شايف الناس بتسأل وقلت اجرب

هل في طلاب سودانيين في رواندا من الصب دا ؟

نتعرف او ما شابه !

I'm female and in my mid 20s living abroad. I come from an upper middle class family (by western standards) and I guess upper class by Sudanese standards. My family has lived in the West, the gulf and Sudan and have higher education and great jobs. One of my parents grew up very wealthy but lost their wealth when they were young due to some family disputes, but made it again after marrying my other parent. I'm not sure if this is significant but we have a known name/lineage in one of my parents' parents side of the family.

I genuinely cannot see myself marrying an average Sudanese man. I just can't see it. I had a very different lifestyle to most in Sudan and I can't do household chores or labor since that was all taken care of and until I moved abroad some years ago I had never used public transport before since we had drivers or one of my family members would drop me off wherever. I also have experiences, stories and know people that the average person cannot relate to so I'd feel uncomfortable meeting someone who would be shocked by those stories or who would perceive them differently.

I do NOT want someone who isn't Sudanese for a plethora of reasons that I don't want to get into. I really only would want a Sudanese man who is very particular. My issue is that I have distanced myself from all of them on the basis of morals and values. My family told me that I shouldn't befriend gahata, keizan or any of the shitty upper class people too deeply and I took that seriously. I also found them insufferable because corruption is just foul when you see it firsthand. On the other hand, my family didn't live by those values and did a lot of shit and so now I feel duped that I was told to not make certain connections with my peers and the only people who would be able to relate to my life. So idk what to do... Will I find such a person? I've actually never wanted to marry until recently because I realized I'd rather have someone who gets those experiences and who honestly can advance my life from above average to extraordinary if at all possible...

I will also say I'm not highly attractive by Sudanese standards but I look slightly better than average. Other than that my education, hobbies, some connections I made abroad and other skill sets are what I have going for me and what I'd want in a Sudanese partner. Not sure if what I'm demanding is too much but I'm curious what others think because I'm wondering if I should just keep going how I initially planned my life and that is to not worry about these things and just advance my own life and live alone.

Visiting Bengaluru India in Jan. Hoping to connect with one during my visit. 32 m, b

انا الكلمات بتاثر فيني وبتاخد معاي زمن بتاثر فيني

زي موقف اتعرضت ليو قبل شويه كنت قاعد بتكلم بالتلفون في الشارع جا عمك كبير وهو راكب في العربية اشر بي يدو تعال قلت ليو بي صوت عالي وانا في مكاني في عامل جوه خش عليو،واصلت مكالمتي ما اشتغلت بيو لانو بقولو ده شكلو عامل هنا(عشان قاعد في الشارع انا)، المره التانيه قال لي اجيك ولا كيف قلت ده عمك كبير خلاص قمت عليو قال لي بي اعلى صوت انت سواق ولا شنو، زعلتني الكلمه قلت مابتطاول م قصه خوف لكن هو شايب المهم قال لي شغال هنا قلت ليو لا، قلت لي في العامل جوه، قال لي خلاص اديني رقمو اديتو، انا عارف العامل ماعندو اتصال واتساب بس وقلت مابوريو اخليو كده، المهم اتصل ومارد بعد شويةاضطر نزل وانا هنا حسيت بي سعادة عشان اتجرجر. المزعلني انا عارف انو اغلب السودانين سواقين ما عندي مشكله لكن كان ممكن اقول ليو انا دكتور ماسواق لكن غلبني اقول كده واسي انا زعلان ليه ما قلت ليو.

انا بشوف ناس اكبر مني لو قلت ليو السبعة وذمتا ما بتهز فيو شعرة ولا بشتغل بيك وانا داير اصل المرحلة دي لانو خلاص تعبت.

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نومك مجهجه وحاسي انك ما بتشبع نوم؟😵‍💫

هاك دي أسرار نوم جبتها ليك😏:

اولا، قبل ما تنوم بي ساعة ابعد من الاجهزة الاكترونية زي التلفون او اللابتوب او التلفزيون، لشنو؟

لانو لمن تشتغل بيهم عقلك بقول انو النهار لسه موجود وما بفرز الهرمون البساعدك للنوم😷

ثانيا، طلع الجوطة من راسك،

جيب ورقة وقلم واكتب الحاجات الناوي تعملها بكرا واكتب معاها الحاجات الكنت ناوي تعملا الليلة وما عملتا ومتين بالضبط حتعملا بكرا

بدل ما تفكر فيها، خلي عندك خطة واضحة لي بكرا

ده كلو عشان نبعد الجوطة من راسنا ونمنع التفكير الزائد، المثل بقول: التفكير عدو النوم🔪😴

ثالثا، خلي عندك زمن نوم ثابت🕐

عشان جسمك ما بحب المرمطة بتاعت كل يوم تنوم في زمن عشوائي

جسمك عندو ساعة بيولوجية، ولما تنوم وتصحى في نفس الزمن يومي، كده انت بتساعدو ينظم دورة النوم بتاعتك

باختصار…

ابعد من التلفونات قبل النوم و نزل افكارك في ورقة وثبت زمن نومك

بحب الناس العندها depression.

بيدوني هدف في الحياه.

Hey guys Has anyone here done a medical elective or observership abroad? If so,which country did you go to and how was your experience?
I’m looking for a country where it’s relatively easy to get accepted and where I can gain good clinical experience and actually learn something useful.
Also, I’m curious about everyone’s plans after med school. What are you guys thinking of doing after graduation, and which path are you planning to take? Are you considering residency abroad, and if so, which countries are you looking into?

I'm Sudanese, and my family is originally from Al Jazirah. We belong to a large lineage known as الحجراب (Hagarab), and many people associated with it use حجر as their surname.

There's an oral story in my family that our ancestor, Hagar, was a farmer who supposedly used witchcraft to make British colonialists believe his farmland was stone (حجر). I don't know how historically accurate this story is or whether it's commonly told between other Hagarab.

I've encountered people with this lineage or surname in many different places, so I'm curious whether الحجراب are considered a tribe, a clan, or a large extended family, and what their historical origins and branches might be.

Does anyone recognize this lineage or know of any reliable genealogical sources, books, or family histories that discuss it? I'd especially appreciate information about its origins and historical distribution.

شكراً مقدماً لأي زول عنده معلومة موثوقة.

I live in UAE, Al Ain. 26F

Looking for fun, smart, and ambitious friends 😁

Hello, I am looking for a Sudanese doctor or doctor that deployed to Sudan for a podcast. The discussion would center around medical care amidst the war. The podcast is pretty big so the doctor can promote local initiatives and charities. Please write me back if you or someone you know is interested.

جماعه كيفكم
انا عايزه صحبات او اصحاب في اسوء الحالات😂 في القاهره
(نطاق الصداقة فقط)

Going to Khartoum to study uni . Can I get a job alongside studying ؟

Need advise . And job applications if possible .

راجعة الخرطوم عشان اكمل دراسة للجامعة .هل ممكن اتحصل على وظيفة أثناء الدراسة ?هل في بنت هنا عندها تجربة زي دي ؟ و لي في وظائف ممكنة اكون شاكرة

Ahleinnnnn r/Sudan! 👋❤️

I’m building Hawiya (هوية), a free Discord community bringing together nearly 400 Arabic-speaking members from across the Arab world!

The idea is simple: a place where Arabs, whether at home or abroad, can connect, make friends, and feel a little closer to home.

Here’s what you’ll find:

🌍 Meet fellow Arabs: Make friends from different countries, with a dedicated #sudan channel for Sudanese members!

💼 Help each other out: Share experiences, career advice, and tips on living or moving abroad.

❤️** Celebrate our culture**: Share stories, traditions, everyday conversations, and help people learning Arabic.

No pressure to stay active! Life gets busy, so come and go whenever you feel like it. The community will always be there.

🔗 Join Hawiya: https://discord.gg/kWNvk6qDxr

If you join, drop a quick salam in #introductions so we can get to know you! 🫶

عشان ان بصدق اي حاجة بشوفها

عموماً هل المثليه الجنسية عندها ابعاد نفسية نتاج سوابق من صدمات تحرش او حاجه بالصوره ولا عن قناعة تامه،قلت كلامي ده لأنو لاحظت في الآونة الأخيرة دي في مثليين قاعد الاقيهم من الفتره للتانية وكمييييية من الناس البتتمايع في الكلام،وفي الميديا بقيت بشوفهم بكثره حتى كمان في تلفزيون السودان شايف جايبين القونه الاسمو شلاقه ولااسموشنوده ههخ،المهم للناس العاشرتهم او العندهم ناس حولينهم كده ورونا شنو الاسباب الخلتهم يبقو كده ..؟

Sudan has gone through multiple long and devastating civil wars, yet we keep repeating the same patterns.

When our side kills civilians, we cheer. When the other side does it, they're barbarians. Our side are the angels, the other side is the devil. And if we criticize our own side, we're accused of being traitors.

I've been reading about collective narcissism, the idea that people become so invested in their group's image that admitting its wrongdoing feels like an attack on their identity.

But if we condemn an act only when our enemies commit it, do we actually stand for a principle, or are we just defending our group?

How can Sudan ever break this cycle if loyalty matters more than accountability?

I'd like to hear from Sudanese people and others who've seen similar patterns in their own societies.