Hey ladies, I thought I would share part of my
Routine that I think could be helpful to a lot of dancers out there. Currently doing a seven day run and my body is killing me but what saves me the most is every day before work I take an Epsom salt bath and I listen to this specific manifestation video

https://youtu.be/JPxRhc2IdlA?is=fOW3lfgCOp6eZ40T

I use it to imagine not only what I want the night to look like (raining money and vips all night!!) But also how I want my future look like after a dancing (lots of land, a garden, a farm and a beautiful kind and caring husband)

It really seems to the right headspace before I start getting ready for work and I truly believe manifestation works!!

There’s plenty of women that will hookup willingly and not even require a date. I’m beyond tired of the nasty touch deprived men coming into my club and demanding pussy. Patrons aren’t even allowed to touch us so what the fuck makes you think that we’re about to fuck? For free at that? All three of the customers I spoke to today were so thirsty and begging that I ended up going home early out of disgust. My god. Why aren’t you going to a regular bar to pick up women?

I swear, hookup culture is another reason why the clubs are shit and people treat it like fucking Tinder.

I’m looking at old photos and I’m wondering how I wasn’t kicked out of the club looking like that, it was a high end too… or how I even made good money? Nobody ever even told me, I just know everyone laughed at me and got second handed embarrassment. I used a dark brown bronzer for it too and I’m pale asf…Getting sober allowed me to get out of that phase and I’m so so glad. If anyone on here knows a girl who had unblended brown lines drawn on their boobs, it might be me😭😭

I want to try travel dancing in Miami and not sure what clubs to work at? I was recommended Scarlett’s Cabaret and Cheetah. Any other recommendations would be great! I don’t do extras so looking for clubs where I can make decent money without having to cross those boundaries.

So I am another stripper coming here to tell another sad dating story because we know how hard it can be as we are already a walking red flag per se. I just want to put it out and talk to someone about that.

I went to a new city to work as a big event as happening and one day before start work, I booked a hotel for myself and I went to this event because it's a fun event where everyone is drinking and socializing. So I met this cute guy that day and on the next day I started working and he was messaging and calling me all the time asking me to meet up with him and his friends and I had to lie for 3 days that I was busy with my friends or that I was tired and I couldn't meet him. I tried to meet him during the day, but he was not replying, so it's not entirely my fault.

But I felt so devastated for lying, and when I think I found someone nice, then this happens... he flew back to his home country and I said that I was really sorry and that I'd love to meet him again and he never replied. He was probably thinking that I was hanging out with someone else.

Like, for how long will I have to lie about what I do? I asked myself, "What if I had told him the truth?"" Probably not worthly anyway as he is younger than me, and it's not going to turn into anything, but I feel so sad about this that I even cried.

Maybe you also have some sad stories that turned out well and would like to share it so that I feel less sad? Or maybe not, and we can feel sad together, too

Do you remember the set you danced to? What you wore? How you felt? What was the rest of the shift like? Let’s reminisce!

I’ll go first! I didn’t have any proper “outfits” so I was in a somewhat pretty brown mesh VS set, and 6in clear pleasers. My first set ever was a little all over the place vibes-wise, but I had a great time lol it was Vagina Mine by Puscifer, Love Again by RTJ, aaand You’ve Seen the Butcher by Deftones. Don’t remember how I felt, I think I just showed up, disassociated, and went home with a ridiculous amount of money. The rest is history 💸

I'm in the midwest and the cubans that are workinf g at this club have zero equitte, the club I started is a no rules type club, and It's just insane. They do extras for dirt cheap and get fully nude for dirt cheap and it's hard to make money when they will fuck for $220 and the club takes $90. They have bbl's and they will come up while the white girls wre talking to a customer and STEAL them! How are they getting hired? How is this legal??
One of the girls stole my customer when I went on stage and I cursed her out and she didn't understand a single word she was like 40 years old cuban with fake tits then she fucked the customer in the backroom right after.

They go up to customers when you are speaking to them and try to ask for a dance????

There is around 100 girls who work a shift at the new club I started maybe 5 girls being black 20 being white and the rest cuban.

edit: come to find out later the management and the cubans were coordinating to sell cocaine. Not joking

I pay taxes and I pay you to be here plus I tip out. I hate these clubs with stupid strict schedules.

this is not the first rant in this subreddit about hating men, nor will it be the last.

I rotate between different ways to express My disdain for them. a loud, breathy groan. an onslaught of profanity, like “———-— ———-! ———-?“ an assault for their assault of Me. I love a good slap across their hideous faces and seeing the shock of this statuesque of a Goddess really not playing around with Her bodily boundaries and sovereignty.

working in an industry where you genuinely do not like the majority of your clientele is such a hassle to deal with. they are not likeable people and cannot be trusted around a grain of rice! My academic interest is also very much feminism, patriarchy, and matriarchy. (currently prodding around in My 8 inchers holding a book called “asking for it: the alarming rise of rape culture and what we can do about it.” definitely a book to be reading in the club, i’ll tell you that much.) truth be told, I am not the best at playing the part depending on the patron. if they say some dumb ignorant ass shit, I physically cannot appease them. I don’t believe that I should receive money from everyone, though I embody abundance. before starting SW, I was unsure of ever wanting to be married or having a long term partnership. now? a man would have to thank Me for entertaining him, never mind being in an intimate relationship.

I will continue to alchemize men’s lust, adoration and desire until they are blue in the face and blue in the balls. fuck ass bitches.

When I first started I was in love with this job. It was fun, light, easy money and the girls + staff was nice (I was working in America tho)

Then I came back to Europe and it’s been so shit.

So long working hours, strict schedules, so many backstabbing horrible girls, unnecessary drama and bullshit, shit money and cheap customers, extras ruining the industry..

I’m starting to feel ready for a new era of my life.
I want to study to become a veterinarian instead. I’m too sensitive for all of this I’m not gonna lie, and I love animals.

But I will keep on grinding for some more time and try to enjoy it while it lasts.

Good luck to all my fellow dancers feeling this way. I hope we get some good shifts ahead of us 💗💰

if you also feel like this: how do you cope with it? How do you go to work with a positive energy? I’m so tired honestly

I constantly hear how awful PDX dancing is but due to personal issues it may be my only option temporarily.

I’m used to working in high end, topless gentlemen’s clubs. My last club in Texas was 1600 per hour, 800 per half hour & we kept that minus the funny money 5% fee.

Can anyone shed light on the VIP prices in Spyce or Club Rouge? Also, is it stage auditions or do they just look at you & decide? Thank you very much

Does anyone have a housemom in Metro Detroit that makes and sells g-strings and t-backs? I need to replace some of my stuff and after moving from Florida don't have any connects.

Hi beauties. I’m selling some lightly used/never used outfits and shoes on Depop for a decent price! I attached my link in the comments. Thanks ¨̮

How is it ??? It’s nearby the casino 🎰

Hi! Does anyone here have really short hair ? I want to cut my hair into a pixie cut but I’m terrified that the men won’t like it and that it will affect my earnings. Right now I mostly wear wigs so I guess I could just wear a wig if they don’t..

But I also think it could be good as it would make me really stand out compared to my coworkers… I don’t know lol

I grew up without her but I always think it’s ironic that I ended up doing the same thing as her.

Hello ladies! Coud you recomend any clubs with non-alcohólic drink options, with smoking área, where you dont have to drown in smokes During your work time, and without extras? :D Money is not in the first place in this case.. I need good enviroment :D

i’m a solid conversationalist + happy to give therapy and fake gf out for $$ but we all know there’s days that those guys aren’t in.

how do you fill space + keep escalating with guys that don’t really want to chat (like aren’t giving you anything to work with), but clearly want you entertaining them and are turned on? it’s hard for me to keep their attention without feeling like i have to start dirty talking- though i’m open to trying if it helps.

i always stumble over my words when things get sexual and i get awkward/giggly when they say something about wanting to fuck me. it makes me nervous to reciprocate bc i’m scared of them asking for extras but i want to lead them on a bit more for the $, even if it’s just dances.

i don’t do extras in the back so walking that tightrope feels scary to me. also trying to not drink as much but when i’m not, i can’t help but come off like a “good girl b/c irl i’m in a LTR and a bit prudeish. been dancing for a long time and this feels like such a big blind spot for me, i wanna level up!

any tips? lines you use? ways to escalate? love yall

(i know money can be a sensitive subject and i mean no disrespect by asking this question)

i know this is not very “abundance mindset” of me to have these anxious thoughts, so im looking for advice. i’m also curious if anyone else has had a similar experience:

i’ve been dancing full time for over 3 years, i’m a very good saver and im young so i don’t have a lot of expenses. i put a lot of time and energy into improving my hustle and taking care of myself. i know that i earned this money through hard work and that i deserve to live a good life. i also love my job, i love dancing and hustling the customers and tbh i just love being in the strip club. ive worked in a lot of different cities and grown a lot as a hustler since i started. i want to perfect my craft of being the best stripper possible.

that being said sometimes i feel guilty when i get a room or a dance because i know there’s other girls at my club with kids and medical bills and lots of other things they urgently need money for. whereas i have a lot of money saved up. so it creates a weird dynamic where if i make $100 off a guy from dances i start thinking about how the other dancers probably need it more than i do , and sometimes i start feeling guilty for just hoarding money or for “taking” a sale from someone else even when i got it fair and square.

logically i know im saving up for my future which you can never do too much of, i work just as hard as all the other girls and deserve the money i make. i know i do a lot of things that other girls don’t do when it comes to travel dancing and researching sales techniques which is part of what makes me more successful than some others. i also try to spread the love around the club when appropriate by tipping out the staff and getting my customers to tip the other girls on stage. and im open to working with other girls too to try to get VIPs together.

i guess i just feel like i need a girl who’s been in the game a long time to tell me its ok to be a high achiever and be proud of it. and im also open to any advice for how to best navigate the dynamic where im getting more VIPs than most girls at my club. because sometimes it’s awkward hearing everyone complain about how slow it was and how they have bills to pay and kids to feed and i’m the one getting all the rooms even though im not living paycheck to paycheck and don’t have any kids or pets depending on me. ive seen how some of those girls approach customers and it’s no surprise to me why im selling more because i have a better strategy.

i guess its just the nature of the job that it gets competitive. i’m always down for a friendly competition but how do i stop this feeling that im literally taking food out of my coworkers kids’ mouths just by doing my job?

i want to be proud to perform at a high level and constantly challenge myself to be better without feeling like i need to dim my light or hold myself back from my potential. i don’t want to feel like im fucking people over just because i’m doing well