So I am another stripper coming here to tell another sad dating story because we know how hard it can be as we are already a walking red flag per se. I just want to put it out and talk to someone about that.

I went to a new city to work as a big event as happening and one day before start work, I booked a hotel for myself and I went to this event because it's a fun event where everyone is drinking and socializing. So I met this cute guy that day and on the next day I started working and he was messaging and calling me all the time asking me to meet up with him and his friends and I had to lie for 3 days that I was busy with my friends or that I was tired and I couldn't meet him. I tried to meet him during the day, but he was not replying, so it's not entirely my fault.

But I felt so devastated for lying, and when I think I found someone nice, then this happens... he flew back to his home country and I said that I was really sorry and that I'd love to meet him again and he never replied. He was probably thinking that I was hanging out with someone else.

Like, for how long will I have to lie about what I do? I asked myself, "What if I had told him the truth?"" Probably not worthly anyway as he is younger than me, and it's not going to turn into anything, but I feel so sad about this that I even cried.

Maybe you also have some sad stories that turned out well and would like to share it so that I feel less sad? Or maybe not, and we can feel sad together, too

this is not the first rant in this subreddit about hating men, nor will it be the last.

I rotate between different ways to express My disdain for them. a loud, breathy groan. an onslaught of profanity, like “———-— ———-! ———-?“ an assault for their assault of Me. I love a good slap across their hideous faces and seeing the shock of this statuesque of a Goddess really not playing around with Her bodily boundaries and sovereignty.

working in an industry where you genuinely do not like the majority of your clientele is such a hassle to deal with. they are not likeable people and cannot be trusted around a grain of rice! My academic interest is also very much feminism, patriarchy, and matriarchy. (currently prodding around in My 8 inchers holding a book called “asking for it: the alarming rise of rape culture and what we can do about it.” definitely a book to be reading in the club, i’ll tell you that much.) truth be told, I am not the best at playing the part depending on the patron. if they say some dumb ignorant ass shit, I physically cannot appease them. I don’t believe that I should receive money from everyone, though I embody abundance. before starting SW, I was unsure of ever wanting to be married or having a long term partnership. now? a man would have to thank Me for entertaining him, never mind being in an intimate relationship.

I will continue to alchemize men’s lust, adoration and desire until they are blue in the face and blue in the balls. fuck ass bitches.

There’s plenty of women that will hookup willingly and not even require a date. I’m beyond tired of the nasty touch deprived men coming into my club and demanding pussy. Patrons aren’t even allowed to touch us so what the fuck makes you think that we’re about to fuck? For free at that? All three of the customers I spoke to today were so thirsty and begging that I ended up going home early out of disgust. My god. Why aren’t you going to a regular bar to pick up women?

I swear, hookup culture is another reason why the clubs are shit and people treat it like fucking Tinder.

I'm in the midwest and the cubans that are workinf g at this club have zero equitte, the club I started is a no rules type club, and It's just insane. They do extras for dirt cheap and get fully nude for dirt cheap and it's hard to make money when they will fuck for $220 and the club takes $90. They have bbl's and they will come up while the white girls wre talking to a customer and STEAL them! How are they getting hired? How is this legal??
One of the girls stole my customer when I went on stage and I cursed her out and she didn't understand a single word she was like 40 years old cuban with fake tits then she fucked the customer in the backroom right after.

They go up to customers when you are speaking to them and try to ask for a dance????

There is around 100 girls who work a shift at the new club I started maybe 5 girls being black 20 being white and the rest cuban.

edit: come to find out later the management and the cubans were coordinating to sell cocaine. Not joking

I constantly hear how awful PDX dancing is but due to personal issues it may be my only option temporarily.

I’m used to working in high end, topless gentlemen’s clubs. My last club in Texas was 1600 per hour, 800 per half hour & we kept that minus the funny money 5% fee.

Can anyone shed light on the VIP prices in Spyce or Club Rouge? Also, is it stage auditions or do they just look at you & decide? Thank you very much

and that’s okay.

every dude I talked to ended up getting hella dances after I left him.

but I’m bleeding through a tampon per hour so like… hey, what’s good for the club is okay by me. They got their sob story/emotional baggage out and then at least someone made money.

Can someone please tell me what I did wrong?

Last night a customer came in and 4 girls swarmed him (including myself). Girl 1 is pimped out and sat on his lap and physically would move back and forth to block me from talking to him until I finally shoulder checked her to get her to stop. Girl 2 is not pimped and is the reason I didn’t try to get the guy to myself because she and I have worked together before. Pretty early on girl 3 realized the vibe and left. I am blonde (which was the customers type as a blonde guy himself) but after he tried to politely say he couldn’t handle all of us and to go nobody moved. He kept staring at me while the other girls were talking so I could tell he wanted just me. I could’ve said hey babe who do you want or do you want a blonde only and kicked them off. But I didn’t.

We all go to dances for him 3 for $100 and all at the same time. Girl 1 is whispering in his ear and grabbing his dick over his pants the whole time trying to get him for herself. On the last song I wanted to do my splits trick that I do at the end of my dances. Girl 2 tapped me and told me to stop and get up cause I was doing too much. (Even though I’m not touching his dick or trying to steal him and she hasn’t told girl 1 to stop) He says he doesn’t want to take them to the back so they leave and I am hanging back and say are you really done and he’s like no thank god I’ve been waiting for them to leave all night. Ok so we go to vip. On the way girl 2 says don’t leave him faking hyping me up but then she ends up crying to the manager about it later and then today completely ignored me and hates me now.

Girl 1 comes into our vip uninvited saying the waitress told her to (which was a lie). Mind you he’s already paid for the room and was about to pay me on card. She’s like well babe earlier you said you could only take care of one girl. He looks at her and says ya…. She repeats the same thing thinking he’s gonna somehow change his mind and say her instead. And I’m like dude you have to say who you want. When he chooses me she starts berating me saying I’ve been mean all night and the other girl hates me too blah blah I turn to the manager and he kicks her out.

No good deed goes unpunished. I thought I was helping them out by allowing them to take my time up to get some dances when whole time I could’ve commandeered the customer. They tried to stop me from the get go in my opinion.

But if I’m the issue I’d like to be self aware enough about it and be told upfront.

What’s the best club to visit in St. Louis area?

Hi beauties. I’m selling some lightly used/never used outfits and shoes on Depop for a decent price! I attached my link in the comments. Thanks ¨̮

I pay taxes and I pay you to be here plus I tip out. I hate these clubs with stupid strict schedules.

I want to try travel dancing in Miami and not sure what clubs to work at? I was recommended Scarlett’s Cabaret and Cheetah. Any other recommendations would be great! I don’t do extras so looking for clubs where I can make decent money without having to cross those boundaries.

Does anyone have a housemom in Metro Detroit that makes and sells g-strings and t-backs? I need to replace some of my stuff and after moving from Florida don't have any connects.

When I first started I was in love with this job. It was fun, light, easy money and the girls + staff was nice (I was working in America tho)

Then I came back to Europe and it’s been so shit.

So long working hours, strict schedules, so many backstabbing horrible girls, unnecessary drama and bullshit, shit money and cheap customers, extras ruining the industry..

I’m starting to feel ready for a new era of my life.
I want to study to become a veterinarian instead. I’m too sensitive for all of this I’m not gonna lie, and I love animals.

But I will keep on grinding for some more time and try to enjoy it while it lasts.

Good luck to all my fellow dancers feeling this way. I hope we get some good shifts ahead of us 💗💰

if you also feel like this: how do you cope with it? How do you go to work with a positive energy? I’m so tired honestly

Getting spooky how slow the club has been this week. Feels like a ghost town. Praying for it to pick up soon again! 🙏

Hey ladies, I thought I would share part of my
Routine that I think could be helpful to a lot of dancers out there. Currently doing a seven day run and my body is killing me but what saves me the most is every day before work I take an Epsom salt bath and I listen to this specific manifestation video

https://youtu.be/JPxRhc2IdlA?is=fOW3lfgCOp6eZ40T

I use it to imagine not only what I want the night to look like (raining money and vips all night!!) But also how I want my future look like after a dancing (lots of land, a garden, a farm and a beautiful kind and caring husband)

It really seems to the right headspace before I start getting ready for work and I truly believe manifestation works!!

Do you remember the set you danced to? What you wore? How you felt? What was the rest of the shift like? Let’s reminisce!

I’ll go first! I didn’t have any proper “outfits” so I was in a somewhat pretty brown mesh VS set, and 6in clear pleasers. My first set ever was a little all over the place vibes-wise, but I had a great time lol it was Vagina Mine by Puscifer, Love Again by RTJ, aaand You’ve Seen the Butcher by Deftones. Don’t remember how I felt, I think I just showed up, disassociated, and went home with a ridiculous amount of money. The rest is history 💸

I’m looking at old photos and I’m wondering how I wasn’t kicked out of the club looking like that, it was a high end too… or how I even made good money? Nobody ever even told me, I just know everyone laughed at me and got second handed embarrassment. I used a dark brown bronzer for it too and I’m pale asf…Getting sober allowed me to get out of that phase and I’m so so glad. If anyone on here knows a girl who had unblended brown lines drawn on their boobs, it might be me😭😭

How is it ??? It’s nearby the casino 🎰

Hi! Does anyone here have really short hair ? I want to cut my hair into a pixie cut but I’m terrified that the men won’t like it and that it will affect my earnings. Right now I mostly wear wigs so I guess I could just wear a wig if they don’t..

But I also think it could be good as it would make me really stand out compared to my coworkers… I don’t know lol