Toronto ladies, here's my approach: I don't treat foreplay as a warm-up. It's the main event, and I stay locked into what makes your body react until you're done, not until I think you should be. A few women I've met through Reddit have told me the same thing: that what most guys call foreplay becomes the whole night with me.
About me: I'm 36, of South Asian descent, 6'0", and around 220 lbs. Broad shoulders, a bit of a stomach, a groomed beard, short hair. Based in Midtown near Yonge and Eglinton. I keep active with the gym and swimming, and that same discipline carries into how I pay attention to a partner. Outside the bedroom, I'm easy to talk to, funny, and I enjoy cooking, hosting a podcast, writing poetry, and have even tried stand-up comedy a few times.
One honest thing about me: I can start a little shy or quiet at first. Years of being an introvert (no longer that person, though). Once I'm comfortable, though, I get fully focused on you and the moment. I am known for naturally drawing out the true selves of people.
Dynamic: I usually like to lead, but I appreciate a woman who brings her own energy and pushes back a little. My experience has mostly been vanilla, but I'm open and curious about exploring things we're both into, as long as we're clear on boundaries going in.
Who I'm hoping to meet: Ideally 25 to 40, open if we click outside that. All body types welcome; curvier women are a definite plus for me. What matters most is chemistry and being on the same page.
Logistics: I can host in Midtown (it's a bit tricky, so I would rather avoid it), or a hotel works. If you are hosting, that works too - I don't mind travelling the distance.
Happy to grab a coffee or drink first if you want to check for chemistry before anything else. Top-notch hygiene matters to both of us, and I'm clean and tested regularly; happy to share details. Evenings after 6 pm and weekends are open for me. Aftercare, meaning actual conversation, cuddling, food and entertainment, some teasing and lots of laughs, is always part of it.
If this sounds like you, include in your message:
Your age and general area
What you're hoping to get out of meeting up
Host or hotel preference
Any boundaries or specific interests you want to flag
A couple of recent clear photos; I'll send mine too
And one more thing, since I like knowing who I'm talking to: what's the last thing that made you laugh out loud?