r/solotravel • u/traveldude3731 • 1d ago
Longterm Travel 31(M) Leaving Stability and Quitting Job to Travel [UPDATE]
Hello travelers!
Two years ago, I made a post talking about my decision to leave stability and safety behind to pursue a lifelong dream of long term solo travel and backpacking the world. I am now 33 and have since returned home the last few months after what I would describe as "the most incredible adventure of my life"... or so I thought?
Don't get me wrong, I went to some incredible places, made amazing friends, completed a crazy amount of sidequests and created dad-lore and.. would I do it again? Absolutely, in a heartbeat. However, somewhere along the way, something happened which I didn't expect, which was me beginning to get tired of traveling. At some point, it just wasn't doing it for me anymore. That was the realization it was finally time to come home after 15 months. But man, what a journey which took me through 20 countries.
That fear and concern of finding a job when I'm back, the economy tanking, missing out on birthdays, weddings, yada yada were blown out proportion. I got lucky and was allowed to interview remotely so I had a job lined up by the time I came home. It took a month or two, but I eventually got back into a routine of things and have a new appreciation for my life back home. I have a much healthier relationship with work these days and that's because of all the perspectives I got while abroad.
I hope you do go on that trip. I hope you have the time of your life and meet interesting people. I hope you learn a thing or two about yourself. And most importantly, I hope you get what you're looking for.