After nearly 15 years of marriage and a few kids, my wife and I are finally going to enjoy a long trip alone, together. We've done weekend getaways alone and trips with the kids, but this will be our first long getaway. So, to celebrate, we're escaping to Italy for about two weeks!
And I'm terrified that I've forgotten how to travel internationally or that I'll forget the most basic essential needed for a successful trip, like a power outlet adapter. We've tried to research on our own, but I figured I would turn to reddit directly instead of spending another day reading Google summaries and search results, which are mostly pulling from reddit posts anyway. So, here's what I have so far:
Itinerary:
A good friend, who travels more than we do, helped us to book accommodations. If I remember correctly, we only chose ones that could be cancelled up until the trip, and the friend decided how long we would spend in each place. After looking at them again, I'm not opposed to removing a destination in order to spend more time in the other cities. However, the flights have already been booked, so beginning in Venice and ending in Rome are set in stone.
Two days in Venice. Flying into Venice from the US via London on Nov. 17. We'll arrive midday. Accommodation is on the northern island near Parco di Villa Groggia. From what I've read, I'm leaning towards buying a water taxi pass, but open to suggestions.
Two days in Carate Urio. I don't know much about this destination other than being a peaceful, lakeside getaway.
Two days in Florence. Looks like our accommodation is a little southeast of Cattedrale di Santa Maria del Fiore. As a kid, my family visited Rome, Florence, and Venice, which is largely what inspired this trip, and I remember Florence having the best museums.
Two days in Campiglia D'orcia. A strong recommendation from our friend. Pretty sure we would get disowned if we removed this from the itinerary. Will probably be a good breather mid-trip.
Three days in Rome. Flying out the morning of Nov. 29. As a kid, I think we went to one too many ruins where someone kept mentioning how great it used to be. I think we probably have to hit to Trevi Fountain and the Sistine Chapel. I need to look at all my notes again, but I'm pretty sure the consensus was to get a guided tour for parts of the Vatican including the Chapel. Would appreciate any tips about avoiding lines and waits (maybe not so much a concern in November).
Interests:
Wife: foodie in a Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat kind of way. Thinks that homecooked meals are art (not in a fancy, deconstructed kind of way). So, definitely looking forward to enjoying slower meals with real ingredients and good wine. I've seen recommendations for TheFork app for reservations and to look for restaurants that aren't full of only tourists. This is her first time visiting Italy. So, we'll visit some staples, but her dream vacation is more laid-back beach than packed full of sightseeing. Enjoys the idea of going to some museums but walking / exploring the rest of the days. Also, is a midwife, so maybe I'll see if we can stop somewhere like Museo di Palazzo Poggi during our travels.
Me: got to live in Germany as a kid. So, I'm interested in history (ancient, military, political, religious, etc.), but also a little desensitized from getting to visit castles on field trips. I'm mostly looking forward to enjoying experiences and making memories whether or not we visited the top 10 landmarks. Also, much dumber when it comes to food. I'm looking forward to some great bread and delicious sweets.
Travel:
Probably the biggest clear question that I have, but how should we get around. My wife is convinced that we should rent a car. I know we wouldn't have that until after Venice, but even then, I'm not keen on trying to navigate Italian cities or parking. If we keep the booked accommodations in the cities, is there any benefit to renting a car? Any must-know tips for public transport?
Necessities:
Things that I know about / already have: passports, REAL ID, modest clothes and head scarf for visiting cathedrals, comfy shoes, backpack and water bottles for walking around, anti-pickpocket bag, rain gear, warm layers, apparently some wipes in case somewhere doesn't have TP.
Things that I DON'T know about / already have: [please fill in here].