r/studyAbroad • u/smthnsmthn_0 • 1h ago
International student hoping to study in the US. Can I make it without my parents' financial support?
Hi everyone. I'm a student from Papua New Guinea, and I'm looking for honest advice because I'm feeling really lost about my university plans.
I've been applying to universities in the United States for Fall 2027. I've submitted applications to several universities, including Notre Dame, Harvard, Princeton, Yale, Amherst, Dartmouth, Williams, and others. I've spent months working on my applications, essays, and financial aid research because studying in the US has been a dream of mine.
My main interests are psychology, sociology, and political science. I want to study psychology because I'm interested in understanding the human mind, mental health, and how people's experiences and environments shape their lives. Eventually, I'd love to use what I learn to help people in Papua New Guinea, where mental health is still heavily stigmatised.
However, I've recently run into a serious problem. My parents have told me to find a scholarship that doesn't involve them.
To clarify, they don't intend to contribute financially towards my education. They also don't want to participate in the application process or provide financial documents, including the information universities might require for financial aid applications.
As an international student, I can't afford American university tuition and living expenses on my own. I was relying on substantial financial aid, but I've realised that some universities require parental financial information even when parents aren't willing to pay.
I've already started completing the CSS Profile, and the process has been incredibly stressful. I'm trying to be honest about my family's finances, but I'm worried that I won't be able to complete the required documentation without my parents' cooperation.
I'm now wondering whether I should continue pursuing my American university applications or focus on fully funded scholarships in other countries, such as government scholarships in Türkiye, Japan, South Korea, or New Zealand.
I would really appreciate advice from anyone who has experienced something similar, especially international students who funded their education without financial support from their parents.
My questions are:
- Has anyone successfully attended a US university on a full financial aid package when their parents refused to contribute financially?
- What happens if your parents refuse to provide the financial documents required by the CSS Profile? Are there legitimate alternatives or exceptions?
- Are there American universities that offer full scholarships to international undergraduate students without requiring parental financial information?
- Are there fully funded undergraduate scholarships available to Papua New Guinean students that cover tuition, accommodation, living expenses, health insurance, and flights?
- If you were in my position, would you continue pursuing US universities while applying for government scholarships elsewhere?
- For anyone who studied abroad without parental financial support, how did you make it happen?
I'm not looking for anyone to promise me that everything will work out. I just want realistic advice from people who understand how difficult it can be to finance an overseas education when you don't have family support.
I've worked hard to get this far, and I don't want to abandon my dream without exploring every reasonable option. At the same time, I need to be realistic about my circumstances and find a path that I can actually afford.
Thank you to anyone who takes the time to respond. I genuinely appreciate any advice, resources, or personal experiences you can share.