Iâll try to keep this short.
I came back to retail 15 days ago. Iâve played tank roles in all versions of the game, and used to push week 1 progression in Wrath.
Been tanking classic raids for the last 3 years, so not really rusty.
My buddy and I tanked normal raids last week, and decided that we can try out the new raid in heroic after 1-shotting it on normal.
We read up on the heroic mechanics, and decided how we would like to tank it. We specifically joined a ârelaxedâ group, figuring that since we were still learning the (at the time 5 hours old) content, that there will be a few wipes, and hoped that everyone would be understanding.
Pull 1- I mess up, the add kills 2 guys, and then I die to it.
Pull 2- The caster add was too close to the boss, so I tanked the melee add far away (again, we should have moved the boss instead, our mistake)
Mage in the group: âWe need new tanks, we need people who have actually studied the fight. These tanks donât know what theyâre doingâ
Pull 3- The DPS couldnât get the melee add down fast enough, so by the time we swapped tanks (add is still up) my buddy gets hit with a 2nd tank buster. I get hit with the add and the boss. Wipe.
Mage rages more about the tanks not knowing what theyâre doing, leader of the group asks everyone if we need new tanks? Some people are supportive of us highlighting that the content is literally 5 hours old, most are silent.
Mage leaves, fill group, 4th pull- We canât get to the swap, add doesnât die fast enough, my buddy couldnât get the golden orb. Wipe.
At this point, there are comments about us not being geared enough (Iâm at 304 iLvl and buddy is at 310), watching a video before joining the group as tanks (we did read up on the changes between normal and heroic), and just overall blaming the tanks.
We decided it wasnât worth it, thanked the group for the attempts and leave.
Is this expected from a group listed as relaxed? Does the rest of the community just expect tanks to be perfect at the game even when the content is literally 5 hours old?
I faced toxicity in the past, but never really for brand new content.