So there's this trade that I'm talking to and we share the same location he's a bottom and even I'm a bottom I find him quite attractive and at first I pretended to be vers but then I eventually told him that I'm bottom 😭 He is okay with it and I was relieved. I'm 18 and he's 22

What I want in a relationship is to hold hands and do cute stuff that a normal couple would do idk man I'm like confused as fuck. Also, He has this internship ka thing going on so the entire day he was busy and aaj raat ko bhi I was the one who kept texting him and stuff and I'm like wow he got no interest in talking to me 😭😭😭

Mind you we started talking yesterday and I'm already attached 😛

Is it too much to ask for I mean come one I know people in mumbai are always in a hustle but itna hustle? thoda attention dedo yawr ek toh I'm very very insecure about how I look cause I'm little on the healthier side and idk every other guy just ghosts me or loses interest after I share my pic.. Sometimes all this stuff gets into my head. All I'm asking for is to be loved the same way I love others 😭

I don't think this will survive anyone with the same interests let me know 😭🤡

I am currently studying and I was looking around people inside campus like to hangout and go out maybe also make out and something genuine. But why in all of the people whom I tried are like I have to be the one putting all the energy every time asking for a walk or going or something. It's like they rarely or never message. But when we meet or go out I don't feel they feel any sort of discomfort or something. Also I never also asked them upfront for a hookup or make out. Idk I don't even want them immediately.. I want to move with them feel comfortable and then move to something physical. Idk I feel I have this habit of messaging anyone first and zero self respect I feel 😭 or I don't exactly know how to explain, I guess you people get that. So what are the boundaries after which I should just stop expecting or asking them out, these people without any clear answers just drain me a bit sometimes or it's just I am friendzoned or I am just thinking too much.

I'm a gay femboy(20m) from a small town, and idk how I even ended up in Greater Noida 😭 I have two online friends whom I've never even met, and we're not super close, but that's pretty much it. Being fem in a Greater Noida college is tough in itself; I can't even wear the clothes I want or express myself the way I'd like to and the makeup i wear , people stare at me so bad and laugh Recently, I saw my friends being friends with so many queer people in Delhi, and it genuinely gave me anxiety and FOMO. I tried following some of them, but they didn't accept my requests. One of them was hot too, HELP 😭 I just feel so lonely watching everyone find their people while I don't even know where I belong. I want to experience things, make connections, and feel wanted too, but everything feels so far away. Idk what the universe has planned for me, but I'm honestly tired of feeling like I'm missing out on a life I'll probably never get to have.

(I have a lot more baggage rn, but this is what's been weighing on me the most lately.)

Hi all , I have below questions , please help me with this for the ones who came out to parents.

1. ⁠At what age you came out to parents / siblings
   
2. ⁠Were you financially stable at that time
   
3. ⁠Did they accept , if so after how many months / years did they take to process it
   
4. ⁠How are the talking terms now with them
   
5. ⁠Did you also come out to extended family / cousins etc

Please help me , I am planning to say to my parents . Please comment to this post or DM me .

If guys find about dudes, it's over for chicks

Hi everyone,

​I’m posting this because I recently went through a terrifying cyber extortion / image leak incident and could use some clarity from anyone who has navigated the process in India.

​I managed to file my complaint on the official National Cyber Crime Portal online. The financial freeze worked instantly, and the person's bank account was successfully hit with a hold/lien after I submitted the transaction details and screenshots.

​However, I'm keeping this entirely private and digital to avoid any local or family friction, and I really cannot visit a physical police station in person.

​For anyone who has dealt with this:

​Once an online cyber crime complaint is successfully filed and the bank freeze is active, is a physical visit to the station strictly mandatory to keep the process moving?

​Can the case be entirely managed remotely through online portal updates and official email correspondence with the cyber cell?

​Just trying to figure out if I'm safe leaving it as a digital-only complaint. Any advice or shared experiences would mean a lot.

Thank you.

Inframe: Rue and jules(euphoria)

I can’t express the things I felt while watching them together, the happiness of having someone close to you, doing funny shit together, sharing the ups and downs in life. I love that their relation is much more emotional than sexual, and even though im a gay guy, I don’t think there is anything even close to being beautiful as their relationship was. Maybe the feminine energy makes it more aesthetic, but idk why it’s so cool and refreshing to see them together, with especially jules being trans and bringing trans representation to the show. Euphoria definitely gave me a lot of emotional maturity.

I hate how I’ve destroyed my teens being a nerd or spending my entire time doomscrolling, but maybe thats how being a teen in India is like, but idk if i’ll ever have a relationship like them.

GOODDDDDDDD I wish i could live as an american teen

as the title said.

Are we still using Grindr for instant meets or moved on to some better app ?

I knew what I was getting myself into while joining a college in Rajasthan but damn,......

I see people open Grindr and find their college mates or seniors, but when I open it it's dry as hell, what?? like is everybody in my college straight? fucking hate this college oh my god, everything's so heteronormative there.

Hey there, you prolly know me or atleast have seen lurking around. I don't post stuff cuz I prefer talking about my issues with my close ones. but what I did recently is something ppl here like to put, yk what I'm talking about. a date. although this isn't me fretting on how it was. there are bigger fishes in this sea.

I come from a reality where displaying intimacy and showing affection is something to be considered somewhat icky, not that I care but yk I have been able to unlearn those social learnings but there's still a lot to fix.

Inhabited Affection, the conscious or subconscious suppression of warm, loving or tender behavior toward others, makes it worse and discouraging. when you try to put yourself out of your convenience– virtual realm. a world I'm inclined towards and glad being capable of, somehow, finding best and remarkable subjects.

That is one thing, being perceptive, feeling complacent or getting comfortable around a newly found is another, ie something I long for.

This is it, I'm in the mood for love with hope for more outings. will keep updating, if you want? anyways if anybody even slightly feels that aforemention speaks to them. kindly share your experiences and how you were able to outgrow.

Thanks for reading.

with quirk, Ilya.

Here's a menu for your consideration. Personally I'm not into girls as I'm veg. But you might just find one for you.

So I've been a part of this subreddit for quite few months now and every reddit post of this subreddit is all of mlm n not once have i ever read wlw. Ugh 😩 this is sad

I met a guy a few months ago, and we've only hung out twice. During our last meetup, he hinted at hooking up next month, and everything seemed to be going really well. We had a great time together, but right after, he suddenly pulled away, saying he didn't feel 'good enough.' Later, when I sent him a reel about having lots of plans for us, he coldly replied, 'Keep these things to yourself, we aren't meeting anymore.' When I asked if I did something wrong, he just said he was 'done with his bisexual/fluid side' and that it wasn't fun for him anymore.
Now, I'm feeling down for no apparent reason. He felt like the ideal guy for me someone I could finally lose my virginity to and now it feels like I'm never going to lose it

I have some people added in my social media just because of spite, that I'll do transition (as a trans woman) look pretty and show off. Like I'm so hell bent on proving THEM wrong that I'll work extra hard just for it.

"you can escape the light but you can never ever escape darkness. It resides beneath you as your very being eliminate it, above can be covered but beneath is inescapable." He slowly stroked my hair.

" Why would I ever want to escape darkness?" I held his palm which was much bigger than mine, old hardened skin felt like wood and nails held cracks which felt like a evidence of growth.

"Oh you do, each and every step you take is to escape darkness but it always comes back as if never left. You just don't know what it is maybe you do but you are not sure." I felt his gaze though I couldn't dare to met it; his palm had folds along the ends of fingers.

"How did you started making statues jaggu?" I tightened my grip on his palm, but suddenly he jolted his hand away and stood up.

I can still feel his gaze on me, slowly he left me.

Written by Maya Aadini

Answer the riddle

So im 20 and this guy im talking to whom i met on reddit is 23 and half so also we have different tastes in most things but we still like each other and its been a few days since I have talked to him I was just curious if or if not is this okay

I have met him on reddit only and these few days it been really great I have came out recently and he is the best thing that has happened to me until now

What is PrEP, is it easily accessible and could it be self-administered? And, how does one douche the anus?I tried looking up for conclusive answers online, but to no avail. I genuinely hope that this post doesn’t get removed since it’s basic sex ed. I didn’t feel like asking AI, because it lies way too confidently and human experience is immeasurably more valuable, specifically in aspects like these.

Heyy
Im 21 i used see this guy
We’re just friends he’s like 7 years elder than me
I used to love hanging out with him we did made out and a huge feelings was developing for him
When i asked out he rejected and said let’s be friends. It was hard on me i felt bad and ignored him
And after 1-2 months i again texted he was cool said let’s meet n all
I met him at his place i thought i should not make out with him anymore but i just couldn’t i took initiative and just kissed him again
Nothing more
And when i get back home i feel really disturbed 🫠

Let me introduce myself first . I'm 21 year old college going guy . I decided to come out to my mum today . So I was recently going through depression after getting rejected by a guy with whome I had hooked up with

. Since she was already noticing the changes and I was literally done staying at home I confessed to her randomly . Initially she thought I was talking about some random guy on Instagram but when I stressed on words like boyfriend and love she understood. She gave me example of my straight friends how they got gf and how should I focus on career and get married to a girl . Later on I got bored and ended the convo. She even suggested me to take to a doctor as she thinks being gay is some psychological issue .

Hey guys, so I’ve been dating this guy for about a month now, and he told me he’s HIV positive but undetectable (U=U).
We’ve only done stuff like kissing, hugging, handjobs, and I’ve sucked his nipples and fingered him. We haven’t had sex yet.
I’m the top and he’s the bottom. I wanna try more things with him, but honestly, I’m a bit scared about the HIV part. He says he’s undetectable, but I don’t know if I can trust that blindly since we’ve only been dating for a month. I also don’t wanna take PrEP right now.
I’m not judging him or anything, I just wanna be careful and understand the risks before doing anything.
So I wanted to ask:
1. Is it safe to get a blowjob from him without a condom?
2. Is rimming him safe?
3. Can I top him with a condom? Is that safe?
I’d appreciate some honest advice, especially from people who’ve been in this situation. I like this guy, but I also wanna make sure I’m not putting my health at risk

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My bf went for garba nyt without me.

We were a long distance couple, and last year planned to go together in any garba fest this yr when we will be together. This yr when we are no longer long distanced, and I wanted to go for it w him, my exams came and it will end day after tomorrow. And the very next we are going back our homes for the Dusshera holidays. So garba nyt with him isn't possible, as we are coming after Navratri ends.

So now he said " I can't go with you bcz of your exams, and if I won't go alone then I will miss the whole garba fests" so he went with his friends, class mates etc etc.

Idk what to feel.. it was my exams that's why I wasn't able to go with him....so he just went without me... Myb he's right to do so.. but imma feeling sad dk y