Here's a menu for your consideration. Personally I'm not into girls as I'm veg. But you might just find one for you.

So I've been a part of this subreddit for quite few months now and every reddit post of this subreddit is all of mlm n not once have i ever read wlw. Ugh 😩 this is sad

I met a guy a few months ago, and we've only hung out twice. During our last meetup, he hinted at hooking up next month, and everything seemed to be going really well. We had a great time together, but right after, he suddenly pulled away, saying he didn't feel 'good enough.' Later, when I sent him a reel about having lots of plans for us, he coldly replied, 'Keep these things to yourself, we aren't meeting anymore.' When I asked if I did something wrong, he just said he was 'done with his bisexual/fluid side' and that it wasn't fun for him anymore.
Now, I'm feeling down for no apparent reason. He felt like the ideal guy for me someone I could finally lose my virginity to and now it feels like I'm never going to lose it

Hey there, you prolly know me or atleast have seen lurking around. I don't post stuff cuz I prefer talking about my issues with my close ones. but what I did recently is something ppl here like to put, yk what I'm talking about. a date. although this isn't me fretting on how it was. there are bigger fishes in this sea.

I come from a reality where displaying intimacy and showing affection is something to be considered somewhat icky, not that I care but yk I have been able to unlearn those social learnings but there's still a lot to fix.

Inhabited Affection, the conscious or subconscious suppression of warm, loving or tender behavior toward others, makes it worse and discouraging. when you try to put yourself out of your convenience– virtual realm. a world I'm inclined towards and glad being capable of, somehow, finding best and remarkable subjects.

That is one thing, being perceptive, feeling complacent or getting comfortable around a newly found is another, ie something I long for.

This is it, I'm in the mood for love with hope for more outings. will keep updating, if you want? anyways if anybody even slightly feels that aforemention speaks to them. kindly share your experiences and how you were able to outgrow.

Thanks for reading.

with quirk, Ilya.

I have some people added in my social media just because of spite, that I'll do transition (as a trans woman) look pretty and show off. Like I'm so hell bent on proving THEM wrong that I'll work extra hard just for it.

Hey guys, so I’ve been dating this guy for about a month now, and he told me he’s HIV positive but undetectable (U=U).
We’ve only done stuff like kissing, hugging, handjobs, and I’ve sucked his nipples and fingered him. We haven’t had sex yet.
I’m the top and he’s the bottom. I wanna try more things with him, but honestly, I’m a bit scared about the HIV part. He says he’s undetectable, but I don’t know if I can trust that blindly since we’ve only been dating for a month. I also don’t wanna take PrEP right now.
I’m not judging him or anything, I just wanna be careful and understand the risks before doing anything.
So I wanted to ask:
1. Is it safe to get a blowjob from him without a condom?
2. Is rimming him safe?
3. Can I top him with a condom? Is that safe?
I’d appreciate some honest advice, especially from people who’ve been in this situation. I like this guy, but I also wanna make sure I’m not putting my health at risk

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I'm 21M. I had a hookup with a 32-year-old man. He was the bottom and I was the top, and it was a raw hookup.

What tests should I get done?

It has been 20 days and I don't have any symptoms. I will be taking a 4th generation test after 28 days, but what kind of tests should I take after 3 months?

Any help would be appreciated. I'm from pune btw

Are we still using Grindr for instant meets or moved on to some better app ?

I knew what I was getting myself into while joining a college in Rajasthan but damn,......

I see people open Grindr and find their college mates or seniors, but when I open it it's dry as hell, what?? like is everybody in my college straight? fucking hate this college oh my god, everything's so heteronormative there.

Let me introduce myself first . I'm 21 year old college going guy . I decided to come out to my mum today . So I was recently going through depression after getting rejected by a guy with whome I had hooked up with

. Since she was already noticing the changes and I was literally done staying at home I confessed to her randomly . Initially she thought I was talking about some random guy on Instagram but when I stressed on words like boyfriend and love she understood. She gave me example of my straight friends how they got gf and how should I focus on career and get married to a girl . Later on I got bored and ended the convo. She even suggested me to take to a doctor as she thinks being gay is some psychological issue .

Our lives doesn't matter at all

The criminals of his murder are still roaming freely.

So im 20 and this guy im talking to whom i met on reddit is 23 and half so also we have different tastes in most things but we still like each other and its been a few days since I have talked to him I was just curious if or if not is this okay

I have met him on reddit only and these few days it been really great I have came out recently and he is the best thing that has happened to me until now

"you can escape the light but you can never ever escape darkness. It resides beneath you as your very being eliminate it, above can be covered but beneath is inescapable." He slowly stroked my hair.

" Why would I ever want to escape darkness?" I held his palm which was much bigger than mine, old hardened skin felt like wood and nails held cracks which felt like a evidence of growth.

"Oh you do, each and every step you take is to escape darkness but it always comes back as if never left. You just don't know what it is maybe you do but you are not sure." I felt his gaze though I couldn't dare to met it; his palm had folds along the ends of fingers.

"How did you started making statues jaggu?" I tightened my grip on his palm, but suddenly he jolted his hand away and stood up.

I can still feel his gaze on me, slowly he left me.

Written by Maya Aadini

Answer the riddle

Note: Im larping here. Coz i cant tell anyone irl.

I wanna look like her. I am a cis male, bi curious but romantically attracted to female only. I just wanna look like feminine man, like fore than feminine man but less than femboy. I cant look at mirror anymore and see my beard(i dont know how to shave trimming is the only option). Cant do makeup my family is homophobic. Only thing i love about myself is i love to do workout. I just study all day, watch yt, workout and sleep. I dont know what i am im definitely not trans for sure im 100% male and dont want hrt. Is there any way i can find if this feeling is real or just a fetish? And also suggest me some youtube channel to follow for makup like james charles or someone idk.

What is PrEP, is it easily accessible and could it be self-administered? And, how does one douche the anus?I tried looking up for conclusive answers online, but to no avail. I genuinely hope that this post doesn’t get removed since it’s basic sex ed. I didn’t feel like asking AI, because it lies way too confidently and human experience is immeasurably more valuable, specifically in aspects like these.

My bf went for garba nyt without me.

We were a long distance couple, and last year planned to go together in any garba fest this yr when we will be together. This yr when we are no longer long distanced, and I wanted to go for it w him, my exams came and it will end day after tomorrow. And the very next we are going back our homes for the Dusshera holidays. So garba nyt with him isn't possible, as we are coming after Navratri ends.

So now he said " I can't go with you bcz of your exams, and if I won't go alone then I will miss the whole garba fests" so he went with his friends, class mates etc etc.

Idk what to feel.. it was my exams that's why I wasn't able to go with him....so he just went without me... Myb he's right to do so.. but imma feeling sad dk y

Heyy
Im 21 i used see this guy
We’re just friends he’s like 7 years elder than me
I used to love hanging out with him we did made out and a huge feelings was developing for him
When i asked out he rejected and said let’s be friends. It was hard on me i felt bad and ignored him
And after 1-2 months i again texted he was cool said let’s meet n all
I met him at his place i thought i should not make out with him anymore but i just couldn’t i took initiative and just kissed him again
Nothing more
And when i get back home i feel really disturbed 🫠

There is a strange, illogical modern arrogance in believing that nature moves only in rigid and predictable templates. Humans have a history of obsession with taming nature into rigid structures, like landscapers prune hedges into "unnatural shapes", create concrete channels to force streams into straight channels and label anything that breaches the curb as an anomaly or an invasive weed, farmers assigning gender roles to animals that do not have gender identities, or even humans having unnatural cosmetic and beauty standards, etc.

Yet nothing about above examples is natural, no forest has rigid and predictable patterns. Diversity is not an artificial experiment, nor is it an overnight trend, it is Fundamental operating system of whole universe and is not even limited to earth, cause I don't reckon ever hearing terms like identical planets, stars, etc.

When a young woman born with trans experience begins to sense the quiet divergence between what she is told and what she is, the surrounding culture often tries to dismiss her deepest truth as a sudden squall, a seasonal mist, or a passing cultural draft. But a seedling does not push through cold, dark soil because it read an editorial about sunlight. It pushes through the dirt because the instructions for reach, warmth, and self-possession were written into its cellular system before the first leaf ever uncurled.

Now consider a natural element like river carving a canyon. Hypothetically the river could have taken a steep descent through solid rocks. But I really don't remember any textbook straight and steep canyon ever being observed in the history of planet earth. Lets just say whenever a river decided to carve a straight canyon, a small atom decided to rebel and act uncertain way resulting in very random canyons.

This makes things very clear, humans craved for vanity projects that resembles simple patterns instead of complex uncertainty, let's say it is a stress response. But nature is complex and have literal infinitely complex parameters and their permutations and not once had there been a textbook straight canyon, so how can anyone ever confidently say things like "there are only two genders" or "gender is sex"? When we were never ever manufactured on a binary conveyor belt? We are the product of same quite, unyielding physics that tilts the planet, splits the seed and refuses to let true things to remain buried forever.

Actually I lied to you in the title, we cannot be born exceptional when nature does not even create rigid templates, everyone is exception of their own and no one can ever be made by a predictable trend; but lets say in world that revolves around homo sapiens we are naturally exceptional and not born from a trend.

Thought I’d try dating platforms again, so I downloaded Hinge, only to find out that the registration process has been slowed down to ensure a balanced mix of people. The dating market is so cooked that we now have a registration queue. 😭

Anyway, I thought I’d give Grindr a try. But wtf, why is it so dark and creepy? Even putting that aside, how is one supposed to find what they’re looking for? All I got were 10 messages asking, “Top or bot?”, “With place?”, and people insisting on video calls. I felt like I was one message away from getting scammed.

Why isn’t there a decent dating platform or even a space to connect in general for the queer community? Something like Hinge, but without the registration queue. Shouldn’t there be a Jodimilan subreddit alternative, especially since anonymity is also important given the society we live in?

Hello guys,

I used to follow this guy named Rohan in X ( never messaged him , just thought he was a cute guy). So after the protest I came to see one of his comments under a post asking how terrorist attacks are reduced to 0 under the BJ pee rule ( obv not) . So I got curious and checked his reposts which are mostly criticising the protest and digging through the past mischiefs of congress and exaggerating the mere development of india under upa rule.

Is he chasing for clout ? Or is that a geniune opinion?

Ps. Found out he is a jain

Hey y’all. As the title suggests, I am a gay surgeon and I was having a conversation with my family about the same. My mom brought up the fact that me being gay and a surgeon could seriously hinder job aspects in the future. I am vaccinated against hep b and my last STI panel test was negative, but still what she said struck a cord with me. As someone who is at a high risk and operating on patients, I am genuinely worried for my future now.