r/sjr4r • • 36m ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #SanJose - legit looking for a gym partner, no judgment NSFW

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Looking for a female gym partner to help both work out and motivate each other. I’m trying to take advantage of the cold season and use it to tone up for the summer. I’m a very chill dude, but in the geeky side but not too awkward once we get to know a little about each other. I’m open to meeting for coffee or lunch first before locking in to a gym, I’m also willing to just put you on my membership. Dm me for any other details. I’m also putting it as NSFW due to the fact that I’d like to go to some full nude spas to relax our muscles together lol


r/sjr4r • • 1h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for my Secret Distraction

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I’ve finally brought myself into here because my work and personal life and relationship has gotten so stressed to the point that I figured that I’d find something on here to take my mind off of things, let loose and have fun!

I’m 29 SEA, working in tech 5’9, goes to the gym every week, binges shows and movies, and a big foodie. If you’re also stressed like me and are looking for some escapism and thrill (not looking to change my situation) or just to chat and talk about anything and see where it goes I’m your guy! Hope to hear back from you!


r/sjr4r • • 5h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #SanJose - My first mission

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  • sit on my face
  • Big tits
  • armpit fetish
  • shake em for me
  • I can host
  • :*

r/sjr4r • • 6h ago

M4F 44 [m4f] #Sunnyvale - What do I put here to get the cute shy girls to reach out?

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Hi!

Oh you’re reading this?

Thank you!

Are you kind of shy but still curious and want to .. see what happens?

Are you also by any chance looking for a charming, handsome guy you could trust to have some fun experiences with?

Are you into fit muscular masculine men? Someone to take care of you from A-to-Z and make sure you have a wonderful time?

Someone to treat you like an absolute lady in the streets and yeah, you know the rest….

If so… msg me. I think we should talk :)


r/sjr4r • • 9h ago

M4F 42/43 [M4F] #Peninsula - 10 Reasons To Be With Us

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  1. We're 2 good friends -- not some single dude who claims to have a buddy and will find one later once he gets the girl. Unless YOU tell us that you want to meet one of us alone for starters, there will be two of us.

  2. Awesome cocks that last because we are older! If you're a girl who appreciates a nice cock you'll love ours -- thick & beautiful.

  3. Decent Looking but don't think we are gods gift to women.

  4. We are genuine nice easy-going Indian guys. You don't want to fuck an asshole do you?

  5. Experts at fun! We are nice and will tailor what we do to satisfy you. You are the center of attention and hopefully you will want our cocks again.

  6. Great conversation. Do you really want to stare at each other in silence before we get naked?

  7. Not afraid to bump into each other. It's pretty hard to do 2 cocks if the guys are worried about MM contact.

  8. Can host in a nice relaxed environment, drive to you or even pick you up -- we are definitely accommodating!

  9. We are great in bed because it really turns us on to please the girl! We can last as long as you like, have great oral skills and will be focused on pleasing you. Why? It really turns us on to know we are pleasing the girl and guess what -- if you have an awesome time, we will have it too and you might just want to come back for more. . .

  10. We can be very discreet and will never share anything about you to anyone. Your little secret is safe with us!


r/sjr4r • • 10h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanJose - seeking to eat the box

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Hi, I’m a creative professional in the Bay. I’m 5’6, 7 inches girthy, 150lbs, slim built, latino, deep voice, brown eyes, tatted, have a septum, ddf with the exception for 420, enjoy eating the box and have a place to host. I’m open to indoor or outdoor play, I’m fine with a consistent hang out and open minded. Dm with stats and location


r/sjr4r • • 10h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for someone 420 friendly

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Looking to lose my virginity and maybe fwb


r/sjr4r • • 15h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #Milpitas-Looking Now

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Puerto Rican m Milpitas looking for something discreet. Wife and I haven’t been getting along and I need to release some stress. Lmk if you’re in the Milpitas area


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #SanJose - any women 21 or older want to fuck a virgin ?

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title lol. can’t travel but open to car play in yours, can host, and open to going to your place. don’t have a preference for weight height or race(short,tall, skinny and big are welcome!!!) just be curvy and 21 or older. I’m open to big age gaps too!!!

i am 5’11, VERY skinny, lanky, pale and Mexican but I’ve been told I’m cute lol. I have a big bush as well. available tonight or whenever.

i have a kink for breeding, being romantic and I love it when a woman has bush as well. but these are only bonuses not required.

NOT INTERESTED IN: men, couples, trans or sending money.

dm me for more details.


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 45 [m4f] #PaloAlto - looking for younger women who are into intelligent, handsome older men

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With age comes maturity, stability, experience and reliability. Men peak in their 40s which is the time they are most balanced, resourceful, capable and emotionally, mentally and physically mature.

I fit the above description. I am very healthy, very fit, have a great personality a wide variety of interests and topics I can converse about and yes, I am handsome and sexy too. I am as many others in this situation in a dead bedroom open marriage looking for a partner.

What I’m looking for is someone intelligent, cute smart who is nonjudgmental, open to adventures and has gained the maturity to understand the complexities of life and human personalities. Ideally someone in their 30s in a similar situation who takes care of their mind body and health and is looking for someone like me.

If any of that sounds interesting please reach out.


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SJ - 6’5” Fit Guy W/ BWC - Looking For Indian / Asian FWB - You Must Host

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Tall

Fit former athlete

9” white

Would love Indian / Asian FWB

You must host

Would love to meet regularly

Have a high sex drive

Can be very discreet and non judgmental if u need it

Send pic if interested

Describe what you are looking for

And what you are into

I have pics too


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for some intimacy NSFW

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Hello, Im Harry. 29 years old, 6'4, 220. Caramel skin and long black hair that goes to my shoulders. I also have a beard and mustache. Relatively good shape but still on the health journey. Clean and DDF but 420 friendly.

Im looking for some intimacy as stated in whatever form we are comfortable with. I enjoy kissing, cuddling, and open to more depending on the vibes. Id like for us to kiss as long as possible. Feeling your soft lips press against mine. A subtle kiss turning much more passionate. Deeper and deeper as we melt into each other. Tasting your lips and tongue. Craving more. You can sit on my lap or not. Feeling your warmth press against me. My arms wrapping around your waist and pulling you closer till we press against each other. Kissing more and more. Forgetting about everything else and just enjoying the moment.

I also do enjoy giving head. Being between your soft thighs as they sandwich my face. Feeling them on either side of me. Kissing them and nuzzling my beard against them. Kissing until I get closer to your pussy. Trying to tease as much as I can until you look down at me and I see the desire in your eyes. Kissing your clit and sucking on it. Softly at first but them fully making out with it. Hearing your moans fuel me to keep going. Feeling your hands grip whatever they can and grip until your knuckles turn white. Seeing a half smile on your face as your hair is covering you. Your core tightening as you are about to reach your climax. Your hips moving on their own and thrusting against my face. Me having to chase you down or survive the grinding against my face. While Ill happily do, breathing is secondary anyways. My reward is hearing you cum and tasting you. No reciprocation needed but open to it.

Not expecting anything at all tbh. We can just talk and see how the vibes are. If we click and want to meet than Id love to. All I ask is that you are clean and DDF. Ok with 420. If you have any questions or what more info feel free to ask. Also down to explore new things as well so if you want to try something please let me know. I always wanted to go down on someone as they play or game or watch something. Largely ignoring me.


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #san Jose - I’m just lonely lol

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I’m a 29 year old Latino 5’10 190 lb , I’m a ware house worker and all I do is wake up early to go to work , comeback home ,clean , take care of my pup and stream on YT and twitch , sometimes feeling a lil rambunctious and wished I had a little booty call , probably take you out to eat or watch something to chill afterwards, I’m 420 friendly , I like anime and video games ,also like going out time to time , just want some 🍑to cuddle


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #SanJose - male seeking female for some naughty fun

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Hello there. Im a 40 year old white male 6 ft tall average build with brown hair.

I am looking to feel that spark again with a woman who is looking for some naughty fun. I love foreplay and giving and recieving oral stimulation.

I would love to find a women who is available during the day on weekdays for one or more meetups a week for some naughty sexual fun that we both need and want.

I work during the week but usually have long breaks during my shift that I can make time for such fun activities.

I'll be honest I've been searching for awhile and it is hard to find someone. I did find someone a few years ago and we had something going for about a year until she moved to the east coast. I would love to find another ongoing thing.

I do like shy and wild women and I tend to be attractive to women who dont find themselves attractive for some reason, I can't resist them.

If this sounds like you let's chat and see where it goes, who knows it could go to the bedroom.


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #San Jose - ISO of Curvy Fun Woman Spoiler

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Me: 5'7", 175 lbs. Latino, average build with a lot of stamina, I stay working out. DDF. I work in tech engineering.

You: Thick, Curvy, BBW, drama free and DDF.

Message me if you're seriously interested. Let's exchange pics to see if the attraction is there first..


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 38 [M4F] #SanJose - Mutual beneficial connection together

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Hey there! I’m 38 years old and a Bay Area native. I’m looking to find someone who is inexperienced or experienced with this type of connection. A mutually beneficial fun.


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Mountain View - ISO an affair partner

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I'm a 41 year old married desi guy who stays active, works out regularly, and enjoys good conversation as much as good chemistry. I love exploring new coffee shops, getting out into nature, and reading when I have the time. My bookshelf usually has fiction, philosophy, and the occasional romance. I'm also a fan of romance and thriller movies.

I'm looking for a woman around 30 or older (no upper bound) who understands the dynamic, values discretion and privacy, and ideally has experience navigating something like this before. Clear communication, mutual respect, and boundaries matter to me.

I'm not looking to change anyone's situation or create drama. I'm hoping to find someone who enjoys meaningful conversation, shared experiences, and genuine chemistry while keeping things private.

If that sounds like what you're looking for, send me a message.


r/sjr4r • • 1d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SantaClara - providing a massage. You decide boundaries NSFW

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I’m an expert at giving massages, with 10+ years of experience massaging women. You decide if you want a regular massage or an erotic one. The massage can be as sexual, or as non-sexual as you want. You decide the boundaries. Located in Santa Clara, but can travel to anywhere in the Bay. I take very good care of myself and I’m clean with very recent results.

Check out FAQs, feedback posts and success stories on my profile to see what’s all the fuss about!

The massage will be curated specifically for you. I’ll adjust my moves with your response to my touch, slow but steady, strong but controlled, and tease you gently.

I’m 32, highly educated, sophisticated, easygoing and very respectful. I value clear communication, safety and sticking to boundaries, and will make sure you’re comfortable at all times. I take very good care of myself and can read the room very well. I offer a safe and a non-judgmental environment, and believe in building and maintaining trust.

A truly safe and a welcoming space for you to connect with yourself, to leave behind all the complexities in life for an hour or two!


r/sjr4r • • 2d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #MountainView - Looking for someone who likes bj's as much as I do

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I am a very horny individual who loves blowjobs. I also love eating pussy and more than willing to eat you out for as long as you want. I am looking for someone who also loves oral sex as much as I do. I can last days on a blowjob, and confident in my skills. I can blow 4 loads and still go for ages. Can’t host unfortunately. I have a tinted car if you don’t mind, I am 6ft Latino overweight with a average dick. I am free after 5:30 everyday, while being free the entire weekend.

If you are a guy interested sorry only looking for woman.

I have a nsfw picture on my profile to see the average thing I got, it is thick I've been told.

Hope someone good responds!


r/sjr4r • • 2d ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #SanJose - Long haired, single Dad seeks sweet and sensual

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Hi there, I’m a single Dad who works from home as a lead engineer in the video game industry. I have my kids 50% of the time.

I just want to find someone to spend time with. I’m open to romantic love should it present itself to me. But what I need is to find someone to enjoy myself with. I have a lot of physical affection to give and I have my own place that’s empty half the time.

Physically I am 6’1”, 190lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG wavy blonde hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Imagine a cute nerd crossed with a surfer.

Personality wise, I am quietly confident, intelligent, stalwart, laid back, introverted and a little bit neurospicy. I also tend to operate like a clock, a clock that likes to have fun!

Sensual and sexual touch are super important to me. I have a great capacity to give and receive sensual pleasure. I am not a casual sex person. Revelatory, lusty and loving explorations of a partner who is present as themselves and wants both of us to feel good. I am not kinky. I have had a vasectomy.

For fun I like to go dancing (industrial/goth or EDM), go to concerts, I love going to Niners games, I also like to hike, bike, camp, and take road trips. Around the house I enjoy video or board games or an occasional movie.

I use alcohol and weed in moderation and would appreciate if you are open minded about that. I am open to conscious use of other substances as well (combine with dancing???).

I like women who are smart, sweet, sensual and short.

Thank you for reading this far, I hope to hear from you!


r/sjr4r • • 2d ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #PaloAlto - Handsome. Fit. Intelligent. Professional. Looking for a FwB to spoil and make memories with.

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I am in my 40s and I am in the best shape and place in my life. I am looking for a consistent partner. I’m caucasian, brunette, average height and very fit. 100% DDF and healthy. I take great care of my mind and body, I am fun to talk to and hang around with. I have many interests and hobbies and know how to treat a lady right!

When it comes to dates, I always take care of hosting, the logistics, all the planning etc. You just need to show up, be taken care of and have a great time!

What I’m looking for is someone around 30-40 age range, intelligent, open minded, emotionally and mentally mature with a great sense of humor and charm. Someone I can have a conversation with, laugh with and have great sexual chemistry. On the appearance side I have no preference for ethnicity, race or origin but I do have a big weakness for petite, smaller women, slim/fit body, waistline and traditional feminine beauty.

I greatly value discretion. I value your privacy and your personal life and I don’t ask questions or meddle.

If you’re interested, please reach out!


r/sjr4r • • 2d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #BayArea - Skip the apps and get to dessert

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Hey there,

Looking for someone fun in the bay. I’m 30 y/o, 6’4”, tall, dark, and handsome type. I’m clean (recently tested), respectful, discrete and genuinely enjoy the art of giving. No pressure, just pleasure.

If this sounds like your vibe, send me your details and what you like


r/sjr4r • • 2d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #SanJose - private office fantasy

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Hi Ladies, I am 29, White, brown hair and hazel eyes, 6’1, hung and handsome, blue collar professional.
I run a shop in north San Jose and I’m looking for any ladies who want to have some hot office fun, fulfill a fantasy. After 5pm on weeknights my crew goes home and I’m alone working on paperwork. Come join me for some much needed after work stress relief! Very discreet office, private, no cameras. I love foreplay and pleasing, and love giving a woman the first big one she’s had in a long time or ever, I’m very respectful and chill, not looking to change your situation in life but have some nsa fun together!
hit me up if this peaked your interest and let’s talk. See if we connect and want to set something up!
Any ladies who need some after work relief, want to be sent home happy and satisfied, please hit me up!


r/sjr4r • • 3d ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #SanJose - virgin looking to fuck

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title lol. can’t travel but can host or do car play in yours or go back to your place. dm me for more details. no preference weight height or race just b 21 or older and a little curvy lol. dm me for more details can verify. I’m open to big age gaps as well. looking for FWB. I am 5’11, mexican, pale and very skinny.


r/sjr4r • • 3d ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for an ongoing FWB 😊

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I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to chat and get to know each other a bit with the ultimate goal of becoming ongoing FWB if we both want it. It would be nice to have someone to cook for, hang out with and cuddle up with while watching a movie. I’m open to things evolving into something more long term if we’re both enjoying it but not necessarily what I’m aiming for. If this sounds like a good idea let’s chat and get to know each other. Believe it or not I actually want to get to know someone a bit before sleeping with them. Shocker right?

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. I’m hung, std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to share more pics over chat. Thanks 😊