r/r4rtoronto • • 14d ago

Meta 🎃OCTOBER 2026 MEGATHREAD🎃 NSFW

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A place for our users to chat and have discussions outside of the general R4R post setting.

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⭐Some other notable stuff this month⭐

October 1st to 4th: Oktoberfest 🍺

October 3rd: Nuit Blanche 20th Anniversary - Between Heaven & Earth & Everything In Between 🎭

October 12th: Thanksgiving 🦃

October 31st: Halloween 🦇

Honourable mention: After 23 years, Blizzard dropped the trilogy to the Warcraft Campaigns: The Forsaken. I'll make this discussion thread quick coz Lady Sylvanas needs me.

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⭐Sub states for September 2026⭐

🔍Views + visitors:🔍

In the past 30 days, this sub has been viewed 2.4 million times, with roughly 7.4K individual visitors/uniques per day.

⛔MOD BANS⛔

In the past 30, days, we have issued 134 temporary and perma bans.

📷VERIFICATION📷

16 users were verified this month = 9 males and 7 females

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📍MOIST MAP📍

A heat map of where the horny hoes and gigolos gathered in September. This map is created by Claude using the locations in the post title. Thank fuck for the new title formats.

ALL LOCATIONS WITH ACTIVE POSTS IN SEPTEMBER:

CLOSER LOOK AT GROUND ZERO:

💹 Post stats 💹

Below is a rough USER count of each R4R category in September

REDDITOR 4 REDDITOR POST COUNT % (rounded up)
F4M 107 5.23%
F4F 23 1.12%
F4A/T/NB/Couples 31 1.51%
M4F 1490 72.79%
M4M 154 7.52%
M4A / T 125 6.11%
M4T/A/NB/Couples 24 1.17%
T 4 F/M/A/T/NB/Couples 28 1.37%
NB 4 F/M/A/T/NB/Couples 8 0.39%
Couples 4 F/M/A/T/NB/MF 67 3.27%

Age breakdowns (age vs frequency of posts)

M4F:

F4M:


r/r4rtoronto • • 28d ago

Meta 🙅‍♀️TURN ON YOUR REDDIT CHATS AND PROFILES🙅‍♂️ NSFW

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r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

F4M 28F4M #Toronto morning stress relieve NSFW

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I just need my face made a mess from someone. Love being degraded. If you’re 7’ and bigger and enjoy making a slobbery mess message me. I’m also into rimming (both giving and receiving) Have built up energy definitely in need of use. I’m open minded in trying new things too! Priority goes to people who have a friend that can join. About me: 28 from Toronto can verify too! Happy hunting xox


r/r4rtoronto • • 2h ago

M4F 22M4F #Downtown - Looking to Makeout, Tits play, and Cuddles NSFW

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Im looking for a one time thing or maybe more if we build some type of chemistry for this weekend.

We can meet up somewhere before hand could be a restaurant, bar or even a arcade. Im looking for someone whos addicted french kissing, like till our lips are sore and also loves cuddling and have their tits played it. not really looking for penetration so if you are sorry to disappoint ya, However open to other options and I have a pretty strong finger game.

About me:
\\- I’m 22years old
\\- 6’0 tall, 90kg, a bit of a dad bod with muscles but on a cut
\\- Brown
\\-Open to 420
\\-Smell good and hygienic

Ideally you:
\\- curvy with some nice tits and juicy lips 👄
\\-not plus size (sorry) little chubby is fine
\\-hygienic and smell good
\\-Shaved
\\-ethnicity doesn’t matter to me but desi and arabs to the front

Send me a DM if you’re serious and please mention your Sex, Age, Location, and more details about you with your intro and be ready to exchange photos sfw


r/r4rtoronto • • 12m ago

M4M 28[M4M] #Junction You + a blindfold + my mouth + your cock = good time? NSFW

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Title really says it all really but lemme go into more detail.

I’m a 28 year old dude, 5’9, fat, trying to suck some dick. I’m inexperienced with the real deal but have practiced on a toy (can deepthroat all 7” of it ayo). Just wanna put myself out there and suck some dick because I think it would be really fun and because I cannot stop thinking about it lol. I’m DDF, have been tested. I’m located near the Keele subway station and cannot host.

Personality wise:
I’m a gamer, I love RPGs and action games, I love reading manga and novels. I’m a huge fan of the dune books. I also love going on hikes with my friends.

Why the blindfold?
It’s kinda hot to me as a kink, but also I’m a very anxious dude and I think having you blindfolded would reduce my anxiety lol.

What am I looking for in a guy?
Looking for someone in his 20s or early 30s, close to my age is a plus though. You’ve gotta be pretty chill, like I’ve mentioned I’m pretty anxious so having a guy who’s chill and makes me feel very comfortable is a must. I don’t wanna be rushed into stuff and just wanna take my time with you (and your cock). Speaking of, an experienced guy who can guide me through all this is a plus, but also I do not mind meeting up with a guy who’s also not had experience and we can figure it out together. Taking a guy’s virginity with my mouth is a huge turn on to me lol. I cannot host so you must be able to and prefer a guy near line 2 on the TTC. The idea of car fun is really hot to me but that’s not what I’m looking for rn. If you’ve read everything so far add an eggplant emoji when you dm me. I do not have any huge preferences in terms of looks or body type: I like chubby guys, fit guys, skinny guys, etc, but I really love cute guys and nerdy guys, so that’s a big plus. Being uncut is also a huge plus to me but not necessary. Please be DDF.

Also just because I want you blindfolded doesn’t mean I’m going to meet up without seeing your face first. I will send my own face pic and expect the same in return. I also wanna take this a lil slow, so don’t message me “free today?” I wanna get to know you a lil bit before making plans. Let’s talk about our hobbies a bit see what see connect on.

All that said, if you’ve made it this far and are interested send me a message! Let me know your stats (Age, location, \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\~\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\~dick size (if you want)\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\~\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\~) and let me know a lil about yourself like your hobbies.


r/r4rtoronto • • 17m ago

M4F 35M4F #Scarborough let's keep eachother warm NSFW

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Hey, I'm a Sinhala guy living in Scarborough. Lanky build, tall and good looking(so I've been told). Can't go anywhere without getting hit on lmao. Had the Home Depot customer service girl letting out a couple of moans while she was helping find yard garbage bags. Im pretty handy whether it be with work around the house or with your body. I'd like to chat with someone and get to know them. Build it up before we meet so it's hard to keep our hands to ourselves.

DM me and we can exchange pics


r/r4rtoronto • • 19m ago

M4F 30M4F #Toronto - 6 foot, looking for something fun NSFW

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Hey, my interests are pretty general, I'm open to anything tbh. I love pleasuring and being pleasured, so whether it's sex, cuddling, or something else, I'm for it. I love having my balls fondled as well. It can be friends with benefits or just a one time thing depending how things go and how we feel.

I'm white, single, 6 foot, athletic build, and have a big dick. I'm along Eglinton West. Could host. I'm relatively inexperienced, so if you're someone who also is or at least doesn't mind that then great! I've been lauded for being good with my hands though. ;)

A bit about myself: I'm a kind, caring, and relatively introverted person. I like sports, video games, nature, and trying new things. I grew up playing hockey and soccer as a kid. I'm a chill and easygoing person who enjoys some nerdy stuff like Chess. I like nice asses and other than that, I'm not picky.

If you're interested or would like to know more, feel free to reach out and maybe we can set something up. :)


r/r4rtoronto • • 25m ago

M4F 36M4F #Toronto - Patient, focused entirely on you, never in a rush NSFW

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Toronto ladies, here's my approach: I don't treat foreplay as a warm-up. It's the main event, and I stay locked into what makes your body react until you're done, not until I think you should be. A few women I've met through Reddit have told me the same thing: that what most guys call foreplay becomes the whole night with me.

About me: I'm 36, of South Asian descent, 6'0", and around 220 lbs. Broad shoulders, a bit of a stomach, a groomed beard, short hair. Based in Midtown near Yonge and Eglinton. I keep active with the gym and swimming, and that same discipline carries into how I pay attention to a partner. Outside the bedroom, I'm easy to talk to, funny, and I enjoy cooking, hosting a podcast, writing poetry, and have even tried stand-up comedy a few times.

One honest thing about me: I can start a little shy or quiet at first. Years of being an introvert (no longer that person, though). Once I'm comfortable, though, I get fully focused on you and the moment. I am known for naturally drawing out the true selves of people.

Dynamic: I usually like to lead, but I appreciate a woman who brings her own energy and pushes back a little. My experience has mostly been vanilla, but I'm open and curious about exploring things we're both into, as long as we're clear on boundaries going in.

Who I'm hoping to meet: Ideally 25 to 40, open if we click outside that. All body types welcome; curvier women are a definite plus for me. What matters most is chemistry and being on the same page.

Logistics: I can host in Midtown (it's a bit tricky, so I would rather avoid it), or a hotel works. If you are hosting, that works too - I don't mind travelling the distance.

Happy to grab a coffee or drink first if you want to check for chemistry before anything else. Top-notch hygiene matters to both of us, and I'm clean and tested regularly; happy to share details. Evenings after 6 pm and weekends are open for me. Aftercare, meaning actual conversation, cuddling, food and entertainment, some teasing and lots of laughs, is always part of it.

If this sounds like you, include in your message:
Your age and general area
What you're hoping to get out of meeting up
Host or hotel preference
Any boundaries or specific interests you want to flag
A couple of recent clear photos; I'll send mine too

And one more thing, since I like knowing who I'm talking to: what's the last thing that made you laugh out loud?


r/r4rtoronto • • 29m ago

M4F 34M4F #Toronto "brown fuckboi" NSFW

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Hey, I'm originally from Sri Lanka, 6'3" with long hair and trimmed beard. I workout regularly but I'm not ripped. I've been living in Toronto for more than a decade now. I've been called a brown fuckboi, I'm not one I promise. Just got stereotyped I guess.

I enjoy the outdoors whether it's hot or cold outside. I enjoy movies whichever genre you pick except for Asian dramas or teen romance. But I can cuddle you while you watch that. I'm not phased, very easy going.

Don't really have a type. High libido so hopefully you can match that. Hit me up if you wanna chat :)


r/r4rtoronto • • 35m ago

M4F 26M4F #Mississauga - Eater looking for fun NSFW

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26, 6ft, slim, South Asian. Born and raised in Mississauga. I’m clean, laid back and respectful. Decently endowed and uncut. Looking for someone who’s down to get eaten out or down for more if you’re open to it, call your best friend over and both of you lay back and let me eat you out :) I can’t host but I can drive and meet you somewhere! just be honest and able to verify. looking for tonight if possible! Discreet is a must!

no men please


r/r4rtoronto • • 36m ago

M4F 35 M4F# Toronto ~ Curious About CFNM? Let's Connect NSFW

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Hey! I’m a 35-year-old working professional in the Toronto area. I’m easygoing, respectful, discreet, and interested in connecting with a like-minded woman who enjoys exploring her confident, playful, or dominant side.
I have a particular interest in CFNM (Clothed Female, Naked Male) and the dynamic of pleasing, pampering, and serving a woman. I enjoy the idea of a woman being comfortable and confident while I take a more submissive role and focus on her enjoyment.
I value mutual respect, clear communication, trust, and enthusiastic consent. I’m open to seeing where a genuine connection leads, whether that starts with conversation or develops into exploring a shared kink.
If you’re curious, enjoy being treated well, or would like to explore this dynamic with someone respectful and attentive, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what you enjoy.
Looking forward to connecting with the right person.


r/r4rtoronto • • 48m ago

M4F 28M4F #northyork/Scarborough - 5'7" slim fit white guy NSFW

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Hi so to start off I am 5'7 white with brown hair and lots of it (eastern European) I am a slim guy but i am fit since I work out throughout the week, and i have good hygiene. i do believe I am attractive but of course thats up to your own opinion

I am a dom so ideally im looking for a sub, I also like making whoever I am with orgasim multiple times before I do as I like to give pleasure. I am a pretty soft person, caring, easy going.

Im open to any race, I have a preference of Asians but I am open to everyone, prefer that you take care of yourself, work out, you dont have to be skinny but just someone who takes care of themselves is all, also please be hygienic lol.

Im open to trying some kinks you may have, I do like being a little rough but always with consent and wont go too hard, slapping, choking, etc. And if you're not into that, thats ok too im open to being more vanilla and working with your boundaries

I can host, looking for tonight if possible, I will respond to any messages most likely after 5pm. We can meet at a public space first if thats what you're comfortable with, I also drive.

Thank you for coming to my tedd talk haha (my name is not tedd)


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #Barrie - Married AuDHD dad looking for neurospicy partner NSFW

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Hii!

I understand that my tendency to be direct/blunt or to ask a lot of specific questions doesn’t always land well for some people, but I know I can’t be the only autistic person who wants a warm, sexual, and reciprocal connection.

My friends would probably describe me as introverted, self-aware, left-leaning, and easy-going. I think I also come across as earnest and a little insecure from my dry and slightly self-deprecating sense of humour.

As far as interests go, I'm into fantasy, sci-fi, D&D, board games, video games, anime, tv, podcasts, film, music, reading, writing, photography, travelling, mindfulness and meditation, psychology, and hiking.

Physically, I have an endearingly (?) lame alt-nerdy dad vibe going on. I'm short (5'3") with a dad bod, pierced ears, glasses, a beard, and tattoos.

I'm also a fairly sexual person and would love a connection where sex feels ambient, cozy, or even mundane—where we can talk about sexual or kinky things as naturally as if we were chatting about what we had for breakfast. If you've been known to use "functional" in the same sentence as "cum" or some other equally provocative word, we might be a good match.

Although sexual chemistry is important to me, conversational comparability trumps everything else: similar communication styles, equal effort in conversation, etc.

If my post struck a chord with you, feel free to reach out ❤️

Disclaimer: I’m not poly/ENM, and my partner doesn’t know I’m looking. It’s a complicated and nuanced situation, but I understand it’s a dealbreaker for many people.


r/r4rtoronto • • 1h ago

M4F 38M4F#Toronto. Looking for a chill girl for FWB preferably Asian. NSFW

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A bit about myself I'm Caucasian guy I'm 38 but look like a kid a bit lol, I am pretty tall and somewhat Slim body type. I'm very easy going and open-minded and likes to joke around and be silly from time to time I don't take life too seriously like a lot of people do nowadays! I also don't smoke or do any drugs at all! I'm a very clean person in general.

Music I'm into 90s/early 2000 pop music,trance,house music. I'm quite a big fan of movies genres like action, sci-fi. Also I don't weigh 500 lb, on looks out of 10 I would say I'm 6.5 at night time I'm a 8 lol.

I'm just looking for an easy-going girl and who wants a FWB. If I sound interesting to you please feel free to message me.

Thank you!😋


r/r4rtoronto • • 9h ago

TF4M 25 [T4M] #toronto - tipsy trap looking to suck sloppy tnn NSFW

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heyy! im looking for dick to suck tn. im discreet sucking in a ski mask and panties, ill keep it our secret just pull down ur pants and ill do the rest :3

i wanna suck on ur balls and feet, any str8 guy want his first rim job? or wanna try getting fucked by a fem top?

i cant host or drive so u gotta be able to do one
there's pics posted on my profile, send a non-dick one if u wanna chat with me


r/r4rtoronto • • 11h ago

F4M 27 F4M #Vaughan - Looking for cuddle NSFW

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Hi latina here light hair light eyes tattooed arm 5’7 piercings I’m looking to chat and see where it goes with a tall chilean guy rocker type maybe you’re in your thirties tall can put me in my place i have posted on this before but I didn’t find what I was looking for where are the chilean guys in Toronto :3 this ad is real I’m a real girl I’m shy I get anxiety the awkward kind I’m posting on here because I’m honestly just feeling lonely I’m looking to chill with a genuine guy that’s probably feeling lonely to please don’t message me if you’re attached or married


r/r4rtoronto • • 6h ago

M4F 31 M4F #Toronto- 6’5 black male bbc, looking for something casual and fun. More of a pleasure dom(love to please) NSFW

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Hi there. I’m a 31 year old 6’5 man with a nice big dick from Toronto who is looking to have a good time and please a woman who is in need of pleasure ( i have pleasure dom tendencies). I love to make a woman feel good that’s my favourite thing to do ever, big turn on when I make a woman feel amazing . Your pleasure matters to me, however I will take control and make you tap out . Message me if you’re interested in a tall dark and handsome man who isn’t afraid to make the effort to please and you and take control you

PS: i have a very long tongue and I am very tongue talented as well and hung too


r/r4rtoronto • • 7h ago

M4F 28 M4F #Toronto - Permanently moving from Toronto NSFW

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Previously, I have only ever been in long term relationships ( 2 to be exact). With a permanent move to Ottawa imminent this sunday to chase my career goals, logic told me to just keep things light, go on one date around Toronto and pack my bags with zero drama.

The problem is that I have virtually no chill. I have been holding in so much affection, energy and genuine care for way too long that it is basically bursting at the seams. I know myself well enough to realize that even if the plan was to keep it simple, I am in severe danger of catching feelings on date one if the girl is my kinda girl.

To give you an idea; I am 28, 6'2 and have a broad and athletic build. I am definitely not a gym bro, just someone who stays in shape playing competitive soccer and easily loses five hours rallying on a tennis court.

Career-wise, I come from a legal background with a double master's in law and recently stepped away from the field to build my own international trade venture.

I will make plans around coffee or late afternoon dinner. You might get flowers and or a kiss on the hand from the get go. We will plan together from there.

Accepting all races, ethinicities and nationalities for my last date in toronto. So who's going to be the lucky girl bez i am genuinely excited ya know.


r/r4rtoronto • • 8h ago

M4F 38M4F #Toronto - freshly separated and need good sex NSFW

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Seperated from my long time wife and part of the issue was her libido. I have a really high sex drive and am kink friendly. I can’t host but am open to meeting publicly. Im very open and not judgmental and good company. I eat Pussy too becuase I know men who don’t. Message me if you’re a woman and this interests you.


r/r4rtoronto • • 4h ago

M4F 19 [M4F] #Mississauga bored college student looking for some fun NSFW

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Hey all you wonderful people, I am looking for some fun with either a ons or an fwb to realx after a long week. I'm 6'2 lean with a 7inc bbc.Im not picky on age (obviously 18+) or appearance, so shoot shot. Im a big music fan, and i love Marvel/dc. I have a pic on my profile. If you like what you see and want more pics, feel free to dm me. I can't host, but i can come to you.


r/r4rtoronto • • 5h ago

MF4F 27M/27F4F #Toronto - visiting unicorn hunters NSFW

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Wife and I are looking to have our first FFM threesome. She’s bi-curious and has been wanting to try one out for a while now. I’m non-binary (he/they). We’re both 27 and vaxxed. We’re in Toronto for a few weeks and are looking for a ONS or maybe a buddy to have some fun with during our stay. Comment or PM if you’re interested. We’re a little hesitant about using Reddit for this so please send a pic of yourself (non-nude!!!!) in PM if you want a better chance at a response!

We’re looking to playing with you!


r/r4rtoronto • • 5h ago

M4F 20 [m4f] #toronto - virgin looking for someone older NSFW

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hey 20M here, a virgin due to shyness i guess lol? im hoping to find someone older who maybe likes that im less experienced? i like being bossed around too hahaha.

im 5'5 and i think have a more boyish look if that makes sense .

only looking for older women.


r/r4rtoronto • • 10h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] #Toronto. An older man has offered to help you study. But when you come over we begin playing together instead NSFW

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I'm an older man that's offered to help you study, but as soon as you're in my place we begin playing with each other.

Sometimes I'll fuck you hard and rough and other times cuddle fuck you until I'm drained.

I'm white, very athletic with strong arms.

18 or older girls and IRL fun only. We'll chat about safe words and boundaries before we start anything.

Message me and I'll organize our first study session. New students always welcome so message as long as the post is up.


r/r4rtoronto • • 6h ago

M4F 40m4f #GTA BWC Daddy looking for wet brown pussy and ass! NSFW

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I’m a white man with a big thick cock searching for a slutty brown to have sex with! I’m 40 years old , 6’3, Caucasian, 210 lbs, fit, clean, brown hair and brown eyes, easy going, nice big cock, lots of cum. I’m very attracted to brown girls and find them irresistible, particularly those born in India and came to Canada. I’m looking for some slutty Indian pussy or ass to finger, lick and fuck hard. I want to make you cum then let me cum all over your face or your tits or anywhere else you want it! Any age/body type. Send a msg and let’s chat!


r/r4rtoronto • • 10h ago

M4F 42 M4F #Toronto. ISO bratty, brainy fat girl for massages and bedtime stories. NSFW

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I'm straight, six foot one, 190 lbs not counting enough layered charcoal denim to fend crossbow bolts. I'm white (Eastern European mutt) with a short chinbeard and a shaved head. Kind of soft but pretty strong. Smart, gentle, clean, artsy and shy. I'm single with my own cool apartment and without any drama. I can host or come see you.

I'm into scary stories, folk/drone/metal/diy music (especially live), fixing old computers, thrifting, long wanders through the city, cooking for hot babes, and the last four lines of the posthumously-released Leonard Cohen poem where he rips on Kanye West.

I'm looking for a woman who loves to be touched and adored. I've got strong, tireless hands and I think giving massages is about the hottest thing ever. Also really into dirty talk and makeouts. I prefer a slow burn (secretly I am hoping to find a monogamous relationship, GASP) but I'm yearning these days and down to just mess around if you're feeling casual.

Plus-sized only, please. The squishier the better; I'm not going to turn anyone down for just being chunky, but really big girls activate my care and worship brain.

I'm not at all interested in cheaters or being part of a poly situation. A vibe check in a public place is mandatory.

Can share non-scandalous photos immediately, please be willing to do the same.