Hi Reddit! I'm 25 and I'm from Dublin. I have a bachelors degree in chemistry and currently unemployed. I'm also a triplet.

In my free time, I like video games, chess, reading, watching YouTube and listening to music. I also like sci fi and am a fan of Doctor Who. I'm into DC and Marvel as well. I'm big into travelling and enjoy travelling across Europe and exploring different cities. So far, I've visited 20 countries: United Kingdom, Spain, Portugal, Austria, Germany, Italy, Croatia, Slovenia, Slovakia, Hungary, Bulgaria, Finland, Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania and the United States. I plan on visiting more in the future. Oh, and I also like skiing.

I am looking for someone that shares the same interests with me particularly travelling and skiing and would like to explore more of Europe and the world. I am attracted to brunettes with a healthy weight (but not too underweight or too much overweight). I prefer someone between 22 - 28 years old and I'm looking for someone from Ireland, Europe and the United States, but I'm open to long distance with the right person.

I’m a 51-year-old man in the Miami area looking to connect with well-endowed bisexual or married men interested in a discreet daytime encounter. I value privacy, discretion, mutual attraction, and a comfortable, relaxed atmosphere where we can enjoy ourselves without unnecessary complications. If you’re someone who needs to keep things particularly private, I understand and respect that completely. No pressure, no judgment, and no expectations beyond what we mutually agree on. Condoms are a must, and good hygiene and sexual health are important. Communication and respect go both ways. If this sounds like something you might be interested in, feel free to reach out with a little about yourself. Let’s chat privately and see if we’re a good match.

Morning Everyone!

As the title says, I'm looking for an online only FWB type arrangement. My life is way too busy to go out and meet people, but I still feel the very human desire for companionship. Hence the "online" bit of the title.

A little about me: I'm a 32 year corporate drone that lives in the NY area. My interests include netflix, video games, reading, listening to way too much music, going out with friends  and other things you can find out by sending me an orange envelope!

Kinkwise I'm pretty open to most things, but anal, light-moderate bondage, being teased, orgasm denial/edging, watching/being watched and being ridden. are my main ones. My main turn ons are panties and lingerie, nice ass, and a  good personality (mainly someone who is chill and easy to talk to) My limits are the usual weird stuff like scat, surreal stuff, watersports, and so on. If you've got a kink and want to see what I think of it, please ask! I'm pretty open-minded about giving new things a try provided it's not one of my limits. Couples are welcome to message me as well! 

What I want from you is just someone who is single and willing to talk and get off every so often. We don't have to talk every day or anything like that, I understand that most people have lives and are not on the internet 24/7. Just want someone I can have stimulating conversations with and who would like to get off together as well. 

If any of this catches your eye, send me some orange and lets see what happens!

Hey hey! I'm a 25-year-old guy from Texas, the yeehaw state, and I'm hoping to find a sweet, confident woman who might be looking for her very own affectionate good boy. Bonus points if you happen to be a Mommy Dom with a soft spot for a guy who loves attention, praise, and making you smile!

A little about me! I'm naturally affectionate, talkative, a little goofy, and admittedly a bit clingy once I get comfortable with someone. I love texting throughout the day, sending random messages about whatever pops into my head, checking in to see how you're doing, and sharing the occasional meme or video that reminds me of you. Basically, if we're getting along, there's a good chance you'll see my name pop up on your phone quite a bit! Of course, I'd love for that energy to go both ways. I really appreciate a woman who enjoys messaging me just as much as I enjoy messaging her.

I'm also a big fan of praise, both giving and receiving it! If you've had a rough day and need someone to remind you how wonderful you are, I'd happily do my part. And if you enjoy making a good boy blush with a few sweet words, well, I certainly wouldn't complain. I'm a sucker for affection, reassurance, playful teasing, and those little gestures that make you feel wanted even when you're miles apart.

As for my interests, I love anime, manga, and cartoons. My second language is basically references, so if you remind me of something from a show, game, or random internet video, there's a decent chance I'll send you the clip immediately. You've been warned! I listen to all kinds of music, and my Spotify favorites are an absolute mess of different genres, although pop music and video game soundtracks are definitely among my favorites.

Speaking of games, I'm usually playing something on my PS5, Steam Deck, phone, or Ayn Thor. I have a soft spot for classic games, especially older PlayStation and GameCube titles, and I enjoy tinkering with technology and modding games whenever I get the chance. I'm a bit of a techie, so if you ever want to hear me ramble about something gaming related, you've found your guy!

Now, what am I actually looking for?

I'd love to meet a woman who's confident, affectionate, playful, and enjoys taking the lead. Someone who can be a little bossy, tease me when I'm being a goofball, give me praise when I've earned it, and occasionally say something that leaves me blushing at my phone. However, I'm especially interested in a soft Mommy Dom dynamic. I'm drawn to the caring, nurturing side of that relationship just as much as the dominant side.

I want someone who can make me feel safe, appreciated, and wanted while still having that confident energy I find so attractive. Someone who enjoys taking care of her good boy, offering reassurance, being affectionate, and guiding things in a way that feels natural for both of us. I love the idea of a woman who can tease me one minute and be incredibly sweet to me the next. A little playful authority mixed with plenty of warmth sounds wonderful to me.

More than anything, though, I want a genuine connection. I'd love for us to talk about our days, share our interests, laugh at stupid jokes, flirt, and occasionally end up having those late-night conversations where neither of us wants to say goodnight. I want to learn about you as a person, not just the dynamic we're interested in exploring. Communication, trust, mutual effort, and respecting each other's boundaries are important to me. I'd rather build something real at a comfortable pace than force a connection that isn't there.

I'm happy to start online and see where things go. Age isn't necessarily a dealbreaker if we click and want similar things. Whether you're into gaming, anime, or completely different hobbies, I'd love to hear about them. You don't have to share all my interests to get along with me!

So, if you're a sweet but confident woman who likes affectionate guys, enjoys receiving as many messages as she sends, and thinks having a slightly clingy good boy around sounds appealing, why not say hello?

Tell me a little about yourself, what you enjoy, or what being a soft Mommy Dom means to you. You can even start by telling me what your day has been like. I'm not always the best at coming up with questions, but I genuinely enjoy getting to know someone once we get talking!

Hopefully, your future favorite good boy is right here. I guess there's only one way to find out. ❤️

Are you a girl in the Albany NY area who wants to have great blowjob skills to impress and satisfy your partners, but you are shy, introverted, insecure, embarrassed, and/or inexperienced? Let's fix that!

I'm a patient, friendly, supportive older man who will take the time to teach you and answer all of your questions. You will be given the praise and thoughtful feedback you need to gain confidence in your abilities... and yourself. Safe, low-key, discreet, no strings attached, no judgements, no pressure, no hurry.

ME:

• Married straight white male, 6'0 / 180#, full head of blond hair, blue eyes
• Good looking (or so I've been told) with a pretty OK dad bod
• Discreet, clean/DDF, friendly, considerate, attentive, well educated, great sense of humor
• Not a creep, stalker, or axe murderer... just a nice guy

YOU:

• Cis female
• Clean/DDF

Bonus points if you:

• can host
• love to French kiss
• are very submissive
• love huge age gaps

To prove that you actually read all of this, your message should include your age, location, and favorite cartoon.

Spending plenty of time on my own has its perks, but things can definitely get a bit quiet. I really enjoy my life, but nothing quite replaces a genuine connection. I’m looking for someone with sharp banter who can make hours feel like minutes and give me a reason to actually look forward to my phone lighting up with a notification.

A Bit About Me:

* Physical: 6'1", solid/broad build, short brown hair, full beard, and a few tattoos.

* Vibe: Easygoing and low-pressure. I’m just as comfortable diving into deep, late-night conversations as I am trading playful teases and keeping things light.

What I’m Looking For & What I Offer:

I want to create a space that’s fun, genuine, and completely judgment-free. Whether you're looking for a romantic spark, a late-night confidant, or just a solid hype man, my inbox is open.

* Real Connection: Looking for a woman with a sharp sense of humor, a warm heart, and her own drive. Someone who can hold her own in a conversation, laugh off a long day, and isn't shy about a little flirtation.

* A Daily Confidence Boost: Social media pushes ridiculous standards on women, and it’s draining. I want to be a reminder that you are great as you are. Need a second opinion on an outfit, a cheerleader after a rough day, or someone to make you feel truly desired? I'm happy to be your personal hypeman.

* Safe, Judgment-Free Space: Big fan of roleplay and casual banter. If you’ve been curious to test out a scenario or explore a new kink, we can do it in a safe, comfortable way.

Ground Rules:

* Total Privacy: Your confidentiality is essential. Everything we talk about stays strictly between us.

* Body Positivity: Zero requirements. All shapes and sizes are appreciated here—uniqueness is a good thing.

* Staying On-Site: I prefer keeping things on Reddit chat until we’ve established a solid connection.

If you're looking for depth, good humor, and solid conversation, send a message my way. Tell me a little about yourself and drop your favorite song so I know you made it this far!

Hey. My name is Julian and I am here to search for a relationship.

About me: 32, born and raised in Germany, 1,78m tall (5'10) and chubby. Brown hair, beard, glasses, blue eyes. Feel free to ask me for pictures.
Shy, introverted, big time overthinker. Mostly sarcastic, kind most of the time, weird mix of dark and juvenile humour. Depressed but working on it (I don't expect you to be my therapist). I don't drink, smoke or do any sort of drugs. I'm a winter person (with a winter birthday) and don't like summer/heat. Non-vegetarian/vegan, atheist and left-leaning politically.
I speak English and German, might learn other languages in the future. I'm a trained chemist with a bsc in chemistry. Some would call that educated. Know how to drive a car and motorbike. I go to the gym to work on my weight and currently try to do that more regularly after a big motivation crisis.
I only have a few, mostly homebody, hobbies. Gaming (mostly Singleplayer), reading (nowadays mostly fantasy) and watching streams/videos. Feel free to suggest me a nice hobby I would maybe enjoy, I have been searching for one for a while. My taste of music is mostly Rock/Alternative Rock. Haven't travelled in a while but would want to. Especially to Japan, Canada and Northern Europe.
I do like cats a lot. Grew up in a dog family but switched to cats now.
Most important is that I am childfree. I don't have or want children. I do have my reasons and you can ask about them if you want to. Feel also free to ask about my red flags or anything you want to know about that I forgot..

Who I am searching for: Most important point here is that she should also not have or want children ever. Age range of 25 to 35. Height doesn't matter to me. Nationality doesn't matter as well, I'm fine with any. Religion doesn't matter as long as you don't try to convert me. I do think that physical attraction matters (and I have clear preferences) and I would want to see/exchange pictures fairly early to see if we would fit. Someone in or around Germany or wanting to move here would be nice. I currently don't plan to move to another country. Other than that I don't have anything else that is needed. Just come as you are but please don't come with spiders. I have arachnophobia.
I do, however, imagine this relationship to not be codependent. We should still be individuals doing our own things, partners that support each other in whatever we do. For that reason I also don't want someone that is too clingy.

Now if you have any more questions, want to get to know me or think you know someone that would, feel free to write me or share my post. If you do decide to write me, please do so with more than a "hi" or similar. At least give me some basic information and use the password I hid in my post (if you found it). I hope you have a great day.

Hi there! I feel like it's about time I put myself out there again, because frankly, why not?

Basics about me: twenty-five years old, cis male, born and living in Poland. I'm a college student on a path to becoming a data analyst, a huge nerd, and an introvert. I'm an easygoing person with a dorky sense of humor; my comfort zones are one-on-one settings or small groups of close friends. I'm definitely a much better listener than a talker. The kind of guy who remembers the little details.

Appearance-wise, I'm 5'9"/1.75m, lean (67 kg/147 pounds) with pale skin, blue eyes, a well-kept mustache, glasses, and a full head of blond hair. I'm usually described as nerdy or cute by others, so expect a mix of those two.

I'm a huge gamer, into stuff like League, PoE1/2, WoW, Stardew Valley, BG3, and many more. Gaming nights are frequent for me, so I'd love to have someone to share them with, happy to play together or simply stream what I'm playing. I like fantasy books and cheesy superhero movies; board games, mahjong, and nowadays, less often, comic books and manga. Not the biggest gym rat, but I do lift. I also enjoy bike rides and relaxing walks in nature (though it's starting to get a bit too cold for my liking here). Currently I'm reading The Fires of Heaven by Robert Jordan.

What I'm looking for: I'm single (like, duh?), straight, and monogamous, so I'm searching for a genuine long-term connection with those criteria in mind. I'm hoping to meet a wonderful woman who's also intentional about her dating goals and has enough free time that staying in touch feels easy, not like a chore. I'm open to long-distance, as some of the best connections I've had were with people on the other side of the world (though realistically, someone at least in Europe would make things much easier).

I've noticed I tend to click best with women older than me. As for why, I'm not exactly sure (maybe I'm a millennial trapped inside a zoomer's body? That's my leading theory at least). I do know I vibe well with people who are warm, straightforward, and know what they want. A good sense of humor is pretty much the hottest thing possible in a partner. My preference here would be someone in their 30s or 40s.

Other important things about me: I'm non-religious (raised catholic, had a falling out with the church, not looking to go back), don't smoke (really don't like the smell), and don't do drugs (you can be 420 friendly, I don't mind, just don't pass me the blunt). I do drink occasionally though (admittedly I get drunk way too easily, so I also do that in moderation). I'm leaning toward not having kids of my own.

If you made it this far, I'd like to thank you for taking the time to read my ad; if anything caught your interest, feel free to reach out and tell me a little bit about yourself. I'd love to hear from you.

I am looking to get to know someone to build a relationship with.

About me: I am 25 years old, white, 1.86m tall, i am of average build, brown hair/eyes and have a short trimmed beard.

I am an aerospace engineer who is trying to start a company and get his masters at the same time (no i dont hate myself it seemed fun!!). I absolutely love walking!!!! I walk anywhere, nowhere or without reason, my goal is to walk all the way to Rome some day. I love building or thinkering on stuff, like going to the gym or hanging out with friends and discuss so many random topics. I used to game but sadly have less time for it.

I would really like to get to know someone who i could have a healthy relationship with. I have had semi "relationships" before that were very toxic and stopped me from dating for awhile

The person i am looking for idealy is:

Between 18-30

Also looking for a long term relationship

Fit/Healthy

Is living close to/in Europe or America

Feel free to send me a message/introduction

NSFW because I’d like to talk about sex at some point down the line, it’s important like anything else in a healthy relationship. Quick FYI I’m kinky/dominant, love affection and am very loving with my partner. Details of we hit it off.

I’m Danny! 37, 5’8” I have four tattoos, and glasses and I’m single. I’m interested in a relationship but am open to making new friends (no men, sadly most of them just want one thing and I’m not into that nor interested).

I have a small group of very close friends, I believe in quality over quantity any day. I’m monogamous, love my partner with my whole heart and soul(when I have one). I believe a relationship is only good when they’re your best friend too.

I’m laid back, pro people’s rights/awareness of mental health and the like. I don’t particularly believe in a higher entity but would respect your choices. I do like watching a sermon on Sundays.

I’m looking for someone emotionally available, likes to talk and text, is emotionally intelligent. A woman that likes affection, spending time together and apart too (nothing wrong with doing your own thing)

Listening to an old metal songs.

https://imgur.com/a/jvTwwLK

https://imgur.com/a/3aukBMY

I’m 420/alcohol/tobacco friendly but I don’t do anything by choice

I LOVE to travel so distance isn’t an issue to me

Oh. I should mention I had my teeth removed to get dentures working on getting my dentures but the dental office haven’t called me
Back. I’ve gone to them recently and am awaiting a call.

Also I’m a dad of 2 they live with their mom since she lives far away.

Currently I’m playing Crimson Desert, Final Fantasy 14 and Neon Abyss 2

Just a heads up I’m not interested in men.

I’m an open book so you can ask what ever you want.

Hey! I’m looking to meet some new people to chat with from time to time. My weekdays are usually pretty slow at work, so if nothing decides to break, I have a ton of downtime. I'm not looking for dating or a relationship — just hoping to find some cool people to talk with and see where the conversations go.

I’m into a pretty random mix of things, so there’s usually something to talk about:

I just built some new garden beds and put up a bigger greenhouse this year. I’m always down to trade plants, and I’ve gotten pretty deep into growing things.

I have around 10 fish tanks/outdoor tubs/ponds, with plans for more. I keep freshwater fish and plants and can probably talk about them for way longer than most people would want. I have 6 tortoises. They spend the summer outside and come inside during the winter.

Lately I’ve been playing more survival games like Palworld, Planet Zoo 2 but I always seem to end up going back to Marvel Rivals, Overwatch, or Valorant.

I’ve really gotten into making different kinds of bread lately and want to start experimenting with sourdough soon. I’ve been trying to eat healthier and work out more lately.

Weekends are usually a mix of house projects, gardening, or whatever random project I’ve decided to start that week.

If you’re also into any of this stuff, or even if you’re not and just like having random conversations throughout the day, feel free to message me.

Hey, I'm 29M from Germany and I'd like to find some people to play Overwatch with or watch movies together. Would be nice to have someone to hop on Discord with and hang out regularly instead of always playing alone.

I play quite a lot of Overwatch, probably too much honestly. I also like Minecraft modpacks and Civilization, so we could play other stuff too.

I'm really into horror and psychological thrillers. Especially weird or disturbing movies where you finish watching and think what the fuck was that. I watched Wounds recently and really liked it. So someone to watch that kind of stuff with would be great, but I'm up for other movies too. We can take turns picking something.

I'm a bit awkward at first but once I'm comfortable with someone I can talk a lot. Doesn't always have to be about anything important either, I like just hearing what someone's been doing or sending each other random stuff.

I'd like to find people to hang out with regularly, but no pressure to be online every day or reply immediately. You don't need to write a huge introduction either, we can just play something and see how we get along.

Someone in Europe would make things easier with time zones, but anywhere is fine if we can make it work. And just being into the movies or the gaming is fine too.

Here's a picture of me so you know who you're talking to :)

 Wanted: My Partner in Crime — “Best Friends Forever.”

I’m looking for a lasting, committed relationship with someone to share life’s fun moments with and build a future together—with marriage in mind. There’s something special about a woman who takes the lead with a gentle touch and a hint of dominance, making me feel protected, cared for, and secure, knowing she truly has my back.

Quotes & Music That Tell My Story:

One Republic - "Need Your Love"
“For the most sensitive among us, the noise can be too much.” ― Jim Carrey
“A place for everything, everything in its place” ― Benjamin Franklin
“A smile is the shortest distance between two people.”― Victor Borge
“Addiction took you, but it will never define you.” ― Anonymous

My Kinks:

Dear Officer… Go ahead, take charge, read me my rights, and place me under arrest… only to leave me wrapped in your arms.

• Day Road Trips (or Longer!) — Your cuffed passenger, right beside you… grinning and enjoying every mile.
• Movie Night — Your date, cuffed up, with one promise: you’ll keep us a secret.

• Boots & Booty — Your boots and booty deserve a kiss every day… if you’ll have me.

  I’ll probably just smile and ask, “Can we do this again sometime?” — hoping I’ve put a smile on your face, too. 

—Beginner Welcome—
4Cs (Caring, Communication, Consent, Caution)

Facts about me:

• Citizenship / Location: Canadian Citizen — British Columbia
• My Faith: Believer in Christ
• General Deets: Cisgender White — Male, 6 ft, bald
• Body type: Curvy, few extra pounds.
• Relationships: Never married, No children
• Politics & Views: Canadian Conservative
• Alcohol: Sip, not stumble

Whom I'm seeking : Deal-Breakers

• Citizen Match: Canadian or American — if sponsoring
• Gender: Cisgender Female (Preferred Age Range: 30–40)
• Family: Child-free — Leaning toward child-free, but you never know.
• Lifestyle: Smoke & Drug Free.
• Pets: (No Pets Please)

Genuine, heartfelt introductions will receive a reply within 24 hours.

Hey there! 34 yo dutch guy here who's looking for long term connections.

a little bit about me: 34 years old, 196cm/6'5 tall, normal/fit body, hobbies include gaming, archery, woodworking, restoring watches. I'm also a huge nerd so stuff like star wars/trek, LOTR, Legos, pokemon.

I marked this post as nsfw because, if I'm being honest, we're all adults and I'm kink friendly too. I don't mind if it goes that way but that shouldn't be our main focus. mainly looking for chats, fun or fwb and maybe meet up if we live close.

I'd prefer someone talkative. I've I'm the one carrying the conversation all the time it gets boring really quick 🫣

I would also prefer people close to my timezone (Europe) because that's usually easier for keeping in touch, but I'm open to USA timezones too. Just shoot me a message and I'm sure we'll figure it out!

Hey! Hope you’re having a great day

I’m here hoping to meet someone, get to know each other and see where things go. Just looking for a genuine connection with someone I really click with.

A little about me: gaming is probably my biggest hobby, so finding someone I can duo with, mess around with, laugh at our own stupidity, and spend far too many hours gaming with would be pretty great

I play a pretty wide variety of games, so there’s a good chance we’ll have something in common. Some of the games I regularly play are Overwatch, League of Legends ARAMs and TFT Dead by Daylight, Minecraft, and various friendslop games like REPO, i do like the survival crafting type games too so finding a duo for them would be great.

When I’m not gaming, I enjoy baking, although I definitely don’t do it as much as I used to. I also love taking my doggies for walks, listening to music, and watching films and TV shows.

I’m a big Marvel and Star Wars fan, The Office (UK & US), The IT Crowd, and Peep Show are some of my favourites.

More than anything, I’d love to find someone I can build a genuinely nice bond with, someone I can laugh with, talk about absolutely nothing with, enjoy the little things with, and hopefully make some great memories together.

I’m based in the UK and would ideally love to meet someone from the UK or Europe, but I’m definitely open to other places too.

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to say hi!

Good morning, evening afternoon or whatever time you end up reading this! And thanks so much for checking my post out! It might be a bit long so I am sorry about that.

I'm looking for someone preferably in person, that I can spend my time with, growing closer, playing games with, visiting and whatever else comes our way. I've always wanted to have that one special person I can invite out to random activities and trust they'll be there. With fall coming around, I dream of pumpkin patches, haunted houses, bookstores in Saratoga or holding hands while stepping on crunchy leaves. Something about it just sounds so lovely. So that's where you (hopefully) come in! If you find yourself wanting to spend this Halloween season (and every other season forever) with someone you deeply adore and adores you back, then I'd love to hear from you!

For a little about me, I'm weird and nerdy when it comes to interests and I'm happy to collect or learn about yours! But I mostly kill time by reading, writing, playing tabletop games with friends as well as the current friendslop of the week, crocheting and I've been trying to pick up some baking as of late! I'm black with glasses and curly hair, and I've been trying new styles (please feel free to go on mall dates where we pick out new outfits for each other! I'd love help with my accessories.) I love to talk even if it takes me a bit to get started and I'd love someone who can match my energy of never quieting down.

And for you, I would hope you're weird like me! Willing to talk about your interests non-stop. Be down to go out for dates or just stay inside playing games with each other. If we naturally build up to it, I'd hope you were also affectionate and are alright with at least holding hands when walking down the street. Lastly, I ask you to be 21+, serious about finding the right one, to not be right wing or "apolitical" and I'd hope you're somewhere in upstate New York, but if you're outside of that distance isn't impossible to work with as long as we click well!

For a few other notes, I'd like to find someone to travel with! I love planning long vacations or road trips and having someone I can trust with the playlist would take a massive load off of my back. I'm a huge horror fan so that's what's got me distracted most of all. There's so much more to say about myself and what I'm looking for but I'll save that for a normal conversation. If you feel you're what I'm looking for and vice versa I'd love to chat and see how things go! If you end up reading all this, tell me who your favorite pokemon is, why they are and some romantic date ideas you've wanted to be invited out on!

Edit - Okay so the reddit flair thing has gone a bit rogue, can confirm I'm from the UK, no one with my incredible talent of getting sunburnt when there is any sort of sunlight, would survive in India, I'd essentially melt if I lived there. The food would be pretty nice, but alas nope I'm in England

TL:DR - I like yapping with people and I think I'm pretty lovely, though I am a bit biased. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, so message me and maybe we get on well? :D

Pretty much title! I have a cold and just feel a bit rough, its super early here and I woke up to go to the toilet, made the terrible mistake of checking my phone and now I'm just laying awake regretting my life choices that have led to me being unable to sleep despite being unwell at 6.30am. Sooooooo, I thought I'd post so I can at least pass the time until I pass out/give up the sleep ghost and go about my day. Location doesn't matter, part of the charm of internet friends is meeting folks that I'd not meet day to day but I'd like long term friends, a long time vibe is the goal as opposed to just one off or short convos

As for myself, I work from home doing a travel insurance job, its mostly mid, but its full WFH and that saves it. My big interest is travel, my wallet hates me so much for it. I've been to Philippines/Singapore/Malaysia over two Asia trips, a lot of Europe as well as Jamaica and Canada. Last year I did Istanbul, Portugal and a Norway cruise, plus a Asia trip. Visited Serbia, Madrid and Poland this year then Budapest on friday next week! I have a cruise with family next year to Greece/Turkey/Malta and a friends wedding in Greece and I'm hoping maybe Asia or Africa next year, fundds permitting, I'm always down for trip buddies so if we vibe I'm in! Beyond that, I'm a pretty keen reader, plus the usual smattering of videogames/sports watching/tv shows/gym (but mostly to offset meals out and a problematic keenness for chocolate). I live at the edge of a town and some of the walks are lovely here too. I've dabbled with painting, taken up and dropped the piano a few times (I used to play when I was younger and was decent and sometimes get the urge to play again).

I always prefer a bit of closure, if we've spoke for a while and your situation changes and you won't be chatting anymore, I hate the ghostly exit, if its early on then fair can't vibe with everyone, but if we've spoke for a while I always feel disappearing is a bit of poor form, but its the internet so it happens.

Intentions wise I'm totally fine with whatever, I like meeting folks, I don't mind if platonic friendships, or if you're open and seeking more of a flirting/benefits etc situation. I'm always open for trip buddies/meeting up if location allows, but naturally purely online friend is the norm. Honestly, I just like meeting people I don't really have a set goal beyond that. Feel free to add your intentions and boundaries and it's all good on my end, thought I'd add this disclaimer in early!

In terms of where to talk, I do prefer to move to apps, I use most of the usual ones but staying here is fine too if necessary. Include your basic details in your message, the usual about me stuff is fine, don't feel the need to match the rambling essay above! :)

Leading with a description since I know attraction is important:
I’m 5’3, Caribbean. I’m not fit but I value my health and take care of myself inside and out. I like to cook and mainly eat at home. I’m available and stable emotionally. I don’t use any drugs and very rarely drink alcohol.

https://imgur.com/a/mW5b4Es

Currently living in AZ. I’m kind and reserved. I love free flowing conversations. I’m shy, I’m very much a realist, laid back and stay out of drama. I do admit that I am a crier in the context of emotional movies and stories 😅 I’m definitely a tender but confident and whole/fulfilled woman. I’m not political or religious.

I enjoy doing things from movies to fishing. I like to spend time with loved ones, farmers market, write and listen to music. Im not into gaming so much anymore. Don’t mind at all if you are. Basically, I like Star Wars, Tim Burton as well as Stephen King. I understand that having some things in common is great but it’s also nice to have a few different interests.

I’d like something consistent and long term. I have accomplished a majority of my big goals but believe in always making progress in life. So growth with someone is always great. I have a steady career and would like someone who has the same. I’d prefer someone between 28-40

A relationship where we can laugh with and at each other would be amazing! I like to have good communication. I’d like someone that enjoys banter and is honest. Who is also kind, patient and supportive.

Please be ready to share a clear face photo when the chat is accepted to gauge physical compatibility and share some information about yourself. Time is precious. I’m not desperate by any means but I’d like to find my person. I would also like to have a phone call pretty early on.
I wfh and have a ton of free time.

If you read all of this include a 🫶 in your chat
I don’t participate in most social media. I’m ok with distance. But the goal is to meet. Again US/Canada only

If post is still here I haven’t met anyone yet

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Hey there reddit!

Some days can be hard and stressful, and it's always to nice to have someone to chat with to unwind! Hopefully, we can do that together! I'm interested in chatting with someone about whatever comes to mind! Was it a hard day? Bored? Discuss interests? Intimate late night conversations? Questions about whatever! I'm open to talking a learning about each other.

Would love for it to be longer term if you think we click, but also love the passer by chat too!

A little about me:

Feel free to check my other posts as well!

I try to be quick to respond to messages and prefer more natural conversations as opposed to large paragraph formats. Matching my partners energy to establish a good rapport is important to me!

Hobbies/ interests include:

Cooking; Love to cook and try new recipes. Still trying to nail a good custom curry blend currently haha.

Games: Board, card, and video. Though available time has severely limited my ability to play games, they are still an interest I pursue with friends.

Gardening: Grew up in a rural area so this one just stuck from chores honestly haha.

Random tidbits:

Animal lover, cooler weather, coffee, nights in over nights out,  lame jokes, and bit of a flirt!

For those who like to know a little about the physical appearance of who you are taking too, I am a 6ft1 white male. Dark brown hair/eyes with a beard. Stocky frame. Large arms/hands and legs/feet. Think teddy bear build :)

So if you're interested in a chat partner, let me know. I'm Central time zone if that helps. Feel free to ask me if you have any questions! Look forward to hearing from you!

Would prefer local, I know that's a much narrower net, as long as some in person aspect is possible. This is looking for casual anyway.

So to lay it all out there short and sweet. I'm starved for touch, intimacy, affection. All the good shit. If you're the type of person that would be down for a date if we vibe? Complete with hugs, cuddling, and maybe some making out? Becoming eachothers close friends and retreats when we need an escape. And end up with some extra benefits.. Shoot me a message.

I'm a large guy but also a strong guy. I am the type that can pick you up and spin you around mid bear hug without a second thought. I want something with some spark, not just a dry chat. And someone willing to create a friendship that's equally as beneficial as wholesome. I want a reason to make plans and go out on occasion, and someone to torture with my mediocre car karaoke lol. Casual, meaningful, though not necessarily exclusive.

About me in more detail, I'm often up late, I go to the gym on a regular schedule. I am more strength lifting than body builder if that makes any sense, tho I am trying to shape up. Power lifter build, 6'1, short curly/wavey hair, and beard well kept. I game a decent bit too. I am about as polar opposite as you can get from what seems 'standard​' for Oklahoma. Apolitical leaning left, non-religious, never married and no kids.

If that already doesn't exclude me from the pool and you're willing to have some fun banter filled conversations, hear me out if I'm excited by a new lift weight like it's a high score, maybe even hit up the gym or game a bit with me? I'd love to chat. Also truth be told, it would be amazing even if it's casual thing. Actual friends with some extra benefits, and for what it's worth I'm a world class hugger.

So, if you're a witty nerdy gal, not super ingrained in any of the big polarizing topics, also not averse to bearded burly nerdy casual gym guys let's chat! Make some plans. If you are looking for a convo starter, what's your favorite drink lately. Local coffee shop order, quickstop go to in a pinch, whatever!

Even if this is not your thing thanks for reading, and I wish the best for you.

Hello!

A bit about me: I am white, 6 feet tall with dirty blonde hair, and green eyed with an average build. Finally graduated college (yayyyy!) I love sports (especially soccer). In my free time, I play video games, and enjoy spending time with my family and going on trips occasionally. I am really into watching horror stuff: shows, movies, YouTube. I am shy, but I can get more comfortable with you once I get to know you better.

What I'm looking for:

Hopefully a future partner (if we click), if not, a good friend at least. Someone that is honest, and takes good care of themselves. Someone that can text often and is over the age of 19. Someone from the US or Europe.

(Pictures of what I look like)

https://imgur.com/a/RYQcCrj

https://imgur.com/a/daG4jhb

Greetings, I am here to hopefully find someone who I can spend quality time with online and hopefully form a meaningful friendship with. I really miss having someone in my life who we both look forward to talking and spending time together. Someone who comes across my mind throughout the day and gives me warm comfy feelings whenever I think about them. Something that is more than just surface level small talk. I value solid communication and stimulating conversations about various topics like hobbies, pop culture, documentaries, gaming, art, and whatever else we come up with.

About me: I’m 29 cis female. Born and raised in Florida and a current resident of the state. One of my biggest hobbies is gaming. I’ve been gaming mostly on xbox and some laptop gaming on and off my entire life. A few games I enjoy are Overwatch, Minecraft, Warframe, Stardew Valley, Red Dead Redemption, Skyrim, Halo Master Chief Collection. I own several games plus have Xbox game pass and would love to explore more into the plethora of games they have available. I am not huge into anime, however, I’ve watched and enjoyed a few like Solo Leveling, Dragon Ball Z, Apothecary Diaries, pretty much all of the Studio Ghibli movies. I’m definitely open to watching anime and other movies and shows together. When it comes to movies and shows I really enjoy fantasy, romance, action / adventure, and comedy. I’m not much into horror these days. Another hobby of mine is arts and crafts like coloring, painting, doodling, and digital art.

Appearance: 5’5, chubby (180 pounds give or take a couple pounds), dark brown long wavy hair, pale skin, big green eyes. I am totally open to sharing photos of myself, but it may take some time to become comfortable with doing so, since I’m not usually comfortable with sharing photos of myself shortly after meeting someone online. I much more value someone who I can connect with on an emotional and spiritual level.

If you’re interested then you’re welcome to send me a dm with a nice introduction (:

If you do not have an artistic bone in your body, or you don’t roleplay, stop reading this post.

Emi, why is this tagged nsfw? Because, I write smutty roleplays involving cute elf/moth/humans ladies with brooding monster boyfriends that are black cat personality types. I also draw smut, lol.

I don’t actually like reading monster romance books because 1st person narratives throw me off. It’s always one sided and if there is a POV switch, I’m more interested in the monsters view, like I’m enthralled by how they come to love a human lol.

But yeah.

Hello I’m Emi! Bi, Latina, and a lazy goth girl/themby. In an open relationship but not looking (I am hella lazy and honestly I just wanna be friends that hold hands and grab coffee together while chatting about our favorite fictional crushes). At best it’d be fwb stuff in a creative setting.

I am autistic though and very very greysexual. So like it’s gonna be difficult overall. That’s why I like roleplaying/writing and drawing. It hits a lot different. I’m the kind of person that likes making OCs to pair with a friend’s OC, like your oc and my oc should maybe kiss~

I am 36 and nerdy. I love art. I like reading manga and some books, and watching anime. Fav series are Dungeon Meshi, Berserk, Ghost in the Shell, Frieren, Shingeki no Bahamut, Last Exile, and Zoids.

Super into museums, botanical gardens, art, movies, writing and being a potato when I come home from work. Favorite video games were honestly FF12, 13, and 15. Beyond Good and Evil was good too! Also I really did like the FF7 spin off game Dirge of Cerberus. I used to have a crush on Reno, lol. Kingdom Hearts too but I stopped keeping up with it. I still have to finish Death Stranding 2 and Kingdom Come Deliverance.

My only requirement is that you know what a bad dragon is, or other such manner of toys. That’s it! I mean there is more like, drawing, writing roleplays, playing FFXIV and liking anime and manga.

I need more weird people in my life!

Also more creative friends that play FFXIV would be so nice. I’m in Aether/Jenova

also… I think I finally understand the girlies that love masked men on TT. Kamen Rider kinda does the same thing for me lmfao. I mean Ghost from CoD kinda does that too, but idk I was never into him much. König on the other hand, woof.

I need more women in my life that are weird and nerdy!! Also do you have a favorite rock? I do, it’s fluorite :)

Outside of all that I just got back into Control and Dragon’s Dogma again. I’ve been itching to write a roleplay based on Control but I fear it is too niche.

Seriously though if yo do NOT play FFXIV we are not going to get along.

Looking for:
* Art buddy
* FFXIV buddy
* roleplay writing buddy
* monster smut lover

Here's the thing. I LOVE wit and flirty banter.
I'm looking for someone who is clever and fun to talk to. More than intelligence. Someone who sparkles. Whose brilliance lights up the sky. I want to feel fireworks, not just sparks.

I'm looking for a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it. Whose sexual desires are more than just "kinky".

Maybe there's a compulsion underlying your desire. An impulsiveness. Something you can't quite control. A tendency to make questionable decisions because of your lustful needs.

Maybe your fantasies are things you'd never tell another soul about. Maybe you wonder if you have "too much" sex or you want sex more than other people. Maybe I'm the person who feels those things too.

I'm looking for someone who can match my desires. Who can banter all day long. Whose brilliance makes her shine brighter than a star.

Are you that woman? Because I know she's out there somewhere waiting for someone to match her light.

Message me. You know you want to.

Hello, this is Marty. I'm a 38 year old IT guy former Marine from the Midwest looking for a relationship. I like computers, dogs, guns, anime, ancient history, and long walks on the beach. I'm 5'7" and 120 lbs with blue eyes and ginger hair. Looking for a girl that's hopefully local, but LDR if you live in North America is cool, who would like to someday start a family. We can chat for a while, see how we mesh or play some coop games to get to know each other.

I have pics pinned in my profile. For an ice breaker, try telling me about the last book you read or game you tried.