whether you like it or not. I still preferred the thicker shell of course but I still like these once i got used to them. I have seen people write them off in posts but I will still be buying them because I still think im getting my moneys worth. But just be gentle with them and you'll still have a top shelf product. But I reiterate im only speaking my own personal experiences.

You become friends with someone on here, get super close and then out of nowhere they delete their account and completely vanish 👌

what is your type of dom? do you like someone who is always just adoring, pleasing, or someone who can have a bit more of a sadistic, or degrading streak? how are you as a sub/ little?

Does anybody know of plastic panties that has a close fit and doesnt make a ton of noise.? For public wear.

Hi everybody! First time poster here—it’s a pleasure to meet you all! My partner and I are moving into a new home and are preparing to build a new nursery. We had one in a previous apartment (photo attached for reference), but we haven’t had the space for one in our last few places. We’re moving into a 3,500 sqft home and will finally have the room to build another! We’re looking for any suggestions on custom furniture companies/builders (crib, changing table, high chair, etc), decorations, room orientation, and any other thoughts anyone might have! We didn’t love our previous crib / changing table so would appreciate any and all recommendations. On the attached floor plan you’ll see the two rooms we plan to use for the space (media room 11’-11” X 24’-5” & Library/office 14’-0” X 13’-5”). We’ll be installing a wall that conceals the entry to the nursery rooms so that any houseguests are unable to tell there are even two rooms behind it! We have the budget to build our dream nursery and we are happy to splurge on the right furniture, products, etc. So to anyone who has a home nursery and loves it—who do you recommend we check out and reach out to for furniture? And more generally, we’d love to hear about anyone’s dream nursery ideas and how you might set up the space in the attached photos (sorry for low quality images, I don’t have many photos of the room’s interior that don’t include my partner or I!))