hi! i'm 28, half-filipina and half-chinese and live in LA. i'm 5'5" with tanned skin, a curvy/pear-shaped body and dark hair with pink/red ends. i come off as cute and pretty innocent in my day-to-day life, but i bought some cute lingerie pretty recently and would love to show it off and feel sexy! i also love getting dressed up and also appreciate having people compliment my outfits, and i'm always down to compliment people right back! also, just down to have interesting conversations with people and see what's out there.

Hey there everybody! 27 year old gay male here, hoping to find that special someone I will fall head over heels for. I am 5'6" and 165lbs with long black hair and glasses. I would best describe myself as a fun-loving nerd who is very affectionate.

I'm someone who enjoys the little things in life as opposed to grand adventures. I’m very much one to "stop and smell the roses” as the saying goes. While I may be a bit more introverted overall, once I get comfortable around someone, you’d never be able to tell. There's nothing I enjoy more than spending quality time with the people I deeply care about. I love hearing them talk about their interests, hobbies, and experiences. I also love giving physical affection; I'm all about cuddles, kisses, and holding hands. It’s my main love language and the way I will always let you know just how much you mean to me, and that I will always be there for you.

Music is easily the most important thing in my life. I’m a singer, and have been performing in one way or another ever since elementary school. It's a talent I am very proud of, so expect me to sing some songs just for you!

I enjoy getting out of the house to go on long walks, either just through the neighborhoods, at a nearby mall, or hiking out on a trail. I also love listening to music in my free time. I mostly enjoy rock, some metal, and lots of alternative. Ghost is my favorite band. As for other hobbies I play PC games on Steam, my favorite being ARPGs like the Diablo series or Last Epoch, as well as collecting some LEGO sets and Yugioh cards. I love watching older horror movies from the 70's and 80's. I'm a bit of a writer as well, creating my own characters, stories, and even fanfiction from time to time.

There are only a few deal-breakers I have. I am deathly allergic to cats, and get bad allergies to most indoor animals. Pets could only be outdoors with me around, and absolutely no cats. No drugs or smoking either. Yes, this includes weed and vapes. I have asthma and any kind of smoke will make it flare up. I'm a leftist politically, and not interested in anyone right of center.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read all this! I hope to hear from you soon if you’re at all interested. Let's make this the start of something wonderful!

I want to experience girlhood for the first time with another girl.

I was very sheltered and didn’t have friends. I never got to experience girlhood and have a lot of repressed feminine desires that I’m only now exploring. Seeking MTF women because I’ve tried dozens of friendships with cis women my age and they are creeped out by my background.
I want a best friend I can go shopping with and choose outfits for each other. I want to do makeup on each other. I want to have sleepovers. I want to bake together. I wanna grow together and be better versions of ourselves. Maybe we can eventually go to raves and do silly stuff and dance together.
All the women around me are way past that phase so…yeah.

Bonus if u like anime/nerd shit, cosplay, OCs, games, and creative stuff. Extra bonus if you aren’t against drinking & smoking. If you want to be a girl with me pls dm and we can move to discord or IG if we click!

5’11, athletic, White/Hispanic, easygoing and drama-free. I take discretion seriously and prefer a natural vibe—no rush, just seeing where the chemistry goes.

Open to meeting women in all kinds of situations—single, attached, or somewhere in between. I respect boundaries and value privacy.

If you’re clean, chill, and want something that feels good without complications, we’ll get along.

I can host or travel. Let’s talk, feel it out, and take it from there.

Looking for Cis Females only. No drama guaranteed I’m very discrete.

If you are into cheating kink or just wanna have some fun. Not looking to change my situation so this is no strings attached, one time or ongoing.

I require a recent test and have one to share. No cream pies or unprotected sex.

I'm 30, 5'10, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Got a picture in my profile for those looking for the D pic. Average size, good for those that want to practice DT.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age location and stats as I won’t be responding to low effort messages.

It’s spooky season, wanna cuddle up and watch a scary movie tonight? Maybe you can wear your comfy pj’s and we can get cozy under a blanket, does that sound good?

If you’re local and interested, send me a chat with the name of your favorite scary movie so I know you read this far. Be ready to send normal pictures and meet soon.

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Hey! Thanks for stopping by.

I'm 25, East Asian, 5'8", 150 lbs, average build, clean, respectful, and easygoing.

I'm looking for the kind of FWB where we're just as excited about grabbing dinner or boba as we are about getting each other's clothes off. Ideally, I'd love something ongoing where we text during the week, flirt, laugh, hang out, and build real chemistry instead of feeling like strangers who only meet when we're horny.

I'm especially hoping to find someone who's a bit of a nerd. Not necessarily stereotypically nerdy—just someone who's naturally curious, gets really into random interests, enjoys going down rabbit holes, and thinks "wait, what if we tried this?" is a fun sentence.

And yes, that applies to the bedroom too. I've been getting interested in experimenting with different techniques and seeing what actually works, including some personal goals around increasing my volume. I'd love to find someone who's amused by the idea of being my enthusiastic research partner—and I'm more than happy to return the favor. If you're curious about figuring out what makes you tick, experimenting with different approaches, or seeing how far we can take our little science experiments, I'm game.

No spreadsheets required.

...Although I can't promise I won't eventually make one.

Outside of the bedroom, I have not just a touch, but a full whack of AuDHD, so I have a ton of hobbies and nerdy interests we can talk about and maybe explore together. I'm into photography, cooking, trying new restaurants, boba, walking, random drives, exploring new places, Genshin (I sorta play), 3D printing, and generally getting way too interested in whatever happens to catch my attention.

My ideal Saturday is probably finding a new ramen spot, wandering around somewhere we've never been, getting distracted by something random along the way, then spending way too long arguing about what movie to watch because neither of us can decide.

I'm happy to chat and get comfortable beforehand, but I'm ultimately looking for something in person. If we seem like a good match, I'd rather actually make plans—grab boba, get dinner, go for a walk, whatever—and see if we click than spend weeks texting without ever meeting. No pressure to rush into anything; I just want the conversation to eventually lead somewhere in real life.

I'm naturally a pretty giving and attentive partner. I really enjoy focusing on my partner's pleasure and taking my time rather than rushing through things. I'm big on making out, plenty of foreplay, and figuring out what my partner enjoys because everyone is different. Good communication, mutual enthusiasm, and feeling comfortable with each other make everything so much better.

I'm open-minded and enjoy exploring new things together. If you're the kind of person who likes experimenting, communicating about what works, laughing when something definitely doesn't work, and trying again, I think we'd probably have a lot of fun.

I can sometimes host depending on the situation, but if you're able to host, that's definitely a plus. Otherwise, I'm happy to split a hotel.

I'm East Asian, wear glasses, and I'm happy to exchange photos early on so we can make sure there's mutual attraction. Attraction is subjective, so no hard feelings if we're not each other's type.

If you've made it this far, send me the word "peach" in your first message so I know you actually read the post. I'd also love to hear what you're nerdy about, what you enjoy doing, or what random topic you could talk about for three hours without realizing it.

I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I am looking for something genuine and ongoing—where we actually see each other, enjoy each other's company, have great chemistry, experiment together, and look forward to hanging out again.

If you're a quietly nerdy woman who thinks this sounds more fun than a conventional FWB setup, say hi. :)

P.S. Yes, I speak Chinese.

I’m married and in a dead bedroom and hoping to explore, have fun and experience my first blow job (looking for 18+ women only). If you’re nervous about messaging me, it’s ok, I don’t judge (or bite haha) and it would be fun to get to know each other.

This is a little long but some background. I’m married (I’m open to married or single) and I hi grew up in a very conservative, strict family. The idea of no sex until marriage was pushed very strong on me and because of this I really didn’t experiment sexually in high school or college and didn’t have sex until I was married.

My wife has a very low sex drive (the last time we had sex was several months ago) and even though I give her oral sex when we have sex (and I’d like to think that I’m quite good at it and bringing her to orgasm) the longest blow job I’ve ever received from her was about 5 seconds and she’s never made me finish from a blow job. She says she just isn’t into it and the idea of giving a blow job grosses her out, and she is grossed out by the idea of me cumming in her mouth.

I’m looking to meet (in real life) someone fun and flirty and who actually enjoys giving blow jobs and who will help me experience something I’ve wanted for so long but never had the opportunity to enjoy. I’m completely fine with reciprocating and I’d love to give you oral in return and pleasure you to thank you for helping me to experience this.

I’m open to all ages as long as you’re at least 18. If you knew me, I’m the last person that you’d be expecting to do something like this and because I’m married I need to be discreet. I’m happy with getting to know you before we meet. Maybe you’ve wanted to have a man give you oral for a long time and we can do each other a favor.

I’m completely fine with trading pictures and I’m excited (maybe a tiny bit nervous too) about the possibility of meeting someone that can make this happen.

Hi! I’m looking for a someone that is interested in hanging out a bit, having a drink, and then.: having their pussy dined on. While not opposed to just get straight to main course, I do like a little bit of a build up to it. If things click, I’d like for it to be a semi regular thing, but that’s not at all a requirement or expectation, simply something to consider. And since it’s a requirement to add, while nice, I don’t expect reciprocation.

If you have toys, bring them along, I think they add a lot to the experience and would be fun, but all very dependent on what you like.

Am able to host or travel, depends on what makes you feel more comfortable. I’d also preferably want to meet somewhere “normal” first, just to get a good vibe of one another.

I absolutely love eating pussy (or ass if you’re into it) and have been told by partners that I'm quite good at it and am good at taking feedback to make it as much fun for you as possible.

I'm 5'10, decent shape, brown hair/eyes, 185 lbs. Good looking and very clean, DDF.

Hope to hear from you!

37 year old half Hispanic half white with a dad bod. 6 inch thick dick. Love bigger women. Love eating pussy and will not stop until you cum. Have a lot of stamina and I’m all about my partner’s pleasure. Let’s chat and set something up.

Hi Reddit!

Figured I’d try this again, had some good convos last time but didn’t really click with anyone

Looking for a consistent FWB local in the area!

About me: 6’8 - 265lbs , athletic dad bod, charming, like to go out for drinks or karaoke, always down to try new foods, love trivia, and love to please.. iykyk

You: funny, kinky, and can keep a convo going on Reddit BEFORE moving to any other platform

Send me a message to see where the convo goes!

Hi, I’m Ryan, 31 year old white guy, about 5’6” 200lb with kind of a dad bod, but in shape.

I’d love to find a fun, open minded woman (preferably a switch like me!) to have some hot, kinky fun!

I’m super open and kink friendly, sub leaning switch.

NSFW pics and verification pinned to my profile.

I’d be happy to verify, send pics, meet for a vibe check or whatever you need to feel comfortable!

Hope to hear from you soon!

Do you need to be put in your place? Have you been acting up again, doing all the things I told you not to? I know you've been secretly reading these dirty posts touching yourself thinking about Daddy bending you over his knee, lifting up your skirt and giving you a rough spanking in private.

Will that will teach you a lesson? No? Maybe once you’re warm and red, I’ll have to take it even further, taking control of your body, doing as I please.

Lucky for you, I'm looking for one local girl to use at my disposal tonight. If you've been a bad girl again or want to know what it’s like to be treated as one, now is the time to message me. And don’t waste my time, make sure your chat reads "I’m really sorry Daddy" with pictures ready to send as soon as I accept your chat. Understood? Good. Talk to you soon.

Are you familiar with Irvine? If you are, you probably know there are lots of parks here. I was wondering if a woman might want to meet up at one of the parks and find a spot and make out some ;).

Any woman in the area? Or know the area?

Not looking for anything serious, let’s cuddle, let me oil you up for a nice massage, get you all hot and horny and maybe that leads to something more? If not that’s fine too, no pressure, at least you will get a nice massage and some cuddles.

I can get us a hotel or go to your place. Located in BH adjacent but can travel

I’m easy on the eyes, keep in shape even at 37 lol. Ukrainian, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth and fun to be around. DDF

Looking for cis females 18+, that keep in shape, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF

Not looking for pen pals, time wasters. Your pic gets mine.
If interested respond with your favorite drink, age, if you can host, your location and we can go from there.

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itll also could be hot again at some point so pool time would be sweet too. Cool off with a cuddly daddybear?

looking for a horror movie art gaming cuddle buddy

Please be 20 min or less close to me.

Sometimes you just really miss being held. Right?

Any friendship, relationship, etc is based in a strong communication foundation.

We could chill with some horror and or make art or game this weekend?

That would be cool.

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I'm a 5'9 chubby/ fat dad bod teddy bear perfect to cuddle. I have a beard and curly stache. I dont drink or smoke. I'm clean and tested recently. Can show.

Please dont smoke. And don't be allergic to cats I have an orange floof.

Let's talk about that, or the horrors, movies, arts? I like to paint and do digital art too. Let's game together.

Well yeah hopefully you're out there

Have actually been a bit successful with this in the past. Haven't had luck on Reddit with this yet. But, have been lucky enough in other places, and even organically a couple of times. It's a threesome dynamic I enjoy a lot, and like to seek out every now and then. Some of my "credentials":

1. Friend I met here posted a success story of our first time connecting. Shared here with her permission: https://reddit.com/user/psyduckgw/comments/1v7i1ya/success_story/

2. Self-written success story of one of the organic ones. I don't know how organic you consider a connection at an adult theater to be. Buuuuuut, we were all strangers when we first met. At least right up until we weren't LOL https://reddit.com/r/SanDiegoAdultTheater2/comments/1tx7412/ffm_threesome_success_story_in_one_of_the_private/

Just to give a bit more of an idea about me, both from my perspective and someone else's.

I'm looking for within about 9 years of my age, over or under, though I'm open to bending this a bit if we click well. Looking for in San Diego or a reasonable drive nearby. As far as body type goes, I'm open to most, though at the end of the day it all comes down to that individual attraction and chemistry.

Whether you present more femme, or more masc makes no difference to me. More important to me are those who take care of themselves. Those who bring the level of hygiene to any play sessions they'd want back. Please interpret that last sentence in good faith LOL. And, those who are comfortable enough in their skin to fully embrace their sensuality in the moment, rather than feeling self-conscious.

I find I get along well with those who are

1. Fairly easygoing
2. Open to exploring, and secret freaks
3. Able to clearly communicate desires, limits, and expectations. It has been depressingly hard finding people who meet this standard LOL
4. Not remotely conservative or right-leaning. We would not get along, and I don't want to waste my time or yours

My expectations if we connect? Let's chat, get acquainted, link in person if we're all feeling it, and see where things lead. I'm not pushy and, considering the nature of this dynamic, only going at a pace we're all comfortable with.

Lastly, whether you're single with a FWB, or attached in a relationship are all the same to me. I'm just not into cheaters, or playing with anyone who's moving behind their monogamous partner's back, or violating whatever rules you've agreed on. This is a non-negotiable for me, just to be upfront.

P.S.

To the downvoters, cuz it happens every time. Listen, I don't care about karma on here. I've had success from posts with 0, and gotten radio silence off posts with double digit karma. I care about actually meeting people, more than I do invisible internet affirmation points.

That said, guys who come on here to downvote other M4A posts, either to make theirs look better, or because they feel there are too many on here? Extremely lame behavior. If no one's ever told you. We can save the downvotes for the scammers, serial flakes, catfish, or the actual chuds who make the rest of us single guys look bad. And the sub would be healthier for it. Downvoting from saltiness? Weak

Looking for a more sensual/passionate hookup. Things like eye contact during missionary, extended foreplay, dirty talk, whimpering, genuinely wanting to please eachother, etc. This may sound a bit much for a subreddit like this, but I'm just at a point now where I feel like if a hookup feels overly transactional or passionless, it doesn't really do much for me and I'd rather just masturbate at that point. A bit more about me:

* 5'10", slim/fit body type, dark brown hair, brown eyes
* bit shy but friendly and can hold conversation
* tested clean
* love going down, pleasing really turns me on
* vocal when I'm turned on, especially during oral. I love to moan/grunt/pant
* like foreplay and building sexual tension versus getting straight into it
* switch, can be either dominant or submissive.
* Limited bdsm experience (handcuffs/blindfolds), but open to exploring it more
* turned on by public play, but totally understand if it's not your thing
* prefer communicative partners and partners not shy about giving/receiving feedback

Not sure what else to add. Just looking for someone that's a good fit and also respectful, clean, and just a chill/normal person. I can share pictures of myself over chat, and we can go from there.

I remember wishing I had someone to help me learn the ropes when I was younger, and I’d love to do the same for anyone who's interested. Whether you're new to this or just looking to explore more, I’m here to help you feel comfortable and confident.

A little about me: I'm a professor who looks young for my age. I’m tall, slim, with shaggy brown hair and brown eyes. I’ve been told I look like Tom Holland (which I always take as a compliment, so I’m running with it). I am really easy going and will let you set the pace of how you want to gain experience and stuff. So don't feel intimidated or anything.

If you’re curious, don’t hesitate to send me a message. Let’s chat and see where things go

Visiting from Texas starting Friday until next Sunday and looking for some fun. Latino, fat, but I be sweet. Cannot host as I'll be staying with fam. Would prefer someone close and to meet in public before anything happens to see if we vibe enough to have some fun.

Big boys gotta eat 👀

43 m Aussie here seeking a nice girl for regular NSA hookups and/or FWB. I regularly travel to LA for work & stay at a hotel in Torrance. I’ll be headed there again this Friday. We can meet up over a drink or dinner then head back to my hotel for some kinky fun. Looking for a real and genuine girl only - not sellers or scammers! Send me a DM & we can trade pics & see where the day leads us. Hope to hear from you soon!

I don't need anything, I just want to show you a good time. Let's spend the day together totally naked where I will pleasure you and make you feel like the princess you are.

I'm not looking to have sex with you, I'm not even looking for you to suck my dick, but I want to focus entirely on you and make you feel incredible. Let's meet up, make out, then I'll kiss you all over then eat you out. Interested? Message me.

I'm in Socal. LA/IE/SD also welcome.

Also a physical description: I'm 5'10 with black hair, brown eyes, brown skin, average build, and glasses