Vishal is very straightforward and honest

I felt..never caused trouble like extra martial affairs and all.. involved in causal yes...

Look at how many couldn't even accept dorothy

Long story short !!!

I chose to be a house Husband after our Child Birth.

Since she has a WFH option and a Good pay.

And she stopped contributing to home.

The only thing she does is pay for groceries.

And rest other things are taken care of from my freelance work.

I don't like to ask her money!!

I just hate the fact she sees my struggle and keep quiet and doesn't do anything about it !!

Our TV is broke for more than 4months now !! She still doesn't have a heart to replace it !!

I don't know what to do or how to go forward to live with a person like her.

I can't divorce!! As much I hate living with her i x100 love being with my son.

Am scared

A little milestone for our 3rd anniversary. I drew you u/LeonIsFine , my favourite person, in my own little way. 🤍

Guys I have a theory 🧠

Why is influencer veeramani getting this much hype? Enoda opinion ena na, gem veeramani case ah bury pana 💀✔️

Like ipo neega google la veeramani search pana top result gem case pathi varathu , veeramani sweet box, influencer , address athu tha varum

Yen bbc news french news la vara alavuku he is getting hype 👁️‍🗨️?

This can't be a coincidence guys , everything is controlled by them 🤫 be aware be alert 👽

Yen girlfriend yenna drop panitu wait panitu irundha. Rapido book panitu Avalta pesitu irundhen. Appo ava “I love you” nu sonna. Takkunu call vandhuruchu, call yedhuthuthu kaadula phone vechite Avale paathu “I love you” sonen. Rapido bro “Yenna bro soldreenga, naan Rapido call panren” nu soldran. Pora vali fullah distance maintain panite vandhan 🥹🙏

Okay my turn...

1. Remo

2)Okay okay

3)Minnale

Reason - 1) paatha udane love varumaam ,avanga relationship la erukaangala illayanu kooda theriyama 🥲nallavangala ketavangalanu theriyama..

2) Aprm evanga force panni pinnala alainju love panna vachu avangalum love panniduvangalam😅

Onnu Ila… nanum pakren.. Reddit la edachu oru ponnu post pana adutha 1hr la 20 guys are flooding the comment section. Tbh I have this account for a long time but never have been active much until recently. From a guys perspective, solely my own, it doesn’t look very good. Sure there might be genuine guys who wants to be friends with women.. but then I notice 50+ comments an hour later with many after the same girl. Surely, not a lot of you have platonic intentions. Judge pananum nu varala bros.. just oru view.

To the bros - You do you. But nama intentions la correct ah irukroma nu double think panikanum. Because you might think something once you meet the girl, but she just wants something platonic, aprom you’re the one to get hurt and you’ll end up hurting her too.

To the women who seek friendship - I know some of you desire platonic friendships, but by now, you should know that Reddit is filled with people with different interests. I would suggest installing BFF app. It’s a good platform to find genuine friends. Back in the US, I had that app and even found a group to go hiking with. Just a suggestion.

Let me tell you why.

I have a cousin who is already in a relationship. Even her parents know about it, but they couldn't care less and straight up told her, "You're going to marry a guy whom we choose." My cousin is against it, but they've already started looking for alliances and all that. My cousin's parents are at our house most of the time, and at least three times a day, they make calls asking about potential alliances.

The questions are really weird. They start with normal questions like what they do and their age, then move on to what their parents do. After that, it only gets worse. They ask how many houses, lands, and cars they own, how many pounds of gold you're going to give your daughter, and many other weird questions. Like, idk, is this shit normal?

After the call, if both parties agree, they ask the parents to exchange photos of their children.

In this situation, my cousin's father didn't have a good photo of her, so he called her while she was at work and forced her to send one. He refused to hang up until she sent it. Eventually, he convinced my cousin to send him her photos after promising that he wouldn't share them with anyone. So, you know what happened eventually? He did the exact opposite . He also got a photo of the guy, and that weekend, when my cousin returned home from work, he literally showed her the guy's photo and started showing off, telling her about him. But she refused again and was furious that he had sent her photo to someone without her permission. He then proceeded to tell her how the guy was fairer than her and asked her what more she could possibly want. My cousin walked away in anger, and you know what's ironic? Her father is dark skinned himself.

That's the mentality I hate about arranged marriages. My cousin's father is the rudest and most inhuman person I've ever seen. He never stops whining and even beats my cousin's mother. It has happened thrice, as far as I know, over the years. And the irony is that my cousin's mother is one of the sweetest souls I've ever met, only to end up with a man like him. Sometimes, she even says that she regrets marrying him, although she doesn't say it directly. She has also told us how her husband was looking for a fair skinned girl to marry, and I honestly think that might be one of the reasons or the only reason that he married my cousin's mother. He even tells her to lose weight sometimes because she's getting fat.

Many people argue that arranged marriages have a lower probability of ending in divorce. That happens not because the couples love each other so deep they end up solving the problem it's because they live with it and don't wanna disappoint their parents or face society's judgment if they get divorced. But honestly, I feel like a lot of men (NOT ALL!!!) Whoever goes through arranged marriages can be extremely misogynistic. Some of them barely know how to talk to women or behave around them, and the same can go the other way, too.

I hate the fact that it's forced. I hate the fact that it's casteist. I hate the fact that it's racist and toxic. I hate the thought that I might end up marrying someone I'll regret spending the rest of my life with. I'd rather spend the rest of my life alone than be somebody's someone.

Sorry if I've offended anyone. I genuinely didn't mean to. And I'm happy for those who have truly found the love of their lives through arranged marriages. Have a nice day, brothers and sisters! Your opinion guys?

Recently saw this comment under a creators video where that creator shared that she is going to get married to her long time boyfriend!!

Why do people have this mindset that astrological compatibility is more important than indvidual compatibility!?

I'm 24F, and after talking to so many men through matrimony, I'm genuinely starting to get scared about whether I'll ever meet a good man. 😭

And by a good man, I don't mean someone who doesn't drink or smoke. Those things aren't inherently bad. I'm talking about a man who's emotionally intelligent, who sees his spouse as his life partner and prioritises their relationship rather than automatically putting his mother or sister first. Because I'm someone who would prioritise my spouse, and I want that same energy in return.
I want a man who's okay with me working or taking a break from work whenever I need to, and who's equally comfortable with the idea of taking a break himself if he needs one. No puluthi thoughts about how a man MUST be the provider and earn for the family. Why can't two people just figure out what works best for them as a couple?

I want an atheist who understands why religion can be a tool of patriarchy. A man who understands feminism but can also call out misandry, because I'm not someone who blindly supports one side just because I'm a woman.(feminists nu sonnaley kett vartha maari paakuranuga)
I want someone who doesn't blindly follow the whole kalyanam pannanum, kolandhai pethukanum, settle aaganumtemplate just because that's what society expects. Someone who wants to live life on his own terms and have children only when he genuinely feels ready to bring a tiny human being into this world, both financially and emotionally. And when that happens, he should be ready to take equal responsibility for raising them.
AND THE LIST GOES ON. 😭

I know some of these things might sound like the bare minimum to some people, while others might think I'm asking for too much. But after talking to so many men, I'm honestly getting disheartened. Why does findin someone emotionally intelligent, self-aware and compatible with my values feel so difficult?

Maybe the arranged marriage route just isn't for me. Maybe I need to put myself out there more, meet different kinds of people, have more conversations and understand human beings better before drawing conclusions about whether the kind of person I'm lookin for even exists.
I'm not even posting this to findsomeonhere. I've genuinely lost hope for now, and I just wanted to pour my heart out somewhere. 😭

Maybe getting this off my chest will finally help me embrace my single era without constantly wondering whether I'm being too demanding or whether I'll ever get my person.
Anyway, nandri, vanakkam. I'm clocking out of the marriage market mentally for a bit. 🫡

You might think idhellam yaaru ma sonna nu, i’ve been there experienced stuff 😭😭😭😭trauma mattum dhaan minjum😔

Iniki enna achuna nanbargale... Enga office la ellarume ennaiya vida periyavanga than ana en age la ore oru paiyan matum irupan. Naan join pannapa ennoda than join panaan. Avan introverted aa irupan naanum apdi tha. Avanum engineering (IT). Naanum engineering (IT). Avanum 21 naanum 21. Avanum single naanum single. Apa ithu love thana jesse nu solrathuku aasa than... Ana already love la vanguna adigal naala oru adi thalliye tha irupen.

Enga office la admin anne orutharu summa ellarukum patta peru vachu kalachitu irupaaru na silent aana alu ngra naala ennaku vaikala. Iniki enna nenacharu nu therla intha ponnuku oru peru vachu kalaikanum nu sonaaru team la. Athuku antha paiyan solraan en Ava peru ye nalla thana iruku adha en mathanum Ava peruku enna korachal adha soliye koopdunga nu ennaiya defend panraan. Cha en mela evlo paasam la (delulu is the solulu ❤️)

Ama nu othukonga ilaina 🔪

(nandri vanakam)

OP’s favourite chocolate raaa yarachu ketaa diskol dhaa 🥊

Field day for gooners. As I was just checking the gameplay leaks out of curiosity i ended up seeing up one gameplay where people are full naked in a town, and in quite detail to add. I assume this will cause problems after release, i mean articles may already be coming up like what if kids see it, blah blah. Not that kids should be allowed access to this game in the first place.

Aside all this I just wish the main gameplay experience isnt subpar, lots of people expectations riding on it.

Jailer 2 la Mohanlal oda 3 looks and oru trailer scene cut pannathuku, indha Jishad Shamsudeen oru full melodrama statement potrukan. Bro, idhu Rajinikanth mass commercial movie, unga personal studio illa Runtime and pacing kaaga scenes cut panrathu common tha. Adhukku poi sequel boycut panren nu threat panrathu ellam romba over.

I just don't feel like I belong anywhere. Today they probably have this stupid dandiya celebration or something where I am gonna be all alone like a freak and now thinking for hrs now if I should go to college and make myself feel awkward or stay at home with my toxic family and destroy my mental health further.

Any suggestions are welcomed guys. Help a kiddo out.