Ok I may be over thinking this but I'm curious.

I have my first IUD. My string is somewhat long, an inch to an inch and a half. My doctor is aware and says it's better to have it be a bit long rather than short and pokey.

Women with IUD's: do you give a disclaimer to play partners you spontaneously meet at Oasis that you have an IUD and they may feel the string?

Do you especially mention for whoever you are playing with not to pull the string?

Men: generally are you aware of IUD's and would know to be careful not to pull the string during fingering?

Just wonderig how much of a heads up I should give a spontaneous hookup.

For those who don't know, IUD insertion is painful and luckily you only need to do it every 5-8 years depending on the brand of IUD. It would be terrible to have an IUD pulled out during play and have to incur the cost and pain of re-insertion of a new IUD.

Thanks!

It put her right in the mood for what turned out to be another hot Bukkake night 💋💦❤️

We won't be hard to miss

Hey all, I’m wondering if it would be appropriate as a trans guy to go to DTF night? I see the description mentions women who enjoy the company of multiple men. I’m bisexual, with a preference for men. Would it be intruding if I were to attend? Thanks!

Did you know we are having a sexy picture contest online? We are. Come share your best b&w, genital shots and more!

Who’s going Saturday? 33mf4mf can’t wait to see everyone there!

Hi friends! I (32F, white, BBW) will be coming by myself on Saturday October 17th. If you’re a couple or single woman, feel free to reach out so we can try to connect that night ☺️

Hello strangers of Reddit!
Had some success here before so figured I’d try it again!

About me : I live in Toronto, 29, Italian & Spanish, successful career, Hung, Athletic, and looking for a partner in crime!

Going to oasis tonight and looking for someone to connect with.

I make 130k, play tennis and, like festivals, activities, science, finance, the arts, music.

Jack of all trades, master of nothing. I like to dabble in it all!

Wanna do something fun? You name it. Let’s do it!

Now that career is stable, I’m looking for the right company.

I’m down for the no strings side of things…

But ideally I’m looking for something if the vibe is there.

Not looking for anything super serious right away, but I’m not against it either.

If you made it this far. You’re my type! ❤️👑

Had an amazing first date with an insanely hot girl last night. The date went so well that we ended up going running to Oasis.

2 things that absolutely killed the mood for us.

The place was pretty empty when we got in, so some rooms were actually empty.

A couple came into an empty room as we had sex, sat next to us and started talking about everyday life while the guy was just staring at us and occasionally touching himself. Like… why? I mean… I would understand just watching/playing but they were discussing the most trivial things like it was a scheduled touch base at work and we overbooked the last available meeting room.

Secondly… The person responsible for the music - I don’t know what petty sad sex fetish are you into, but trust me - nobody wants to fuck to Whitney or Adele. And I’ve brought it up last year when the mood was absolutely destroyed by The Cardigans, No Doubt and Backstreet Boys. I can make you a great playlist free of charge, but seriously… music is such a big part of setting the mood and mood wasn’t in the air.

The vent is over. Really hoping to come back and not experience that again, but it’s not my first or even second time at Oasis and it seems to be getting less hot with every time I go there.

Thank you!

Weekends, with the insatiable one ❤️

Femdom

M 34 looking to submit. It would be nicer to have company at oasis. DM open!

26 M, not my first time at sex clubs but my first time in Toronto.

As a solo male who is decent looking and takes care of themselves, is it worth going ? Is going alone how you get involved in the "scene".

I'm 37 and my looks are shaved head, muscular / abs with a beard, two tattoo sleeves and a chest tat. Is this normal and will I stand out as someone who is desirable??

I've had experience with couple swaps and threesomes, all just by chance with exes. I've always wanted to explore the scene but never had the opportunity. Came close with an ex but it just never happened. It's hard to find a partner who is willing to get to that level. The talks have always been how my partner was fine with one fun night but not turning it into a lifestyle. Meeting a partner who's into this feels next to impossible via traditional dating. Is going alone as a male how you meet a partner??

Anyways I'm now single and want to try it out but going alone seems kinda daunting.

If I go alone what should I really expect? What should I wear ? Do single guys walk around naked with hard ons ? Do I Rock a bathing suit and just try not to get too excited ? I know it's a very open minded place but id be pretty embarrassed to get excited and weird people out because of it.

Overall I'm actually very shy initially, hence this post asking

I'm a newly arrived English student in Toronto, and I'm thinking about checking out Oasis 11oct, but since my English isn't very good yet, is it worth it?

DM us to exchange face pics if you want to meet 😘

My partner and I are thinking of attending this Tuesday afternoon. Wondering what to expect the day after a long weekend. We would probably be there from open (1 pm?) to 6 pm.

Anyone else going or thinking of going? I haven’t been since the summer.

Hi 23m here I want to visit for my first time and what really got my attention was this coming Sunday femme domme experience night has anyone been to a night like this and if they have and tips. I’ve read going as a solo male don’t be creepy, don’t expect anything just try and make conversations and connections! Any tips will help thank you

As the title suggests, I'm a single straight male that's never been to Oasis and I'm interested in going. Ideally would like to be accompanied by a female and check it out.

I'm 5'10", slim athletic build and have a trimmed beard.

Open to meeting for coffee/drinks beforehand for a vibe check. Let me know if you'd be interested in going. DM me 😊

My wife (f37) and I (m46) attended first timers night on October 2nd. We have never been to a club like this before and our curiosity finally got us to the club. The stag were all really amazing and welcoming. We took the tour late evening and then went out to dinner. When we came back we grabbed some drinks and tried not to look awkward. We are homebodies that don’t get out much because of our personalities and our children. Our sex life is spicy but private. Not really knowing what to expect we made an effort to dress up for each other and look fancy instead of the usual jeans or sweats. We discovered we were overly dressed. 🤭
As the night got busy we enjoyed seeing everyone doing their own thing. Such beautiful people of every description. We tried not to be rude and openly watch couples in their throes of passion. But we also figured if you minded you wouldn’t be in this type of club in the first place.
Being the shy and awkward couple we are, our intention was to attend the club, get into the mood, perhaps play a little with each other, then head back to the hotel and let loose. After the first timers meeting and ice breaker in the ballroom, we hung out on the padded area across from the stage. We were finishing our drinks and looking to head out. But the mood and spirit of the place got to us and we ended up having sex right there. With people all around. I’m sure most of you on here would not be impressed by this. But for us, voyeurism and exhibitionism is completely new to us.
We loved the experience and we will make it back eventually. And if anyone saw a guy in a red dress shirt and black pants have sex with his wife who was wearing a gorgeous brown dress, I hope you enjoyed our rather tame display as much as we did.