r/r4r • • 5h ago

F4M United States 32 [F4M] #Mid-Atlantic US #USA - looking for my friends-to-lovers fairytale

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Hey everyone!

Currently looking for someone to build a friendship with that eventually leads to something more. I'm not in much of a rush as I believe the best relationships are built on friendship (and my hopelessly romantic heart has been put through the wringer using the apps)

Ideally looking for someone with a sweet smile who is kind, inquisitive, confident, and empathetic. It's important that you also indulge in my dorky and silly humor and aren't afraid to be a little cringe. Bonus points if you can speak another language and won't judge my American accent when I try.

Distance isn't an issue for me as long as you're able to travel regularly and are ok with settling down in my state.

Some info about me: homebody but still like to get out of the house semi-regularly. Primary interests are leftist politics, movies/TV/YT, music, but I will still talk about anything and everything. Formerly chronically online, now mildly offline; still a lover of memes and references. Cat person, child-free, not religious, and generally prefer diversity in my dating pool.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/UeJmai1

If you're interested, shoot me a message with your best dad joke :)


r/r4r • • 10h ago

F4A Online 21 [F4R] #Online - Bubbly gamer looking for friends

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Hiii I made this describing a ton of stuff about me https://imgur.com/a/l8K3q8o which explains me veryyyy well and what im like as a person!

im very friendly, a bubbly person so i dont mind carrying conversations if ur worth it!

I'm a total cry baby i sobbed so bad over multiple episodes of greys anatomy (no spoilers im on season 2!!!)

I have 3!! beautiful cats who i adore plus my moms lovely dog!

I need to work on studying more but lately ive been bed rotting cause ive been genuinely super depressed (too depressed to even play on the mc server i love) so hopefully having some friends gives me some motivation!

I consider myself super sweet, I try to be the best person possible even in bad moments and thats the driving force behind my life and my personal purpose! I love to send voice messages and chat about stuff that actually doesnt matter.

I'm a really good friend and am always here for the people I love! I only have my love, my bestie and 4 other friends who i talk to on and off but i'd love to have more people in my corner (and be in yours!) since most of the people in my life are a little busy right now!

im currently in bed curled up next to my girl cat playing phone games!!


r/r4r • • 1h ago

F4M California / New South Wales 29 [F4M] #California #CentralCoast who's down to meet and hang? willing to travel NSFW

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Hey I'm itching to go somewhere for a week, who wants to accompany me or host me or meet me somewhere? Friendship vibes, romance, fun cool easy vibes. Can be low stakes / low pressure, chat first / call first see if we vibe, I'm trying to do something / go somewhere ASAP!

Interests include: hiking, national parks, beaches, walking around, city-life, beers, smoking, sleeping haha. I work fully remote so prob would do that M-F but down to get an airbnb or cabin somewhere with connection and send it for a week or 2 ASAP!!! Lmk if you want to get together

I am 5'7, half Arab, half white, athletic but curvy, brown hair, tan... down to hang


r/r4r • • 4h ago

M4F California / Online 31 [M4F] California/Online Fit Nerdy Guy Looking for His Duo Partner in Life NSFW

2 Upvotes

A little about me:

I love all things nerd related or adjacent. Some of my biggest interests are gaming and anime. I play on PC and have played and enjoyed just about any genre of game and am always willing to try something new. Some consistent ones I play are League of Legends(Masters soloqueue), OSRS, Valorant(Ascendant peak but washed af), and Wardogs lately. Some of my favorites are Terraria and Baldurs Gate 3. As for anime, I have seen a lot. I will often give even some awful ones a longer chance than they deserve. Some of my favorites are One Piece, Frieren, March Comes in Like a Lion, Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood, Naruto, and Jujutsu Kaisen. I’ve never cosplayed or gone to a con before but think it’d be fun. I also love fantasy and most sci-fi in just about any format. I started reading again this year after not really touching anything for a long time. I read through the Mistborn and Stormlight Archive this year and am currently reading through Dungeon Crawler Carl. I am 6 ft 1 and exercise regularly. I am not a gym bro by any means but do make an effort to stay in shape. Most of my friends live in other states and I tend to be a bit of a homebody for the most part. I am left politically, atheist/agnostic, support the rights of all people, and am an LGBTQ+ ally.

What I am looking for:

I am looking for someone that has shared interests with me. I enjoy sharing my hobbies with a partner and vice versa. Like my title implies, I love gaming, and I want a partner that is my duo both in games and in life. Communication is very important to me. I am more introverted especially around people I do not know well, but I know there are people out there that instead of draining my social battery have seemingly been able to give it infinite charge in the past. While looks are not the end all be all for me, they do matter. As such, I would appreciate it if you were willing to share a picture early on talking with me. I have some preferences as I imagine most people do. I like to joke and be a little goofy especially once I warm up a bit to you. I value my time and respect yours. I will try to be pretty upfront whether I feel like you are someone I am vibing with or not. I don't ever want to lead anyone on or waste your time. I am not just looking for random attention. I am actually quite comfortable just doing my own thing. That being said, of course I want to have a partner that enriches my life and me theirs. I just wont force anything that doesn't make sense. I am open to long distance but obviously it'd be nice if you were closer. That being said I don't plan on living in California indefinitely.

I'm including two pictures below:

https://imgur.com/a/glXbQYR

https://imgur.com/a/eC3l8G2


r/r4r • • 5h ago

M4F Australia 32 [M4F] -Australia/Anywhere - Looking for the bane to my existence NSFW

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I'm only half joking...

Anyway, thanks for clicking, reading (and subsequently enjoying) my post. In short (heh) I normally have a full enough social, work and hobby calendar going on but this recent cold-ish weather has been not enjoyable or overly conducive to that. I live alone so the monotony of routine can sometimes get a little... well... monotonous? My plants have thus far proven to be poor conversationalists and my robot vacuum is reticent to engage in much chit chat with me these days and has actually withdrawn and gotten quite bitter. It is not a healthy relationship. I'm basically mostly after someone I can message with during the day and perhaps the evenings. Happy to voice/video chat as well if the vibes feel right.

About me

  • Puts the fun in dysfunctional (that's a joke I am emotionally and life-stylistically stable)
  • I have the comedic range of an ocean (something something depth) and the wit of a freshly sharpened Crayola©️
  • I am able to be attentive and understanding of your needs, preferences and boundaries
  • I am open to taking a contrarian stance on most subject matters in the interest of debate (fight me)
  • I can ramble for the both of us, conversely I can lend a receptive ear and insert gasps and probing questions where needed
  • I have very strong opinions on pizza toppings

What I can offer you

  • A genuine want to learn about you and see if our personalities match
  • The ability to whip up a restaurant quality meal (the restaurant is Dominos)
  • I will say and do increasingly stupid things to try and make you laugh
  • Will humour you when you tell me you enjoy bad things
  • Will apologise when I call you out for liking those bad things after I can't keep a straight face anymore
  • I enjoy eatingᵒᵘᵗ
  • A plethora of board/card/video/mind games
  • The willingness to engage in just about anything at least once
  • A constant positive impression with a balance of logical solutions/ideas and emotional pick me ups/reinforcement

Just so you know what you're getting yourself I have added a bonus section of pink coloured flags that I'm constantly trying to dilute with white

  • Sometimes I struggle to broach serious stern topics without at some point resorting to humour
  • I have the resting facial expressiveness of a dull rock/mineral
  • I am trying to be more forthright and open with myself and my feelings instead of bottling it all in without an escape valve
  • I can sometimes be obtusely impatient in search of short term gratification over long term progress
  • I will eat the last slice of pizza without remorse

I understand people are in different stages of life and searching for different things so am welcoming of just short lived fun time or something ongoing. That said I do however have a very stringent non-negotiable requirement for you

  • Exists

If it sounds like we might get along then send me a message and we can take it from there...


r/r4r • • 22h ago

M4F India / United Kingdom 35 [M4F] #UK/Online - I love the rush you get when you vibe with someone and you're waiting for the next notification. I'd love long term friends from around the world! From India to Italy, Philippines to Peru, Czechia to Canada, Australia to Austria, you get the idea, all over the world is fun! :) NSFW

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Edit - Okay so the reddit flair thing has gone a bit rogue, can confirm I'm from the UK, no one with my incredible talent of getting sunburnt when there is any sort of sunlight, would survive in India, I'd essentially melt if I lived there. The food would be pretty nice, but alas nope I'm in England

TL:DR - I like yapping with people and I think I'm pretty lovely, though I am a bit biased. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, so message me and maybe we get on well? :D

Pretty much title! I have a cold and just feel a bit rough, its super early here and I woke up to go to the toilet, made the terrible mistake of checking my phone and now I'm just laying awake regretting my life choices that have led to me being unable to sleep despite being unwell at 6.30am. Sooooooo, I thought I'd post so I can at least pass the time until I pass out/give up the sleep ghost and go about my day. Location doesn't matter, part of the charm of internet friends is meeting folks that I'd not meet day to day but I'd like long term friends, a long time vibe is the goal as opposed to just one off or short convos

As for myself, I work from home doing a travel insurance job, its mostly mid, but its full WFH and that saves it. My big interest is travel, my wallet hates me so much for it. I've been to Philippines/Singapore/Malaysia over two Asia trips, a lot of Europe as well as Jamaica and Canada. Last year I did Istanbul, Portugal and a Norway cruise, plus a Asia trip. Visited Serbia, Madrid and Poland this year then Budapest on friday next week! I have a cruise with family next year to Greece/Turkey/Malta and a friends wedding in Greece and I'm hoping maybe Asia or Africa next year, fundds permitting, I'm always down for trip buddies so if we vibe I'm in! Beyond that, I'm a pretty keen reader, plus the usual smattering of videogames/sports watching/tv shows/gym (but mostly to offset meals out and a problematic keenness for chocolate). I live at the edge of a town and some of the walks are lovely here too. I've dabbled with painting, taken up and dropped the piano a few times (I used to play when I was younger and was decent and sometimes get the urge to play again).

I always prefer a bit of closure, if we've spoke for a while and your situation changes and you won't be chatting anymore, I hate the ghostly exit, if its early on then fair can't vibe with everyone, but if we've spoke for a while I always feel disappearing is a bit of poor form, but its the internet so it happens.

Intentions wise I'm totally fine with whatever, I like meeting folks, I don't mind if platonic friendships, or if you're open and seeking more of a flirting/benefits etc situation. I'm always open for trip buddies/meeting up if location allows, but naturally purely online friend is the norm. Honestly, I just like meeting people I don't really have a set goal beyond that. Feel free to add your intentions and boundaries and it's all good on my end, thought I'd add this disclaimer in early!

In terms of where to talk, I do prefer to move to apps, I use most of the usual ones but staying here is fine too if necessary. Include your basic details in your message, the usual about me stuff is fine, don't feel the need to match the rambling essay above! :)


r/r4r • • 48m ago

M4F Oklahoma 32 [M4F] #Oklahoma- Plain and simple: affection, intimacy, and companionship between friends. NSFW

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Would prefer local, I know that's a much narrower net, as long as some in person aspect is possible. This is looking for casual anyway.

So to lay it all out there short and sweet. I'm starved for touch, intimacy, affection. All the good shit. If you're the type of person that would be down for a date if we vibe? Complete with hugs, cuddling, and maybe some making out? Becoming eachothers close friends and retreats when we need an escape. And end up with some extra benefits.. Shoot me a message.

I'm a large guy but also a strong guy. I am the type that can pick you up and spin you around mid bear hug without a second thought. I want something with some spark, not just a dry chat. And someone willing to create a friendship that's equally as beneficial as wholesome. I want a reason to make plans and go out on occasion, and someone to torture with my mediocre car karaoke lol. Casual, meaningful, though not necessarily exclusive.

About me in more detail, I'm often up late, I go to the gym on a regular schedule. I am more strength lifting than body builder if that makes any sense, tho I am trying to shape up. Power lifter build, 6'1, short curly/wavey hair, and beard well kept. I game a decent bit too. I am about as polar opposite as you can get from what seems 'standard​' for Oklahoma. Apolitical leaning left, non-religious, never married and no kids.

If that already doesn't exclude me from the pool and you're willing to have some fun banter filled conversations, hear me out if I'm excited by a new lift weight like it's a high score, maybe even hit up the gym or game a bit with me? I'd love to chat. Also truth be told, it would be amazing even if it's casual thing. Actual friends with some extra benefits, and for what it's worth I'm a world class hugger.

So, if you're a witty nerdy gal, not super ingrained in any of the big polarizing topics, also not averse to bearded burly nerdy casual gym guys let's chat! Make some plans. If you are looking for a convo starter, what's your favorite drink lately. Local coffee shop order, quickstop go to in a pinch, whatever!

Even if this is not your thing thanks for reading, and I wish the best for you.


r/r4r • • 56m ago

M4F Online 35[M4F] #Online - I want to share some stories with someone NSFW

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I'm looking at few days with no big plans aside from work. So I figured this is a good time to meet someone new, and hopefully work towards filling a specific void in my life. I am a creative person, and recently have just been really lacking an outlet to express that. So my hope is to find someone who is interested in reading some stories or even just ideas for them. Nothing super long and certainly more conversational. I can describe it better one on one.

I’m laid-back, easygoing, and open. I have no heavy expectations. Just a friendly connection with someone interesting. Think warm chats, good company, and something that makes you smile.

I’m looking for someone chatty, maybe a little weird. I'm also fascinated by people's hidden thoughts, things you don't express to a lot of people (this ties into the creativity thing). The anonymous and casual atmosphere here gives us a unique opportunity in that area I think. So if you want to get something off your chest too, please feel free.

If any of this sounds good, tell me what’s been lighting you up lately, what you’re looking forward to, your hobbies, dreams you have, or just something going on in your life. Single people only please, also please include a name, age, and approximate location in your opening.


r/r4r • • 1h ago

M4F New York 34 [M4F] NYC - Looking for nerdy yapper to call right now, parallel play and spend our nights together

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Word of warning, I am not big on texting, so don't expect me to respond to messages through out my day. I will gladly voice chat for hours on end though

I LOVE talking, I love voice chatting especially, I love sitting on calls together while we do our own thing, and well I like a woman who is needy for attention. If you're up for a call RIGHT now then read below! And if catch feelings, even better I'm just a big nerdy guy who wants to meet a woman who is excitable about some of the things I am or even partakes in some of the same hobbies. Of course, have your own life and interests but something like tabletop rpg's is such a big social thing for me, it would be nice to share for example some of the stuff I enjoy. I live in NYC but I am open to elsewhere for the right partner but before that...

More important stuff Look, I am fat. Not chubby. Just fat. I’m not ashamed of it. I have no health issues. I was mentally and physically exhausted from my career and it made me just well get up in weight. It’s something I’m working on but there you go. I like being with friends. I’m social but more of an extroverted introvert. I like to call people. I like to hang out and watch movies. I like talking over a drink for hours. I have a great group of friends and we’re all a bunch of nerds. And some more stuff central to me. I’m Latino, leftist and look for similar values in a partner.

  • I like animals.
  • I prefer calling over texting but will text
  • I enjoy music but I generally like it quiet near me if I am alone
  • I am 420 friendly, I do like edibles and smoking. It's not something I do regularly but if you are a stoner then even better
  • I wouldn't call myself a raver but I do like going to raves once in a while
  • Love Languages: Spending time together and physical touch
  • I am generally a homebody but if you are outdoorsy, like to be out, I will 90% of the time join you unless if I am feeling socialized out Anyway, that’s me. If you message me, please SEND a selfie, your age, location, and name. I will not respond otherwise.

Please no one sentence intros, I will ignore those.


r/r4r • • 2h ago

M4F Australia / Online 36M4F - Tatted Aussie seeking meaningful flirty connections #Australia #Online NSFW

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36, Bearded, thick & attractive, Reasonably self aware and emotionally intelligent. Located on the East coast of Australia. Aesthetically I've been described as a tatted lumberjack or similar.

Plethora of hobbies, lover of all things books, gaming and working out plus a few more obscure hobbies.

Neurodivergant and obsessed with chasing the dopamine for better or worse. Sometimes I'll follow a rabbit hole online until it's 3am and I'm questioning if it's worth getting 3 hours sleep before work or not l.

Seeking someone to chat with and see where it leads, preference towards something more of a slow burn or flirty companionship

I've had success before so I am confident I'll find someone special once again


r/r4r • • 2h ago

M4F California 34 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Book & film lover, leftist, medieval fencer. Seeking communicative, local FWB NSFW

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Hello there.

I’m 34, 5’11”, dirty blond hair, green eyes. Broad-shouldered, solid build,. I'm definitely working on my fitness (wouldn't say no to a workout buddy). Based in Burbank. My work keeps me physically active and I exercise when I can.

I’m looking for something casual and low-pressure. Let’s get to know each other without expectations and let attraction grow naturally.

Physical chemistry matters to me, but so do communication and mutual enthusiasm. I appreciate someone who’s comfortable saying what she likes, and staying engaged in the moment.

As for you, I’m interested in meeting someone who’s curious about the world and has interests of her own. I’d love to hear about your hobbies, the book you recommend to everyone, or the movie that always gets you.

Ideally you live reasonably near Burbank. I'm looking for something ongoing and I think that would be easier if traveling to see each other isn't a problem.

I’m single, recently tested, can host or travel, and would be happy to exchange SFW pictures after we say hello.

A few things about me:

I work in the film industry but, thanks to the current state of things, I’m also in trade school pursuing a potential career change. The film industry attracted me because I genuinely love movies. I love when a movie can affect me deeply or make me think. The Lord of the Rings trilogy still makes me cry every time. I’ve been lucky enough to live the Hollywood dream for over a decade, creating those experiences for others. I'm grateful for the time I've spent doing a really cool job and I’m ready to move to a new career on my own terms.

I’m politically active and pretty far left. I can happily spend hours talking politics, history, labor, or some obscure bit of trivia if that’s your thing.

A few years ago I picked up historical fencing and completely fell in love with it. I feel a living connection to the past when I recreate a technique someone wrote in a manuscript 600 years ago.

I’ve also recently gotten into brewing my own mead. I guess I’m going for a full medieval experience! It is really fun though. Trying out recipes, seeing how the mead changes as it ages. I wish it didn’t take years, but it gives me something to look forward to.

I read a lot. My favorite author is Ursula Le Guin. I was inspired by the politics of The Dispossessed and later fell in love with the Taoist philosophy of her Earthsea series. I’m always trying to be more like Ged. I love swapping book recommendations, especially if you’ve got something strange or unexpectedly good. I often have bookmarks in two books at once. Right now I'm reading Easy Street by Ron Perlman and Bad Girls by Camilla Sosa Villada.

If any of this sounds interesting, send me a message! I'm excited to hear from you. :)


r/r4r • • 2h ago

M4F Online 24 [m4f] #online looking for new friends

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Heyy people of Reddit!

I used to have an account here but I had to make a new one. I’m 24m from the United States and I love meeting new people from anywhere in the world. I’m big into gaming, nature, music, and working on trucks and cars. You’ll have to learn more about me when you message!

Id love to meet some new people from anywhere in the world, I don’t care about time zones or anything. Just as long as you are talkative and can hold a good conversation and you answer relatively quick, as I answer nearly instantly most times. I love learning about new cultures and countries. Also I’d love to meet some people that might be gaming buddies as well! Whether you have the same hobbies or completely different, don’t be afraid to reach out and message me!

If you made it this far, tell me what your favorite fruit is so I know you read this whole thing.


r/r4r • • 3h ago

M4F California 25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Tall Athletic Wasian Looking to Make New Connections or More To Enjoy The Autumn and Beyond NSFW

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Hey all,

Hope everyone is having a good week and enjoyed the rain this past weekend and a bit of cool weather. Can’t believe it was 90 degrees again today but hopefully that is the last of it for the year!

I’m looking to make some fun new connections, some interesting conversations, or possibly even have some irl/online fun . Whether the intentions are more friendly at first, casual or something more consistent . I’m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us.

Would love to have something ongoing whether that be chats or hanging out, but open to short term/one off convos too!

I love hiking, trying new foods/cafes, and soccer/sports in general as some of my regular interests. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball and hike buddy as well : )

If you’re into tall, athletic, wasians or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out!

On the spicy side. I consider myself a switch, I really enjoy female pleasure and making a woman happy, so I would find a woman who would love my assistance.

Honestly though would mainly just would love a cuddle buddy. If this catches your eye let me know and maybe it could even turn it into a more regular thing

I’m 6’1 with brown hair, brown eyes, and a fairly athletic build. I’m open to chatting with people from anywhere around the world, younger or older! But would love to catch some people locally though in OC/LA ( as it’s always more fun when you’re close by

Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my DMs! Just feel free to let me know what vibes you’re looking for in your first few messages :)


r/r4r • • 3h ago

M4F Massachusetts 58 [M4F] #Boston “You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation”. — Plato NSFW

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Tall, fit, married gentleman seeking a discreet encounter, or LT play with a mature woman that is smart and playful.

I prefer someone 35+ in age and fit.

Energetic with a passion for life, seeks fun people to meet and explore with. I have refined tastes, charm, and an appreciation of other cultures developed through countless travels abroad.

I enjoy dancing, carousing, and laughter. Do you enjoy hiking green pastures, experimental art, and/or crafted cocktails?

Open to a slow burn online before meeting, creating rapport and the semblance of a friendship is highly desired. Passion and satisfaction come easier that way.

Pics for Pics and you have an awesome day.


r/r4r • • 3h ago

M4F California 31 [M4F] #CA #BayArea - Looking for my Forever Person

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Hello! I’m 31, living in central California and hoping to meet someone to connect with on a deeper level!

I’m 6’0”, pretty fit, shaved head, blue eyes.

I haven’t dated anyone in 5 years because the last person really hurt me, but that’s all in the past and I’d love to meet someone who I can share in the joys of life with.

I love drawing, music, anime, manga, video games, going to the gym, occasional travel, and of course your smile 🫵🏻. I’m a bit of a homebody / introvert, but I’m definitely not opposed to going out or socializing, it’s just not the first thing on my mind.

I’m a graphic designer and operations manager for work currently. My passion project is a comic/manga that I love working on when I have time. I do live on my own and support myself 👌🏻.

I’m someone who values my health a lot due to many circumstances that caused me great harm, so I’m hoping to meet someone who is with me on working together to lift each other up, physically or mentally.

If any of this piques your interest please shoot me a dm! I’m willing to entertain something that starts online and grows, but if you’re relatively nearby even better. Thank you for your consideration, I look forward to talking.


r/r4r • • 3h ago

M4F Massachusetts 37 [M4F] #Massachusetts / Rhode Island / US — Nerdy Cosplayer Hoping to Finally Meet Someone

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Hello, I’m a 37-year-old guy from New England. It wasn’t for lack of trying — shyness, bad timing, and life just kept getting in the way. But I’ve been working on myself, opening up more socially, and I’m genuinely ready to connect with someone.

A bit about me:

Firstly I have some sort of fame, if thats what you call it. Ive been in the news in Boston and Matt Sheer a reporter social media covered it. I’m a huge nerd who loves conventions, gaming, and cosplay. It’s been an amazing community for me, and I’ve met some great friends through it. I cosplay characters like Eddie Munson from Stranger Things and Leon from Resident Evil. I stay active, take care of myself, and oddly enough, I’m freakishly lucky with raffles and giveaways (no clue why, but I’ll take it).

I’m looking for someone kind, patient, and down-to-earth. You don’t need to cosplay — just be someone who enjoys nerdy stuff or at least doesn’t mind it. I’m not expecting perfection; I just want a genuine connection with someone who understands what it’s like to navigate dating later than most.

If you’re local, maybe we could start with something simple like coffee. No pressure — just two people seeing if there’s a spark.

Cosplay pics:

https://imgur.com/Y5ECn4T

https://imgur.com/a/Cn9Prn2

If this resonates, feel free to message me. I’d really like to meet someone real.


r/r4r • • 3h ago

M4F Online 29 [M4F] #online #USA - Looking for someone to match my weird and nerdiness, gamers especially NSFW

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So as the title suggests I'm looking for my fellow weirdos, I've tried before to just meet people while keeping my weirdness to myself but it never felt entirely genuine and what I appreciate most about a person is honesty.

So a little about me, I'm from the USA and I'm 29, hitting my dirty thirty next year and I would appreciate someone closer to my age but 21+ is the least I ask for. I love so many genres of music, I listen to a lot of music as work to help me get through the day but if I had to pick some genres I usually lean towards it would probably be alt/indie/punk or honestly anything sad lol. As for something more specific I've been listening to a lot of Electric Callboy and Public Works lately.

I'm really an open book, I'm willing to talk about anything and everything, from moral stances to the things that make you laugh unreasonably hard, and everything in-between. This is a judgement free zone and I also support LGBTQ+.

I am a gamer at heart, my whole family was gamers growing up so I've been around video games a lot in my life. My dad got me into WoW and my sisters got my into the Sims so my taste in games is all over the place, but I enjoy a good story more than often over other things, not to say I need a story to enjoy something though. Some of my recent favorites/played games include:

  • Expedition 33
  • Slay The Spire 2
  • World of Warcraft
  • Darktide
  • Blood of the Dawnwalker
  • Bloons TD6
  • Vermintide 2

As for the more NSFW stuff, I'm not exactly looking for something between *us*, but one of my guilty pleasures is adult visual novels, I'm currently playing through Being A DIK season 3 and I enjoy the humor and characters and it's not just for the explicit scenes, I genuinely enjoy the stories.
I would really enjoy streaming or watching each other play games or watch shows together. I've recently gotten back into anime and would love to watch some with someone, though those are the only shows I'm interested in watching together.

If any of this sounded even remotely interesting please reach out, I am an open-minded person who wears their heart on their sleeve and I'm genuinely interested in meeting you! Hope to hear from you soon.


r/r4r • • 4h ago

M4F New York / Online 28 [M4F] #NewYork/#Online Open to any and all, would love to talk to new people and see where things may lead!

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Not looking for anything specific but not against anything either. Whether it be a quick conversation, ongoing friendship, or anything more and in-between. I'm terrible at talking about myself, but I'll give some spark notes. I'm a writer, so I also read A LOT currently reading Red Seas Under Red Skies, The Name of the Wind, and Between Two Fires. Love movies and TV as well, but I've been in a bit of a viewing slump. My favorites are Twin Peaks, The Expanse, Bobs Burgers, and The Evil Dead movies. I do play games but a bit sporadically but would be down to do something if you'd like! Big fan of cold and rainy weather, and I do daydream on occasion of becoming a mountaintop hermit. My opening karaoke song is usually Hound Dog by Elvis. It sets the vibe.


r/r4r • • 4h ago

M4F Texas 35 [M4F] #Houston, Texas. A small essay about my personality and interests, and what I'm looking for. Hope to hear from you.

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  • I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
  • I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone someday. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though.
  • PC games are also an enjoyable pastime for me on occasions. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game.
  • One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of.
  • Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more.
  • I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds.
  • As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am mostly shy and quiet, with an introverted personality. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and freer.
  • All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
  • With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me.

r/r4r • • 7h ago

M4F Ontario 30 [M4F] #Toronto - Stressed physician looking for someone unexpected NSFW

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Just dealing with a stressful period at work, but have a bit of free time. Lately, I’ve felt a bit burnt out and miss that feeling of someone who I feel excited by. I have had the desire to meet someone who catches me off guard for a while now. I crave that sense of losing control. Forgetting about everything else and just focussing on someone. Looking to meet IRL if we click.

I tend to be interested in people who are passionate, kind hearted and silly at times. It’s hard for me to define, but really it comes down to someone I find interesting, who I enjoy exploring and focussing on. I’m a big proponent of letting things develop naturally, and don’t have a “type” per se. The key is mutual trust and respect.

In terms of interests, I’m an aspiring fiction fantasy writer. I enjoy classical mythology and paleontology as an amateur. Animal facts are always fun.

I’m an avid runner, either a 10 K every other day or swimming a few K. I used to teach kickboxing, play football and swim competitively.

Engaging topics like psychology, philosophy or any new things are always a good time. But only if balanced with the driest possible humour. I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi TV/games. But can appreciate pretty much anything with strong writing, characters or lore.

If appearance matters I’m 6 ft with full black hair, broad shoulders and what has been described as a “capable” build. Generally considered attractive, I’m happy to trade pics if you’d like. Especially if you’re worried I’m an android, so I can prove I have no putrid organic components.

It feels like I’m monologuing so I’ll leave it at that. Don’t hesitate to reach out, low expectations besides being nice and having fun.


r/r4r • • 23h ago

F4M Arizona 32 [F4M] Arizona or US/Canada only would love a long term monogamous relationship

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Leading with a description since I know attraction is important:
I’m 5’3, Caribbean. I’m not fit but I value my health and take care of myself inside and out. I like to cook and mainly eat at home. I’m available and stable emotionally. I don’t use any drugs and very rarely drink alcohol.

https://imgur.com/a/mW5b4Es

Currently living in AZ. I’m kind and reserved. I love free flowing conversations. I’m shy, I’m very much a realist, laid back and stay out of drama. I do admit that I am a crier in the context of emotional movies and stories 😅 I’m definitely a tender but confident and whole/fulfilled woman. I’m not political or religious.

I enjoy doing things from movies to fishing. I like to spend time with loved ones, farmers market, write and listen to music. Im not into gaming so much anymore. Don’t mind at all if you are. Basically, I like Star Wars, Tim Burton as well as Stephen King. I understand that having some things in common is great but it’s also nice to have a few different interests.

I’d like something consistent and long term. I have accomplished a majority of my big goals but believe in always making progress in life. So growth with someone is always great. I have a steady career and would like someone who has the same. I’d prefer someone between 28-40

A relationship where we can laugh with and at each other would be amazing! I like to have good communication. I’d like someone that enjoys banter and is honest. Who is also kind, patient and supportive.

Please be ready to share a clear face photo when the chat is accepted to gauge physical compatibility and share some information about yourself. Time is precious. I’m not desperate by any means but I’d like to find my person. I would also like to have a phone call pretty early on.
I wfh and have a ton of free time.

If you read all of this include a 🫶 in your chat
I don’t participate in most social media. I’m ok with distance. But the goal is to meet. Again US/Canada only

If post is still here I haven’t met anyone yet


r/r4r • • 1h ago

M4F Pennsylvania / Online 22 [M4F] Pennsylvania/Online, looking for something serious

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Hello!

A bit about me: I am white, 6 feet tall with dirty blonde hair, and green eyed with an average build. Finally graduated college (yayyyy!) I love sports (especially soccer). In my free time, I play video games, and enjoy spending time with my family and going on trips occasionally. I am really into watching horror stuff: shows, movies, YouTube. I am shy, but I can get more comfortable with you once I get to know you better.

What I'm looking for:

Hopefully a future partner (if we click), if not, a good friend at least. Someone that is honest, and takes good care of themselves. Someone that can text often and is over the age of 19. Someone from the US or Europe.

(Pictures of what I look like)

https://imgur.com/a/RYQcCrj

https://imgur.com/a/daG4jhb


r/r4r • • 4h ago

M4F New York 33 [M4F] #NYC #LongIsland - Seeking Consistent FWB NSFW

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Hey, thanks for checking out my post! As mentioned in the title I'm a 33M seeking a consistent FWB. Ideally a once a week or more thing, especially if the chemistry is right. Also open to complete NSA depending on the situation. Although, I do value having a bond, even casual, since that generally makes the whole experience better.

I'm located in NY on Long Island, I have my own place and drive. I'm DDF, single, respectful, and drama free. I can freely host, come to you, or get a neutral space.

I'm Italian with a very Mediterranean look - dark shorter wavy/curly hair, green eyes, scruffy short beard, body hair, sharp features, 5'6", 175LBS. Avid weightlifter, but not super lean like a traditional bodybuilder. Body photo on profile and willing to exchange face and more.

Here are a few things about me, if anything catches your eye feel free to message me and we can see where things go!

I have a wide range of interests, am very open minded, and easy going. So whether you're a homebody or like to be out often I can mesh with both. Currently, I have three main hobbies I spend my time on - weightlifting, playing guitar and gaming. I'm in the gym 5 or 6 days a week moving to a more longevity focused lifting routine and would appreciate the occasional gym partner. Music wise, I've been playing guitar since 2010 with my main listening genres to be classic rock and hip hop. I love live music and make sure I hit a handful of concerts every year. Lastly, even in my old age I still enjoy playing video games and built a new computer recently. I compete in tournaments for some of my favorite titles and it's a way I can stay connected with friends despite how busy everyone's lives have become. I am not a drinker but I am 420 friendly and will gladly smoke you up on a night out. I also like trying new restaurants, grabbing coffee and something as simple as a walk on a nice day. I am by no means an academic but I do love Ancient History, Philosophy, and Science plus all the weird nuanced conversations that come along with those topics.

Intimacy wise I am dominate leaning but attentive lover. My focus is always on my partners pleasure as it vastly increases mine so please be vocal about what you like or dislike, I very much value open communication. I am kink friendly and non judgmental even if something is a "no" for either of us. I will save most of this for DMs but here are mentions of a few basic things I'm into to see if we have some overlap: giving oral, squirters, creampies (not breeding), cum play, public play, light BDSM, toys, recording, and free use.

I am clean and tested and will always opt for protection unless a connection becomes a consistent trusted thing.

Hope to talk soon!


r/r4r • • 10h ago

M4F Denmark 27 [M4F] #Zealand, Denmark - Looking for cuddles and hygge

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I'm a 27-year-old nerdy guy from Denmark, a height of 183 cm, with a humor that can tend to be a bit dry and a soft spot for cuddles.

I'm very introverted, but I enjoy good conversations, making people smile, and spending quality time together. In my spare time I enjoy gaming, software development, technology, board games, and skimboarding. I'm much more of a one-on-one person than someone who enjoys big gatherings.

I’m looking to find someone to share some cozy and hyggelige (Danish word) evenings with. Maybe watch a movie, some snacks, a warm blanket (if we really click) and cuddling up together on the couch. Maybe holding hands, playing with each other's hair, or simply enjoying being close without needing to do anything.

I do have my affectionate side, although I can be a little shy about showing it at first. I'm not always great at taking the initiative, mostly because I tend to overthink whether the affection is welcome and usually don’t know the signals sent or play it safe and straight up ignores them in case, I read them wrong. So, someone who doesn't mind making the first move occasionally would make me smile. 😊

I'm not looking to rush into a relationship or put expectations on anything. I'd just love to meet someone I click with and share some genuine closeness.

I'm based on Zealand, but I'm happy to travel a bit for the right person.

If a hyggelig (cozy) evening with a shy, nerdy guy sounds appealing, I'd love to hear from you! Tell me a little about yourself. 😊


r/r4r • • 11h ago

M4F Spain 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

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I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.